NintendoFanKimmy : I see.  Does it have to do on why you wear glasses now ?

This is no joke, but often people say I'm too nice. Although that can be good, it has not always helped me.
For example, this Thursday I was on my phone during the break. I showed my friends a weird conversation and they took my phone to read it. Both of them said in the class group on What'sapp 'Shut up'. It wouldn't be so bad, but then I said something like '**** ...' which I meant my friends with, but one of my friends has the name as some other boy in the class, and that boy had just said in the group I needed to chill out. So I thought that he thought it was meant for him, because I said 'Sorry, I'm honest' and he responded 'I'm too, ****'. So for the next hour, I was irritated as hell while my friends had to laugh of it. When the hour was over, I went to that boy and asked him if he had understood what I meant. He said he understood it and was joking when he said that. 

I got the feeling my heart dropped, no joke.

So although I don't mind to be 'too nice' sometimes, I wish that other people would be more nice as well and that they wouldn't make too much use of me.

NintendoFanKimmy : Awww, you sound so cute and adorable right now. *poke* Aside for that, I doubt ther'es really anything that you can do, I doubt eye transplants will be avaiable for a while, so you're just going to have find new ways to be cool to balance it out, or just keep your eyes closed whenever you are around people and nobody will ever notice.

There were some random sentences in there....

I have brown eyes too.. and as a matter of fact.. I adore the color brown. It's my favorite color.  I understand what you're saying about your eyes though, and it makes me think of something that astounded me.

In high school, there was a girl in some of my classes who always fascinated me. Or rather, her eyes did.  I think they were somewhat like yours, but by your description... probably darker. See... her irises LOOKED black... even close up. It was the most bizarre thing!  It wasn't the 'large' factor that always threw me off but the fact that.... you could NEVER tell what she was looking at....  She might have been talking to me, for example, but because of her irises, it looked like she was looking past me, or through me... as though she was blind.

Has anyone ever said that to you.. that it's difficult to tell where your eyes are focusing?

Singelli : No, it isn't as bad with me as it is with the person you were talking about, according to your description. 

You know, I have brown eyes as well. When I look closely at my eyes in a mirror, they are brown like chocolate. Otherwise, they become darker. Would I change my eyes? No way. For nothing. It could better but it could worse. I have my own personality, my own body and people have to deal with it. I'm not born to be loved by everyone. I want to be liked for what I really am.

My eyes are the same way. They don't usually have a lot of contrast in them, they're pretty opaque brown and sometimes it's hard to distinguish whether or not I have pupils probably.

They're cool enough though. They're a cool shape and the actual color from what I've seen of it isn't so bad. I thought they were boring growing up, because everyone else seems to have some contrast in their eyes or at least a slightly varying array of color. Mine seem pretty dark and other times they have more depth and you can see a bit of the orange that essentially makes the difference between black and brown.

Then again, I've never seen them in my entire life so I'll let other people be the judge. They just look black in pictures so I don't have much of a reference level. You can tell they're brown in the mirror but it's all lighting and BS.

Anyway, unless you want to get contacts, I guess you'll have to deal with possibly looking cute rather than cool. They're both fine options, anyway. I could go for looking cute, although my eyes aren't really big, so maybe I'm not cute. Your means for determining these things confuse me.

KG :  I'm just curious... if you read my post above, this question might make more sense:  Do people ever tell you they have trouble telling what your eyes are focusing on?

I've always wondered if that affect on the girl was from her iris color, or if it was truly some other medical problem that caused it.

Singelli : I read your post, but nah, no one's ever said anything to me about it. The only time anyone's actually spoken to me about them is just generic compliments or whatever, but nothing pertaining to whether or not I was looking at them or something. I look at random things when I'm thinking about stuff and I think that that throws people off, but I don't think that has as much to do with the color itself as that I'm looking at them or something around them and not really saying or doing anything.

My eyes are brown too, but very dark. You know how some people have brown eyes that appear to be black, even though black is not an actual eye color? That's my eyes. I wouldn't trade them for anything, though. There are some things that you just cannot change, I guess.

I'm sure your eyes are beautiful dear. 

But I know where you're coming from, I absolutely despise my nose... and with a bloody passion. It's quite insane, really.

Brown eyed people get love too, Van Morrison wrote a song called "Brown Eyed Girl".

My eyes are dark blue. I get a lot of people gushing over them. But I don't really think one way or the other about them. Its not like a giant nose or something that sticks out, its just eyes. And while everyone looks at them (hopefully) when talking to you, a majority of the population are in the same eye color boat.