i love my parents cause they care for me and keep healthy

I figured since I didn't elaborate much on my parents I would take this time to kind of explain my reasons on why I like my Mom more than my Dad. So I'll start with how my relationship is with my Mom.

My Mom has always done any and everything to protect me and my siblings. She would even take any kind of emotional or physical harm to protect us kids. Sometimes it didn't work but she tried anyway. After my Dad was out of the picture, she took on the role of both Mother and Father, and she worked full-time. She always had time for us too. I don't know how she did it. Over the years, she has definitely become the most important person in my life and my very best friends. And that's for so many reasons.

Now as for my Dad, I'll try not to ramble on too much. But he is a very abusive person. He abuses others mentally and physically. He will yell and shout. He will hit someone just for the sake of it. He seems to always want to feel superior and above others. He loves to control people as well. It was a living hell living with him. But eventually I didn't have to deal with that anymore. After all of the wrongs he's done, he finally got caught and he's now in prison for child rape/abuse. I don't have anything to do with him. I don't even try bothering to have a relationship with him. He will only pretend to be interested in having a relationship if it benefits him, otherwise he could care less.

I love my family. I don't have a strong connection with my cousins. But my closest family member is my dad. He's such strong willed and smart person that i feel better about myself whenever i'm around him, he just oozes with wisdom and knowledge. Me and my dad will get into the occasional fight but what Spouse/Parent doesn't? Me and my dad say this too each other all the time when were having trouble he always says to me "Remember, whither you like it or not I'm your bestfriend, And i'm always on your side" and sometimes i feel like maybe i take him for granted. But in the end he is my dad and i'll always love him. I would share my personal story as to why i'm so close with my dad but i dont know if the people here would like that.

I have a love - hate relationship with my mom.


My dad I know for sure I absolutely hate. He's a womanizing little scumbag, halfway across the other side of Canada in jail.

My mom though, I just feel like she honestly just likes my brother more. She never tries to engage with me at all. I always have to try and engage to her; and when I do half the time she just brushes me off. It's not a good feeling at all.

I like my parent , I can even give you many reasons , here are some :

Because they will be there for you through anything. (And love you unconditionally.)
Because you can talk to them about anything.
Because they raised you. (And fed you, clothed you, put a roof over your head.)
Because they taught you... (how to play a sport, how to fix something, how to be responsible, your morals, etc.)
Because they were there for you through... (a breakup, a death of a family member or friend, a hard time in school.)
Because they let you be yourself. (Hobby-wise, sexuality-wise, career-wise, etc.)
Because they don't judge you. (Can be same reasons as above.)
Because they can make you... (laugh, smile, cheer up.)
Because they will listen to anything you have to say. (No matter what subject or for how long.)
Because they gave or made you... (a sibling, a gift, your room, a pet.)
Because you can always trust them, more than anyone else.
Because they are good parents. (Not in any way abusive, neglectful, too punishing, never yell at you.)
Because you wouldn't exist if it weren't for them.

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But to stay on topic : I really love my parents because they make me happy and support me in every thing i do except for doing bad thing , that I don't do , ( Only on some occasions , but it's very rare that i do bad things ) . 

I do like them..may get annoyed at times but that is just part of the parent-child relationship.

Granted, there may be times when I will disagree with them on something (an argument topic) and say "man! *grumpy face* I hate my parents"...but that is just because I am an emotional teenager doing emotional teenager things

Moral of the story: Unless they did something horrendous to you...you love your parents. Whether you like it or not

CarBitGTSaxen : I love my parents… We’ve been through a lot of ups and downs together as well as individually in my relationship with both of them. Despite the ups and downs and despite me going through a lot of stuff during my teen years which can be attributed to what was going on with my parents at the time, I still love them and don’t blame them for anything that I went through. The fact is that a lot of what I went through in my teens although attributed to what was going on family wise (My parents were separated for the majority of my teen years) it’s got to fall on my shoulders.

One thing I wish I was able to do back then was be able to handle my stress better. I was put in the middle of what was going on with them and as a result I was pretty much playing referee most of the time I wasn’t in school and when I could get away from that I really wasn’t responsible and made a lot of irrational decisions. As I said I do not blame them at all for that. It’s on me. In the years since I got my wake-up call I have tried to straighten up as best as I can but I won’t lie it wasn’t an overnight thing and it did take time for me to admit to myself that I needed to straighten up. I am still in that process as I am trying to finish school somehow and basically fill the gaps of things I can do.

