What's the biggest regret you ever made in your life? well my biggest regret i ever made is breaking up with a great girl i met this girl back when i was 19yrs old i met her through a friend. i dated her for about 6 monthes she was an awesom girl the only thing that was kinda annoying to me at the time was she didnt like me hanging out with my friends all the time she wanted me to spend more time with her. and so we was always fighting about my friends. and so my friend said man you should dump her and find another chick. i said to myself man i cant dump her shes like the best girl i ever dated, and back then i dated alot of girls but honesly she was one of a kind. so i debated in my head for about 2 weekes we fought back in forth. and so one night me and my friends were having a party at a house and i got drunk and i came home real late like at 4am and me and her got in to it and i called her a bunch of names and i said i'm breaking up with you get out of my house and i layed down on the bed and passed out. and i woke up the next morning not remembering much and i was wondering were she was. and so i called on her cell phone and she was at her moms and she said she isnt ever going to come back to me god i was SO heart broken so as time passed i tryed to find a girl that would get her OFF my mind but so far i haden't, since then i been through alot of girls i'm 24yrs now. since that day she has changed my life for the better. she has a boyfriend now and shes planning on getting married and she has a kid by him now. the reason why i know that is because i found her on myspace 1yr ago and i emailed her and she emailed me back and said she wanted to meet me and she was so happy to hear from me. she said she has been wanting to come see me or find me but she was to scared and didn't know what to say if she found me. anyway we are talking to each other now me and her and her boyfriend are friends and she wants me to come to her wedding. she said she always wants me to be her friend and never wants to loose me anymore.

A lot of guys are torn between friends or a girl. To bad you had to learn the hard way about what girl to keep and dump.

How do you feel being friends? Do you still have feelings for her?

My biggest regret? I honestly don't know, I don't regret much.

No i dont have any feelings like that toward her anymore. were JUST friends now. i wouldnt break up a family.

The biggest regret I have, is messing it up big with this girl Dawn. We were like so perfect, it's a long story to really explain in few words but basically she cheated on me while I was out of state, then we split up, we were on the verge of getting back together, I cheated on her(kinda). We officially got back together, she found out it was the same night we got together, flipped out, and it just never worked out. But even through this chaos is was a perfect relationship, she was beautiful, awesome to hang out with, and just stuck by my side through alot of stuff. There's more to the story then that like I said so you might not fully understand it all but it's still one of my biggest regrets in life.

My biggest regret I ever have ever, which still haunts me about my future EVERY NIGHT is the fact that when I was in 6th grade I dropped out of 9th grade math class. (Yes, 9th grade math class) sure, i had 3 years of inexpirence that everyone else had, but still, that would have greatly increased my chances for a really good college. it makes me want to just break out crying just typing it...

I would have to say my greatest regret is trying to go to college when i wasn't ready. I wasted a lot of time and money to only have gone 2 months.

Tch. I have a lot of regrets!

Most of them involving girls that i COULD have had a shot with, but didn't realize it at the time (Now I can think of like four girls that I could've been with... If only I knew what I know now...) and cheating through school and cussing out my teachers, NOT going to college at all (not even trying), and mooching and taking advantage of a lot of people I shouldn't have taken advantage of...

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Haven't broke the law yet (silver lining Lol)...

But idk my family's got a lot of... idk what you'd call it. Hard-a**es in it, so I can't say I'll stay law-free. It's just my hope. Haha

Yeah I have a lot of regrets. More than I'm willing to list here! Lmao

Well Zeldisaster, I feel like I have a lot of regrets, and more then I'm willing to list here also. Guess it's part of life. We live by trial and error. It's like they say, "Whats the point in making mistakes if we don't learn from them". Just got to make a better future and not dawn on the past. I live life to the fullest because that's the only way I know how to live...

I have a couple I can think of.

1. I wish I had treated my girlfriend from high school better. I look back at my time with her and compare it with the way things are with my wife and I can't believe the difference in the way I treat them. I won't go into details or anything... but it is something I regret.

2. I regret not being more social in high school. I was a fairly smart student so I didn't have to spend too much time working on homework or anything so I wish I had taken more time to go out and be with people. I tended to stay home and play video games or hang out on the internet and such. It's just something I regret.

