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How it is to be transsexual

 

09-25-14 06:19 AM
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I'll start off by saying, it's not fun.
At all.
In case you haven't figured out yet, yes I am transsexual.
Now let me say that transgender is not the same as transsexual. Transgender people just believe they are a crossover of the other gender, transsexuals are people who know they were born wrong and want to be the other sex. This link can explain it different then I can.
http://www.diffen.com/difference/Transgender_vs_Transsexual
It's difficult. I fear of telling people about this due to what they do. Transsexual people are bad people to a lot of people, meaning you can only tell people you can trust. Only about 4 for 5 people do know (other then doctors ect). I'm just going to say, you will get a lot from people who really just dislike trans people, and there are a good amount of them.
I've told my parents about this, and have started counseling and therapy (it's a long process good to start early :3) and this is when the real hate starts. People somehow find out about that and then just won't leave you alone.
Overall, it's not bad. Being transsexual basically makes you feel better about your self then when you are just a normal person.
Comments or questions just post below.
I'll start off by saying, it's not fun.
At all.
In case you haven't figured out yet, yes I am transsexual.
Now let me say that transgender is not the same as transsexual. Transgender people just believe they are a crossover of the other gender, transsexuals are people who know they were born wrong and want to be the other sex. This link can explain it different then I can.
http://www.diffen.com/difference/Transgender_vs_Transsexual
It's difficult. I fear of telling people about this due to what they do. Transsexual people are bad people to a lot of people, meaning you can only tell people you can trust. Only about 4 for 5 people do know (other then doctors ect). I'm just going to say, you will get a lot from people who really just dislike trans people, and there are a good amount of them.
I've told my parents about this, and have started counseling and therapy (it's a long process good to start early :3) and this is when the real hate starts. People somehow find out about that and then just won't leave you alone.
Overall, it's not bad. Being transsexual basically makes you feel better about your self then when you are just a normal person.
Comments or questions just post below.
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09-25-14 06:44 AM
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Wow....that um, shocking to hear. Its kind of weird to know. Or when we find out about our genders of who we are, and what we were born as. some people take it in well, and some don't.
Wow....that um, shocking to hear. Its kind of weird to know. Or when we find out about our genders of who we are, and what we were born as. some people take it in well, and some don't.
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I didn't know this at all. When did you find this out? And does that mean you would prefer to get an operation? 
Anyways, you can't choose how you are born, what and who you like, the same goes with this. But your behaviour on this site always gave me the feeling you are happy about being who you are. Like Enii said, there are those people who think it's funny and don't think how it would be if it was them in the same case. 

But I don't understand this: "Being transsexual basically makes you feel better about your self then when you are just a normal person." 
So does that mean you feel happy about yourself when you think of yourself that way instead of thinking that you're a normal person?
Or does that mean that because I like who I am and I like my gender that I should feel worse about myself?
I didn't know this at all. When did you find this out? And does that mean you would prefer to get an operation? 
Anyways, you can't choose how you are born, what and who you like, the same goes with this. But your behaviour on this site always gave me the feeling you are happy about being who you are. Like Enii said, there are those people who think it's funny and don't think how it would be if it was them in the same case. 

But I don't understand this: "Being transsexual basically makes you feel better about your self then when you are just a normal person." 
So does that mean you feel happy about yourself when you think of yourself that way instead of thinking that you're a normal person?
Or does that mean that because I like who I am and I like my gender that I should feel worse about myself?
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You know, I'm not surprised some people have that type of reaction, that hatred towards you. I don't mind if you're transsexual. Yeah, I belong to the open-minded people; people who accepts the others for what they are, they look. Not specifically for what they do. If you feel more comfortable about this, it's alright. Just let these haters talk, though I'm sure you are no longer bothered by their speech
You know, I'm not surprised some people have that type of reaction, that hatred towards you. I don't mind if you're transsexual. Yeah, I belong to the open-minded people; people who accepts the others for what they are, they look. Not specifically for what they do. If you feel more comfortable about this, it's alright. Just let these haters talk, though I'm sure you are no longer bothered by their speech
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Aww...its no wonder that you have a cute face. Bara. I am just remembering, I have seen what you look like. ^-^
Aww...its no wonder that you have a cute face. Bara. I am just remembering, I have seen what you look like. ^-^
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That article kindof confused me and seemed to be not getting to the point?

