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Have You Ever Started Liking Someone You Shouldn't

 

11-08-16 11:45 AM
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Have you ever started to like someone that you shouldn't like?

For example: a friend's girlfriend/boyfriend, a relative's girlfriend/boyfriend, a friend that was in love with someone else, liked someone else while you are in a relationship, or just started to like someone that you know you would most likely not have a chance to be with.

And what did you do about it? Did it change the way you acted around this person?
Have you ever started to like someone that you shouldn't like?

For example: a friend's girlfriend/boyfriend, a relative's girlfriend/boyfriend, a friend that was in love with someone else, liked someone else while you are in a relationship, or just started to like someone that you know you would most likely not have a chance to be with.

And what did you do about it? Did it change the way you acted around this person?
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All of my female friends in real life. Seriously, if i met one female friend, i started to like her. Not just in love, but as in friendship. But our bond just has to be stronger and i'm already in love with her. Of which was very risky as i fell in love with my last best friend, who was a 12-year old girl (soon turns 13). I know i sound weird if i say that, but i didn't mean it like that. Anyway, i seriously keep finding wrong people. Probably because of my life goal.
All of my female friends in real life. Seriously, if i met one female friend, i started to like her. Not just in love, but as in friendship. But our bond just has to be stronger and i'm already in love with her. Of which was very risky as i fell in love with my last best friend, who was a 12-year old girl (soon turns 13). I know i sound weird if i say that, but i didn't mean it like that. Anyway, i seriously keep finding wrong people. Probably because of my life goal.
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MarioLucarioFan64 : It's funny because for the most part, we don't admit when we like someone we shouldn't and I think this thread sort of proves that in a way lol. 

I think it's normal to feel some attraction or chemistry with friends of the opposite sex specially because they are getting closer to you than most people. 

I think we all fall for the wrong person at least once. What is your life goal?
MarioLucarioFan64 : It's funny because for the most part, we don't admit when we like someone we shouldn't and I think this thread sort of proves that in a way lol. 

I think it's normal to feel some attraction or chemistry with friends of the opposite sex specially because they are getting closer to you than most people. 

I think we all fall for the wrong person at least once. What is your life goal?
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A girl i work with,she likes anime and horror movies,we are such a match lol but can't date a co-worker,it is just wrong,but we are on good friendly terms,i would never ask her out,but she seems so perfect
A girl i work with,she likes anime and horror movies,we are such a match lol but can't date a co-worker,it is just wrong,but we are on good friendly terms,i would never ask her out,but she seems so perfect
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sonicbros : Isn't that just so tempting? So close yet so far. Though  I do think like you- dating coworkers can be very messy if there's a breakup involved and all the awkwardness afterwards.  Anime and horror movies- sounds like your clone -somehow I am sure she has great tanned  legs



What if she didn't work with you? Would you ask her out?





legacyme3 welp ain't you a box of secrets
sonicbros : Isn't that just so tempting? So close yet so far. Though  I do think like you- dating coworkers can be very messy if there's a breakup involved and all the awkwardness afterwards.  Anime and horror movies- sounds like your clone -somehow I am sure she has great tanned  legs



What if she didn't work with you? Would you ask her out?





legacyme3 welp ain't you a box of secrets
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jlove92 :  If she wasn't my co-worker,would definitely ask her out,and get rejected lol but who knows,we get on well,and possibly tanned legs,she wears pants all the time though lol
jlove92 :  If she wasn't my co-worker,would definitely ask her out,and get rejected lol but who knows,we get on well,and possibly tanned legs,she wears pants all the time though lol
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Yep. I don't mind sharing some things. But there are other times, where I just realize, less is really more.
jlove92 :

Yep. I don't mind sharing some things. But there are other times, where I just realize, less is really more.
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sonicbros : LOL I can see the pain in your word "pants". At the very least, you have something to look forward to at work- it's comforting to have a person you get along with.
I think that generally speaking, we create more "wrong scenarios" than perfect ones. We have an idea of what circumstances we'll say no to but, not always know what circumstances will "allow" us to be upfront and ask someone out. 

Though we don't need to date every person we like. That could be quite messy lol
sonicbros : LOL I can see the pain in your word "pants". At the very least, you have something to look forward to at work- it's comforting to have a person you get along with.
I think that generally speaking, we create more "wrong scenarios" than perfect ones. We have an idea of what circumstances we'll say no to but, not always know what circumstances will "allow" us to be upfront and ask someone out. 

