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Is it possible for a person to have two crushes at the same time ?

 

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I am just curious. Very very very curious. Please share with me your intimate knowledge on the human emotional system.
I am just curious. Very very very curious. Please share with me your intimate knowledge on the human emotional system.
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Absolutely.

In the novel The Three Musketeers, D'Artagnan says he loves Constance with his heart, but Mylady de Winter his is mind. It may not last forever, but it's possible.

Why, are you suffering this?
Absolutely.

In the novel The Three Musketeers, D'Artagnan says he loves Constance with his heart, but Mylady de Winter his is mind. It may not last forever, but it's possible.

Why, are you suffering this?
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Of course.  You can have five crushes at the same time.  It's all about attraction.  If you're attracted to different people then you like them.  And you can be attracted to more than one person at any given time.

Maybe you can only have one TRUE LOVE!!!!!!!!  Or you can have a few.  Or many.  Every person's emotional system is different and there is no correct answer to the question.
Of course.  You can have five crushes at the same time.  It's all about attraction.  If you're attracted to different people then you like them.  And you can be attracted to more than one person at any given time.

Maybe you can only have one TRUE LOVE!!!!!!!!  Or you can have a few.  Or many.  Every person's emotional system is different and there is no correct answer to the question.
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warmaker : Somehow, you managed to give a perfect answer by refusing to answer either way. Hats off to the gentleman!
warmaker : Somehow, you managed to give a perfect answer by refusing to answer either way. Hats off to the gentleman!
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warmaker : I would be inclined to agree. The funny thing is that human society is so obsessed with "one true love" that those who don't fit into it are made to feel that they're some sort of freak or whore or somehow incapable of love.

I find this obsession rather weird since we're still scratching the surface of human attraction.
warmaker : I would be inclined to agree. The funny thing is that human society is so obsessed with "one true love" that those who don't fit into it are made to feel that they're some sort of freak or whore or somehow incapable of love.

I find this obsession rather weird since we're still scratching the surface of human attraction.
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It can be easy but hard at the same time, mostly because it’s really depends on who you have a crush on, because you want to go with someone, but at the same time, you want to be with the other person.
It can be easy but hard at the same time, mostly because it’s really depends on who you have a crush on, because you want to go with someone, but at the same time, you want to be with the other person.
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Of cource I am currently having a crush on about 3 girls at the moment. One for being pure sexy, another for being really nice towards me and the last is a mix of the 2. I do not think it is a big problem or any sort of problem. The drama only starts to take place when you start doing that while in a relationship!
Of cource I am currently having a crush on about 3 girls at the moment. One for being pure sexy, another for being really nice towards me and the last is a mix of the 2. I do not think it is a big problem or any sort of problem. The drama only starts to take place when you start doing that while in a relationship!
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Edit: I guess I should've read the responses before saying pretty much what Warmaker said.

Of course. A crush is basically just finding someone attractive. You can be attracted to many different people. It's only bad if you try and go out with more than one person.?

Why do you ask? Do you have a crush on more than one person or are you just wondering how we feel about it?
Edit: I guess I should've read the responses before saying pretty much what Warmaker said.

Of course. A crush is basically just finding someone attractive. You can be attracted to many different people. It's only bad if you try and go out with more than one person.?

Why do you ask? Do you have a crush on more than one person or are you just wondering how we feel about it?
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Mr. Zed : For me personally I have multiple crushes but that doesn't mean you have to act on them, cause sometimes once I get to know that person my attitude changes and I move on, that being said take it easy and relax plenty of fish in the sea
Mr. Zed : For me personally I have multiple crushes but that doesn't mean you have to act on them, cause sometimes once I get to know that person my attitude changes and I move on, that being said take it easy and relax plenty of fish in the sea
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They are only crushes. There is no problem with liking 2 different people. Who choose to act on is your choice. Word of advice though. I would think you would have a better chance, and life, with a person who isn't a total "Prissy Princess" and thinks that they are the center of the universe. So if it's between "That guy/girl is sexy" and "I like that guy/girl for his/her personality" then it's probably safer to go for the latter.

As for my final answer, I say it's absolutely normal to have 2,3 even 25 crushes at once. Depends on how many people you've met and/or still know.
They are only crushes. There is no problem with liking 2 different people. Who choose to act on is your choice. Word of advice though. I would think you would have a better chance, and life, with a person who isn't a total "Prissy Princess" and thinks that they are the center of the universe. So if it's between "That guy/girl is sexy" and "I like that guy/girl for his/her personality" then it's probably safer to go for the latter.