I don't get it, are you saying that were born with the mind of a woman, and the body of a man?
Or perhaps you were born with the mind of a woman, and body part designated (exclusively) to a man, AND a woman?

I don't really know what to say.

If you have the body of a man, I would guess that's what you are.

But if you think that your mind is opposite to that of you're body- then I would be careful about jumping to conclusions there.

Conflicting body parts yes, but mind conflicting with body. . . I don't generally think so. I know that sometimes we just imagine things and it starts to become reality to us, it is a possibility that I would say should be considered.

On the other hand I don't know you in real life, haven't seen the medical files, and it goes on, and on, and on.

I know very little about this topic, but if you have the body of a man, then hey, I would say that's what you got, and should stick with that. I mean, Pretty solid proof would be needed to prove that the brain is mismatching the body, and with characteristics that are learned, ect, it's possible that "symptoms" are nothing more than incorrectly learned characteristics.

Now, I don't hate you or nothin, but I wouldn't want you to go through on the biggest mistake one could make either. However, as I haven't looked into this much at all, and I don't think I rightly understand what's going on, I would take what I'm saying with a grain of salt.

But that's just my own input.

I'm sorry if I completely misunderstood. That article didn't really help me at all. It's like it saying the difference is only mental.

"A term referring to a person who does not identify with the sex they were assigned at birth and wishes, whether successful or not, to realign their gender and their sex through use of medical intervention."

It seems to me to be saying that a transexual want's to be the opposite sex that they were born into.

But then it says:

"DSM-V labels transsexual people Gender Dysphoric, a label contested by many trans people who say the problem is physical, not mental. Typically medical and/or surgical intervention to align one's sex and gender aids in feeling of dysphoria"

Problem is physical? as in. . . well. . . sex organs mismatching? Or brain mismatching, (the physical design of the brain, rather than the Phycological makeup?)

It's not clear enough to me. And that last paragraph I posted seems to contradict the first. It's saying that people wish to change the gender that they are aligned with at birth, and then it goes and says that some people say that the problem is physical, and not mental.



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That article kindof confused me and seemed to be not getting to the point?

I don't get it, are you saying that were born with the mind of a woman, and the body of a man?
Or perhaps you were born with the mind of a woman, and body part designated (exclusively) to a man, AND a woman?

I don't really know what to say.

If you have the body of a man, I would guess that's what you are.

But if you think that your mind is opposite to that of you're body- then I would be careful about jumping to conclusions there.

Conflicting body parts yes, but mind conflicting with body. . . I don't generally think so. I know that sometimes we just imagine things and it starts to become reality to us, it is a possibility that I would say should be considered.

On the other hand I don't know you in real life, haven't seen the medical files, and it goes on, and on, and on.

I know very little about this topic, but if you have the body of a man, then hey, I would say that's what you got, and should stick with that. I mean, Pretty solid proof would be needed to prove that the brain is mismatching the body, and with characteristics that are learned, ect, it's possible that "symptoms" are nothing more than incorrectly learned characteristics.

Now, I don't hate you or nothin, but I wouldn't want you to go through on the biggest mistake one could make either. However, as I haven't looked into this much at all, and I don't think I rightly understand what's going on, I would take what I'm saying with a grain of salt.

But that's just my own input.

I'm sorry if I completely misunderstood. That article didn't really help me at all. It's like it saying the difference is only mental.

"A term referring to a person who does not identify with the sex they were assigned at birth and wishes, whether successful or not, to realign their gender and their sex through use of medical intervention."

It seems to me to be saying that a transexual want's to be the opposite sex that they were born into.

But then it says:

"DSM-V labels transsexual people Gender Dysphoric, a label contested by many trans people who say the problem is physical, not mental. Typically medical and/or surgical intervention to align one's sex and gender aids in feeling of dysphoria"

Problem is physical? as in. . . well. . . sex organs mismatching? Or brain mismatching, (the physical design of the brain, rather than the Phycological makeup?)

