crazycatpup : Call it role reversal, but that's exactly how I feel about her. I may love her, but she isn't treating me like she should. Especially when all I want to be is a friend anymore. I'd be happy with that. Extremely happy. But no, she'd rather lie to me than do anything else.

Most girls I know would rather protect someone's feelings than tell them the truth. But hiding that truth only hurts more...

Well zeldi, One day she'll come crawling back to you on her knees, But that's the day you won't care and she'll regret Everything.

yes.it happened last year,my girlfriend(who I shall refer to as ?)told me she wanted to talk to me so we met at resses.? Said that she didn't think our relationship was going to work out.she broke up with me and I just staid out of relationships for a while.eventualy I came back and asked ? If we could still be freinds.for some reason she just didn't want any thing to do with me. I just don't know why. I was really nice to her and I'm actually the most romantic guy I know.do you think you know why?Maybe I need advice from a girl.espcialy if you're a girl so you can see it from her perspective me some advice 

Nah, never really been dumped, just mutual breakage.

That is usually due to distance, such as a girlfriend moving away or something of the sort.
It really sucks, it really does.

ryan0428 : Um... Yeah no I'm not a girl. Try these people for advice:

Annette :
Elara :
crazycatpup : Requesting female advice for concerned member.

ryan0428 : Well, I am certain that age is a factor on this just a bit. I have noticed that a lot of younger girls don't like to maintain the friendship after a relationship ends because they think it will be "weird"... it really isn't true, but they have to grow up a bit before they realize it (and no, you can't convince her otherwise). I know that I acted foolishly when I was that young, granted I was a few years older when I had my first pseudo-boyfriend.

I would just let it go an enjoy the friendships that you do have, Ryan. I mean, you're only ten years old, you should be enjoying that rather than worrying about a girl. Maybe in a few years she will realize her loss and ask to be friends again, maybe she won't and you will find another girl that does appreciate you, I don't know. What I do know is that you should just keep on being the nice, awesome guy that you are and not let this get you down.

I have been dumped maybe ninety percent of the time for not being dangerous or mean enough. And here I thought that girls love a compassionate man that would gladly take a bullet for them. I guess I was wrong.

Elara : thanks i've goten over it.

I've been broken up with a few times, I've broken up with girls a few time too:

1st girlfriend- We dated for a while, but when I moved she just stopped talking to me altogether until this year. We are friends now.

2nd girlfriend- We dated for like a few months, but I broke up with her because I found out she was doing bad things and I didn't want to get involved in any o that.

3rd girlfriend- Started going out, but she broke up with me the next day for reasons unknown...

4th girlfriend- My first online relationship, we dated for several months, but broke up because we just started to drift apart and I wanted to be with another girl. I'm still friends with her, and we chat on Facebook from time to time.

The girl I left her for is my current girlfriend, Kelly. I have no intentions of breaking up with Kelly, and I never have, even through that rough patch we hit last Friday. It would have to be something pretty devastating for us to ever break up.

my ex tried dumping me over a phone call, but I drove to her house, and dumped her myself. You ain't getting away from me over a cheap way. Be an adult instead of a kid.

I've technically been dumped twice, but the first time I was ever dumped was because I just stopped talking to my girlfriend and avoided her at all costs. Ha ha, I was a pretty awful little kid, but what ever, she was crazy!

The only real relationship that I've had that I lost ended in a rather confusing way. Honestly, it never really ended. We just thought it did; he thought I left him and I thought he left me. It wasn't until three years after that whole fiasco that we discovered the mistake. Of course, we also chose not to return to it; it's easier being friends. (And much more fun because things are easier)

I haven't been dumped at all yet. It was always me that has done the dumping cause I always felt as if the guy only wanted to get some from me and it get's very annoying. Cause of that I go out with guys that are older than me.

I'll just start with my first break-up and reply later with my other ones...

When I was engaged to my first real boyfriend, I was the one who ended things. I felt he was just using me for money and he didn't really show me he loved me. I did all the work so I told him I couldn't be with him anymore. We're still friends, we're not as close as we once were but I don't think anyone ever is. Break-ups are never easy.

I dumped the only guy I dated before my husband.  Everyone told me what a jerk he was, and I saw it but was in denial because I didn't think anyone could 'like' me.  I was awed and dated that guy for three and a half years simply because I didn't have confidence in myself.  I'm glad God slapped me in the face about that one!

I wasn't exactly in a relationship, but close to one. But said person just disappeared one day out of the blue without any hint or warning. Kind of made me sad on the inside.

My girl dumped me. How it happened was my idea though..

We were in a long distance relationship which ended September of this year and just before our first anniversary (Oct. 6). It started to bother me how she'd tell me about her interests in other guys. I asked if she wanted to pursue him and she told me she had to know what he thought of her first. I was filled with anger, sadness, pain, and jealousy because she's in college now and around so many guys. I was just testing how committed she was and if she felt the same as I did. I would never think twice about a female no matter how much interest they've shown me and it has happened. When it did happen, I told them about my girlfriend and how she's the best thing that happened to me because she was. I suggested that my girlfriend and I should separate if she's interested in other guys. She said she still wanted to be with me but later on, she brought it back and said she would but pointed out it was my idea. So we separated but she says to wait for her and if she hasn't found someone by the time she is out of college, we should get back together.

This was my first real relationship that I actually wanted to be in. We have known each other online for about 5 years and been together for almost a year. I can't figure out what went wrong. It hit me so hard because I really saw her as the one I'd marry some day. We talked about it before but it seems our obstacles got the best of us (distance, her parent's opinion, ..). She still wants to be friends and receive the same amount of attention she had from me before. I don't want to but feel compelled to do so. She doesn't want me to take her out of my heart and still says loving things. I'm so confused on where her mind is. I just don't want to play games.

I never been dumped in my life. I dumped plenty of girls because they all just want the same thing. These girls down here aren't looking for love. I think about moving to washington or some other state and see what happens.