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11-17-15 11:35 PM
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so I have started dating this girl online and it's getting pretty serious, but the problem is that I just wen to add her on facebook and stuff and I find out that she is engaged, and yes it is all resent I checked. But I wanna know what I should do, I love her, I think she loves me and she wants me to meet her daughter and all that stuff, but I don't wanna do something stupid and go where she is and find out she doesn't want me but I also don't want to confront her and lose her.... this has been my first relationship since my divorce 2 years ago and it's eating me up. So please can anyone help?
so I have started dating this girl online and it's getting pretty serious, but the problem is that I just wen to add her on facebook and stuff and I find out that she is engaged, and yes it is all resent I checked. But I wanna know what I should do, I love her, I think she loves me and she wants me to meet her daughter and all that stuff, but I don't wanna do something stupid and go where she is and find out she doesn't want me but I also don't want to confront her and lose her.... this has been my first relationship since my divorce 2 years ago and it's eating me up. So please can anyone help?
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bluecaboose001 : Well....if you do meet someone like that you really have to think if she is the one. If she is engaged to someone I think its best that you let her go...reason saying she has a daughter you said? You should do what is best. I'm not going to tell you I can only advise you. I'm sure you'll be able to find someone better. You wouldn't really want to ruin a relationship like that if it is already motion. Or you can just stay as friends and be there for her as a friend that's better in a way. I hope this helps you out. ^-^
bluecaboose001 : Well....if you do meet someone like that you really have to think if she is the one. If she is engaged to someone I think its best that you let her go...reason saying she has a daughter you said? You should do what is best. I'm not going to tell you I can only advise you. I'm sure you'll be able to find someone better. You wouldn't really want to ruin a relationship like that if it is already motion. Or you can just stay as friends and be there for her as a friend that's better in a way. I hope this helps you out. ^-^
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bluecaboose001 : Ummm... Reason why is she dating you while she is engaged? And how she have a daughter? It doesn't make sense to me. 
bluecaboose001 : Ummm... Reason why is she dating you while she is engaged? And how she have a daughter? It doesn't make sense to me. 
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If she is engaged and didn't tell you then it sounds like she is lying to you and I would walk away from that. Not worth the trouble. Better to end it now than get into another bad relationship that is only going to end in divorce. If she isn't honest from the start then what reason do you have to believe anything else she says?

Also, I would confront her and see what she says. It's not fair to lie to someone like that and string them along.
If she is engaged and didn't tell you then it sounds like she is lying to you and I would walk away from that. Not worth the trouble. Better to end it now than get into another bad relationship that is only going to end in divorce. If she isn't honest from the start then what reason do you have to believe anything else she says?

Also, I would confront her and see what she says. It's not fair to lie to someone like that and string them along.
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bluecaboose001 : i agree with geeogree
bluecaboose001 : i agree with geeogree
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i would avoid her like the plague shes cheating and who's to say she wont cheat on you
i would avoid her like the plague shes cheating and who's to say she wont cheat on you
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thank you all for the help I did let her go this morning she tried to lie her way out of it and I didn't wanna deal with it so, again thank you
thank you all for the help I did let her go this morning she tried to lie her way out of it and I didn't wanna deal with it so, again thank you
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bluecaboose001 : You love her?  Have you met her?  Do you know what she smells like or what she looks like when she eats food?  When she sleeps, what side of the bed does she like?  How much pride does she take in how she looks?

There's a lot going on and it's too bad that she's engaged.  I can't tell you what to do, none of us can, but if it were me, I'd openly ask her, "Are you engaged with *whatever guy*?"  I'd let her respond and see what she has to say.  If she is, why is she pursuing a relationship with me?  Who else is she having fall in love with her?  What's the competition really look like?

Do you think you're the only one besides the fiancee that this chick is talking to?  That's a good question.

