What makes a person attractive to you?

Me?  I like girls who smile a lot, aren't afraid to talk about what they like or don't like.  I like girls who are athletic and can play sports, but it's not a requirement.  I like girls who are educated and don't play dumb or pretend like they don't know or don't care about things.

I'll take red hair, blonde, or brown or black.  Eyes?  That doesn't matter.  I like a little curve to my girls and they can't be sticks.

What do all of you like?

Tacos








But in all seriousness, I like girls who are just really nice, but can take control at times. I like cute girls and ones with trust and respect.

I LOVE red hair, but I can settle for less.

I just like an amazing girl.

I'm not picky, I find a lot of people attractive in a lot of ways.

The perfect women for me though are brunettes, about 5'7", and don't have obnoxiously huge chests.

I basically like average looking women, and find them the most attractive.

" Beauty is in the eye of the beholder "
I would say I am pretty flexible when it comes to attraction.
I'm not picky when it comes to what I find attractive physically in a woman although I am not a fan of heavy makeup.
As for the personality part I would rather talk to the lady for a while and see if there is chemistry there.
I prefer to be flexible because I think you can find love in the most unlikeliest of places or people and if your standards on what you find attractive are too strict then you may miss out.

What makes someone attractive to me needs to have some qualities:
A male who is at least a head taller than me, enjoys having a good time in general, can have a conversation with me whether it would be random or a deep topic, is willing to never give up on his hopes and dreams, does what he can to make anyone happy, is very happy, mature,  trusting, respectful and witty in general, has a nice smile and short hair, and doesn't smoke and drink alcohol.

I hope that isn't a lot of expectations.. T_T

Height - Somewhat tall. Not too tall, but I'm 6 ft tall myself so I don't want an average height woman.
Hair - Either red (or strawberry blonde, I like both), brunette, or black hair. I like it long.
Personality - Happy, kind, smart, and mature.
Misc. - Maybe just a little on the thin side, beautiful blue or green eyes, and doesn't "have obnoxiously huge chests," because I never liked "obnoxiously huge chests" very much. Oh, and they have to be a hardcore fan of Smash Bros.

I like a girl who laughs after I say "Gurl look at dat boday" after she gives an exasperated sigh. I like a girl who likes video games, and the positive effects they can have. I like a girl who says "Come on, son!" when I say something off-color or wrong. I like a girl that watches Phineas and Ferb, Doctor Who, Psych, Monk and Studio C religiously (well, almost religiously). I like a girl who doesn't smoke or drink, and knows just what to say to cheer someone up.

I want to marry that girl.

supernerd117 : I like a girl that has that beautiful body that I can look at and say to her, "Gurl u looking fine." But she also has to be kind and loving. Hair color and eyes don't matter unless they compliment her body even more.

As far as looks go, I don't really mind anything but I generally stay steer clear fro girls with piercings or tattoos or anything like that because that sort of stuff is just a huge turn off for me. 

I really don't need a supermodel too be happy, all I care about is that she is friendly and has a good sense of humor and that she can also be independent...I don't really care for clingy types much. And aside from that, a good personality and education are nice too, anything else is just a bonus for me. I don't have a specific height or eye/hair color or anything else. Height wise, I would want a girls that is at least 5'5" or so since I am 6'1"

That's pretty much it for me, as I've said before, personality speaks louder than looks to me as far as girls go. 

For me a combination of looks and personality is important, but she doesn't have to look like a supermodel. As for looks I like brown hair, not skinny but not big either, just a regular sized person (I do not like thigh gaps as girls call them). The?"obnoxiously huge chests" thing I think is trivial if there is a good personality, I know from experience. I personally like to wear basketball short pretty much everywhere I go so I really like girls that wear more than casual clothing like basketball shorts (not the skin tight ones) and a T-shirt. The way someone dresses to me is a sign of self-worth and I don't like it when girls aren't comfortable with their bodies even if they are bigger or smaller than others. Height is not important, unless you are very tall and slouch because you don't like being tall.

For personality, I like unique people, people that stand out and aren't anything like anyone else. Everyone is unique in their own way though so I don't really know how to explain this one. Again, being comfortable with your body is important with personality. I find it pretty "cute" when someone hesitates to say something to me, as long as they do end up saying it and don't just run away or something.

Also, moderate to light marijuana use is a plus for me. I am indifferent to drinking as long as it isn't heavy. Smoking cigarettes is disgusting and terrible for you and I would never be attracted to anyone that smokes cigarettes as far as more than physical attraction.

These are all preferences though, if she is the right person she could be the complete opposite of all of these (except the cigarettes part).

I like girls that don't worry too much, have a great sense of humor, and find my major problems (Autism, for example) understandable. Also, I like girls that aren't so emotional, are smart, and have a lot of experience with hanging out with guys. There's probably a lot more I can think of personality-wise but I'll stop there. I like girls that have blonde hair and are not much shorter or taller than me.

