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05-25-11 07:10 PM
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Lets say you are single and you was looking. You are at a bowling ally just having a good time playing the game. Then a girl/guy comes up to you and begins hitting on you trying to go out with you even if you know the person or not. That person whats to date you knowing that they are taken. What would you do? Tell him/her off or go out with her/him.
Lets say you are single and you was looking. You are at a bowling ally just having a good time playing the game. Then a girl/guy comes up to you and begins hitting on you trying to go out with you even if you know the person or not. That person whats to date you knowing that they are taken. What would you do? Tell him/her off or go out with her/him.
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05-25-11 07:13 PM
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I'd tell him off because I don't get into stupid situations like that LOL
I'd tell him off because I don't get into stupid situations like that LOL
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05-26-11 03:34 PM
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Tell them to beat it they are troublemakers and u dont wanna be part of it
Tell them to beat it they are troublemakers and u dont wanna be part of it
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05-26-11 04:10 PM
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"Sorry, not interested. Bye."

I will not be "the other woman" nor will I date a guy that would have one.
"Sorry, not interested. Bye."

I will not be "the other woman" nor will I date a guy that would have one.
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05-26-11 04:18 PM
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Depends, how much drama do you want in your life? Personally, I would go straight to their significant other and let them know as I don't play games.
Depends, how much drama do you want in your life? Personally, I would go straight to their significant other and let them know as I don't play games.
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05-26-11 05:50 PM
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Me personally. I would go out with her, but not because that she is taken. I would purposely go out with her only to reveal to her boyfriend/husband that she is no good and go behind your back. Once I've revealed that. I will tell her off and tell her that she needs to stop lying behind your man's back like that. I don't like those games either, but someone needs to tell their partners.
Me personally. I would go out with her, but not because that she is taken. I would purposely go out with her only to reveal to her boyfriend/husband that she is no good and go behind your back. Once I've revealed that. I will tell her off and tell her that she needs to stop lying behind your man's back like that. I don't like those games either, but someone needs to tell their partners.
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05-26-11 06:12 PM
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Believe it or not, I have been in this situation before.

My advice is to just run away, and tell the boyfriend (if you know him, what happened), nothing good ever comes out of these situations. She's cheating, and you don't want to date a cheater, because they ruin your love life.
Believe it or not, I have been in this situation before.

My advice is to just run away, and tell the boyfriend (if you know him, what happened), nothing good ever comes out of these situations. She's cheating, and you don't want to date a cheater, because they ruin your love life.
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"Sure tootse. Sounds keen."

Bet really, I'd just play it off and try to play it cool.

Or something.
"Sure tootse. Sounds keen."

Bet really, I'd just play it off and try to play it cool.

Or something.
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05-26-11 06:41 PM
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I would have fun and go out with that person. I don't care that they have a significant other. If they want to make the decision to go out with me instead, that's fine. If I'm attracted to them, I'll do whatever.

I believe in having fun. The other situation has nothing to do with me. It's not being hateful or offensive to the other guy. He should just understand his relationship better than what's going on.

I'd go for it and let her take me out.
I would have fun and go out with that person. I don't care that they have a significant other. If they want to make the decision to go out with me instead, that's fine. If I'm attracted to them, I'll do whatever.

I believe in having fun. The other situation has nothing to do with me. It's not being hateful or offensive to the other guy. He should just understand his relationship better than what's going on.

I'd go for it and let her take me out.
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05-26-11 08:34 PM
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Easy, I would tell them I don't like them hitting on me because they are with someone. Plain and simple.
Easy, I would tell them I don't like them hitting on me because they are with someone. Plain and simple.
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05-26-11 08:50 PM
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It's hard to say. I think I was hit on by someone's girlfriend once. Honestly, I was so young that I enjoyed it. The thought of someone liking me was too much to pass up. I pretty much just let her keep flirting. When she broke up with her boyfriend, she kinda lost interest in me.

However, if this were to happen now, I'd tell them that I don't roll like that. I know that if I was in that other person's situation, I would not want my partner doing stuff with someone else. However, I agree with warmaker in that you probably shouldn't even be with someone like that in the first place.
It's hard to say. I think I was hit on by someone's girlfriend once. Honestly, I was so young that I enjoyed it. The thought of someone liking me was too much to pass up. I pretty much just let her keep flirting. When she broke up with her boyfriend, she kinda lost interest in me.

