Well then no point of saying hello again since we always keep in touch :p

Well welcome back again anyways and don't know if you want your Viz back. Also thanks fo mentioning me in your post (jk jk).

Don't know what else to say other than to take care and TELL ME FIRST if your kid is a boy or girl haha.

Singelli : I wish you to come back in Vizzed. I come in Vizzed  to play, to remember my childhood, but also I want you to be happy and to share any emotion with people here. I see that here you have many people who  admire you  and I am one of them.Come back cute girl

Singelli : How are you? We've missed you sooooo much! I was sad when you posted that you were going to leave and never come. That's because I feel like most of my friends on here are growing up and leaving Vizzed. I am SO happy for you that you get the amazing chance to finally be a mom when doctors said that you wouldn't be able to. What do you plan on naming if it is a boy or a girl.

Singelli : I understand why you made this thread and made that post. But please just do what you want to do..  If you are worried about maintaining friendships then I think the fact you left your email address is good enough.. It's a median on where you can communicate with friends from this site without the stress of coming to the site. 

" I started (again) to feel like a pretty painting that people like to look at, but don't want to commit to buy, if that makes any sense.  I sort of felt that way even before I left vizzed, and it was one small addition to my reasons for departure.  People here say I'm nice and great, but I don't feel like anyone wants to get close to me or get to know me.  I feel like an outcast and as though I have nothing to contribute or add (socially)."

I actually feel the same way. So I empathize with you on that part... I never contacted you via email.. Because to put it bluntly. I didn't think we'd have much to talk about. We've had a weird relationship so to speak. Where neither of us have really conflicted with each other.. But somehow it seems that we have at some point.. When most of the time when we do talk we have conversations usually that are logical, fair and often interesting. 

I think another thing you have to keep in mind is that people will just write empty words/posts.. I mean I won't point fingers but when the majority of the posts, kinda point out they didn't read the post properly... it's obvious.. Not that these people are doing anything wrong.. For example if you see someone fall over, most people will stop to help... will they remember that person tomorrow.. Probably not.. People just sometimes do things to seem socially correct... 

I'll stop writing now.. But I will end with this. You are pregnant. More stress isn't going to be helpful for you... or your child... Your friends will contact you in your time of need. However great or small. 

Singelli : Well...it's certainly nice to see a post from you again on Vizzed, I understand that there are certain things you'd like to do but the majority of what goes on in it, isn't exactly that appealing in your eyes either. (Kind of like being sliced between homeschool and regular school before, I loved having friends close but everything was too hard on me with my health). It's honestly as sonicmcmuffin said, your complete choice to come back on or not, I'm sure MANY MANY of us miss you a lot but we also don't want to force you to come back onto vizzed just for us either.

I know I haven't really talked to you much, and as such there really hasn't been any means of communication. Mostly due to the fact that I'm more of the shy/independent person where I'm not really that kind of guy who shouts out to others he may see in a school lobby and simply just walks throughout the school simply waving if he see's a friend near-by.  You're right...today's media/communities don't really message back and forth if one person leaves somewhere, as they just think the other person is gone completely when they actually aren't, as such you can lose a LOT of communications these days. But, all you can really do is just give them your email or some means of communication and if they don't follow it ever (of course there will be times where someone can't talk for a long time or years as sonicmc said above as well).

I would love to talk more with you, as you are a great woman but...I just can't think of anything to talk about when I have a discussion...with anyone on here or elsewhere. I'd love to talk more and get to know you Singelli but I'm not sure what I'd say to know more v-v sorry...

Just like you made on your last post  < 3 still happy that you're going to be having a child *^-^* (hopefully) so that's excited Singelli and hope we can learn more about that after events take place ^^.


Again, it's your choice and you DO NOT  and I'd honestly say SHOULD NOT just stay on if it's going to be horrible staying on just for us; HOWEVER, if being here with some of your friends will help or be great in your opinion and you can handle the things on Vizzed you don't enjoy. Then feel free to come back online we miss you but for those of us that care alot for you, we understand whatever choice you make ok < 3. We Love You Singelli! 

Singelli :

I would enjoy seeing you come back ad reading about your baby updates. I myself am on a journey to improve my health. I have a good piece of advice for you both during and after your pregnancy. This was given to me by the owner of my nutrition club when I brought in a young couple with a brand new baby. "you are very protein deficient I know because I have had my wife go through it 3 times you need more protein to properly balance out the loss your body suffers during and after a pregnancy." the normal protein intake a person should have is their muscle mass measured in pounds that number of ounces. And you being pregnant would require a lot more.  I'm really happy and while I am still in school to become a personal trainer and still beginning my journey to lose weight and gain health I hope this advice helps you. I am going to make a new thread about my "book" that can't be published and continue it.  

we are all with you in spirit and love please be healthy and happy.

I'm always late to your threads but I'm sure you understand why.

Anyways, I think it'd be great for you to come back, for both you and the community. I think what you should do if you decide to stick around is to not overwhelm yourself. Maybe be more of a casual user of the site this time so that you don't burn yourself out.

It does appear that you decided to stick around though and that's awesome

I was happy to see you logged in and managed to send an pm before I read this.

Oh well, as you can see, communication these days doesn't maybe mean it happens in an instant. But you can see there are many people who would love if you would stay but will respect any decision you make no matter what it may be. You will not be any less loved or respected whatever you decide. And I will personally always remember you as the one who was  first nice and helpful to me here. And shall be always thankful.

Thank you all for your replies and pms on this matter.  It'd take way too long to respond to everyone individually, but I especially appreciated those insightful and thoughtful responses.  Some of the authors in this thread took me by surprise, but every word was considered and (as I said earlier...) appreciated.  

As you know, I've decided to come back as a more casual user.  So,
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P.S. Please don't take it personally that I didn't summon or respond to you. I simply don't have a lot of time any more.