I bet this one doesn't get any single answers but hey, I am soon going to be thirty five. You, over thirty person, wanna share? How the heck did this happen. Or more likely, how the heck you did not go through even your first divorce. Or did you?

I'm happily married at 33 in my first marriage and I don't think we're going to split any time soon.  I don't see divorce in the future and I'm glad about that.

I don't know how it happened with you.  Did you not decide dating was important?  My sister is 35 and she's single, never been married.  She never really went out or tried to physically attract guys because she wanted them to like her for her intelligence and personality.  All the good guys are now gone where she lives and there's not much left, unless she's into divorcees, which she isn't.

I think the trick is to find someone who enjoys the approximate same amount of alcohol and sex you like.  That works for my marriage and we're happy.

well, i am 35. just turned last october. while i havent been single my whole life i have never been married either. i do want to be with someone...actually somone's as i am polyamoral and recently just came out as such. it means i have the capacity to be in love with and be with more than one person. marriage pretty much gets thrown out the window for people like me. its not something im really worried about though as im the type to just be happy to be with people i love.

as far as you, im not sure its so uncommon to be single at the age you are at. how it happened is hard to say though they do have those games where certain decisions affect the outcome if you have heard of that. if you are interested in having a relationship with someone in life though i say it is a worthy pursuit and i encourage and wish you the best there!

I'm likely never going to get married. I've had many bad relationships with women and just feel that I'm happier without all that drama.

warmaker :

yeah yeah yeah...

oldschoolboyz :
Polyamory... yeah yeah... same crap with a different name with more people.

Just turned 34 last month. Had two good relationships but kind of had to end because of moving away due to the Army. It sucks. The last women would have been great for me. She was like the female version of myself. You don't find that a lot with the opposite sex.

Cyro Xero :

You can say that again.