Though we don't need to date every person we like. That could be quite messy lol
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Yes, yes I have. But I'm also not going to say anything about that, as it is something I rather not share about in public.
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All the time, of course it gets sad that nothing can happen about it though lol, but I don't let that get me down.
All the time, of course it gets sad that nothing can happen about it though lol, but I don't let that get me down.
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Eniitan : I think we all have that one crush at one point in our lives. It's understandable. But, thanks for sharing! I think we like more people than we admit to. It's just a normal reaction but, some of us don't act on those emotions at all but, rather let them "run their course" in a way lol.



zanderlex You Mr. are a flirt so I am sure you have many crushes here and there :-P That's the spirit; love can come in many forms but, just because we like someone it doesn't mean that we need to date that person. Sometimes liking someone and being friends is better and may last longer than dating.
Eniitan : I think we all have that one crush at one point in our lives. It's understandable. But, thanks for sharing! I think we like more people than we admit to. It's just a normal reaction but, some of us don't act on those emotions at all but, rather let them "run their course" in a way lol.



zanderlex You Mr. are a flirt so I am sure you have many crushes here and there :-P That's the spirit; love can come in many forms but, just because we like someone it doesn't mean that we need to date that person. Sometimes liking someone and being friends is better and may last longer than dating.
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Yes, quite recently, in fact.

That's all I have to say on that matter, because I'm embarrassed about it.
Yes, quite recently, in fact.

That's all I have to say on that matter, because I'm embarrassed about it.
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The last time that I developed a crush on someone I felt I "shouldn't" like was when I was about 21 I think, and I denied it to everybody including myself lol. We worked together so I thought if it didn't work out then work would be weird, so I made up my mind that it wasn't a good idea. Looking back it probably could've worked out, but at the time I also had an issue with the fact that he's a year younger than me (It was fine for other girls to date younger guys but not me, and I know, some of you are re-reading this in disbelief but to answer your question - yes, I was that closed-minded at the time haha).
The last time that I developed a crush on someone I felt I "shouldn't" like was when I was about 21 I think, and I denied it to everybody including myself lol. We worked together so I thought if it didn't work out then work would be weird, so I made up my mind that it wasn't a good idea. Looking back it probably could've worked out, but at the time I also had an issue with the fact that he's a year younger than me (It was fine for other girls to date younger guys but not me, and I know, some of you are re-reading this in disbelief but to answer your question - yes, I was that closed-minded at the time haha).
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jlove92 : Pretty much every girl I develope a crush for is someone I am not in a position to date, be it coworker, friend's girlfriend/crush, or just completely different friend groups lol

hi btw guys, it's been awhile :3
jlove92 : Pretty much every girl I develope a crush for is someone I am not in a position to date, be it coworker, friend's girlfriend/crush, or just completely different friend groups lol

hi btw guys, it's been awhile :3
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At one point during middle school I had somewhat of a crush on my classmate's girlfriend (to be fair, so did half the guys from our year). She probably noticed when we talked (I get red very easily lol) but neither of us acted on it so it doesn't really matter.
I'm actually on friendly terms with her now but I'm not interested in her anymore. 

Oh and the generic 'young teen student is in awe after seeing his new young, pretty English teacher'
Plenty of those moments.
At one point during middle school I had somewhat of a crush on my classmate's girlfriend (to be fair, so did half the guys from our year). She probably noticed when we talked (I get red very easily lol) but neither of us acted on it so it doesn't really matter.
I'm actually on friendly terms with her now but I'm not interested in her anymore. 

Oh and the generic 'young teen student is in awe after seeing his new young, pretty English teacher'
Plenty of those moments.
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I'm a 16 years old (ahem) girl, and had a crush on a 12 or 13 year old girl. Still have a sliiiiiiiiiiiiight crush but so sligh that I don't care too much.

Hint: I have a girlfriend. I also had a crush on a 14 (now 15) yo male, ...another 14 yo male whom I now absolutely hate...A slight crus on a 21 (now 22) yo male and uhm it was weird.

Now I only like my gf though, so that's good. Crushes are really weird and hard :l



Edit -
Well rereading the post, "now I only like" "still have a sliiiiiiight crush on..."

