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If you plan on replying to this thread without reading it simply because you want to get ahead in Tour de Vizzed, then I would rather you did not reply at all. Thank you for your patience.

This thread was not meant to appear or be discriminatory; it is simply going to include reasons why I find being a girl difficult, and why I would rather be a boy.

1. The Obvious Reasons That Everyone Else Mentions In These Types Of Threads Or Articles Or Posts Or Whatever

First of all, I hate being a girl for the obvious reasons that every other person who makes these types of threads/articles/posts/whatever state. Running sucks, life in general sucks, one week every month in particular sucks more than usual, and voicing your own opinion firmly sucks because some people interpret it as that time of month for you even if and when it is not. Also, brushing hair is a nightmare. I know it isn't obligatory for girls to have long hair, but that leads us to yet another problem. Girls with short hair, according to way too many people, are either "not straight" or have cancer. 

2. Everybody Is Expected To Harbor Around The Same Amount Of Physical Mass As A Fetus

I'm sorry; I couldn't stop my sense of humor from messing with the title of this reason. Still, however, it is pretty much true. Every woman or girl is expected to carve themselves into what they see on television or in fashion magazines, which is, in my opinion, actually really unattractive. I understand that looks aren't everything, but the problem is that the people who change themselves to look like sticks DO do it because they believe their physical appearances are more important. People who are like that by nature have my mercy, but abiding to what everyone expects them to be like against their own will is wrong, especially when the figure in question is actually really unhealthy. There is a certain weight-to-height ratio that applies to every individual, yet women, for some reason, have only one choice in most people's eyes. Anyone who doesn't have a thigh gap or is less than ten kilos skinnier than they really SHOULD be in accordance with their height is regarded as "fat". I am not speaking this way because I am "jealous" or anything. I am 158 centimeters tall, I weigh 57 kilograms, and I am as happy as can be with it. According to my doctor, along with every BMI calculator I could find on the internet, this is perfect. Then again, physical appearance isn't as important as the media makes it out to be. Chubby women and girls shouldn't be shamed on any more than chubby men and boys. Chubby PEOPLE in general shouldn't be shamed on at all. Yet, they are. Especially women. Another problem is the jealous, heavier people who make fun of skinny people. Some people don't realize that others who are skinny could just be skinny by nature, and making fun of thin people is just as bad as making fun of fat people. While this problem is not as large or common, it is just as important. Everyone should be free to be who they are instead of clones of what they see on TV. 

3. Yasmine, That Isn't Polite

This reason is basically parents' expectations. Everyone's manners are expected to be used, but I feel like it's being emphasized on me simply because I am a girl. "That isn't ladylike, Yasmine." I hear that all the time. I understand that boys are also taught to be "gentlemen", yet girls do have to deal with the gender stereotype stating that they are kinder, more polite, and less wild than boys are. This case isn't true with me AT ALL. I like to run around, I like to get into mischief, and I have absolutely NO interest in reading that darned etiquette for dummies book whatsoever. Also, boys are sometimes seen as cute for being immature, yet girls are expected to be mature. Otherwise, they are "disgraceful". I am childish, and I have the right to be. I respect other peoples' opinions, and I would never purposely insult anyone for their race, religion, gender, nationality, sexuality, or any other stupid reason, but I am no manners person either. I use my manners when I have to, but I don't need to do it all the time. I feel like I am pressured to, however. I don't bow naturally; that's just not who I am. Who I am is a tough, mischievous, wild person who likes to have fun as long it doesn't deny anyone their rights. My head isn't an etiquette book that can be accessed on demand, it's a head.

4. Oh, Darling, That Dress Would Look Beautiful On You!

I DON'T like dresses. End of story. Because I am a girl, however, I am expected to enjoy wearing them. In all honesty, I despise wearing dresses. It limits my physical capabilities. I like to jump, run, roll, etc., and dresses restrict me from doing that. I don't know how to behave in a dress, and I don't feel like myself in a dress. Sweatpants and t-shirts are more my style. "Oh, no, Yasmine!" They would say, however. "What do you mean your style? You're a girl, dresses look good on all girls!" I never said I didn't look good in dresses. In fact, I actually look great in dresses. Is my objective "being attractive", however? No, it is NOT. By objective is to be comfortable and decent-looking; I don't want to steal the show. Why, I always ask myself, must women always be pressured into making themselves look like shining stars while men can still be praised for looking casual? Why must we smear our faces in make-up and do our hair and wear ridiculous outfits to be attractive? That isn't my philosophy. One holiday, my mom suggested I wear my new, fashionable clothes to appear more elegant, but I refused and said that spending time with your family is supposed to be comfortable instead of pressurizing in order to impress your family. Why would I have to impress my own family? They know I'm a bright, good person! I don't need a ridiculous, blinding, uncomfortable glitter-dress thing to prove that to them. I ended up wearing shorts and a t-shirt. When my cousin Green arrived, he was also dressed casually. We were both dressed how we wanted to be dressed, and we both had the equal right to. 

5. Which Boy Do You Like? <3

First of all, how do you know I like a boy, and second, why the heck are you asking me? It's as if the only aim and end of a woman's life is getting married. I do, in fact, have a couple of crushes, but why is that important? "What's on your mind, huh? Boys?" my parents would ask jokingly. "Thinking about your crush, dear?" The first thing wrong with this is that people even use the word "boy". Let me say something right now. I am straight. But not everyone is. You can't ask your daughter teasingly whether she's thinking about boys, assuming she's straight or something. I know most people tend to be straight due to it being the default hormonal balance thing, and because of social media, but I think it is also due to the influence of the parents. My parents assume I'm straight. They're right, but they do assume. And that's wrong. Then again, I still am young, so there is no need to confuse me with all that. I won't dive too deeply into this since homosexuality is apparently against most religions (ALL of which I respect), but I felt that it needed to be said. If I offended any of you, I am sorry, but I believe discriminating against a gay person is just as wrong as discriminating against a black person. I'm not too worried about it with my parents, though. We had a long, deep talk about religion and sexuality/preferred gender and it ended with them saying the only that would kick me out of their house is a criminal record. They're tolerant people. The last thing I have to say about this part is that the risk of asking your child whether she's thinking about boys could be that she's already sure she isn't straight, and it could hurt her feelings and make her think she isn't the person you want her to be. Now for the second thing wrong with this. Why do you care? It's not like I'm going to spill the beans any easier or faster than a guy would. Third, why do people assume that all girls think about is love? I rarely think about it, to be honest. Some do, but not all do. Females are generally associated with hearts and pink and other things of the sort. Why? it really gets on my nerves. Women have just as many ambitions BESIDES love as men do.

6. Birthday Presents

Ugh, ugh, ugh! I don't like skinny jeans! Why did they assume I did? Because all girls wear skinny jeans, of course! Kids in my class always ask a guy for the specifics on what he wants for his birthday, but never for the girls. Why not? Well, because a bracelet, or some jewelry, or some make-up, or some nice clothes will definitely be enough to please them! It's what ALL girls dream of, right? Wrong! I have no interest in any of the items mentioned above whatsoever. When I get earrings or any other really girly things for my birthday, I have no choice but to smile awkwardly. Little do they know I'd never wear it, which makes me feel bad. It's friendly that they gave me presents in the first place, but they did assume, which, as I've mentioned before, simply should not be done. I've never even had my ears pierced! The other things is guys asking each other, "what do girls like?" It's not like all girls like the same things! Maybe most do now, thanks to the retarded (pardon my language; I do try my very best not to use "retarded" or "gay" as insults) media we receive nowadays. When people ask what girls like, it's almost as though they are referring to girls as a species. Every girl is an individual; they all have differences! Some people don't understand that, however. Proof? I still get necklaces and such for my birthday and Christmas.
If you plan on replying to this thread without reading it simply because you want to get ahead in Tour de Vizzed, then I would rather you did not reply at all. Thank you for your patience.

This thread was not meant to appear or be discriminatory; it is simply going to include reasons why I find being a girl difficult, and why I would rather be a boy.

1. The Obvious Reasons That Everyone Else Mentions In These Types Of Threads Or Articles Or Posts Or Whatever

First of all, I hate being a girl for the obvious reasons that every other person who makes these types of threads/articles/posts/whatever state. Running sucks, life in general sucks, one week every month in particular sucks more than usual, and voicing your own opinion firmly sucks because some people interpret it as that time of month for you even if and when it is not. Also, brushing hair is a nightmare. I know it isn't obligatory for girls to have long hair, but that leads us to yet another problem. Girls with short hair, according to way too many people, are either "not straight" or have cancer. 

