This can fall under alot of things friends family school work relationships so I just put it under life.. cause it's every thing in general. I'v had so many friends back stab me right in my face or even behind my back.

Also LIESSSSS!! GOSSIP!! BETRAL!!! From your fellow step mother, You see it all started when I went down there to spend the night one night and she asked me if I would be willing to clean her house if she payed me once a month. Because she is handicaped or whatever but even when her back or her leg wasn't hurting she still kept a messy house and nevverr cleaned it.. it was in digust to me. But I told her yes I would be willing to do it even without the money which is the kind of person I am..buttttt noo she just had to pay me. So the first month went perfectly well actually it was a very intresting job for me cause I'm 15. But when the 2nd month came I had ordered some avon from her with my money that I Earned completly.. the avon screwed up all her orders so when it actually came she told me I couldn't have this and I couldn't have that. I told her this is mine and u told me I earned it and I watched you put it into the computer.. because I have a great memory. I told her I'm leaving after I get my stuff. And she started acting all dramadic saying this and that and you CAN haveee ittt! and stuff so I got what belonged to me and I told her I was still leaving cause I can't deal with the depression I have right now and I need to go home cause it will calm me down. She said noo you can stay here and play with all the other kids and everything is cool between us. But I had to leave cause I was very depressed. So before I left she was acting all sad and stuff but she said we were even when I left like 5 times. So I took her word. See I have a little brother who is 4 and a little sister who is 5.. I was down there something before all this happend and I was trying to sleep I had a hard time going to sleep that night and I just really needed the rest well.. Many my littlest half brother would not leave me alone kept turning the vacum on and telling me to get out of that room and just being the uglyest he can be.. he has OCD and ADHD.. I was all mad for a while and I settled down but I got on facebook at there house and posted Something like "You can't get any sleep these days especially if you have a little brother and sister who won't leave you alone" and this was that week but I left at the end of that week after the avon thing and My step mother texted me saying all these ugly ugly things.. And I quote how could you say such ugly things about those too I wont say there name, also saying your words are hurtful I have cried and cried and using ugly words and stuff. See shes 36 and shes very immature even my mother says she is. So she texted me like 8 times after that and I didn't text nothing back .. I finally got my gutt full and told her those are all lies and dont tell my dad all these lies and she texted me back and said oh your dad knows the truth you can call him if you wont hes awake. I mean I have cried and cried and cried over this and my feelings have been bad hurt she said some other things too that were lies and complety not true but I won't mention them. I'v felt depressed all day long and I dont know what to do. I'm posting this now cause my power is fixen to go out.

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Yes, I've been backed stabbed before and it isn't pretty, specially when they lie about it trying to make you out to be the bad guy. I hate people like that and they are so immature and don't know how to handle the situation like an adult. People like that are just snakes and would do anything to make themselves feel better or try to make the other person to see like it was all of their fault. I don't know the full story about yours, but it seems that she's trying to make you feel guilty about whatever you supposedly done when you was there and when you posted on your facebook. I've been down that road and I don't really pay attention to it. When I'm confronted by people who claims I done it when most of everybody knows I didn't do it. I just shrug it off telling them and I quote (Yeah.. Why don't you figure out the real story before you go around accusing someone and making accusation about me, because you wasn't apart of that situation. So you need to go on and mind your own business and quit sticking your nose where it doesn't belong.)

i have been back stabbed many time but the as bad as you(or have i?i really cant remember) but try not to get depressed to much :when life gives you lemon make lemonade or is that not what it means? anyways this other one is better when someone you pushes you get up and push them then laugh at them hahahahahahahah. anyways i hope you can get over being back stabbed

Getting backstab sucks everyone has gone thru it.U are at age were backstabbing is a lil on the high side as u are still in high school.All i can say is this people gonna backstab u,betray u,talk behind your back its just how life sometimes is this world can me dark and heartless at times cause some people dont comprehend how severe backstabbing can actually be so the only thing I can say is this be strong, be the better person.At the end the people that backstab u will eventually pay for their mistakes cause as they say karma is a u know what

petey2780 :
danielalexander :
Natas :

Ya thanks guys. All the things she said were not true one bit. I feel alot better today sense I got some rest and cooled down over the night. I guess sometimes I just have to look over things like this even if it's a 36 almost 37 year old woman in my way.

Thanks again for your kind words. It was just what I needed.

She is immature. I would set the record straight with your father, leave her out of it because she will not accept a version that makes her look bad.

As for me, yes, I have been severely backstabbed in the past. You just have to let it go usually, and you feel better. What she did may seem really bad right now, but in the grand scheme of backstabbing that is really on the low end, so there is a silver lining for you to help feel better.

Elara : Ya she told me that daddy knew the whole truth and I could go ahead and call him that he is up. But I texted her and said I have no minutes right now to call but I feel sorry for dad sense he believes all those lies and I said If he dosen't know the truth now he will know it some time in the future. And I told her not to text me again that night or today and I just simple ment stop texting me and I turned my phone off and put it on the charger. My dad is not a dumb person , I believe he does see through her but I just don't know all the lies she has put into his head..

Thank you though it means alot to hear your comforting respone.

I've been stabbed in the back so many times, I can't even count!

Bintsy : My advice to you is, tell her you don't want anything to do with her until she tells the truth and treats you better. You can't respect her if she doesn't respect you. That's how I see it.