It's not clear enough to me. And that last paragraph I posted seems to contradict the first. It's saying that people wish to change the gender that they are aligned with at birth, and then it goes and says that some people say that the problem is physical, and not mental.



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I don't know you. I am a Christian and I'm sorry you have felt hate or felt like you have had to deal with hate. I can relate to you in that sense as I have felt hate due to me being Autistic. Just remember you are loved by Christ !!!. 
I don't know you. I am a Christian and I'm sorry you have felt hate or felt like you have had to deal with hate. I can relate to you in that sense as I have felt hate due to me being Autistic. Just remember you are loved by Christ !!!. 
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tornadocam : thank you
Sword legion : very... Inspiring... And it's all mental
Eniitan : aww thanks
juuldude : few years, and it makes you special
Laian : I've been doing that quite well
tornadocam : thank you
Sword legion : very... Inspiring... And it's all mental
Eniitan : aww thanks
juuldude : few years, and it makes you special
Laian : I've been doing that quite well
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I hope everything goes alright for you.

Other than that, cool.

It doesn't affect what I think of you in any way.

I accept you for being "you".
I hope everything goes alright for you.

Other than that, cool.

It doesn't affect what I think of you in any way.

I accept you for being "you".
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While I am against sex change, I cannot deny that the outpouring of hate towards those who have undergone it is undeserved and absolutely inappropriate. Nobody should be put through that. I hope you will weather all the hate that comes your way with a smile. While I can't say I know anyone who has undergone such a procedure outside of Vizzed, I am confident that such people also have great potential. You've shown as much. I disagree, however; that changing genders makes you feel better about yourself. I believe we were all given our identities for a purpose, and changing that identity willingly is a crime against our true nature. Whether you should "change back" or not, I cannot say. And I won't put you down for what you've done. You've had enough of that. Just know that I care and am saying this not to make you feel bad about your circumstances or to dwell on your past, but to help you consider your future. I hope my opinion/comment does not offend you in any way, and if it does, I'm sorry.

BTW, you should totally burn in heck for everything. GOSH!

I'm kidding. I don't want that for anyone
While I am against sex change, I cannot deny that the outpouring of hate towards those who have undergone it is undeserved and absolutely inappropriate. Nobody should be put through that. I hope you will weather all the hate that comes your way with a smile. While I can't say I know anyone who has undergone such a procedure outside of Vizzed, I am confident that such people also have great potential. You've shown as much. I disagree, however; that changing genders makes you feel better about yourself. I believe we were all given our identities for a purpose, and changing that identity willingly is a crime against our true nature. Whether you should "change back" or not, I cannot say. And I won't put you down for what you've done. You've had enough of that. Just know that I care and am saying this not to make you feel bad about your circumstances or to dwell on your past, but to help you consider your future. I hope my opinion/comment does not offend you in any way, and if it does, I'm sorry.

BTW, you should totally burn in heck for everything. GOSH!

I'm kidding. I don't want that for anyone
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supernerd117 : while you may believe that we are given our identities for a purpose, I believe it is completely random. It's hard for people to normally understand, but really it's not who I am. I'm not anything like who I look to be. To me and the people who know me well, its fake.

But everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and for the record heck is just hell with tons and tons of free cookies. I'd really recommend it.
supernerd117 : while you may believe that we are given our identities for a purpose, I believe it is completely random. It's hard for people to normally understand, but really it's not who I am. I'm not anything like who I look to be. To me and the people who know me well, its fake.

But everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and for the record heck is just hell with tons and tons of free cookies. I'd really recommend it.
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Barathemos : "heck is just hell with tons and tons of free cookies"...lol. What kinds of cookies? I hope they have thin mints...
Barathemos : "heck is just hell with tons and tons of free cookies"...lol. What kinds of cookies? I hope they have thin mints...
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Barathemos : Darn, that must've been hard for you. And in that case I misunderstood what you said there. 
Barathemos : Darn, that must've been hard for you. And in that case I misunderstood what you said there. 
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