2. Everybody Is Expected To Harbor Around The Same Amount Of Physical Mass As A Fetus

I'm sorry; I couldn't stop my sense of humor from messing with the title of this reason. Still, however, it is pretty much true. Every woman or girl is expected to carve themselves into what they see on television or in fashion magazines, which is, in my opinion, actually really unattractive. I understand that looks aren't everything, but the problem is that the people who change themselves to look like sticks DO do it because they believe their physical appearances are more important. People who are like that by nature have my mercy, but abiding to what everyone expects them to be like against their own will is wrong, especially when the figure in question is actually really unhealthy. There is a certain weight-to-height ratio that applies to every individual, yet women, for some reason, have only one choice in most people's eyes. Anyone who doesn't have a thigh gap or is less than ten kilos skinnier than they really SHOULD be in accordance with their height is regarded as "fat". I am not speaking this way because I am "jealous" or anything. I am 158 centimeters tall, I weigh 57 kilograms, and I am as happy as can be with it. According to my doctor, along with every BMI calculator I could find on the internet, this is perfect. Then again, physical appearance isn't as important as the media makes it out to be. Chubby women and girls shouldn't be shamed on any more than chubby men and boys. Chubby PEOPLE in general shouldn't be shamed on at all. Yet, they are. Especially women. Another problem is the jealous, heavier people who make fun of skinny people. Some people don't realize that others who are skinny could just be skinny by nature, and making fun of thin people is just as bad as making fun of fat people. While this problem is not as large or common, it is just as important. Everyone should be free to be who they are instead of clones of what they see on TV. 

3. Yasmine, That Isn't Polite

This reason is basically parents' expectations. Everyone's manners are expected to be used, but I feel like it's being emphasized on me simply because I am a girl. "That isn't ladylike, Yasmine." I hear that all the time. I understand that boys are also taught to be "gentlemen", yet girls do have to deal with the gender stereotype stating that they are kinder, more polite, and less wild than boys are. This case isn't true with me AT ALL. I like to run around, I like to get into mischief, and I have absolutely NO interest in reading that darned etiquette for dummies book whatsoever. Also, boys are sometimes seen as cute for being immature, yet girls are expected to be mature. Otherwise, they are "disgraceful". I am childish, and I have the right to be. I respect other peoples' opinions, and I would never purposely insult anyone for their race, religion, gender, nationality, sexuality, or any other stupid reason, but I am no manners person either. I use my manners when I have to, but I don't need to do it all the time. I feel like I am pressured to, however. I don't bow naturally; that's just not who I am. Who I am is a tough, mischievous, wild person who likes to have fun as long it doesn't deny anyone their rights. My head isn't an etiquette book that can be accessed on demand, it's a head.

4. Oh, Darling, That Dress Would Look Beautiful On You!

I DON'T like dresses. End of story. Because I am a girl, however, I am expected to enjoy wearing them. In all honesty, I despise wearing dresses. It limits my physical capabilities. I like to jump, run, roll, etc., and dresses restrict me from doing that. I don't know how to behave in a dress, and I don't feel like myself in a dress. Sweatpants and t-shirts are more my style. "Oh, no, Yasmine!" They would say, however. "What do you mean your style? You're a girl, dresses look good on all girls!" I never said I didn't look good in dresses. In fact, I actually look great in dresses. Is my objective "being attractive", however? No, it is NOT. By objective is to be comfortable and decent-looking; I don't want to steal the show. Why, I always ask myself, must women always be pressured into making themselves look like shining stars while men can still be praised for looking casual? Why must we smear our faces in make-up and do our hair and wear ridiculous outfits to be attractive? That isn't my philosophy. One holiday, my mom suggested I wear my new, fashionable clothes to appear more elegant, but I refused and said that spending time with your family is supposed to be comfortable instead of pressurizing in order to impress your family. Why would I have to impress my own family? They know I'm a bright, good person! I don't need a ridiculous, blinding, uncomfortable glitter-dress thing to prove that to them. I ended up wearing shorts and a t-shirt. When my cousin Green arrived, he was also dressed casually. We were both dressed how we wanted to be dressed, and we both had the equal right to. 

5. Which Boy Do You Like? <3

First of all, how do you know I like a boy, and second, why the heck are you asking me? It's as if the only aim and end of a woman's life is getting married. I do, in fact, have a couple of crushes, but why is that important? "What's on your mind, huh? Boys?" my parents would ask jokingly. "Thinking about your crush, dear?" The first thing wrong with this is that people even use the word "boy". Let me say something right now. I am straight. But not everyone is. You can't ask your daughter teasingly whether she's thinking about boys, assuming she's straight or something. I know most people tend to be straight due to it being the default hormonal balance thing, and because of social media, but I think it is also due to the influence of the parents. My parents assume I'm straight. They're right, but they do assume. And that's wrong. Then again, I still am young, so there is no need to confuse me with all that. I won't dive too deeply into this since homosexuality is apparently against most religions (ALL of which I respect), but I felt that it needed to be said. If I offended any of you, I am sorry, but I believe discriminating against a gay person is just as wrong as discriminating against a black person. I'm not too worried about it with my parents, though. We had a long, deep talk about religion and sexuality/preferred gender and it ended with them saying the only that would kick me out of their house is a criminal record. They're tolerant people. The last thing I have to say about this part is that the risk of asking your child whether she's thinking about boys could be that she's already sure she isn't straight, and it could hurt her feelings and make her think she isn't the person you want her to be. Now for the second thing wrong with this. Why do you care? It's not like I'm going to spill the beans any easier or faster than a guy would. Third, why do people assume that all girls think about is love? I rarely think about it, to be honest. Some do, but not all do. Females are generally associated with hearts and pink and other things of the sort. Why? it really gets on my nerves. Women have just as many ambitions BESIDES love as men do.

6. Birthday Presents

Ugh, ugh, ugh! I don't like skinny jeans! Why did they assume I did? Because all girls wear skinny jeans, of course! Kids in my class always ask a guy for the specifics on what he wants for his birthday, but never for the girls. Why not? Well, because a bracelet, or some jewelry, or some make-up, or some nice clothes will definitely be enough to please them! It's what ALL girls dream of, right? Wrong! I have no interest in any of the items mentioned above whatsoever. When I get earrings or any other really girly things for my birthday, I have no choice but to smile awkwardly. Little do they know I'd never wear it, which makes me feel bad. It's friendly that they gave me presents in the first place, but they did assume, which, as I've mentioned before, simply should not be done. I've never even had my ears pierced! The other things is guys asking each other, "what do girls like?" It's not like all girls like the same things! Maybe most do now, thanks to the retarded (pardon my language; I do try my very best not to use "retarded" or "gay" as insults) media we receive nowadays. When people ask what girls like, it's almost as though they are referring to girls as a species. Every girl is an individual; they all have differences! Some people don't understand that, however. Proof? I still get necklaces and such for my birthday and Christmas.
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Spent more time thinking about how to deal with these issues, par the natural ones, instead of ranting about them.

The easiest solutions to most of your problems is to be firm with your right of choice. You mentioned people assuming that you are on your period whenever you argue in favour of yourself but you just have to ignore their views. I assume they say that just to hide the fact that you are right and your opinion annoys them. 

You say a lot of this as if there isn't a male stereotype or a model to follow for boys. There will be things mums will always say, there will be gifts that you'll always get. It's the same for boys.
Spent more time thinking about how to deal with these issues, par the natural ones, instead of ranting about them.

The easiest solutions to most of your problems is to be firm with your right of choice. You mentioned people assuming that you are on your period whenever you argue in favour of yourself but you just have to ignore their views. I assume they say that just to hide the fact that you are right and your opinion annoys them. 