As for my final answer, I say it's absolutely normal to have 2,3 even 25 crushes at once. Depends on how many people you've met and/or still know.
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Men you need to learn to rise above crushes.  As someone stated a crush is simply finding someone attractive, well I hate to break it to you guys but in our species the woman gets to chose the mate.  If you are crushing on a woman, many times they won't think it is flattering unless they are already eyeing you as a prospective mate.  Now if you realize a crush for a simple attraction you can keep your romantic feelings out of friendships with women you like and avoiding yourself hurt feelings, while still allowing a chance for something more to blossom.
Men you need to learn to rise above crushes.  As someone stated a crush is simply finding someone attractive, well I hate to break it to you guys but in our species the woman gets to chose the mate.  If you are crushing on a woman, many times they won't think it is flattering unless they are already eyeing you as a prospective mate.  Now if you realize a crush for a simple attraction you can keep your romantic feelings out of friendships with women you like and avoiding yourself hurt feelings, while still allowing a chance for something more to blossom.
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Why not? Some people have multiple "partners", don't they?
Why not? Some people have multiple "partners", don't they?
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I see that sort of stuff all the time in my school and outside as well, and frankly, if you don't do anything serious, it is perfectly fine to have two Crushes.
I see that sort of stuff all the time in my school and outside as well, and frankly, if you don't do anything serious, it is perfectly fine to have two Crushes.
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Is it possible for a person to have two crushes at the same time ?, well technically speaking yes it is possible to have two crushes since your not committed to or "with" either crush. Actually you could flirt with multiple crushes at the same time if you really wanted to since you don't go out with them and or date either crush. Now is it necessarily the smart thing to do (flirt with two different people) well no its not (especially with females) because in the end you'll find that you just end up with neither of the two girls you like considering both of the girls will think your a "player" and will try to get with any female.
Is it possible for a person to have two crushes at the same time ?, well technically speaking yes it is possible to have two crushes since your not committed to or "with" either crush. Actually you could flirt with multiple crushes at the same time if you really wanted to since you don't go out with them and or date either crush. Now is it necessarily the smart thing to do (flirt with two different people) well no its not (especially with females) because in the end you'll find that you just end up with neither of the two girls you like considering both of the girls will think your a "player" and will try to get with any female.
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I believe it is possible to have two crushes at the same time, and I am sure it is okay to have that too. You can think you want to be with one person, but feel you want to be with another one. Just my thought though.
I believe it is possible to have two crushes at the same time, and I am sure it is okay to have that too. You can think you want to be with one person, but feel you want to be with another one. Just my thought though.
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Sure, you can be attracted to more than one person at a time. You can't control who or what your body is attracted to.
Sure, you can be attracted to more than one person at a time. You can't control who or what your body is attracted to.
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Yeah it is certainly possible to like 2 people at once. I mean you can like 2 people, but I don't think you should commit to a relationship with both of those people if you understand what I am trying to say here. 

It is perfectly fine to have 2 crushes in my opinion, as long as you don't do anything stupid or senseless as zander said, then it is fine to like 2 people at the same time.

I just don't think that you should be committed to both of those 2 people because that is just asking for trouble, you can always talk with them, like hem and hang out with them, but as far as relationships go, I don't think it would be a wise idea to go with 2 people. Just my opinion on that. Interesting topic by the way. 
Yeah it is certainly possible to like 2 people at once. I mean you can like 2 people, but I don't think you should commit to a relationship with both of those people if you understand what I am trying to say here. 

It is perfectly fine to have 2 crushes in my opinion, as long as you don't do anything stupid or senseless as zander said, then it is fine to like 2 people at the same time.

I just don't think that you should be committed to both of those 2 people because that is just asking for trouble, you can always talk with them, like hem and hang out with them, but as far as relationships go, I don't think it would be a wise idea to go with 2 people. Just my opinion on that. Interesting topic by the way. 
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Yeah. It's possible to like more than one person. Just be sure to think with your brain and make smart choices though. I've actually had that problem before, where physically you like one, but mentally you like the other. Unfoutrainately they both moved away. But if you want advice I would say to choose the one you like mentally.
Yeah. It's possible to like more than one person. Just be sure to think with your brain and make smart choices though. I've actually had that problem before, where physically you like one, but mentally you like the other. Unfoutrainately they both moved away. But if you want advice I would say to choose the one you like mentally.
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