A lot of people only look at looks in their life and eventually they are gonna get a big awakening because not everyone who looks nice looking in there opinion is nice looking inside. I always go for the inside of people.. I like finding the good and love in somebody's heart.. Looks are nothing to me! I just wish everyone felt the same as I did.



Bintsy<33

both

The inside is undoubtably what counts, but no matter what, the outside is what will invite people in.

I think that both are very important. I wouldn't want a friend/partner who was ONLY good looking, however I wouldn't want someone who was ONLY intelligent or creative. I'd prefer a nice balance between the outside and the inside.

Both do. You can be a supermodel, but you will turn me off if you write like you text or if your culture isn't beyond that of mainstream TV.

Likewise, even if your IQ is 160, I won't be attracted to you if you don't take care of yourself or have a severe physical deformation.

PixelBrick : well pixel i think it what they both have to offer together thats what counts because it means nothing matters i think. its not what others think of you its what you think of your self

Inside. Inside. Inside.I could fill up this site saying that, but it would be spammy. I don't care (much) about the outside... Ok, I sort of do, but the inside is more important.

I'd say Inside.
Outside will make me crazy... When I was a "little" kid, I didn't care, but I knew a girl, but that was because of the "outside".
But, if that never happened, I'd never knew her "Inside".
And then one day, I preferred the "Inside" then the "Outside".
And now I don't care a s**t about the "Outside", I don't care if their fat or not...
All that matters to me:
Nice, a good person. (And Smart a little bit.)
The Girl, well, to me, She was:
Good
Nice
Smart
And Beautiful at the same time... Now it have been a half year I haven't seen her, and about 3 months I didn't had contact with her.
And now when I have butterflies because of the "Outside" I will be shy or nervous to the Girl.
When it's 'cause the "Inside" I am not shy or nervous AT ALL...

It is really a mix of both. 
People should be respected by inside nature but it is just our minds and influences that decide what we like and don't like on the outside.

This sounds really harsh but I wouldn't like someone who is really unattractive, with skin problems or something but is the nicest person in the world on the inside. 
However I would feel the same if the sexiest girl in the world is complete is a complete b****. Though I wouldn't be surprised if she was

For me it would be a mix of the two. I can't date a really unattractive girl or guy even if they were nice.If she was a plain looking girl I would. For really attractive girl/guy I would usually avoid them because they end up being a real b****. Though that's just me. 

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Inside, outside a bit...
If I like a girl because of the inside, I hope I do it right...
If it is because of the outside, I'm nervous, shy, all kind a stuff like that... <---- That is since I liked a girl since the inside.
Before that, I wasn't shy or nervous at girls, but once I liked her cause the inside....
A Girl came to school
the VERY FIRST THING I said to her was 1-3 years later, when she talked to me, I was really... Nervous? And, it was Just because she needed something! :O
I don't like her anymore, the first girl I like... Well, if she ignores me I ignore her. How can I even not ignore her face?
But now I prefer the inside

I would say I need a physical attraction and a mental attraction, if you just have a mental attraction then the girl is nothing more than a good friend but that said I won't go out with a girl just because I am mentally and physically attracted to her, I need to have a gut feeling about her, one that makes me think about her 24/7, then and only then would I know it's right. I guess you could say it is something beyond logic which counts, a feeling which you just can't explain or forget about.

The outside counts if we are talking about dating or relationship, who wants to date person who does not look nice in your eyes, but the inside counts too.. Who wants to date person who is annoying, idiot or something like that. This is very hard question to answer properly.

But if we are talking making new friends then it's the outside that counts the most. I don't personally care if my friend is ugly or good looking as long they are nice and you like to hang with them.

I would write a long text whining about my life. But I would really like a girlfriend and even if she is from Vizzed and she would ask me to be her boyfriend I would say yes because on Vizzed I only met smart, funny, helpful and brave women. If I had someone, then I would work on my outside as much as possible.
Now an quote from me: " You can change the look, but you can't change the person. "

I'm saying both and no one will ever talk me out of it. Yah I'm a teenager still and i don't know to much about this kind of stuff but i can guarantee that more people are gonna say both more than the other to. Like who wants to date a girl that you don't find attractive. Also who would want to date a girl or guy that is annoying, mean or both.?

I think the inside matters the most for obvious reasons.
However if I'm dating somebody the outside will matter to because I need to have an attraction to the person I'm dating otherwise it's not going to work.

I would say both, but inside more because you don't want a really pretty girl who is an A-hole to everyone besides her popular friends.

But on the other and i don't want a really poorly kept person with poor hygiene that is really nice.

tgags123 :

I disagree with the said religious statement, can you back it up from the Bible? I doubt that God would make someone who is destined to do evil, and then God would talk about how much he hates evil.

"For You are not a God who takes pleasure in wickedness, nor shall evil dwell with You. The boastful shall not stand in Your sight; You hate all workers of iniquity"

http://biblia.com/bible/nkjv/Psalm%205.4%E2%80%935

God makes people to do exactly what He hates. I do not think that makes sense.

Let's not forget about how sad God is made over evil.

"Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And the Lord was sorry that He had made man on the earth, and He was grieved in His heart" - Genesis 6:5-6

And then we have John 11:34 - 35, where Jesus (Yeshua) wept over the death of Lazarus.


Back on topic more, I think that you need a little bit of both, otherwise we should all marry wise as owls 72 year old women.

Ahhhh the age old question. 

What is sexy?

For me I need a bit of both. But in terms of physical attractiveness I care more about personal hygiene. Like, I will not consider dating you if you're hairy is greasy, you're covered in pimples, and your breath smells like dead cat.

That's just gross. And that doesn't make me shallow, it makes me someone who holds every human being responsible for cleaning themselves.

But intellect is also important. I really just like conversation more than anything else.