You say a lot of this as if there isn't a male stereotype or a model to follow for boys. There will be things mums will always say, there will be gifts that you'll always get. It's the same for boys.
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MechaMento : Yes, you're right. I'm well aware that there is a male stereotype and a model to follow to follow for boys. I'm sorry if it sounded like I didn't think so. My best friend Green tells me about the peer pressure he gets all the time - it's no cruise. I meant to describe what the female stereotype typically states, though, instead of making it sound like there isn't a male one.
MechaMento : Yes, you're right. I'm well aware that there is a male stereotype and a model to follow to follow for boys. I'm sorry if it sounded like I didn't think so. My best friend Green tells me about the peer pressure he gets all the time - it's no cruise. I meant to describe what the female stereotype typically states, though, instead of making it sound like there isn't a male one.
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I know a good rant can be good for the soul but holy cow.  I just want to say here that I think women should be proud of the fact that they are women just as men should be proud of the fact that they are men.  I would get into more but that would mean having emotions and as a guy I am not allowed
I know a good rant can be good for the soul but holy cow.  I just want to say here that I think women should be proud of the fact that they are women just as men should be proud of the fact that they are men.  I would get into more but that would mean having emotions and as a guy I am not allowed
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Stereotypes and pressure from a gender basis happen to both sides.  I could go on and on about the expectations of males, especially grown men, and it would be the same thing.  

It doesn't suck to be a girl or guy.  It sucks to have people put their opinion on how you should be doing things in your life into play and tell you as much.  Don't hate being a girl, hate being around people who expect you to act a certain way, dress a certain way, like certain people, and so on.  Separate yourself from those people as much as possible without being rude and go about your life.

You can make your own decisions.  Make good decisions and stand by them.  If someone challenges you, ignore them.  If they press, tell them what you like and why you did what you did.

"You would look pretty in that dress."

"I prefer X clothes instead.  I don't like dresses because....."

That will shoot down a conversation pretty quickly.  If you're consistent in your message, you'll be able to stop the people who want to push their own agendas.  When you feel angry or you hate who you are because of other people, you're giving them power. 

Don't hate yourself.  Be proud of who you are.  You happen to be a girl.  That's it.  There's no more to it.
Stereotypes and pressure from a gender basis happen to both sides.  I could go on and on about the expectations of males, especially grown men, and it would be the same thing.  

It doesn't suck to be a girl or guy.  It sucks to have people put their opinion on how you should be doing things in your life into play and tell you as much.  Don't hate being a girl, hate being around people who expect you to act a certain way, dress a certain way, like certain people, and so on.  Separate yourself from those people as much as possible without being rude and go about your life.

You can make your own decisions.  Make good decisions and stand by them.  If someone challenges you, ignore them.  If they press, tell them what you like and why you did what you did.

"You would look pretty in that dress."

"I prefer X clothes instead.  I don't like dresses because....."

That will shoot down a conversation pretty quickly.  If you're consistent in your message, you'll be able to stop the people who want to push their own agendas.  When you feel angry or you hate who you are because of other people, you're giving them power. 

Don't hate yourself.  Be proud of who you are.  You happen to be a girl.  That's it.  There's no more to it.
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It doesn't suck to be a girl. or a boy. what sucks is people. they suck. We're a judgemental species with a horrid gift of self-destruction. Frankly, I don't think that's going to change anytime soon. Might as well try your best to like who you are and enjoy your life.
It doesn't suck to be a girl. or a boy. what sucks is people. they suck. We're a judgemental species with a horrid gift of self-destruction. Frankly, I don't think that's going to change anytime soon. Might as well try your best to like who you are and enjoy your life.
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NintendoFanKimmy :

I would say you have it right for the most part.

yeah, it's good you don't like skinny jeans. Those are designed to pretty much patron off your looks to guys without much concern on issues of the heart. I can't stand a woman trying to bring attraction to her body. It just makes me feel uncomfortable to be around them, and it's not very nice to do to your friends who are guys. I mean, yeah, naturally people are attractive, and you shouldn't completely ignore that, but you shouldn't push it to far either.

Dresses? To be honest, I like girls in those! They. . . look. . . . cute. haha.

I can see that you just don't want to be pressed into a mold is all, and that's good. No man, or woman can be pressed into a mold of any kind. You can be only you.

Just don't let that make you think that you have to rob a bank or do something stupid to be "You".


Society does treat girls pretty badly.

1 We sell their looks in magazines and all kind of media, portraying them as sexual playthings you'll kiss you if you look at them for too long

2 I swear every girl in school dresses the same and does their hair the same in the city that I live near every summer. It's the same stuff. Short Shorts, and hair in EXACTLY the same style. It's unbelievable. None of them look unique, therefore none of them look attractive. Instead, they're making themselves mass produced sex products, much like magazines and movies make them out to be. Tis sad.

And actually, I'm seeing GUYS do it to! Same cap, same jeans. AH! I never thought that GUYS would be broken down into a malleable mass produced product. It's kindof sad. If you are one with the heard, you are one of a heard. As inextinguishable as speck on a wall.

Now, regarding weight, If I may say so. People are just not responsible here. I mean, many people could be skinny, but they aren't. The reason? Cause they're lazy.


Electronics everywhere, and children aren't being taught good work, or even schooling. "Oh, you got a D, but that'll pass your test." I mean, sheesh.

I've the difference in lifestyle between people who are that little bit more fat and those who are not. It's definitely controllable, and they say that it's caused by genes, but honestly, I'm not buying it. I'm just not cause I've seen different. It seems that people blame everything on genes nowadays. It's ridiculous. Own up and take some responsibility people! I am so sick of this!!

Often times in life, it's really about how bad you want it. Now, no, you don't have to become as skinny as a twig, not at all. That is silly. And you can become to skinny. However, often times it's the other problem that people have.

Now, I am on the computer a fair amount of the day when I'm home, but I also usually skip lunch, and have a light breakfast, plus I walk around outside on those days just letting my mind go where it will go. It's nice, natural, and I'm not eating more than I have to + I'm getting a little bit of exercise. ^^'

As for women acting more polite, I would say that this is, sorta true, I mean, yes, men should be polite too, but since women are better keepers at home, then I would suppose that manners and such would be a larger part of their spectrum.

I mean, think about this, there is a reason that the majority of the work force is male, for one, they don't have that "one particular time of the month" when things become a lot more miserable, and their bodies are stronger.

Hey, I'm not sexist, I'm stating a fact because it is true, and ignoring it in the name of equality doesn't help anyone. That's why all the sports have gender divisions, and most records held by men are higher than that of women's. It doesn't help anyone by denying circumstances, rather, we should deal with them.


I think that you're a smart person and just want to go on an adventure. Not being reliant on others, or seen as a toy. I understand that, and it is a good wish, but even we men are reliant on the other gender to a certain degree. Although we guys act tough, we need women just as much as they need us. A man can build a house, but a wife makes it a home.






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I would say you have it right for the most part.

yeah, it's good you don't like skinny jeans. Those are designed to pretty much patron off your looks to guys without much concern on issues of the heart. I can't stand a woman trying to bring attraction to her body. It just makes me feel uncomfortable to be around them, and it's not very nice to do to your friends who are guys. I mean, yeah, naturally people are attractive, and you shouldn't completely ignore that, but you shouldn't push it to far either.

Dresses? To be honest, I like girls in those! They. . . look. . . . cute. haha.

I can see that you just don't want to be pressed into a mold is all, and that's good. No man, or woman can be pressed into a mold of any kind. You can be only you.

Just don't let that make you think that you have to rob a bank or do something stupid to be "You".


Society does treat girls pretty badly.

1 We sell their looks in magazines and all kind of media, portraying them as sexual playthings you'll kiss you if you look at them for too long

2 I swear every girl in school dresses the same and does their hair the same in the city that I live near every summer. It's the same stuff. Short Shorts, and hair in EXACTLY the same style. It's unbelievable. None of them look unique, therefore none of them look attractive. Instead, they're making themselves mass produced sex products, much like magazines and movies make them out to be. Tis sad.

And actually, I'm seeing GUYS do it to! Same cap, same jeans. AH! I never thought that GUYS would be broken down into a malleable mass produced product. It's kindof sad. If you are one with the heard, you are one of a heard. As inextinguishable as speck on a wall.

Now, regarding weight, If I may say so. People are just not responsible here. I mean, many people could be skinny, but they aren't. The reason? Cause they're lazy.


Electronics everywhere, and children aren't being taught good work, or even schooling. "Oh, you got a D, but that'll pass your test." I mean, sheesh.

