Foe me, sometimes... I just... CARE too much!!! *sheds tear* /sarcasm

Really though, Honestly is mine. No, seriously. I will literally put the NEED for honesty above every single other consequence that may be caused from that honesty.

I'm not afraid to appear abrasive. I'm not afraid to sound arrogant. I'm not afraid to cause conflict. If someone wants my opinion, or a question answered, count on me to say it honestly. Above all consequences.

I've ruined relationships, almost got in multiple fights, caused my best friend to despise me, caused breakups (both my own and other people's), and drove multiple wedges between me and my own family. All because I'd rather do ANYTHING except lie.

Makes it really difficult to make friends. And keep them.

So, now that that's off my chest, what's YOUR deepest flaw?

My deepest flaw (is it really a flaw though) is that I don't have a lot of empathy or anything like that.

Yeah, otherwise I'm pretty much good. That's the only thing that people particularly wouldn't like about me

I can be a little bit arrogant at times in not asking for help when I need it. No idea why but I have been like that since I was a kid. Also being too blunt which can be a good thing but there are times where it isn't beneficial.

Im afraid to take chances if i have to risk something, my life is probably better now if i take the chances that given to me in the past lol

lol there`s a pretty solid list to choose from, but if I had to go with the top one I`d probably say avoidance. I avoid anything until it is literally a thorn piercing through the other side of my body. I avoid awkward situations like the plague, I re-schedule doctor appointments if I don`t feel like dealing with it, etc. It`s something I`m working on.

My biggest flaw is probably that I'm a massive flirt.

I don't think I have to go into any more detail than that.

My DEEPEST flaw's probably that I'm too nosy, probably why I'm really good at listening to other people's problems. 

I have literally no discipline or self control.

Literally none. I actually have trouble getting myself to start something that I *want* to do.

My biggest flaw is my inability to display empathy. I find it hard to comfort others when needed, and I'm just not much of an emotional person, never have been either. It isn't that I don't try to comfort someone when it's needed, but I'm not very good at comforting people by seeing things from their viewpoint. I can listen and understand other perspectives just fine, but I struggle to be of much help in these situations.

Another flaw is that I find it hard to get things done at time. This is largely due to being depressed, but it requires a colossal amount of effort to do even the simplest of things. For those that don't know, depression is very taxing and it can lead to loss of a person's interests, concentration, and behavior among man other things.

Those are my two most notable flaws...

My DEEPEST flaw has got to be that I am really nervous around people even if, sometimes, they're people I've talked to before. I am especially nervous when I make an oral presentation at school, but, usually, everyone is nervous at those.

My flaw is indifferance. I seem so detached and unworldly people avoid me instinctively and actively dislike me. It's sad.....

My biggest flaw is that I'm a A-hole that have no filter when talking to people so sometimes I can be rude without thinking of it and don't mean it. Also got a big temper so can get angry quick, but over the years I have learned to control it the best way I can

I have been told it is either of the following:

1) I am far too forgiving. People have been horrible to me, used me, walked all over me, done things others have wanted to kill them for... and I have forgiven them. Even when I really shouldn't. I've stayed in abusive relationships and toxic friendships far longer than I should, even to the detriment of my mental and emotional well-being, because I kept finding ways to forgive.

2) I am incredibly judgemental of myself. Probably relating to internalizing of the above mentioned forgiving problem... I tended to turn a lot of it inward and blame myself for the problems happening. As a result... well... you know that little negative voice in the back of your mind that criticizes you? Yeah... mine is downright vicious. Like... trolls on the darkest section of Reddit vicious.

My biggest flaw would have to be my incredible social awkwardness...

I've lived a sheltered life you could say (I was home schooled, so I've rarely been away from my home without my family). Growing up, I had a couple of friends, but, unfortunately, I didn't do much with them since I was usually pretty shy around people, especially people my age. I never went over to anyone's house, and never invited anyone over to my house. The only time I really got to hang out with anyone was maybe to hang out with them after Church (since Church was one of the only ways I could actually meet people my age). There would be other places I'd go, like the library, but I tended to stick to myself or close to my family usually in more unfamiliar places. I just was at home, either with my family, or in my room, just doing my own thing.

