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12-16-11 11:28 PM
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uhg... i have liked this girl for almost a year now...  i finally got the guts to ask her out, and she pawned it off as she was not ready to have a relationship (even though she had dated like 5 other guys before me...) so i dont know if i should just give up on her, or what.
uhg... i have liked this girl for almost a year now...  i finally got the guts to ask her out, and she pawned it off as she was not ready to have a relationship (even though she had dated like 5 other guys before me...) so i dont know if i should just give up on her, or what.
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Perhaps she isn't ready to have a relationship although she dated 5 guys before you. You don't know how she's feeling or her situation unless you ask.

Even though she turned you down, I wouldn't give up so easily....I'd try even harder. If she's showing little to NO interest, than yeah, I think you should move on. If not, don't be afraid to approach and talk to her. If you come on too fast, that might creep her out so my advice is to be yourself and talk to her like you would any other person.

Good luck!
Perhaps she isn't ready to have a relationship although she dated 5 guys before you. You don't know how she's feeling or her situation unless you ask.

Even though she turned you down, I wouldn't give up so easily....I'd try even harder. If she's showing little to NO interest, than yeah, I think you should move on. If not, don't be afraid to approach and talk to her. If you come on too fast, that might creep her out so my advice is to be yourself and talk to her like you would any other person.

Good luck!
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Meh, it happens. I was in a similar situation, and the girl turned me down too.

I moved on and found a better girl Odds are either this girl just isn't for you, or she's just not ready right now.

You are also 13... so it's not like love should be at the forefront of your mind anyway. In my opinion love doesn't count till you leave high school.
Meh, it happens. I was in a similar situation, and the girl turned me down too.

I moved on and found a better girl Odds are either this girl just isn't for you, or she's just not ready right now.

You are also 13... so it's not like love should be at the forefront of your mind anyway. In my opinion love doesn't count till you leave high school.
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There is another possibility, which I base off of your age. Especially at younger ages, "I'm not ready for a relationship" is them trying not to hurt your feelings. If she has dated 5 other guys, it seems to me that she doesn't see you in that way. I would just ask about it and if there could be a possibility later so you aren't just hanging on the hook in the event that it might now happen.
There is another possibility, which I base off of your age. Especially at younger ages, "I'm not ready for a relationship" is them trying not to hurt your feelings. If she has dated 5 other guys, it seems to me that she doesn't see you in that way. I would just ask about it and if there could be a possibility later so you aren't just hanging on the hook in the event that it might now happen.
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Question- how long has she dated the other guys for? If she's your age it shouldn't have been too long, as love and relationships are experimental during that age. Chances are you wouldn't last any longer than the previous "boyfriends". I'd probably wait until high school to start being serious about dating, so don't get too serious with it right now.
Question- how long has she dated the other guys for? If she's your age it shouldn't have been too long, as love and relationships are experimental during that age. Chances are you wouldn't last any longer than the previous "boyfriends". I'd probably wait until high school to start being serious about dating, so don't get too serious with it right now.
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12-18-11 11:49 AM
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wow, thanks everyone for the advice.
Cyro Xero: she dated them for about a couple months (but i dont know if thats right cuz i dont watch her like a hawk)
rcarter2 : i think your right. 
well.... i will take everyones advice and wait a year or two, and untill then, i will focus more on school (and other stuff).
wow, thanks everyone for the advice.
Cyro Xero: she dated them for about a couple months (but i dont know if thats right cuz i dont watch her like a hawk)
rcarter2 : i think your right. 
well.... i will take everyones advice and wait a year or two, and untill then, i will focus more on school (and other stuff).
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Yeah. You are young and have PLENTY of time to date, so don't feel you have to rush anything. Good luck to ya 
Yeah. You are young and have PLENTY of time to date, so don't feel you have to rush anything. Good luck to ya 
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thanks!
thanks!
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mastersword321 : I'm going to make this plain and clear.  She's not into you.  End of story.  If she were interested, she wouldn't pass of the "not ready for a relationship' excuse.  It means she doesn't want to be mean but she's not going to date you.

Forget her, chalk it up to unluckiness, and go out and meet some other girls.  Talk to more girls and up your averages!
mastersword321 : I'm going to make this plain and clear.  She's not into you.  End of story.  If she were interested, she wouldn't pass of the "not ready for a relationship' excuse.  It means she doesn't want to be mean but she's not going to date you.

Forget her, chalk it up to unluckiness, and go out and meet some other girls.  Talk to more girls and up your averages!
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warmaker : -.- wow thats such a nice thing to say. im sittin here all sad, and you just made it worse. i already got the point that she does not like me.
warmaker : -.- wow thats such a nice thing to say. im sittin here all sad, and you just made it worse. i already got the point that she does not like me.
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I know exactly how you feel! The girl I like says we might work out, but not until high school...so I'm good.

warmaker : I don't know exactly why mastersword thinks your a jerk...I'm guessing he didn't even read even half of your message....
I know exactly how you feel! The girl I like says we might work out, but not until high school...so I'm good.

warmaker : I don't know exactly why mastersword thinks your a jerk...I'm guessing he didn't even read even half of your message....
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mastersword321 : Warmaker was treating you like an adult, and gave you sound advice.

Like others have said, you are thirteen, so don't let the rejection get to you too badly. What is the point of a two to three month relationship, anyway? Just grab that silver lining and pull yourself out of the funk. You probably dodged a bullet in the long run.
mastersword321 : Warmaker was treating you like an adult, and gave you sound advice.

Like others have said, you are thirteen, so don't let the rejection get to you too badly. What is the point of a two to three month relationship, anyway? Just grab that silver lining and pull yourself out of the funk. You probably dodged a bullet in the long run.
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 thanks everyone for the advice,  and i really appreciate it. (oh and if you mind, could you stop posting here? i already got the point.)
well, thanks to everyone who posted and helped me out.
 thanks everyone for the advice,  and i really appreciate it. (oh and if you mind, could you stop posting here? i already got the point.)
well, thanks to everyone who posted and helped me out.
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mastersword321 : I say try being friends with her and maybe in time things will change. Being friends also helps you get to know her more.
mastersword321 : I say try being friends with her and maybe in time things will change. Being friends also helps you get to know her more.
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Local Mods : mastersword has said in his last post here that he would like people to stop posting here because he is done with the topic. Can someone close this?
Local Mods : mastersword has said in his last post here that he would like people to stop posting here because he is done with the topic. Can someone close this?
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