I've the difference in lifestyle between people who are that little bit more fat and those who are not. It's definitely controllable, and they say that it's caused by genes, but honestly, I'm not buying it. I'm just not cause I've seen different. It seems that people blame everything on genes nowadays. It's ridiculous. Own up and take some responsibility people! I am so sick of this!!

Often times in life, it's really about how bad you want it. Now, no, you don't have to become as skinny as a twig, not at all. That is silly. And you can become to skinny. However, often times it's the other problem that people have.

Now, I am on the computer a fair amount of the day when I'm home, but I also usually skip lunch, and have a light breakfast, plus I walk around outside on those days just letting my mind go where it will go. It's nice, natural, and I'm not eating more than I have to + I'm getting a little bit of exercise. ^^'

As for women acting more polite, I would say that this is, sorta true, I mean, yes, men should be polite too, but since women are better keepers at home, then I would suppose that manners and such would be a larger part of their spectrum.

I mean, think about this, there is a reason that the majority of the work force is male, for one, they don't have that "one particular time of the month" when things become a lot more miserable, and their bodies are stronger.

Hey, I'm not sexist, I'm stating a fact because it is true, and ignoring it in the name of equality doesn't help anyone. That's why all the sports have gender divisions, and most records held by men are higher than that of women's. It doesn't help anyone by denying circumstances, rather, we should deal with them.


I think that you're a smart person and just want to go on an adventure. Not being reliant on others, or seen as a toy. I understand that, and it is a good wish, but even we men are reliant on the other gender to a certain degree. Although we guys act tough, we need women just as much as they need us. A man can build a house, but a wife makes it a home.






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You don't hate being a girl. You hate stereotypes and gender roles. Different things.
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For one thing, It's not a huge crapping deal. You don't have to wear skinny jeans or dresses or whatever the hell you complained about when you made that post. It's not as if society is holding you down and forcing you to do all these things that you don't want to. And besides, 3.5 billion other girls have to deal with the same s***, probably even worse s***, that you have to deal with. It's not unique, or an original perspective.

Point is, get a sex change or deal with it.
For one thing, It's not a huge crapping deal. You don't have to wear skinny jeans or dresses or whatever the hell you complained about when you made that post. It's not as if society is holding you down and forcing you to do all these things that you don't want to. And besides, 3.5 billion other girls have to deal with the same s***, probably even worse s***, that you have to deal with. It's not unique, or an original perspective.

Point is, get a sex change or deal with it.
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I can definitely relate to you 100%. This is how the American society in general views females. It's either tight clothing, fashion accessories, size, and so forth. Funny enough, people think women are very materialistic, moody, and looked down upon.

Society just loves having their own typical views and standards for everything whether it would be males, females, or an ethnic group. Humans are biased in some sense that you can't really stop it. The only way to avoid that is to be confident in yourself and stand out. Don't let the pressure of society's standards scare, intimidate, or bother in any sense. That's what most people are missing these days, uniqueness and their own
good qualities in themselves. People are distracted by media and the
media is telling them how to dress the "correct" way or what looks
"wrong". It just sickens me. Attention hogging and overrated styles are just not for me.

I love dressing like you do with casual loose clothing like shorts, sneakers, and t-shirts. I never liked wearing dresses, skirts, heels, flats, and so forth. Most of my friends who are girl love make-up and all of that yucky stuff meanwhile I don't. Why in the world would I spent money on useless fashion accessories and tight clothing which I won't even use when I can buy more important stuff like food or my own style of clothing that I would actually use? At least they respect me and love me for who I am. Be proud to be who you are from the inside out. Honestly, I don't care how females dress these days because I am not one of them. I am my own person! You are your own person as well. Embrace yourself and don't let anything get in your way in your life like that.
I can definitely relate to you 100%. This is how the American society in general views females. It's either tight clothing, fashion accessories, size, and so forth. Funny enough, people think women are very materialistic, moody, and looked down upon.

Society just loves having their own typical views and standards for everything whether it would be males, females, or an ethnic group. Humans are biased in some sense that you can't really stop it. The only way to avoid that is to be confident in yourself and stand out. Don't let the pressure of society's standards scare, intimidate, or bother in any sense. That's what most people are missing these days, uniqueness and their own
good qualities in themselves. People are distracted by media and the
media is telling them how to dress the "correct" way or what looks
"wrong". It just sickens me. Attention hogging and overrated styles are just not for me.

I love dressing like you do with casual loose clothing like shorts, sneakers, and t-shirts. I never liked wearing dresses, skirts, heels, flats, and so forth. Most of my friends who are girl love make-up and all of that yucky stuff meanwhile I don't. Why in the world would I spent money on useless fashion accessories and tight clothing which I won't even use when I can buy more important stuff like food or my own style of clothing that I would actually use? At least they respect me and love me for who I am. Be proud to be who you are from the inside out. Honestly, I don't care how females dress these days because I am not one of them. I am my own person! You are your own person as well. Embrace yourself and don't let anything get in your way in your life like that.
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Well, honestly, I can relate to some of the things you said. I don't like dealing with that pain once a week every month. I've been expected to have graceful manners "like a lady" before. I've been given clothes and other accessories I never wanted. I don't like dresses either. People asked me about boys many times before.

Yet despite all of that, I do not hate being a girl. All the stereotypes I encountered as a girl does not make me hate being a girl. I never even thought of hating my own gender because of stereotypes, and boys also have the same issue. Instead of hating your gender or the so-called gender roles, just go one and do what you like to do. No need to hate being a girl over this. No need to be bothered about it so much. Just go on and love yourself for who you are.
Well, honestly, I can relate to some of the things you said. I don't like dealing with that pain once a week every month. I've been expected to have graceful manners "like a lady" before. I've been given clothes and other accessories I never wanted. I don't like dresses either. People asked me about boys many times before.

Yet despite all of that, I do not hate being a girl. All the stereotypes I encountered as a girl does not make me hate being a girl. I never even thought of hating my own gender because of stereotypes, and boys also have the same issue. Instead of hating your gender or the so-called gender roles, just go one and do what you like to do. No need to hate being a girl over this. No need to be bothered about it so much. Just go on and love yourself for who you are.
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Honestly it really does seem like you have just taken a stereotypical view of stereotypes and then wrote a paragraph about how you are not like that stereotype. 

1) Firstly besides people that actively love sports and exercise, Running is not a common hobby or interest. Most people despise running.  As to your comment about life in general sucks... Well yes it will suck if you take a negative look on why your live is different from a stereotype.. If that was the case 95% of the population would have manic depression. As for brushing hair.. really... I used to have long hair for a male.. (It was past my shoulders) But it wasn't difficult to maintain or keep neat.. and I'm one of the laziest people i know when it comes to self image. 

2)   Basically you are saying that people can't have an opinion, When it comes to stuff like models and fashion... It's the norm for the models to be underweight and etc, Yes people might feel pressured into becoming underweight.. But then again your not jealous about the people who are that weight who end up spending ridiculous amounts on stupid clothing either... Overweight people can be overweight for a number of reasons and sometimes have the right to be jealous of others that are of a more healthier build, Yet again it comes to jealousy.. People will also put other people down to make themselves feel better, Believe it or not. 

3) Maybe your parents just want you to grow up polite, It really is not much to ask for at the end of the day. I mean as much as you may dislike it they are the ones that bought you into this world and they probably have pure intentions at heart. Also as a man, I prefer mischievous girls and lets be honest, most people are mischievous anyway. Males are often expected to be courteous towards females. Most of the time when we are we just get blanked like we are nothing by females but we still do it, not because we have to, but because it's a nice thing to do at the end of the day, I mean it really doesn't take much effort to be courteous...  Plus your 13.. You still have a lot of time to deviate from you personality now. 

4) It really just sounds like your having a teenage rant about your "horrible parents" now... It was probably merely a suggestion that you wear it because they thought you might look adorable in it, Also the fact you got to wear casual clothes show they were not that unreasonable about it either.  I've wore a dress before and besides offering little to no heat for your body they are pretty okay, but that's just personal opinion.. Also you'd be surprised how much grooming some "casual" guys do, It is probably nowhere near what women do, but its not like they wake up and look amazing either, I mean there are a lot of  beauty products for men too after all. 