I think I already found the perfect girl for me without trying, but I'm probably not going to ever be in a relationship with her, because a lot of people want to and try hard to get into a relationship with her. *sigh* Ouch. Seriously, I'm likely the only close guy-friend of hers that hasn't wanted to get into a relationship with her yet. Of course, I'll want to later, when I'm ready... All my active Vizzed friends already know who it is XD

For me its personality, I don't know how many boys I meant who were drop dead gorgeous but have an attitude of a 5 year old kid. I'm not a picky person and I wouldn't mind having the same likes such as playing video games and snuggling up after a movie. Trust is another thing and also reliability, if I need him for something he absolutely has to be there. He doesn't have to be smart, all he needs to do is win my heart.

Hair- Blonde/dirty blonde and long
Height- Anywhere from about a head shorter than me (im 5'10'' but still growing)
Eyes - Blue/green always get my attention, but honestly, it doesn't matter
Body- I wouldn't mind a girl with a larger chest that have a curved body, but those "obnoxiously huge chests" are kinda weird, and honestly slightly creepy ( like how did nature even make something that big? 0_0 ) As long as they have a healthy weight, weather because of sports, eating healthy, or just natural body type then I'm happy
Personality- Great smile, laughs, similar interests, smart, semi-coordinated, listens AND talks, encouraging, and just a good person in general.

This may seem like a daunting list, but remember these a things I find attractive. I definitely don't expect to find anyone with every single attribute that I listed or didn't list. I am definitely am flexible, so this is just a list of the things if I had to choose. 

I like girls who are feminine, but not fake or 'plastic'.

When I say "feminine" I don't mean I find it gross if a girl likes to get dirty, and be  'tom girl' sometimes; but I do like a lady. Someone who has class, has a good balance of taking care of their body, mind, appearance, attitude, posture, etc, but also can relax and be themselves. I like girls who are interesting, kind, and not obnoxious. She has to be powerful, hard working, and able to take charge of her life, but is OK being looked after sometimes. I'm not tremendously picky on her interests, as I am pretty much interested in everything.

Physically, I like smaller people. Short, slim, small framed, petite; I don't like large breasts and enormous hips. I also find smoking to be a turn off (to me, smoking looks very masculine).  Hair colour, eye colour, etc, really depends on the whole look... though I may be a little partial to brunettes.

I don't really have a type, but I do love red-hair. As silly as it sounds, I like a girl with confidence. A girl who's not afraid to tease me, and not afraid to tell me off if I deserve it. Honest, and blunt, but kind none the less.

I like girls that aren't rude,they should be healthy, educated, not to young or old(someone my age), and like things I like.

She has to have nice, crisp, lettuce cuts
Juicy and ripe tomatoes
and then she needs some fat, like bacon
All in between two buns.....mmm mm  MHMMMMMM
Did I mention she has to be a BLT?

wait.......were you thinking something else?

I want someone at least as thin as I am, and I am in good shape.

I would like someone who looks. . . good. Not spectacular, but good.

But I want them to dress simply, as to not draw attention to themselves.

As for the rest?


I just want someone with things in common, and who I can talk to, and just enjoy their company.

I really want someone who I can love in a more innocent way than lust.

The rest, I don't want to really decide in my mind. I feel like God will show me the right woman and I will be completely fulfilled the minute I see and get to know her.

But this could be false.

Morals I need to be pretty tight and in line with my own.

Values are the most important.

Then I need to have common goals.

And finally, interests.

I want someone who I, and only I can make happy, in that special kind of happiness that no one else can grasp.

I want real love, like Tails had for Cosmo, if I can use that example. but I think I'm getting a bit off topic here.

So long she's energetic. (my opposite.)

And optimistic. (my opposite sortof as well)

A go get'er

And just generally happy, I'll take her.

I sure would like some things in common to go with that though.

But most-ly. I want someone that I just really love. However that is worked out and formulates.
But I did get some good reading materiel on the subject. : '




Light Knight :

"but not fake or 'plastic'"

My words exactly.

I like women, who are women, and not trying to make themselves into a product with cream and such.

I say it's about 90%, if not more, personality. Granted I may have a few standards. I won't really go into it that much, but I'm just saying that I really like personality. If you're mean then of course I'm not going to like you no matter how you look. Crudeness, it's disgusting and nobody likes that. People who are nice tend to have my attention more often than not.

I don't really understand why there are mean people in the world, but more power to them. I hope they find someone just as mean as them and they can be mean to each other forever.

port753 : Loving that reply. xD
Well, I've already found more than what I want in my current relationship, but I should just post my tastes in men... meh. o3o
I don't give two donuts about looks, don't care if you're small, tall, large, buff, doesn't really matter to me.
All that really matters, which is cliche, is the personality. Yeah, no one likes a meanie... at all. Mean people are just simply outright unlikeable... no Nico doesn't count because unlike most people he actually knows when to stop and when to apologize... cause he's joking.
I'd honestly just look for a nice dude, but not annoyingly dumb. One of my pet peeves is me thinking up a joke but having my date ruin it... it's just baaaad. Also, my friends always monitor my relationships, and they make fun of anyone that isn't as smart as me that I date. hehe.
A model boyfriend though... would be someone taller than me, have a BIG fetish for that... a really buff dude that has a lot in common with me... and yes this is based off of one of my boyfriends. xD