Some people have a black or no heart. You spend and invest all your time with that special someone, but then come to find they're spending it with someone else. They might as well tell you they just want to be single and date around until they're ready to be committed.

No I haven't. And perhaps it would make a difference if I ever got caught but I've cheated on various people. And maybe that's the reason I've only had one serious relationship. Go on, call me heartless because I certainly deserve it.

Well. Since, i never been in a relationship yet..No i havent been cheated on. Im no loner...i just too shy around everyone. (And i dont trust the world.....im a bit anti-social because of that)

I have never been cheated one before simply because I haven't gone out with anyone yet. Like supercool, I prefer to be alone and away from others, plus I just haven't come across the right person yet. Hypothetically speaking, if I were to ever find out that my "girlfriend" was cheating on me and she was seeing some other guy, I would try to make their life a living hell for a while, but after that, I would get over it and move on because if they are low enough to cheat on you like that, then they obviously aren't worth your time....Thankfully this hasn't happened to me yet. 

I'm older than most folks on here and I have been around the block a few times.  I dated a few girls, had some experiences, got married, and so on.

Really, cheating is kind of a two way street.  If your significant other is going elsewhere for physical or emotional attention, it means you're missing something.  If a girl or guy cheats on you, it isn't specifically your fault, but if you're not meeting their needs, something is wrong with the relationship and they try to find an answer elsewhere.

I'm extremely empathetic to people and I'm very social.  I can read emotions and feelings in the way people talk and their expressions and body language.  I never had a girl cheat on me because I could detect problems early in their stages and solve them by either changing my own actions or ending the relationship.  If a girl wasn't interested in me any more, I would say, 'It was fun," and be off.  

Saying that, I did cheat on a girl once.  I felt like she took me for granted and I wasn't getting any attention from her.  She would ignore me at school and talk to her friends and she basically left me alone.  Another girl came along, told me she really liked me and paid all sorts of attention to me.  I started kissing her instead.  After a while, my girlfriend figured it out, got mad, dumped me, and I started dating the new girl.

It was a good call.  Bad relationships are terrible for the soul.

And for you folks who aren't dating and like to be alone, I recommend (you didn't ask so don't take it at face value) to practice dating and socializing with others.  If you don't practice, you won't be good at it and when you really want a relationship, you may have problems because you haven't learned how to interact with others on an intimate level.

Just my two cents.

I haven't been in a relationship yet, but I'd seem like I'd be cheated on a lot. I'm usually quiet and with the lack of communication, they would cheat on me. I might not even make a big deal of it, if they cheat on me, then it's not love.

Nah, I have never been in a relationship before, but do not think that I have not been trying, necessarily. It is just that around here, there are very few people to choose from. The odds are really low to begin with, and then you also have the number of people that it might actually be worth having a relationship with. It seems as if in this tiny school of mine, I really have no chance. Not that I care too much, but it would be nice to actually have some experience before I go off into the real world.

Never had a girlfriend.
Just a test because I want to know if it works. I did the bolt format.
Hope it works.
Also never had a boyfriend (I'm into girls anyway. lol)

I'm 11... So of course not. And i'm not really anti-social.  But I do think that I will get cheated on. And I have NO plans of getting a  GF until I'm... 16 or something. I don't get the point of getting a Quote on quote relationship on my age.

I do know a few that have a relationship that are my age. I find it... really stupid. But about that cheating thing. no. Never had a relationship ( Well when i was 5 I did but that is really besides the point and  I call it ''Peuterliefde'' That's dutch for ''kindergartenersLove'' I'm brilliant I know.

imamonster :
Peuterliefde?
Yeah about that... I think the age of peuter is 2-3, Kleuter is 4-6, and when you're 6 you start the first class of basic school.
Soo, how to say Kleuterliefde in english? xD (Maybe I have been going off-topic.. Imamonster if you want to discuss about that, come back to chat xD)

Rodzilla : I have been cheated on! and I have cheated! Im Happy to share both storys!

I have been cheated on once and didn't mind too much cause when I was going out with the guy it didn't seem like he was too serious. I later got proof from one of my close friends and decided to end things the very next day. He was not worth it.

I have, in fact, been cheated on by my ex. Although I was taking the relationship very seriously, she was playing me behind my back with multiple other guys. Although to be fair she did the same thing to each of us: tell us we were the only one, and restrict communication and our access to her personal life well enough to hide each other. I was stupidly gullible and fell for it amidst all the "I love you"s and claims that she felt bad for not being able to spend much time with me. I eventually found out because she wasn't careful enough with her Facebook (which she claimed to not use) and she showed up on a mutual friend's post and from there I uncovered her deception. I also, several months later, found out that a few of my friends were her exes and had had the same thing done to them...one of them at the same time as me. So after talking about creating a "Fletcher's exes" support group and showing up to harass her at work we just kinda dropped it and got over her.

But all's well that ends well, and I'd say this ended well cause I got out of that awful relationship and am now with the girl of my dreams.

Honestly while I don't know as a fact I wouldn't be surprised if I have been cheated on. Two of my exes who I had my closer relationships with were awfully flirty with other guys if I wasn't around from what people have showed me. I myself have never cheated I find myself very committed while in a relationship  however I am flirty with my girl friends but in a joking manner. Ive only ever had other girls catch my eye twice while in a relationship and snapped myself out of that thought process as quick as I could.

I had a boyfriend once that I no longer wanted to date,
but otherwise, had no other reason to break up with him.
He went to lunch one day, so I went through his back pack without him knowing.
I found a poem he wrote for another girl and used it as a reason to dump him.

Yes i have been cheated on before by an ex bf, but he was a womanizer though. He made is too obvious he was into another girl without breaking up with me first.

I'm a bit hesitant to actually post about this because it's something very personal to me so I'm going to leave out details and such for a few reasons but mainly because this is a "family friendly" site.
It was the same year I graduated, I thought I was in love with this guy and I also thought the feeling was mutual. Obviously it was not. The whole experience of it still affects me though that's the main problem I have with it, it makes me so self conscious about everything. 

Nope, not to my knowledge. I've never cheated on anyone either.

I've been in three relationships. All three were good friendships that evolved into something more.

I feel like that's the reason why I've never had to deal with this.

Yup, I have, actually. It's how my first serious girlfriend broke up with me. She just brought him to class, and introduced him to me as her new boyfriend. 

I have once. Or rather a few times from the same girl
I didn't find out till later.
Her ex had warned me she was like that, but I ignored him until I caught her in the act