5) This counts for everyone, I get asked by friends who i like, Who i don't like, Would i have sex with someone, would i not.. And for me it's hard because I'm not like my friends who are all sporty and pretty alpha in terms of personality.. I mean they're all confident, physically healthy men that talk about girls and booze and cars all the time, And I'm an overweight guy, that really doesn't care about how people look and is more focused on the personality of the person, I don't really care much for going out drinking, I'd rather sit at home relax and talk to people online and play games. And as an epileptic who cant drive why would i care about cars...My point is that regardless of what your personality is relationships, love, and sex are common place in adult conversations.. Get used to it. Also people assume things on a daily basis.. If your parents caught you making out with a female I'm pretty sure they would assume you was a lesbian when you could be pansexual or bisexual.. Being straight is just the most common sexual preference.. So assuming someone is straight is statistically the safe bet , if they are wrong they can apologise it is that simple. 

5b) Here's a simple solution, Tell people what you want and don't want for your birthday.. Instead of hoping for something that might to be your interest, just make sure to tell your parents that you would much rather prefer something else. Of course people are going to make assumptions if you seem to smile and enjoy your gift. But never bring it up. Nobody actively tracks what clothes you wear either.. So it's not like they would really notice you never wore the t shirt you got then,... and damn be grateful, You seem to care far much about the actual gift more than the actual thought of the gift.. So what if you don't like it.  Get off your high horse and appreciate that this person wanted to and did get you something... And trust me buying presents for a woman is a nightmare.. Mainly because as a man I'm expected to wade through a ocean of vague hints, to eventually fail in the end because i did not get that one present they mentioned perhaps 3 months ago.  From my 23 years on this forsaken planet, Males tend to accept anything and appreciate it. Even if they dislike it they will at some point do something with it, or simply not complain. Females tend to be a bit more disrespectful when it comes to gifts, I've seen on several occasions women get angry for not getting what they want.. I am not saying this is the case all the time ,but in all the birthdays I've attended in 23 years, The latter certainly happens way more often than you'd think

Finally i don't care if i come across rude you are 13, Your view of the world is not yet complete, You probably don't even know who you are yet. You've got lots of time to develop and change your personality, So stop whining about how you don't like things and perhaps focus more on how easy you have it as a teenager.. Because trust me when you become an adult you will want those years back.. That is all.. 
Honestly it really does seem like you have just taken a stereotypical view of stereotypes and then wrote a paragraph about how you are not like that stereotype. 

1) Firstly besides people that actively love sports and exercise, Running is not a common hobby or interest. Most people despise running.  As to your comment about life in general sucks... Well yes it will suck if you take a negative look on why your live is different from a stereotype.. If that was the case 95% of the population would have manic depression. As for brushing hair.. really... I used to have long hair for a male.. (It was past my shoulders) But it wasn't difficult to maintain or keep neat.. and I'm one of the laziest people i know when it comes to self image. 

2)   Basically you are saying that people can't have an opinion, When it comes to stuff like models and fashion... It's the norm for the models to be underweight and etc, Yes people might feel pressured into becoming underweight.. But then again your not jealous about the people who are that weight who end up spending ridiculous amounts on stupid clothing either... Overweight people can be overweight for a number of reasons and sometimes have the right to be jealous of others that are of a more healthier build, Yet again it comes to jealousy.. People will also put other people down to make themselves feel better, Believe it or not. 

3) Maybe your parents just want you to grow up polite, It really is not much to ask for at the end of the day. I mean as much as you may dislike it they are the ones that bought you into this world and they probably have pure intentions at heart. Also as a man, I prefer mischievous girls and lets be honest, most people are mischievous anyway. Males are often expected to be courteous towards females. Most of the time when we are we just get blanked like we are nothing by females but we still do it, not because we have to, but because it's a nice thing to do at the end of the day, I mean it really doesn't take much effort to be courteous...  Plus your 13.. You still have a lot of time to deviate from you personality now. 

4) It really just sounds like your having a teenage rant about your "horrible parents" now... It was probably merely a suggestion that you wear it because they thought you might look adorable in it, Also the fact you got to wear casual clothes show they were not that unreasonable about it either.  I've wore a dress before and besides offering little to no heat for your body they are pretty okay, but that's just personal opinion.. Also you'd be surprised how much grooming some "casual" guys do, It is probably nowhere near what women do, but its not like they wake up and look amazing either, I mean there are a lot of  beauty products for men too after all. 

5) This counts for everyone, I get asked by friends who i like, Who i don't like, Would i have sex with someone, would i not.. And for me it's hard because I'm not like my friends who are all sporty and pretty alpha in terms of personality.. I mean they're all confident, physically healthy men that talk about girls and booze and cars all the time, And I'm an overweight guy, that really doesn't care about how people look and is more focused on the personality of the person, I don't really care much for going out drinking, I'd rather sit at home relax and talk to people online and play games. And as an epileptic who cant drive why would i care about cars...My point is that regardless of what your personality is relationships, love, and sex are common place in adult conversations.. Get used to it. Also people assume things on a daily basis.. If your parents caught you making out with a female I'm pretty sure they would assume you was a lesbian when you could be pansexual or bisexual.. Being straight is just the most common sexual preference.. So assuming someone is straight is statistically the safe bet , if they are wrong they can apologise it is that simple. 

5b) Here's a simple solution, Tell people what you want and don't want for your birthday.. Instead of hoping for something that might to be your interest, just make sure to tell your parents that you would much rather prefer something else. Of course people are going to make assumptions if you seem to smile and enjoy your gift. But never bring it up. Nobody actively tracks what clothes you wear either.. So it's not like they would really notice you never wore the t shirt you got then,... and damn be grateful, You seem to care far much about the actual gift more than the actual thought of the gift.. So what if you don't like it.  Get off your high horse and appreciate that this person wanted to and did get you something... And trust me buying presents for a woman is a nightmare.. Mainly because as a man I'm expected to wade through a ocean of vague hints, to eventually fail in the end because i did not get that one present they mentioned perhaps 3 months ago.  From my 23 years on this forsaken planet, Males tend to accept anything and appreciate it. Even if they dislike it they will at some point do something with it, or simply not complain. Females tend to be a bit more disrespectful when it comes to gifts, I've seen on several occasions women get angry for not getting what they want.. I am not saying this is the case all the time ,but in all the birthdays I've attended in 23 years, The latter certainly happens way more often than you'd think

Finally i don't care if i come across rude you are 13, Your view of the world is not yet complete, You probably don't even know who you are yet. You've got lots of time to develop and change your personality, So stop whining about how you don't like things and perhaps focus more on how easy you have it as a teenager.. Because trust me when you become an adult you will want those years back.. That is all.. 
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Hun, you haven't experienced the world and what it has to offer. Most of these are stereotypes, and as one of the post said we are judge mental human beings. Listen, if you feel happy about the way you are then don't allow anything to affect you. If you want to change something about yourself thats healthy then go for. Why would you listen to people anyway? There's nothing wrong with you and if there's something that you don't like then say it. A closed mouth doesn't get feed. If you don't say anything, nothing will happen.As a twenty year old, I feel the same about dresses. I don't care for them and I made that point clear to my mother. The only dress I'll wear is my wedding dress. But at this point you are still in school and trust me when you go to highschool you'll find out that people won't really care about what other people think of them. And In college people are too tired and don't want to be bothered. All you have to do is learn not to care about what other people think and say. They don't know you and it's not like you can satisfy everyone so as long as you have the "I really could care less what you think about me." then you'll be fine.
Hun, you haven't experienced the world and what it has to offer. Most of these are stereotypes, and as one of the post said we are judge mental human beings. Listen, if you feel happy about the way you are then don't allow anything to affect you. If you want to change something about yourself thats healthy then go for. Why would you listen to people anyway? There's nothing wrong with you and if there's something that you don't like then say it. A closed mouth doesn't get feed. If you don't say anything, nothing will happen.As a twenty year old, I feel the same about dresses. I don't care for them and I made that point clear to my mother. The only dress I'll wear is my wedding dress. But at this point you are still in school and trust me when you go to highschool you'll find out that people won't really care about what other people think of them. And In college people are too tired and don't want to be bothered. All you have to do is learn not to care about what other people think and say. They don't know you and it's not like you can satisfy everyone so as long as you have the "I really could care less what you think about me." then you'll be fine.
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To everyone who replied,