I would walk away if it is going down as you're portraying.  I'm out and finding someone who's honest.  Who knows what else is happening with her.
bluecaboose001 : You love her?  Have you met her?  Do you know what she smells like or what she looks like when she eats food?  When she sleeps, what side of the bed does she like?  How much pride does she take in how she looks?

There's a lot going on and it's too bad that she's engaged.  I can't tell you what to do, none of us can, but if it were me, I'd openly ask her, "Are you engaged with *whatever guy*?"  I'd let her respond and see what she has to say.  If she is, why is she pursuing a relationship with me?  Who else is she having fall in love with her?  What's the competition really look like?

Do you think you're the only one besides the fiancee that this chick is talking to?  That's a good question.

I would walk away if it is going down as you're portraying.  I'm out and finding someone who's honest.  Who knows what else is happening with her.
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Obviously she is a liar or at least been keeping the whole truth from you. b****es like these are just booty calls man. I mean this is when you have to back to your hs and college years when your buddies would just be like yo you're in too deep, just screw her and forget about her bro. I mean I probably sound like a dick but hey all of the dbag guys knows exactly how this will end.

For example, guy and girl meets, girl is cheating with said guy on her bf. Then the girl breaks up with the old guy and fully openly gets with the new guy. She cheats again and repeat. 

In this case this can happen with either sex and both persons can be doing it. A cheater will end the relationship by cheating in the new relationship. 


Now of course there is a whole side of the story we know not of. If she is ringed and everything but is seeing you then really it is her fiance's fault for not being an adequate guy for her and thus problems arose that he cannot manage. If my gf cheats on me then that must have been my fault because I'm frickin awesome. If she cheats that means I stopped being awesome somehow and found that awesomeness in someone else. If I become boring and she gets bored of me it is my fault. If I am abusive mentally or physcially or both then no s*** that is my fault. Either way most people don't cheat because they are s***s/a**h***s. What they were seeking or interested in is just not as there as they want and thus they cheat. I just met a sexy mexican girl at work and we are hitting it off, she knows I am taken but we still flirt a lot. I don't go further because while I am awesome, so is my gf so I don't need to cheat because the risk is not worth it. 

If I were you, I would confront her, say wtf in a smart way and get the truth. You deserve it. As of right now though, all my red flags are up for you buddy. The only green flag is the one where you should act oblivious, be a college dbag, f her and be done with it. Good luck.
Obviously she is a liar or at least been keeping the whole truth from you. b****es like these are just booty calls man. I mean this is when you have to back to your hs and college years when your buddies would just be like yo you're in too deep, just screw her and forget about her bro. I mean I probably sound like a dick but hey all of the dbag guys knows exactly how this will end.

For example, guy and girl meets, girl is cheating with said guy on her bf. Then the girl breaks up with the old guy and fully openly gets with the new guy. She cheats again and repeat. 

In this case this can happen with either sex and both persons can be doing it. A cheater will end the relationship by cheating in the new relationship. 


Now of course there is a whole side of the story we know not of. If she is ringed and everything but is seeing you then really it is her fiance's fault for not being an adequate guy for her and thus problems arose that he cannot manage. If my gf cheats on me then that must have been my fault because I'm frickin awesome. If she cheats that means I stopped being awesome somehow and found that awesomeness in someone else. If I become boring and she gets bored of me it is my fault. If I am abusive mentally or physcially or both then no s*** that is my fault. Either way most people don't cheat because they are s***s/a**h***s. What they were seeking or interested in is just not as there as they want and thus they cheat. I just met a sexy mexican girl at work and we are hitting it off, she knows I am taken but we still flirt a lot. I don't go further because while I am awesome, so is my gf so I don't need to cheat because the risk is not worth it. 

If I were you, I would confront her, say wtf in a smart way and get the truth. You deserve it. As of right now though, all my red flags are up for you buddy. The only green flag is the one where you should act oblivious, be a college dbag, f her and be done with it. Good luck.
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