Biggest regret was loaning one of my ex boyfriends money. He still hasn't paid me back and I don't know if he ever will.

Other than that, well... I regret putting off taking math classes in college for so long. If I had done it while it was all still fresh in my head I might have been able to make it through Calculus and be getting my BA in Biology instead of History. Don't get me wrong, I love History... but I could have saved so much time and money by not switching majors.

Oh, and I regret chasing after my last ex for seven months after we split up. Waste of time and heartache that I didn't need and really just made my life hell.

I regret ending a good friendship with a girl i knew all through high school
she made a series of bad choices all the time and I usually get screwed in the end
awhile ago I heard she turned to drinking just about everyday and doesn't look the same anymore

I hate to admit that I've almost never regret for something.
I think that it is necessary to make mistakes in your life, because they can teach you a lot of good lessons.
So, if I had never done things that they were wrong, I would never have had learnt so many things about life.
As a result, even if I had the chance, I don't think that I would have changed something in my life.

The only signifigant regret of mine that haunts me to today happened about 6 months ago. This sophmore from school, (who had a habbit of p*ssing off everyone) decided to try and hit on my girlfriend when we were heading to her plae. Long story short, I beat the ever-loving hell out of him, and got suspended for 4 days. He was in the hospital for a week, I think. We have never spoken since. Oddly enough, my girlfriend thought I was awesome, but then again, i'll never understand her.

Originally posted by noelia

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I hate to admit that I've almost never regret for something.
I think that it is necessary to make mistakes in your life, because they can teach you a lot of good lessons.
So, if I had never done things that they were wrong, I would never have had learnt so many things about life.
As a result, even if I had the chance, I don't think that I would have changed something in my life.

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You shouldn't hate to admit it, that's a great way of looking it, keep it up!

@SarothCyngus. At least you didn't loose your girlfriend over it. But ya, it can be haunting to beat someone to a pulp.

Well, my biggest regret is bashing someone up. I got into heaps of trouble, and then his BIG brother bashed me up. I was hated by everybody, and to this day, Everytime I apply pressure to my arm, I feel extreme pain (A part where the boy bashed me up). Even though I am Blue belt in karate today, and could easily smash him, I regret ever doing what I did.

Originally posted by Light Knight

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Originally posted by noelia

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I hate to admit that I've almost never regret for something.
I think that it is necessary to make mistakes in your life, because they can teach you a lot of good lessons.
So, if I had never done things that they were wrong, I would never have had learnt so many things about life.
As a result, even if I had the chance, I don't think that I would have changed something in my life.

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You shouldn't hate to admit it, that's a great way of looking it, keep it up!

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I said I hate that, because I'm afraid that maybe I'll become too stubborn one day...(I hope this will never happen).
But I like that you don't judge the way that I'm looking mistakes! Thank's

Ya, there's a good balance between learning from your mistakes and regretting your past.

And I suppose regret to a certain point is healthy, as long as it doesn't bother over a very long period of time instead of just teaching you a lesson.

Hm...I don't know exactly....
I guess I mostly regret meaning mean to my ex....
that i cared a lot about...and we don't even talk as friends anymore...
That seems like the most
regretful at this moment because I miss him.

Wow most of your regrets seem to be about girls, luckily I don't have any that stick when it comes to past relationships, at first I'll think I messed up somehow, but in the end after the emotions cool down I usually find I did my best and wasn't being a moron.

Now my biggest regret is an instance of animal cruelty. When bout 6-8 yrs old I had a couple kittens (pet lovers may nto wanna read till the end, where I learn my lesson) I'm not exactly sure why anymore but I was tossing the one into the air and making him do flips and stuff, thought it was great fun for awhile. Then I looked my kitty in the face and I had split its nose open pretty good, at that site I teared up and vowed never to be mean to animals again. (I even hate killing bugs now)

I think the realization that there were consequences to my actions hit me that day or something, cuz I was a bully b4 this incident, and kinda mean in generall. Ever since that evening though, thinking b4 acting tends to be the norm.