MechaMento : Sorry for the second summon, but I didn't have the time to write what I really had to say since I had to go to bed,

fightorace : Thanks for the reply ^^. The last part made me laugh! XD,

warmaker : That's really useful advice; thank you ,

Gingercream1 : Truer words have never been spoken. *High fives*,

Sword legion : That last line made me smile ^^,

maguc : You're right! , 

TheNameWithNoNumbers : Your post hurt me, and it ruined my day. I considered voting for you as the user with the best username during the next time we have ballots for that sort of thing, but I've changed my mind now. It couldn't have been that difficult to be nice about it. You may be a Trusted Member, but that title is most certainly not going to get you any help or respect from me. ,

ghostfishy : I'm glad you can relate to me ^.^,

AriaAngelDream : Your post really made me feel better . ,

sonicmcmuffin : Thanks; your post was smart . You must know, however, that I do believe my parents are the best in the world,

xxxbluewolf : Thank you for the advice, but don't tell me I haven't experienced the world and what it has to offer just because I'm 13. You don't know who I am, and you don't know what I've been through. No one has fully experienced the world . ,

Sorry for bringing you all here again, but there is something some of you have missed or might just need to know about. Some of you called this a typical "teen rant" - which it is. The title is "Why I Hate Being A Girl". What did you expect it to be ? Not a a rant? I could have put the words a little more formally or less angry-sounding, but everyone needs to rant every now and then. Some people roll their eyes at teenagers' rants because most people who rant, in fact, are teens, but that doesn't deny them the right to rant simply because more of them do. I have the right to complain about something just as much as a nine- or fifty-year-old does. Before, when I told people about my problems, they listened and talked to me about them. Now that I'm officially a teenager, though, when I discuss literally the same problems, the same people describe them as exaggerated. Please, everyone. Don't make me hate being 13, too .

The second thing is, some of you didn't seem to realize that this thread is about why
I hate being a girl, not why being a girl sucks. This refers to me. A lot of you complained that I was speaking as though there was no male stereotype. Everyone, I was complaining about the female stereotype so much because the male stereotype applies to me more as an individual. I'm not referring to every female in the world's difficulties; I'm simply sharing why I, as a person, find it annoying. I would rather be a guy simply because I act more like what the male stereotype states. Following? It would be easier for me to be a guy, because I'm everything that is expected from guys. My cousin and best friend Green has a similar problem - except he's a guy, and he fits the female stereotype better. It's really fun to have conversations with him, as we share a similar problem

Thank you for your patience, everyone! I really did appreciate all of your posts, except for the reply of someone whom I know is aware he isn't appreciated! Have a great day, everyone ^^!

NintendoFanKimmy, out!~














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MechaMento : Sorry for the second summon, but I didn't have the time to write what I really had to say since I had to go to bed,

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Sword legion : That last line made me smile ^^,

maguc : You're right! , 

TheNameWithNoNumbers : Your post hurt me, and it ruined my day. I considered voting for you as the user with the best username during the next time we have ballots for that sort of thing, but I've changed my mind now. It couldn't have been that difficult to be nice about it. You may be a Trusted Member, but that title is most certainly not going to get you any help or respect from me. ,

ghostfishy : I'm glad you can relate to me ^.^,

AriaAngelDream : Your post really made me feel better . ,

sonicmcmuffin : Thanks; your post was smart . You must know, however, that I do believe my parents are the best in the world,

xxxbluewolf : Thank you for the advice, but don't tell me I haven't experienced the world and what it has to offer just because I'm 13. You don't know who I am, and you don't know what I've been through. No one has fully experienced the world . ,

Sorry for bringing you all here again, but there is something some of you have missed or might just need to know about. Some of you called this a typical "teen rant" - which it is. The title is "Why I Hate Being A Girl". What did you expect it to be ? Not a a rant? I could have put the words a little more formally or less angry-sounding, but everyone needs to rant every now and then. Some people roll their eyes at teenagers' rants because most people who rant, in fact, are teens, but that doesn't deny them the right to rant simply because more of them do. I have the right to complain about something just as much as a nine- or fifty-year-old does. Before, when I told people about my problems, they listened and talked to me about them. Now that I'm officially a teenager, though, when I discuss literally the same problems, the same people describe them as exaggerated. Please, everyone. Don't make me hate being 13, too .

The second thing is, some of you didn't seem to realize that this thread is about why
I hate being a girl, not why being a girl sucks. This refers to me. A lot of you complained that I was speaking as though there was no male stereotype. Everyone, I was complaining about the female stereotype so much because the male stereotype applies to me more as an individual. I'm not referring to every female in the world's difficulties; I'm simply sharing why I, as a person, find it annoying. I would rather be a guy simply because I act more like what the male stereotype states. Following? It would be easier for me to be a guy, because I'm everything that is expected from guys. My cousin and best friend Green has a similar problem - except he's a guy, and he fits the female stereotype better. It's really fun to have conversations with him, as we share a similar problem

Thank you for your patience, everyone! I really did appreciate all of your posts, except for the reply of someone whom I know is aware he isn't appreciated! Have a great day, everyone ^^!

NintendoFanKimmy, out!~














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I was going to say this even before your last post, but one of my reasons for commenting is simply to commend your grammar usage throughout this 'rant.' Especially considering how you must've felt while typing all of this out, I think it's pretty well written. Maybe I'm just weird for that being one of my first thoughts. I'm big on editing things and whatnot.

For the most part, I don't have much to contribute other than what Warmaker has already said (anyone else think he has the best posts all the time?). It's unfortunate that you've grown up so far surrounded by people who are making you feel like you should conform to any stereotype -- girl, boy, etc. My brother always says, "Stereotypes exist for a reason." It's true, to an extent, even in today's world. Even without being pressured to do so, many might still exhibit such 'predicted' gender behaviors. Over time, though, perhaps enough people will escape the crowd to lessen the effects of gender roles and even stereotypes themselves. 

From a strictly scientific perspective, teenagers tend to think and reason more emotionally than adults. During adolescence the Prefrontal cortex is still developing and decisions and perspectives are usually more self-centered and emotion driven. However, by no means does this excuse anyone from citing your age as a factor for not listening to what you have to say. As you've already stated, we may exhibit similar developments as a species, but each individual is different. Some teens will develop and mature faster than others. People may brush off teenagers' 'rants,' but it's good that you're open to talking to people about how you feel and providing your perspective. 

Finally I would just like to point out that along with biological development people around your age are also developing their own identities. It's easier to stick with the stereotypes and be who you think others what you to be. Maybe it is your age that's driving the people around you to push these opinions on you. Especially if it's your friends or family. They just want you to 'fit in.' You should never be afraid or feel bad for being yourself, but you shouldn't always take those pressures in a negative way, either. 

I'll leave you with a great quote:
"I am not who I think I am. I am not who you think I am. I am who I think you think I am."  
I was going to say this even before your last post, but one of my reasons for commenting is simply to commend your grammar usage throughout this 'rant.' Especially considering how you must've felt while typing all of this out, I think it's pretty well written. Maybe I'm just weird for that being one of my first thoughts. I'm big on editing things and whatnot.

For the most part, I don't have much to contribute other than what Warmaker has already said (anyone else think he has the best posts all the time?). It's unfortunate that you've grown up so far surrounded by people who are making you feel like you should conform to any stereotype -- girl, boy, etc. My brother always says, "Stereotypes exist for a reason." It's true, to an extent, even in today's world. Even without being pressured to do so, many might still exhibit such 'predicted' gender behaviors. Over time, though, perhaps enough people will escape the crowd to lessen the effects of gender roles and even stereotypes themselves. 

From a strictly scientific perspective, teenagers tend to think and reason more emotionally than adults. During adolescence the Prefrontal cortex is still developing and decisions and perspectives are usually more self-centered and emotion driven. However, by no means does this excuse anyone from citing your age as a factor for not listening to what you have to say. As you've already stated, we may exhibit similar developments as a species, but each individual is different. Some teens will develop and mature faster than others. People may brush off teenagers' 'rants,' but it's good that you're open to talking to people about how you feel and providing your perspective. 

Finally I would just like to point out that along with biological development people around your age are also developing their own identities. It's easier to stick with the stereotypes and be who you think others what you to be. Maybe it is your age that's driving the people around you to push these opinions on you. Especially if it's your friends or family. They just want you to 'fit in.' You should never be afraid or feel bad for being yourself, but you shouldn't always take those pressures in a negative way, either. 