SunflowerGaming : Ya That is very true. I might just do that. one day because she dosen't respect me.

Bintsy : I feel it would be beneficial for you. I mean, as your step-mother, she would show you respect. I mean you obviously have shown her respect and this is how she has treated you. And to not be sorry for how she made you feel, it's just not right.

SunflowerGaming : Ya, I have shown her alot of respect over the years. I don't deserve to be treated like that. Thank you though for your kind words. It means alot.

Bintsy : The sad part is as u say u have given her respect and she has given u none respect is 50/50.She takes advantage of the fact that she is your step-mom which is so wrong if anything she should respect u more cause she entered your life.I think u said your pops is not a dumb person and I believe it I just hope he sees right thru her.

P.S. You are awesome it seems like you are the more mature person in all this she is 36 your are 15 and yet u act like the 36 year old. I applaud u for that just shows how smart and wise of a person u are.

No I never have...I have been used, but that's another story...

petey2780 : Hey Thank you. Another thing happend today, Okay see my cell phone was broken and she let me borrow one of her older razer phones and.. we did agree that if hers broke that I would give it to her to use again.. but I said right to her face that day, If your phone breaks and I still have texts or minutes on my phone you can't have it back. Cause that's my money and my stuff on that phone. And it's weird cause she says all this today.. and said I diddd NOT tell her that. I told her yes I did and I'v told her time and time again I have a very great memory and I remember what was said and what wasn't.. she takes like tonnnsss of medication and stuff for her back, leg, hip, and whatever else is wrong with her and she stays drugged pretty much all the time on medication to make her feel better. So I called daddy and Talked to him about this whole situation and he said nicely and calmly that we just don't need to talk to each other right now and he said this is just getting way to out of hand. I was very happy though that he wasn't all mad at me and thought everything was my fault because usually he dosen't like to get in between something and he was really there for me. So I'm just gonna listen to what he said cause I think it is the best soulution right now.

Thank you so very much again for your kind and gentle words it means alot.

PS don't you think its weird that she needs the razer back and she said cause her phone is broken but then again she was talking to somebody from new york about some of her Tuperware or something and also I had to call earlier to that same phone she said was broken to talk to dad... it's just hilarious. And in some of her texts she puts you can have it back if you want next week cause when I get my check I'm gonna get a iphone4 and I was gonna put you on my contract but I don't know anymore love you.... THAT IS WHAT SHE SAID COMPLETELY TRUE WORDS I was like sooo shocked.

Bintsy : I find your story rather interesting. She really said she didn't put you on the iphone 4 contract because she didn't love you? She's obviously a drugged psychopath who can't handle kids. I'm sorry that you're going through all this and I hope things get better for you.

As for being backstabbed myself, I can't say much. I don't make enemies, unfortunetly some friends require you to take sides. So i have had friends gossip about me because I was friends with their enemies... and so the warfare of a 13 year old rages on.

TargetDummy : Ya She just said she was thinking about putting me on the contract but she wasn't quite sure now. And after she said that in the same text she said I love you.

I don't really have enimies I just have people that I simply do not like sometimes. Really to me its just the way they treat me. And if I have treated them well.. then ya.

This situation is so sad... she then texted my mom all the texts that I sent to her and that she sent to me and you see I already showed mom the texts I sent to her and the ones she sent to me so to bad lol.. but she told my mother that I said and I quote' she said shes gonna get me out of her dads life... or something like that I NEVER SAID THAT! it's just another lie she threw on the tray.

Why doesn't she like you? You respect her right? Maybe she's just mean to you because`she doesn't like your mom. (sorry if I'm getting personal)

TargetDummy : Oh no It's not that she don't like me. See we had a really great friendship going until the avon thing happend and then she said its because of the thing I put on facebook that I said.. and it was nothing and she took it way out of hand.

All I said was You can't get any sleep with a little brother and sister around.

And it's true ... you can't get anysleep with little kids around ... I mean I couldn't even sleep this morning cause of my family members lol but that was one of her immature things that she did. Plently of other to tell like she lied to mom saying that i was gonna get her out of my dads life.. and I didn't say that.. also flipping out about the most pathedicist things you can flip out about and to me its just so sad.

And no your not taking anything to personal no worries.

I finally got her to stop texting me also daddy told me he told her to stop on the phone earlier ...

Well I'm sorry that your stepmom is treating you like this. It obvious that you don't deserve it and it sounds like she's in a lot of pain from all those meds you said she was on, but that is still no excuse. From what you've said it sounds like she's in high school, which is completely unbecoming for a woman her age. I would just suggest not talking to her. It's normally what people do when someone starts doing this in high school and if she chooses to act like that then you need to treat her like it. Now her drugs could be messing with her head a little bit, so she does get a little slack, but not enough to totally let it slide. As for the phone, finish your minutes up on it and get another one without her name on it. Obviously she's trying to punish you by taking your phone away. I really hope this works out for you.

rlmathias01 : Ya thank you. To late on the phone she wouldn't stop texting my mother so I gave her the phone today.. She owes me my money that belongs to the minutes I bought with my money.. like she will give it to me though. When I gave dad the phone he said he didn't know what was going on and he was gonna talk to her about it. I'm just really hurt about the whole situation.

But for the respect I have gave her... she needs to give me respect and she is not so I won't give her anymore.