Normally i would choose one of the things myself, too... Now i'm not gonna choose something, it's up to you guys!


If you think i'm friendly/good, explain what's so good about me. Thanks for saying such nice things!

If you think i'm cruel/bad, explain what's so bad about me. I can handle such things, don't worry.
Ok, let this poll begin!

EDIT: Ok, i'm gonna pick ONE choice about how i think of MYSELF! You'll see why i picked the choice 'Yes, you're (gonna be) a good friend' below:

I don't want to think fantastic of myself, because i did some things wrong here, and also i don't quite understand much, making conversations harder. Other things are good, i can find myself friendly, helpful and caring.

You're a top bloke, very nice. Keep it up.
I can't explain how, though.

So far you have been really nice to me, cool. I have no reason to think otherwise.

Here's the deal, Mr: As you go through life and as you interact with people and do things and try things, you shouldn't change your behavior based on others' opinions of you.

Yes, respect other people's beliefs, favorite things, and appreciate them for being different than you.  But by no means should you be worried about what they think about you.

I could give you hundreds of quotes about being yourself but the expectations of other people don't matter.

Be honest about yourself, tell the truth nicely, and you'll be genuine.  A genuine person has more friends and is more liked than a popular person.

Saying that, if someone tells you you're wrong or you offended them, you have to understand their viewpoint and make a change in what you say.

It's a tightrope.  It's tough to figure out the balance of social interaction.  Keep practicing and learning.  Ultimately though, don't change yourself for someone else.  Be yourself.  Don't put value on our opinions of you.

Makalya : Hitler thought he was good...

/endmodule: "Devil's Advocate"

Back on topic, I agree completely with what Ghostbear1111 said. It's crucial to value and respect the opinions of others, but it makes no sense to define yourself by what others say.

That said, though, here are a few thoughts.

-I've seen mostly positive things about you, therefore I view you in a positive manner
-If you have to ask what others think of you, you're probably either doubting your value as a member or doubting some part of yourself
-If you're content with who you are, you won't have to ask what others think of you

Yeah, being someone you aren't just to "fit in" is worse than changing who you are in order to fit in.

I was never an overly popular or outgoing person (I'm still not honestly) and so I rarely did much when I was younger. I'd prefer hanging out with a few people that I really liked than trying to be part of bigger groups. This allowed me to be who I was rather than trying to be liked by lots of people.


I'm glad I did that because I become more comfortable with who I was and didn't waste time trying to change who I was in order to be someone I knew I wasn't.

I honestly don't feel like I know you well enough to make an educated decision.

Some advice I can give though, is just be yourself and try to be the BEST version of yourself that you can be. Other than that, there's not much you can do to control how people feel about you. Generally though, if you treat people with respect, you will find that most of those people return the favor.