I'll leave you with a great quote:
"I am not who I think I am. I am not who you think I am. I am who I think you think I am."  
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I feel for you. I don't hate being a guy (just like you don't hate being a girl), but it gets pretty stressful. Everyone expects us guys to be into sports, Star Wars, Call of Duty, and other things, but I'm not into any of those yet. (I might watch the Star Wars series eventually since I'm now interested ) Also, I think guys tend to be competitive, and I really don't want to take part in most competitions.

I think girls are expected to usually be more cheery, and that guys are expected to not be so cheery on average. There are normal guys, and then there are guys like greenluigi and I that are very cheery. Girls might also be expected to be more caring, chatty, and crazy. I'm more like a typical guy, but some of my characteristics are more like the stereotype of girls, the ones I listed above.

The reason why a girl is my best friend instead of one of my guy friends that's my closest friend is that we can relate a lot more. Also, I can just be entirely myself around her and it won't be so weird. All but 2 of my friends are guys, but I usually prefer hanging out with girls.
I feel for you. I don't hate being a guy (just like you don't hate being a girl), but it gets pretty stressful. Everyone expects us guys to be into sports, Star Wars, Call of Duty, and other things, but I'm not into any of those yet. (I might watch the Star Wars series eventually since I'm now interested ) Also, I think guys tend to be competitive, and I really don't want to take part in most competitions.

I think girls are expected to usually be more cheery, and that guys are expected to not be so cheery on average. There are normal guys, and then there are guys like greenluigi and I that are very cheery. Girls might also be expected to be more caring, chatty, and crazy. I'm more like a typical guy, but some of my characteristics are more like the stereotype of girls, the ones I listed above.

The reason why a girl is my best friend instead of one of my guy friends that's my closest friend is that we can relate a lot more. Also, I can just be entirely myself around her and it won't be so weird. All but 2 of my friends are guys, but I usually prefer hanging out with girls.
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I know most people have already said almost everything that needed to be said about the other gender and I also am sure this was just a venting rant but dang! I think either we live in different environment or I completely turn a blind eye to stereotypes. I generally hear stereotypes like girls should wear dresses but I rarely see people apply that theory. I do acknowledge that there are parents that want that and assume that girls love dresses and crap like that but I just don't commonly see it. Also as a guy, I can say I don't see each girl as an individual but rather as a person. I honestly couldn't care less about appearance of everybody so I can say that you are probably a great person that is sarcastic and fun.




























I know most people have already said almost everything that needed to be said about the other gender and I also am sure this was just a venting rant but dang! I think either we live in different environment or I completely turn a blind eye to stereotypes. I generally hear stereotypes like girls should wear dresses but I rarely see people apply that theory. I do acknowledge that there are parents that want that and assume that girls love dresses and crap like that but I just don't commonly see it. Also as a guy, I can say I don't see each girl as an individual but rather as a person. I honestly couldn't care less about appearance of everybody so I can say that you are probably a great person that is sarcastic and fun.




























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NintendoFanKimmy : I find it really uncanny that the reasons you dislike being a girl is the exact same ones that would make switch genders in an instant. I don't mean to understate your issues, as they are very general yet true ones about society and sterotypes, particularly in 'Earth, Milky Way Galaxy, Universe' but still, just for fun.

1. You Get To Go Against The Norm!
Short hair rocks. Period. Opps. So what if people think I'm not into guys or that you have a condition if your hair looks like a DJ? I figured that it's a great way to somewhat, repeal shallow people at an instance. Same with people not taking me nonstop seriously because they think my body is making your overly negative. Guys like me already have very similar mood-swings too, almost to a menstrual degree, yet they don't really have an excuse. In a way, people I probably don't want to be with in the first place otherwise are already gone from me. Hooray!

Of course, there's also employment or family. I guess I just got to deal with it. I already got to deal with them anyways. Won't want to be working for a company that discriminates or assumes based on hair though, right? I mean, unless it's part of a formal dress code.


2. Everybody Is Expected To Harbor Around The Same Amount Of Physical Mass As A Fetus. You, However, Should Do What You Believe Is Healthy.
So, I am the perfect BMI as I've either been eating right or don't find computer chairs that comfortable. Great! I need to be skinnier? Why? So I will look better? But I am healthy already? No, I need to look like that model? Well, if you're going to look down on me because I am not your dream girl, than I wish you luck on your shallow quest as I am now walking far, far away from you.

Whether or not chubby people should be shamed is up to me. I just believe that if you're going to judge a girl based on your taste, it's fine. If you're going to bully her, you're a bully in general, and you probably bully overweight males as well, or are a hypocrite. This is a completely different issue, though. Maybe we should make a new thread?

3. Damien, That Isn't Manly. We both have the same problems.
Looks like I can never get away from social norms, huh? I am expected to be a 'man'. Well, was, considering this hypothetical point of view where I am now a girl. Traditional parents are the same to both boys and girls, though in different ways, there are still moments where I feel like doing something that is against some sort of gender standard. I like perfume, make-up, all that girly stuff. Being gentle, kind and polite really appeal to me. Doll houses seemed like lots of fun, being able to create your own dramas and all. Still disgusted by the fact the girls' section of a toy store is all painted in pink and barbie dolls look poorly made but that's unrelated.

I love having manners, being polite and making a good impression. It's all about neat hair and nice clothing for me. Of course, if my parents were different, they would probably be completely against that, just like how yours are against you being more boyish.

4. I Need To Look Good. It's a Skill.
Yes, spending hours making sure my face looks just right? My parents willing to spend money on cosmetics for me? I would look attractive and presentable, or at least made a good attempt? I consider good looks a skill you could develop, and one I think I need. A good dress would make a good impression, and it's so simple too. Of course, I can understand why you don't like the competition or maybe even the comfort, and feel that you have to do a lot more effort than us. Believe me, we get low expectations -- this brings us to an interesting issue that I'll mention on a separate thread.

5. Which Boy Do You Like?
Eh, traditional parents. Not really your fight at the moment though. Not mine either. A bit personal, but I can choose whether I like a boy or girl, and would be extremely bias in this department. I am Bi.

Regardless, if I were a straight male becoming a girl, I would be into girls now. I'll have to deal with it my own way, and there are numbers of them. I am not sure if you should feel a little bit rustled by the thought of. Also, come on Mom, you're a human too. You know my life is more than just boys and shoes. Besides, if you're worried, I am just making sure your son-in-law will be a good one. Still, in this economy, I hope you still aren't hoping for grand-children.

My ears did not survive that. Looks like you can still get them twisted as a girl.

6. Birthday Presents

John, I don't like bracelets, especially one as ugly as that. You seriously think all girls like these things? Well, guess I fear for Alice then. Yes, the whole class knows you have a crush on her, but not everyone knows you treat all girls like objects.

Well, alright, I was harsh. When I was a boy at thirteen, I didn't get any presents at all because my birthday is in January and nobody actually likes me anyways. Kind of outgrew presents by now, I don't feel entitled. Oh, you didn't want to give my a present in the first place? THEN WHY DID YOU?

And then someone assumes I am having the time of the month again. Kidding aside, I'll probably post a separate thread titled 'Why I Hate Being A Boy' just for an alternate view. I am sure it'll be very interesting to you. The most important thing we're forgetting is that this is really about you and me, individuals, confining to gender roles.
Excuse my poor formatting. Also, I didn't proof read this extremely long post.
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NintendoFanKimmy : I find it really uncanny that the reasons you dislike being a girl is the exact same ones that would make switch genders in an instant. I don't mean to understate your issues, as they are very general yet true ones about society and sterotypes, particularly in 'Earth, Milky Way Galaxy, Universe' but still, just for fun.

1. You Get To Go Against The Norm!
Short hair rocks. Period. Opps. So what if people think I'm not into guys or that you have a condition if your hair looks like a DJ? I figured that it's a great way to somewhat, repeal shallow people at an instance. Same with people not taking me nonstop seriously because they think my body is making your overly negative. Guys like me already have very similar mood-swings too, almost to a menstrual degree, yet they don't really have an excuse. In a way, people I probably don't want to be with in the first place otherwise are already gone from me. Hooray!

Of course, there's also employment or family. I guess I just got to deal with it. I already got to deal with them anyways. Won't want to be working for a company that discriminates or assumes based on hair though, right? I mean, unless it's part of a formal dress code.


