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Who is susposed to ask who out who first?

 
Who is susposed to ask who out who first?
Who is susposed to ask who out who first?
The guy should ask the girl
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The girl should ask the guy
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I personally say that the guy should ask out the girl because I am a little old fashioned that was, and I do not turn 18 until December 2nd, so many people find that hard to believe. But, that is my opinion.
I personally say that the guy should ask out the girl because I am a little old fashioned that was, and I do not turn 18 until December 2nd, so many people find that hard to believe. But, that is my opinion.


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I do not think that there is any set way to do it. I was friends with a really long time and after a while we were sitting outside and she is like "How long are you going to wait?" "For what?" "To ask me out? OR do I have to do it!" I laughed and she asked me out. I really do not think that it matters though it typically is guy asking girl.
I do not think that there is any set way to do it. I was friends with a really long time and after a while we were sitting outside and she is like "How long are you going to wait?" "For what?" "To ask me out? OR do I have to do it!" I laughed and she asked me out. I really do not think that it matters though it typically is guy asking girl.

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I don't really think it matters. If the girl is really interested, she shouldn't let stereotypes keep her from asking a guy out.








I don't really think it matters. If the girl is really interested, she shouldn't let stereotypes keep her from asking a guy out.

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I personally have seen it done both ways. Both have actually happened with me.

I don't think that there should be any care about which way it is.
I personally have seen it done both ways. Both have actually happened with me.

I don't think that there should be any care about which way it is.

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Well..I think really it does not matter ....long ago boys would have asked girls....but now it is no longer the same situation....a lot has changed...and so the behavior, psychology....action and reaction of woman in the society...has really changed and evolved....so there is a change .


Well..I think really it does not matter ....long ago boys would have asked girls....but now it is no longer the same situation....a lot has changed...and so the behavior, psychology....action and reaction of woman in the society...has really changed and evolved....so there is a change .




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I don't think it matters that much. If the girl likes the guy then she should be free to ask out the guy. We (girls) can't always hope for fate to do all the work for us. We need to move too so we get what we want.



I don't think it matters that much. If the girl likes the guy then she should be free to ask out the guy. We (girls) can't always hope for fate to do all the work for us. We need to move too so we get what we want.

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What I see happen most is that the girl tells the guy that she likes him first...and then the guy reject/accepts....andTHEN they're boyfriend/girlfriend...
What I see happen most is that the girl tells the guy that she likes him first...and then the guy reject/accepts....andTHEN they're boyfriend/girlfriend...

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I've seen it done both ways and in my opinion you(he/she) shouldn't wait to ask him/her out if you felt that strongly about someone. Rather give it your all than always wonder "what if"
I've seen it done both ways and in my opinion you(he/she) shouldn't wait to ask him/her out if you felt that strongly about someone. Rather give it your all than always wonder "what if"

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I think either party can do it, and it should have been an option. Honestly, the idea that the guy must be the one to do it is rather outdated.
I think either party can do it, and it should have been an option. Honestly, the idea that the guy must be the one to do it is rather outdated.

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Personally, I would prefer the guy asking the girl out first, because it's easier on the girls. I did ask a guy out once, though, and it went well for a bit.

Yeah, it can go both ways, and I bet the boys feel the same way like the girls does, considering the act of asking out people is nerve-racking.

However, like Elara said, if people think the guy must be the one to ask is just outdated, and it's not tradition now.

Personally, I would prefer the guy asking the girl out first, because it's easier on the girls. I did ask a guy out once, though, and it went well for a bit.

Yeah, it can go both ways, and I bet the boys feel the same way like the girls does, considering the act of asking out people is nerve-racking.

However, like Elara said, if people think the guy must be the one to ask is just outdated, and it's not tradition now.

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Clara: I never said that the guy has to be the one to ask the girl out, just that he should be the one to ask the girl the girl out. Like I said, people say that I am old fashioned, that is just me personally.
Clara: I never said that the guy has to be the one to ask the girl out, just that he should be the one to ask the girl the girl out. Like I said, people say that I am old fashioned, that is just me personally.

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I think the guy should ask the girl, because that's just the traditional way of doing it.


I think the guy should ask the girl, because that's just the traditional way of doing it.

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The guy should ask out the girl, for it's the MANLY thing to do.  Of course, the girl is always welcome to ask the guy out.  Especially if they feel really strongly for someone like me, who can only eep out a few words to females who aren't already his friends and is afraid of asking yes/no questions in general.

Yes, guys can be coy and shy, yet still be MANLY. 
The guy should ask out the girl, for it's the MANLY thing to do.  Of course, the girl is always welcome to ask the guy out.  Especially if they feel really strongly for someone like me, who can only eep out a few words to females who aren't already his friends and is afraid of asking yes/no questions in general.

Yes, guys can be coy and shy, yet still be MANLY. 

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I don't think it really matters. like BNuge said, if a girl likes a guy, she shouldn't have to let a stereotype make her miss out. And some guys are very shy, and it is hard for them to make the first move. I am a shy person. My fiancee were very much dancing around getting a first date established. I honestly can't say who asked who. All I know is that we eventually got to it, and the conversation was very awkward. But that obviously didn't. matter.
I don't think it really matters. like BNuge said, if a girl likes a guy, she shouldn't have to let a stereotype make her miss out. And some guys are very shy, and it is hard for them to make the first move. I am a shy person. My fiancee were very much dancing around getting a first date established. I honestly can't say who asked who. All I know is that we eventually got to it, and the conversation was very awkward. But that obviously didn't. matter.

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Yeah, it doesn't matter at all who asks who really, if a girl really REALLY wants to go out with a guy, she could ask the guy out. and visa versa. Basically what BNuge said is the answer.



Yeah, it doesn't matter at all who asks who really, if a girl really REALLY wants to go out with a guy, she could ask the guy out. and visa versa. Basically what BNuge said is the answer.

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I'm going with the majority here in that it doesn't matter at all. It's not like it really changes anything anyways :/.
I've actually had it go both ways in the same relationship; although I asked her out originally, my current girlfriend and I broke up for a few weeks when some things started to come up, but when she was ready again she was the one that came to me and asked to start again.

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I'm going with the majority here in that it doesn't matter at all. It's not like it really changes anything anyways :/.
I've actually had it go both ways in the same relationship; although I asked her out originally, my current girlfriend and I broke up for a few weeks when some things started to come up, but when she was ready again she was the one that came to me and asked to start again.

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Typically, the male asks out the female. I've seen it happen both ways. I will say this though, I feel like it's best when both of them kinda just let it happen. I mean that no one really "asks" but they kinda just let things fall in their place and they kiss or something and a relationship begins. It doesn't need to involve words. That's how I'd like it to happen.
Typically, the male asks out the female. I've seen it happen both ways. I will say this though, I feel like it's best when both of them kinda just let it happen. I mean that no one really "asks" but they kinda just let things fall in their place and they kiss or something and a relationship begins. It doesn't need to involve words. That's how I'd like it to happen.

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NotJon : That is how both of my relationships have started

I don't think there is a "should", as long as the feeling is mutual, the pieces will fall in to place and nothing is really resting on who asks who (if there is even a need to ask at all).
NotJon : That is how both of my relationships have started

I don't think there is a "should", as long as the feeling is mutual, the pieces will fall in to place and nothing is really resting on who asks who (if there is even a need to ask at all).

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