Hey guys anyone that read my How do I tell this girl I like her thread this is a follow up thread so I gave here the letter but all she said was thank you does that mean she does not like me because I'm getting nervous and I'm also scared to ask her if she likes me  

It is the thought that counts dude, if she is shy then she probably won't come out and say it, all I can say is give it time. These things aren't meant to be rushed, if she doesn't respond in about a week or 2, then just assume that the answer is no and move on, don't guilt tripping her. If she doesn't say anything then move on, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. You gave her a letter and you really put thought into it, what more could she ask from you? Like I said man, give it time and just patiently wait for a response.

Hope that this helps you dude, and if it is a no, then don't take it too hard, there are many other girls out there. 

Razor-987 : I'm not guilt tripping her or anything I just gave her the letter and that's it I have not asked her if she likes me and I do not plan to anytime soon and Its been like 2 weeks now but the thing is every day shes on my mind I just think about her every day

Hm, I think girls are more comfortable in liking a guy if they know them first. You guys are just classmates, right? Then get to know her a little more, first. Have casual talk, like your favorite movies, or whatever. If you can get the conversation going, then that's a good thing.

I would say that it's best to not bring up that letter until you and her get to know each other a bit more. Because she might be thinking 'no' right now, but if you guys talk a bit, then she might change her answer to 'yes'.

Well friend ... to be honest I don't know .. I just wanted to post something JK . 


Maybe she is in the same predicament as you . Like she is shy . You'know . Or she did not understand the letter properly  

Its either one of two things . One . She likes you . Two . She doesn't . Not that hard . So maybe if yas talsk to her and get an answer then you won't have to be worrying or wondering  

Mistress : she knows me really well we see each other every day and the letter said look this is hard for me to say but I'll say it I like you but I'm a special ed kid and your a beautiful girl

Oh, but what's your relationship with her? Are you two friends or just classmates?

Better yet, why don't you give us details what this girl is like. Maybe some of the experts can help you out if you tell us what she's like. Just DO NOT give out personal information about her.

Mistress : well I can't give much info because we only see each other 3rd period but what I do know about her is that she likes some type of music ( she did not tell me ) she also likes talented people which I don't have a problem with its just that I don't have a damn talent and some other stuff that I won't say and my relationship with her we are still in the friend zone we are not in the more then friends

If she said thank you and nothing more it means she doesn't mind you but you're not at the front of her list of boys she wants to date.  I don't think anything more will happen until you get to know her more.  She probably doesn't know you that well and she can't go out with someone she doesn't know.

Keep talking to her and stay her friend.  You have to be friends before you really date someone because you two have to connect on the social level anyway.

It's not bad.  It's not great but she acknowledged you gave her the letter and she read it.  She didn't tell you to leave her alone and she still talks to you so that's a good sign.  But it's not ideal.

Keep talking to her.

To be completely honest and not to hurt your feelings, if she read your letter and didn't say anything to you it's probably because she doesn't feel comfortable telling you that she doesn't want to date you right now. That being said, she didn't tell you to stay away either so she probably thinks you are nice. You just have to get to know her some. Hang out with her as friends and see what happens.

sonic23 : I just wanted to chip in on something not entirely related to your thread. Instead, I want to comment on something you said.

You said that you have no talent.

Don't EVER.... disqualify yourself. You have talent.  Don't doubt it, and be strong.  Don't put yourself down, because I'm sure you are an amazing person.  You might not know what your talent is... or you simply might not admit it... but I guarantee you have one.

Singelli : your right and I know I am going to regret saying this if she does not like me for me then shes not the right girl for me 

sonic23 :  That is very true.  *hugs tightly* You're going to be okay though. You have a whole life ahead of you. Besides, you can only wait to see what happens.   Like a lot of people said here, try getting to know her first to see what happens.

Just don't... EVER.... doubt yourself.

two way to get her.. hang out with her eventually they will grow on you.

to make yourself handsome.

if she said thank you. go up to her and just ask this will make you or break you but when you become heart broken its all
up hill.

the more you fail the better your life is going to be 1 thing school doesn't teach you...
you will gain confidence and with that confidence you will eventually become a disloyal man if this girl rejects you?

give or take depends on your personality to be honest.?

but at this point i would approach her and say.?
"hey so i see you got my letter" (btw i never would of sended a girl a letter i prefer in person/phone anyways)
"It's my first time expressing me feelings and im not good at it"
"i have some feeling for you and wondering if you can sense or feel any towards me"
"if not don't worry about it just give me a yes or no answer if you can"
"or just nod if your shy too"

that what i would say if you need help broski text me lol

Well she knows you like her, maybe she is more as so shy? The most I can tell you is, get to know her better. I understand you said, you know her well, you see her often and such. But that's not what I mean. I mean, Get to know her, like her emotions, what she wants in life, and what she is looking for. I don't usually say this, but maybe ask a friend to help you, someone you trust. It's better to know someone very well. I recommend you asking her, and talking to her about it. Don't bring up liking her though when talking to her about what you want to know. It's really all about keeping your friendship close but not to close to the point where you get (friend zoned). I can't really say much more because i personally don't know her or how she is, or even you myself. But Just stay strong. And if it doesn't work, well hey, the world has more females then males (I don't know if thats true or not) you get my point. Keep your head up.

Well, either she is shy, or she doesn't really know you. How long have you known her? Were you two friends before? But a thank you isn't anything to sneeze at. You did something nice for her. But either way, things will work out. If she doesn't like you, don't feel bad, there will be others who might be better than she was.

No a simple Thank you is not bad! I bet you anything this girl is just really shy! My sister is really shy as well.. and that is something she would say! Just give it time a couple of weeks should do! Usually a girl feels shy and she may not even reply to you because of this. Hold in there and don't worry about it to much!




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