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02-28-16 11:08 AM
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You know how things get so complicated in life or you have some great big news you don't want anyone to know yet you just want to say it? Do you have that one person you can rely on to tell secrets or your day, whether it be good or bad? One who you tend to hang out much and spend as much time together? One who you can rely on for everything. Can be your friend, a parent or relative, worker or anyone else.

Me, personally I don't know... I had a person I always go to and tel everything to that person. I'm not going to say who this person is but he/she was always there even though their schedule was in a tight squeeze. They always had the time to hear me out and I did the same for that person. I listened and always have an ear and I received the same treatment. We message, call, spend time talking about our daily lives and well, just a regular "close friends" relationship we had. We helped each other through the bad times and remembered the great times and such. Though I felt like I took it for granted last year... Due to my behavior reverting back to.... My old self (the big egotistical prideful bully self) but they knocked some sense to me... Had to think about myself and reevaluate my behavior and how it tends to create a bigger impact to others than I thought it would, negatively of course. Now I try to go to that person even though our contact is very limited... But i only want is just an ear since they don't have the time to respond... But I always love a good feedback from that person... And I won't take it for granted once more...

Been three years now since our first encounter and honestly, never thought we be this close, or for him/her to be the person I can count on for anything even though our beliefs and lives are nearly opposites to one another. I'm grateful and hopefully they were too. Through thick and thin or good and bad hopefully our friendship will stay strong
You know how things get so complicated in life or you have some great big news you don't want anyone to know yet you just want to say it? Do you have that one person you can rely on to tell secrets or your day, whether it be good or bad? One who you tend to hang out much and spend as much time together? One who you can rely on for everything. Can be your friend, a parent or relative, worker or anyone else.

Me, personally I don't know... I had a person I always go to and tel everything to that person. I'm not going to say who this person is but he/she was always there even though their schedule was in a tight squeeze. They always had the time to hear me out and I did the same for that person. I listened and always have an ear and I received the same treatment. We message, call, spend time talking about our daily lives and well, just a regular "close friends" relationship we had. We helped each other through the bad times and remembered the great times and such. Though I felt like I took it for granted last year... Due to my behavior reverting back to.... My old self (the big egotistical prideful bully self) but they knocked some sense to me... Had to think about myself and reevaluate my behavior and how it tends to create a bigger impact to others than I thought it would, negatively of course. Now I try to go to that person even though our contact is very limited... But i only want is just an ear since they don't have the time to respond... But I always love a good feedback from that person... And I won't take it for granted once more...

Been three years now since our first encounter and honestly, never thought we be this close, or for him/her to be the person I can count on for anything even though our beliefs and lives are nearly opposites to one another. I'm grateful and hopefully they were too. Through thick and thin or good and bad hopefully our friendship will stay strong
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02-28-16 11:13 AM
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I don't have a person to go to for secrets since everyone around me is so gossipy in some way or another. But if I ever have living problems or anything related to that my grandfather or grandmother would always give a place to stay(as long as you help them) till you can get back up and go back to living your life.
I don't have a person to go to for secrets since everyone around me is so gossipy in some way or another. But if I ever have living problems or anything related to that my grandfather or grandmother would always give a place to stay(as long as you help them) till you can get back up and go back to living your life.
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I have a go-to person that I'm grateful I can tell literally everything and anything to. Sometimes it's deep stuff, sometimes it's stuff that's TMI, lol anything. She's become one of my best friends, and I'm happy she's a part of my life.
I have a go-to person that I'm grateful I can tell literally everything and anything to. Sometimes it's deep stuff, sometimes it's stuff that's TMI, lol anything. She's become one of my best friends, and I'm happy she's a part of my life.
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Unfortunately, I do not. It's really just me everyday. There are actually a bunch of things I would like to say, but I have no one...
Unfortunately, I do not. It's really just me everyday. There are actually a bunch of things I would like to say, but I have no one...
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I can trust only a few people and also all the communities I visit, but no one else.
They'd just gossip about it or call Cammy something I can't repeat.
This is why I don't want to show her to some people because they don't have a good eye for attractive girls.
I can trust only a few people and also all the communities I visit, but no one else.
They'd just gossip about it or call Cammy something I can't repeat.
This is why I don't want to show her to some people because they don't have a good eye for attractive girls.
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Not really, i keep everything to myself mostly.
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Wow, that sounds rough.

For me IRL, its my two best friends and on vizzed its geeo, the three of them are all awesome. As for my friends, I guess I would say I changed a lot because of them.
Wow, that sounds rough.