As for my mistakes during that period of my life, I have a lot of regrets. Regrets as far as not being able to remember a lot of what went on beyond being in the middle of what was going on at home, regrets from a standpoint of I most likely acted in a manner that is not the person I am now and is someone that I would consider unbecoming of me, regrets in that because I was an immature, young and dumb kid I was a BS’er to a degree and probably treated some people badly. It has made me very reluctant to reach out to people simply because I don’t know who I’m on good terms with and am frankly afraid to open that door to find out even all these years later.

Through it all my parents have been there for me and have supported me as I’ve tried to more or less get my life back on track. Although I have been through a lot and have made my mistakes and have my regrets, in the overall scheme of things I consider myself to be a lucky man because I have both my parents and even though things were rough for almost six years of my life because of what was going on between them I still had both of them supporting me even when I didn’t want to realize that or fully appreciate it. I have come a long way but my work’s not done yet. There is still a lot of things I need to do in order to feel as if I’ve come back fully. Lord willing I will get there.

Something in the middle, i mean i like them but they are a pair of douches who just like to see their sons and daughter suffer in psychological ways. At least i know my dad just do it whit out know because he doesn't have common sense, he thinks that only will make us stronger. But my mom, Man my mom is crazy in some various ways, i know that she likes to do it, heel she have said to me. I like that they give me life, and have give me a good style of life... But is just i don't like them, to hug me because i don't know if my dad will punch me or say something in the next second, or my mom, will insult me in my face. Is weird because in the last years, they have got nicer, but i just don't like it when they try to give me affect because i don't know is they are trying to plot, to do me somethings.

I hate-like them, they are good in someways, but they like, to torture their son, and insult them and make them miserable... for a twisted reason. I do certainty shout the fault to them because i can't get really comfortable with any relationship, man woman, friends, girlfriend, because i don't trust anyone, and i don't like showing, how i are....

-.-, Really sometimes, i like to think what happen to them because, well my dad is explicable, but my mom, no my mom is sadist, but she have a good life.

I don't understand how one could hate there parents (given the fact they gave them life, clothed their backs and fed them.)
Unless they hate living, then its really inarguable even if their parents had been a little unfair to them.

That is how I feel about mine. Though we've all been through a lot, I love my mom and my father.

I love my father to death but i absolutely hate my mother.  She constantly emotionally abuses me and my sisters, I'm the oldest and most outspoken so it doesn't affect me much anymore but it really upsets my sisters.  She constantly calls us stupid, fat, etc. , for my birthday she bought me laxatives, and lipozene plus she got me half off coupons to get liposuction (I'm only 190 and 5'3" just had a baby last year) she's constantly hot and cold and she'll come home and throw everything from the counters on the floor and tell us to pick it up.  she never disciplines and when she does she overdoes it and isn't consistent so then she gets more mad at my sister and she always picks favorites.  In my opinion you shouldn't have kids if you're just going to treat them like crap or hate them.  and yes I've tried speaking to her about it multiple times and she just starts being really rude an sarcastic so sometimes i just talk about her on my facebook and that really irks her and then she notices what she's doing and she'll cool down for a few weeks.

warmaker : Love that answer! Made me laugh my butt off, and it's so true.

I like my parents. I also love them very much. They're not perfect, but no one is.

We may have our good times and bad times, but I love my parents no matter what.

I love my parents and if you say you hate them then you deserve to get your but worn the heck out.(I miss cursing  )

I don't like my parents, I love 'em! They may give out decisions I don't like, or give chores to me, but I'll always love them. No question. I know that they'll alway's feel the same way about me! XD

My parents are alright, the best thing about them is they never went all mega fascist parents on me...they let me form my own opinions, let me decide what I think is right and wrong. Which is always nice.

Sometimes they do things that annoy me, but then again that's people for you. Like my dad, I hate how he treats the ferret like dirt because he doesn't like playing with her....all she is doing is trying to be friendly...but no, he keeps on flinging her about, shaking her off him....why he can't just put her down when she tries to play with him I don't know...it's not like she is constantly climbing up him.

I don't hate or like my parents I love them there always there when I need them and always got my back when I'm in trouble