Those two don't fit in a single post. lol

Edit 2 -
I kinda still like the 12 or 13 yo girl and like idc anymore, ages are bullwords IMO and for this I don't care.

Would rather keep it to myself though, IRL at least
I'm a 16 years old (ahem) girl, and had a crush on a 12 or 13 year old girl. Still have a sliiiiiiiiiiiiight crush but so sligh that I don't care too much.

Hint: I have a girlfriend. I also had a crush on a 14 (now 15) yo male, ...another 14 yo male whom I now absolutely hate...A slight crus on a 21 (now 22) yo male and uhm it was weird.

Now I only like my gf though, so that's good. Crushes are really weird and hard :l



Edit -
Well rereading the post, "now I only like" "still have a sliiiiiiight crush on..."

Those two don't fit in a single post. lol

Edit 2 -
I kinda still like the 12 or 13 yo girl and like idc anymore, ages are bullwords IMO and for this I don't care.

Would rather keep it to myself though, IRL at least
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Yeah, my girlfriend used to date someone when I started liking her. I kept it to myself and it really hurt but I was glad she was happy with him. Though eventually they broke up and I gave her time, I eventually told her how I felt and well......the rest is history
Yeah, my girlfriend used to date someone when I started liking her. I kept it to myself and it really hurt but I was glad she was happy with him. Though eventually they broke up and I gave her time, I eventually told her how I felt and well......the rest is history
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Yes.
I started liking my best friend's girlfriend.

I convinced her to break up with him and go out with me.
My best friend disappeared for a few years. Turns out he left for the Air Force without telling people.

In the end, it didn't work out. We are still friends though and I got back in contact with my best friend.

Yes.
I started liking my best friend's girlfriend.

I convinced her to break up with him and go out with me.
My best friend disappeared for a few years. Turns out he left for the Air Force without telling people.

In the end, it didn't work out. We are still friends though and I got back in contact with my best friend.

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Yep, definitely have done this a couple of times, and especially more recently it seems.

One girl was someone I worked with, and we'd talk occasionally when we'd be working together. Honestly, she's like the opposite of what I would want to go for (a bit wild let's just say), but something about her just really got to me, and I just couldn't help but feel something for her. It drove me nuts too until I just finally came out and told her how I felt. Unfortunately (or, I guess fortunately for me), she was already in a relationship. She's moved on to another job, but I still see her now and then when she comes in to the store I work at.

Another girl was someone I was (and still) good friends with. This was definitely one of those "I shouldn't be liking her like this" situations. Don't take that like she's a bad girl or something. In fact, she's the exact opposite of the previous girl I mentioned, just all around perfect, nice, sweet... I could go on and on about her... But the thing is, we only know each other online, and I knew she wouldn't be okay with an online relationship. I also knew I wasn't the kind of guy she would ever want to be in a relationship with. Still, I went ahead and told her how I felt, but also told her that I knew we were just friends and wanted to continue to be friends. She understood, and we're still good friends. I still like her obviously, but I just keep moving on.

There may be other situations like these, but I think those two are pretty good examples for me.
Yep, definitely have done this a couple of times, and especially more recently it seems.

One girl was someone I worked with, and we'd talk occasionally when we'd be working together. Honestly, she's like the opposite of what I would want to go for (a bit wild let's just say), but something about her just really got to me, and I just couldn't help but feel something for her. It drove me nuts too until I just finally came out and told her how I felt. Unfortunately (or, I guess fortunately for me), she was already in a relationship. She's moved on to another job, but I still see her now and then when she comes in to the store I work at.

Another girl was someone I was (and still) good friends with. This was definitely one of those "I shouldn't be liking her like this" situations. Don't take that like she's a bad girl or something. In fact, she's the exact opposite of the previous girl I mentioned, just all around perfect, nice, sweet... I could go on and on about her... But the thing is, we only know each other online, and I knew she wouldn't be okay with an online relationship. I also knew I wasn't the kind of guy she would ever want to be in a relationship with. Still, I went ahead and told her how I felt, but also told her that I knew we were just friends and wanted to continue to be friends. She understood, and we're still good friends. I still like her obviously, but I just keep moving on.

There may be other situations like these, but I think those two are pretty good examples for me.
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