For me IRL, its my two best friends and on vizzed its geeo, the three of them are all awesome. As for my friends, I guess I would say I changed a lot because of them.
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I really don't know. I'm okay with opening up to my closest friends, but I feel most comfortable opening up to...my parents. I know they won't immediately distance themselves from me, no matter what I tell them, and that's what I'm afraid of sometimes when I think about opening up to my closest friends.
I really don't know. I'm okay with opening up to my closest friends, but I feel most comfortable opening up to...my parents. I know they won't immediately distance themselves from me, no matter what I tell them, and that's what I'm afraid of sometimes when I think about opening up to my closest friends.
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I don't have a go-to person, I have go-to people I have a group chat with my friends from summer camp and I have a group DM on Twitter with 3 other YouTubers in the NHL community. They are always the first people I go to when I need help or advice or need to get something off of my chest.
I don't have a go-to person, I have go-to people I have a group chat with my friends from summer camp and I have a group DM on Twitter with 3 other YouTubers in the NHL community. They are always the first people I go to when I need help or advice or need to get something off of my chest.
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I have a chatroom that I go to for everything personal, either good or bad. I don't have a close friend in real life, though, so that part I don't have.

Bec, try talking to the close friend you have and apologize. An apology goes a long way.
I have a chatroom that I go to for everything personal, either good or bad. I don't have a close friend in real life, though, so that part I don't have.

Bec, try talking to the close friend you have and apologize. An apology goes a long way.
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Snowdeath :
I know the situation he is referring to, and it's not that simple at all. It's really beyond his control or persuasion.  

And to stay on topic:  I don't have a go-to person, though I used to.
Snowdeath :
I know the situation he is referring to, and it's not that simple at all. It's really beyond his control or persuasion.  

And to stay on topic:  I don't have a go-to person, though I used to.
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My go to person / gal is my wife We share EVERYTHING.  Didn't used to be that way, but once you sail together and survive through rough seas and believe and commit to "for better or for worse", man, it does something special to your relationship.  When it comes to forums though, I tread carefully with whom I share my personal life with.
My go to person / gal is my wife We share EVERYTHING.  Didn't used to be that way, but once you sail together and survive through rough seas and believe and commit to "for better or for worse", man, it does something special to your relationship.  When it comes to forums though, I tread carefully with whom I share my personal life with.
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Snowdeath : it'll take more than just an apology... The person can still listen and hear me out but he/she just... Can't give feedback or support due to a complicated series of events...
Snowdeath : it'll take more than just an apology... The person can still listen and hear me out but he/she just... Can't give feedback or support due to a complicated series of events...
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I usually tell my sister since I always know she will listen If she isn't in a bad mood.
I usually tell my sister since I always know she will listen If she isn't in a bad mood.
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No, I cannot say I have such a person. Though, I am a person that people come to vent to.

I'm not sure if that is a good or bad thing, but it can be straining constantly helping people and having no one there to help you in return. Though, in it's purest form we just go to people for help or to vent often time because we need help coping with an emotion or event. If that's the case there's plenty of other potential outlets to go to that either help you cope or keep your mind off things. Stuff like art, poetry video games, studying, watching speeches, religion, etc. Though often times they may not be as effective of an outlet like say a person, sometimes they can be. Also, when we imagine having a "go to person" chances are we have an overly glorified image of how said person may be. 

It is important to try and not to get jealous of those people who do have said people. To one without a "go to person" their life may seem to be going better, but one cannot really know unless they know the person on a very personal level. Also jealousy is often times a feeling that controls and conquers. 

Sorry for my tangent, this wasn't necessarily directed towards you (the OG thread creator) but I thought it may as well be something I put for other readers as it may prove interesting for some.
No, I cannot say I have such a person. Though, I am a person that people come to vent to.

I'm not sure if that is a good or bad thing, but it can be straining constantly helping people and having no one there to help you in return. Though, in it's purest form we just go to people for help or to vent often time because we need help coping with an emotion or event. If that's the case there's plenty of other potential outlets to go to that either help you cope or keep your mind off things. Stuff like art, poetry video games, studying, watching speeches, religion, etc. Though often times they may not be as effective of an outlet like say a person, sometimes they can be. Also, when we imagine having a "go to person" chances are we have an overly glorified image of how said person may be. 

It is important to try and not to get jealous of those people who do have said people. To one without a "go to person" their life may seem to be going better, but one cannot really know unless they know the person on a very personal level. Also jealousy is often times a feeling that controls and conquers. 

Sorry for my tangent, this wasn't necessarily directed towards you (the OG thread creator) but I thought it may as well be something I put for other readers as it may prove interesting for some.
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I do, and I've very grateful for it. I am a fairly open person generally, I will answer almost any question I'm asked (emphasis on almost). But there's only one person I fully open up to at the moment. We are very similar, even in our pasts so we have a mutual understanding, I honestly don't know how I would have got through some weeks as well as I did without this guy to help me. He is a true friend.
I do, and I've very grateful for it. I am a fairly open person generally, I will answer almost any question I'm asked (emphasis on almost). But there's only one person I fully open up to at the moment. We are very similar, even in our pasts so we have a mutual understanding, I honestly don't know how I would have got through some weeks as well as I did without this guy to help me. He is a true friend.
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