However, if this were to happen now, I'd tell them that I don't roll like that. I know that if I was in that other person's situation, I would not want my partner doing stuff with someone else. However, I agree with warmaker in that you probably shouldn't even be with someone like that in the first place.
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05-29-11 09:58 PM
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I would tell him to go away, I'm not interested. Of course, I say that now. My first real relationship started when I met him at camp. I assumed he was single by the way he flirted with me, but after camp and after I had fallen for him, I found out that he had a girlfriend. Long story short, things didn't end too well and I will never do that again.
I would tell him to go away, I'm not interested. Of course, I say that now. My first real relationship started when I met him at camp. I assumed he was single by the way he flirted with me, but after camp and after I had fallen for him, I found out that he had a girlfriend. Long story short, things didn't end too well and I will never do that again.
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I think I have, I would just go with the flow and take it. I may not take it, but if she wanted to be with me, I would just do it because she may not want her boyfriend anymore.
I think I have, I would just go with the flow and take it. I may not take it, but if she wanted to be with me, I would just do it because she may not want her boyfriend anymore.
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um skrew you and get the hell away from me XD
um skrew you and get the hell away from me XD
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I'd avoid them a little more or show in my body language to stop doiong it rather than go out and out and say stop doing it, if you go out and out you might hurt her feeligns and stop beign friends
I'd avoid them a little more or show in my body language to stop doiong it rather than go out and out and say stop doing it, if you go out and out you might hurt her feeligns and stop beign friends
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That's a complex situation. It entirely depends on the guy - If he didn't want to be with his girlfriend, but he knows she'd sue him for child support or whatever bullsh*t like that, I'd probably take the risky path and go out with him. 

However, if a guy who is happily with his girlfriend and will stay with her? I'd flirt, but leave it as that. If he asked me out, I'd say "Erm.. no."
That's a complex situation. It entirely depends on the guy - If he didn't want to be with his girlfriend, but he knows she'd sue him for child support or whatever bullsh*t like that, I'd probably take the risky path and go out with him. 

However, if a guy who is happily with his girlfriend and will stay with her? I'd flirt, but leave it as that. If he asked me out, I'd say "Erm.. no."
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I might go out with her have some fun, but nothing afterwards, I might say "I noticed you have a ___" and tell it to her straight, or if I wasn't up for some fun, I would decline, otherwise maybe inform her partner.
I might go out with her have some fun, but nothing afterwards, I might say "I noticed you have a ___" and tell it to her straight, or if I wasn't up for some fun, I would decline, otherwise maybe inform her partner.
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I would probably do this....

I would likely make a few smart remarks saying I am not interested, but still be polite at the same time. if that doesn't work, I ignore her for a bit...if that fails, then to the boyfriend. If, for some reason, he doesn't care, I would have to "break her heart" if I dare use that term loosely. I would try to do so in a manner so she doesn't stalk me... well if that should ever happen I could always call the local law enforcement.

In all seriousness, It is impossible to give an appropriate answer here and now because I was never in this type of situation, and I do not know how my emotions would react if it was to happen spontaneously. 
I would probably do this....

I would likely make a few smart remarks saying I am not interested, but still be polite at the same time. if that doesn't work, I ignore her for a bit...if that fails, then to the boyfriend. If, for some reason, he doesn't care, I would have to "break her heart" if I dare use that term loosely. I would try to do so in a manner so she doesn't stalk me... well if that should ever happen I could always call the local law enforcement.

In all seriousness, It is impossible to give an appropriate answer here and now because I was never in this type of situation, and I do not know how my emotions would react if it was to happen spontaneously. 
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That would definately be complex, but what I would do is tell her that I cannot do anything with you, or you can say I have no choice but to break your heart.
That would definately be complex, but what I would do is tell her that I cannot do anything with you, or you can say I have no choice but to break your heart.
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Ugh!! I can not tell you how many times this has happened to me. The thing is I don't never find out that they're already dating until we get close to hooking up or some s***...and then I want to punch them in the face or curse them out you know...like WHY would you wait till this long to tell me that you're already dating someone huh!? Its just stupid, my advice is to RUN...RUN to heart's content...or just say tell him what's up even though it will hurt your heart but its for the greater good...and no drama will start either.
Ugh!! I can not tell you how many times this has happened to me. The thing is I don't never find out that they're already dating until we get close to hooking up or some s***...and then I want to punch them in the face or curse them out you know...like WHY would you wait till this long to tell me that you're already dating someone huh!? Its just stupid, my advice is to RUN...RUN to heart's content...or just say tell him what's up even though it will hurt your heart but its for the greater good...and no drama will start either.
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