2. Everybody Is Expected To Harbor Around The Same Amount Of Physical Mass As A Fetus. You, However, Should Do What You Believe Is Healthy.
So, I am the perfect BMI as I've either been eating right or don't find computer chairs that comfortable. Great! I need to be skinnier? Why? So I will look better? But I am healthy already? No, I need to look like that model? Well, if you're going to look down on me because I am not your dream girl, than I wish you luck on your shallow quest as I am now walking far, far away from you.

Whether or not chubby people should be shamed is up to me. I just believe that if you're going to judge a girl based on your taste, it's fine. If you're going to bully her, you're a bully in general, and you probably bully overweight males as well, or are a hypocrite. This is a completely different issue, though. Maybe we should make a new thread?

3. Damien, That Isn't Manly. We both have the same problems.
Looks like I can never get away from social norms, huh? I am expected to be a 'man'. Well, was, considering this hypothetical point of view where I am now a girl. Traditional parents are the same to both boys and girls, though in different ways, there are still moments where I feel like doing something that is against some sort of gender standard. I like perfume, make-up, all that girly stuff. Being gentle, kind and polite really appeal to me. Doll houses seemed like lots of fun, being able to create your own dramas and all. Still disgusted by the fact the girls' section of a toy store is all painted in pink and barbie dolls look poorly made but that's unrelated.

I love having manners, being polite and making a good impression. It's all about neat hair and nice clothing for me. Of course, if my parents were different, they would probably be completely against that, just like how yours are against you being more boyish.

4. I Need To Look Good. It's a Skill.
Yes, spending hours making sure my face looks just right? My parents willing to spend money on cosmetics for me? I would look attractive and presentable, or at least made a good attempt? I consider good looks a skill you could develop, and one I think I need. A good dress would make a good impression, and it's so simple too. Of course, I can understand why you don't like the competition or maybe even the comfort, and feel that you have to do a lot more effort than us. Believe me, we get low expectations -- this brings us to an interesting issue that I'll mention on a separate thread.

5. Which Boy Do You Like?
Eh, traditional parents. Not really your fight at the moment though. Not mine either. A bit personal, but I can choose whether I like a boy or girl, and would be extremely bias in this department. I am Bi.

Regardless, if I were a straight male becoming a girl, I would be into girls now. I'll have to deal with it my own way, and there are numbers of them. I am not sure if you should feel a little bit rustled by the thought of. Also, come on Mom, you're a human too. You know my life is more than just boys and shoes. Besides, if you're worried, I am just making sure your son-in-law will be a good one. Still, in this economy, I hope you still aren't hoping for grand-children.

My ears did not survive that. Looks like you can still get them twisted as a girl.

6. Birthday Presents

John, I don't like bracelets, especially one as ugly as that. You seriously think all girls like these things? Well, guess I fear for Alice then. Yes, the whole class knows you have a crush on her, but not everyone knows you treat all girls like objects.

Well, alright, I was harsh. When I was a boy at thirteen, I didn't get any presents at all because my birthday is in January and nobody actually likes me anyways. Kind of outgrew presents by now, I don't feel entitled. Oh, you didn't want to give my a present in the first place? THEN WHY DID YOU?

And then someone assumes I am having the time of the month again. Kidding aside, I'll probably post a separate thread titled 'Why I Hate Being A Boy' just for an alternate view. I am sure it'll be very interesting to you. The most important thing we're forgetting is that this is really about you and me, individuals, confining to gender roles.
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NintendoFanKimmy : Well, where should I start? I must agree with you on the weight thing. With all the hollywood and movies and stuff, people act like girls have to perfect barbie dolls or else they are fat. That's wrong in my opinion. Personally, if a girl does not have long hair, I do not assume that you are "not straight" or have cancer. That is just the way a lot of girls seem to wear their hair anymore. I will tell you that I like long hair for girls much more. (I also hate long hair for guys. Ugh! But that is my preference, my standard...not everyone else's. And I do respect that.) Yes, dresses are not very practical active wear! It's good to be active and dresses will get in the way, that's for sure. Yeah, rules and manners are not my hugest thing either. I follow the rules that are put their, I'm polite, but you will not find me trying to follow all the ettiquette rules of the book. In my opinion, all that is for fancypants'. All those extra added things are unnecessary, and I do not think that guys should have to follow it any less than girls. That's just my opinion. As long as you show respect for those around you, that is all the manners you need in my opinion. As for discriminating against a gay person. I get what you mean. I myself believe that it is wrong, but that does not mean that I think of a gay person as any less of a human for it. I personally find some of it sickening when a person is trying to be something that GOD did not create them to be. I have seen a few with my retail job, and I feel the same way every time. But that does not mean that I feel they should have any less rights than I have. (Though I think the bit of gays adopting is really not right. The poor kid! He really is going to be confused! I think that the gays sometimes focus too much on their own rights, and are way too sensitive, but that does not mean that I hate them, or think them inferior. It just does not work for me and is totally incompatible with my systems!) I also feel that people also put way too much emphasis on girls and love. Here's the fact of the matter. GOD did not make everyone--or every girl--for that. I also am not the kind of person that would just try to get something for a girl that girls like, but rather that particular girl likes. Girls have just as many different tastes as us guys do, and people should understand that.

I forgot to mention earlier about the makeup. I JUST DO NOT GET IT! I work at a drugstore and was trying to replace an item from cosmetics. Some sort of eyeliner. I found the right item, the right brand, and the right color. Eureka! That I looked at the top left hand corner of the product...WHAT??? Different numbers? You have got to be kidding me! By the way, I am totally not a fan of that ugly eyeliner stuff. That's just gross and makes you look darker. I also despise the bright lipsticks and dark eyeshadows. If you need a littlle extra color because you are a bit pale, I think that's fine, it's all the other stuff that I find unnecessary.
NintendoFanKimmy : Well, where should I start? I must agree with you on the weight thing. With all the hollywood and movies and stuff, people act like girls have to perfect barbie dolls or else they are fat. That's wrong in my opinion. Personally, if a girl does not have long hair, I do not assume that you are "not straight" or have cancer. That is just the way a lot of girls seem to wear their hair anymore. I will tell you that I like long hair for girls much more. (I also hate long hair for guys. Ugh! But that is my preference, my standard...not everyone else's. And I do respect that.) Yes, dresses are not very practical active wear! It's good to be active and dresses will get in the way, that's for sure. Yeah, rules and manners are not my hugest thing either. I follow the rules that are put their, I'm polite, but you will not find me trying to follow all the ettiquette rules of the book. In my opinion, all that is for fancypants'. All those extra added things are unnecessary, and I do not think that guys should have to follow it any less than girls. That's just my opinion. As long as you show respect for those around you, that is all the manners you need in my opinion. As for discriminating against a gay person. I get what you mean. I myself believe that it is wrong, but that does not mean that I think of a gay person as any less of a human for it. I personally find some of it sickening when a person is trying to be something that GOD did not create them to be. I have seen a few with my retail job, and I feel the same way every time. But that does not mean that I feel they should have any less rights than I have. (Though I think the bit of gays adopting is really not right. The poor kid! He really is going to be confused! I think that the gays sometimes focus too much on their own rights, and are way too sensitive, but that does not mean that I hate them, or think them inferior. It just does not work for me and is totally incompatible with my systems!) I also feel that people also put way too much emphasis on girls and love. Here's the fact of the matter. GOD did not make everyone--or every girl--for that. I also am not the kind of person that would just try to get something for a girl that girls like, but rather that particular girl likes. Girls have just as many different tastes as us guys do, and people should understand that.

I forgot to mention earlier about the makeup. I JUST DO NOT GET IT! I work at a drugstore and was trying to replace an item from cosmetics. Some sort of eyeliner. I found the right item, the right brand, and the right color. Eureka! That I looked at the top left hand corner of the product...WHAT??? Different numbers? You have got to be kidding me! By the way, I am totally not a fan of that ugly eyeliner stuff. That's just gross and makes you look darker. I also despise the bright lipsticks and dark eyeshadows. If you need a littlle extra color because you are a bit pale, I think that's fine, it's all the other stuff that I find unnecessary.
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I wouldn't want to be a girl either, because I like looking at them so much, and be a lesbian, no way could I ever look at a guy, when I can look at women.
I wouldn't want to be a girl either, because I like looking at them so much, and be a lesbian, no way could I ever look at a guy, when I can look at women.
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