Now that I'm an adult and have a job, I've gotten somewhat better, but I'm still incredibly socially awkward... I'd say I have more friends now than I did when I was a kid, but I still usually only talk to them when I'm at work (since I usually still stay at home unless I'm at work nowadays). I want to be more outgoing, but, at the same time, I usually just want to stay in my room and be by myself...

I know I'm not going to get far in life if I keep to myself like this, but...I still feel uncomfortable in social situations. Even worse, I tend to get incredibly nervous in places with a lot of people I'm unfamiliar with, so I just seem to be going nowhere fast...

My deepest flaw is a deep, dark secret. ^^0;; Another flaw is not explaining myself for a lot of what I do, which often causes people to misunderstand my intentions half of the time, which then ends up making them ask me to explain myself anyways and I have to either tell them I can't or just simply maintain my silence which only strains our relationship. I guess one example of this would be when people somehow end up thinking I'm trying to take over the world or something due to some of my actions, and I let them think what they will because I don't have the time or energy to explain to them what they want to know in a way that would satisfy them/with sufficient detail. For some cases, people never learn about what actually happened until years later, if they even manage to figure it out at all. I consider this a flaw mainly because more often than not, people end up becoming wary of me for the wrong reasons. -.-

Is it fair to say every single thing mentioned here already? Because that would be an honest answer lol ... 

If I had to pick just one thing though, I guess it would be procrastination. I put things off too much. If it's something I don't want to deal with, even only to the slightest degree, I will put it off and put it off until the absolute very last second I think I can get away with, while still being able to ( hopefully ) meet the deadline. 

This results in a lot of rushed work I could've easily gotten done in a much more timely manner, as well as doing a little better job of it. Most of the time, out of sheer habit, I'll refuse to cut corners to get something done more quickly, which ends up with everything still being done well, but still just late for the deadline despite my best efforts ( in that remaining slot of time, of course lol ). 

A lot of the problems in my life could easily be solved if I just had more initiative. I'm not lazy ( for the most part anyway lol ), I just like doing things on my own time to the point it causes issues XD 

My biggest flaw is probably a combination of my temper and the fact that I honestly care way too much.  

Yeah, I know that's a very weird combination.  Basically, I try to be very caring.  I put my friends and loved ones before my own well being a lot of the time, really trying my hardest to help them out, even if it drains me.  I do this because the feeling of being there for them when they're down fills me with a sense of usefulness I guess.  But on that other hand, I have a very bad temper that can surface very quickly.

Let me tell you.... those two things combined can lead to some very interesting results... 

I have been working hard on the temper issues though at least.  

My deepest flaw would be that I care to much about people. This isn't necessarily a bad thing for others but for me it can be a bad thing when someone emotionally hurts me, which happens often from many sources.

Zeldisaster : I can't see honesty as a deep flaw. If you had a relationship end because you were honest, you probably wouldn't have enjoyed that relationship all that much anyway.

You may be tactless. And you take joy in telling people 'the truth' because you don't hold back. Those are flaws, when you aren't kind about telling someone how something is. But being honest for the sense of being honest has nothing wrong with it.

My biggest flaw is that I plan well, I have a nice idea of what I'm doing, and I get distracted. I'm good at work and I get around to it but I wait until the last minute. I procrastinate, then panic and rush to get things done. Rarely are things completed ahead of time and I'm working hard to stay after my tasks since I know they will be finished. But I don't do them well in advance and it stresses me when the time comes. I always tell myself I can get it done, but in five minutes from now, not now. I want to do something else instead of that right now.

I'm struggling but I'm working at it. I'm sure it'll be what I need to work on the rest of my life but at least I know there's a problem so I can plan accordingly.