i like a girl in my school but i cant tell her that i love her.Help me girls and guys how do i tell her?

Do you have to?  Instead of telling her you love her, ask her how her day was, or if she has any siblings.  Get to know her and become her friend first.  If that goes well and you really do like her up close instead of from afar, the conversation goes in the direction of relationships.  Get her then.

Until then, relax, make a friend, and go from there.

Gook luck!

The vote will swing both ways. Either just out and tell her, to see what her response is.... or take the time to get to know her first (if you don't already).  Although it's not impossible... I will say this:  At your age, it's easy to believe you're 'in love'.  Don't let infatuations and crushes fool you.  Keep your eyes open on the future, but don't be too quick to commit yourself to the idea of being in love.  Take your time, do a lot of self-reflection, and always think of 'love' in terms of how it affects your future and the rest of your life.

Even if she -is- the right one, there's no rushing it.  The more you get to know each other, the more certain or uncertain you will be, and the healthier a potential relationship in the future can turn out.

Treat her like you should treat any girl you like. Get to know her, relax and have a few convos, then "make your move", which basically just means start some kind of relationship with her. Ask her out to something fun and simple, and in time the relationship will continue to grow... or maybe you'll get to know she wasn't what you thought she was. Either way, just start talking to her.

thanks guys she is reading in my class and the actuall thing is that i am not that good looking but i am not that ugly .i am from india so you can guess it and i know her very well .she is so cute and stylish .she already got many love offers but she directly rejected them so i am feeling nervous,she always treat me as a good freind so how can i tell her? please help me freinds,i love her with all my heart and i want her to tell me I love you.   

What I would do is take the time to get to know her and see if you guys have a lot in common, then once you feel comtorble around her you can start talking to her about a relationship or that you like her. Treat her like you would any other girl and just wait if that's what you think is right in your heart it's what I would do at least!




Bintsy<33

Seeing that school is on break, you'll have to wait until you return, but when you do, DON'T RUSH THINGS... Take your time and make sure that she is who you think she is...

Do you have anything in common with her? What do you usually talk about?

Ahhh, young love! 

When I saw you first post here I thought that this was something that warmaker should give advice on. It looks like he already has and his advice is solid in these matters.

Honestly, I didn't see any posts here that were wrong. All of them seem to suggest that friendly conversation is key. Women seem to appreciate confidence and a sense of humor. In other words, try to avoid telling her that you think that you're "not that good looking" and similar negative things. Make her laugh or smile whenever it's appropriate. 

When the conversations are comfortable, telling her how you feel will be comfortable as well...

First of all, I definitely wouldn't start off by saying that you "love her". You need to know someone for a LONG time before you should be comfortable saying that to someone, otherwise it just comes off as being over-attached. It takes a long time to build a relationship. Take her out if you can, get to know each other. Just be SURE before you say "I love you", she's going to be in mutual agreement, otherwise, it's going to be very awkward.

This must be your first time,  which is always the hardest because it will either make you or break you . but even if it does break you and your feelings are hurt for the next few weeks it will give you more freedom and confident.

the biggest mistake you can make right here right now is to go up to her and tell her "i love you" that is a powerful word and at most time it has no meaning when coming from a random person. sure you have known her for a long time, probably think about her all day everyday but you don't know how she thinks of you!

what you do from here will haunt you if you fail or win but most importantly what will haunt you is how you approach this and trust me it not easy when you first get reject by someone you like or deeply in love with. you know that feeling but she won't feel your exact pain.

so here is a list of things you need to do to get your mindset straight.

first you want to gain confident, how can you? think about your future, think about what is scaring you, and how you can over come it.
i can tell you this most people regret not saying something, and acting foolish. when you grow up your going to wish you approach things differently and realize how foolish you made yourself appear. don't worry everyone goes through this. Even i

so here my word to give you confidence don't be shy, this is your world ,you are the main character own it, fear is a choice, girls can sense it!!! not really.


and just like any game you have to build yourself, so build your character , WHY should she pick you out of everyone else. at the moment as im reading your post your just going to be the next person she will reject sorry to say unless you can prove yourself worthy.

So the here what i can tell you. she maybe mature enough to sniff out the attraction from guys, if she's rejecting guys left and right she can tell that they are after her looks and the guy who's been rejected are guy who have experience.

my advice to you is. sit and think calmly observer her but don't give her to much attention. your lack of confidence is preventing you from reading her. remember that everything you do as a meaning an purpose.

here is what you did wrong so far "You love her" although that maybe true but trust me love is nothing without time, people change over time don't like a person because of there appearance trust me over time their true nature will appear and will fall apart.

like her because she cute,adorable sure because most things that come to be cute and adorable are something you want to hug and cuddle with and protect. this is what you want to aim for. protect that cuteness,

so here are a list of things to help build your character , at this phase in age kids destroy their image and here are things you can do to stand out and be more attractive by vibes.

1. be honest
2. be funny ( dont insult no one but yourself, making fun of yourself so you hurt no one and make no enemies)
embarrass yourself, get used to it and boom instant chick magnet)
3. Word - don't sure words like HOT, Sexy, use words like cute, adorable, beautiful ( this shows your not a pervert and want 1 thing)
4.dress decent smell decent ( my choice of a scent i use is a girly melon flavor scent, girls are attracted to other girls smell not men trust me i know i only use melon from Victoria secret to smell like a girl not like Antonio bendarios lol.
5. kindness
6. taking the fall. face it at all ages everyone cheats to win. let them win and don't hold grudge play fair.
even if a person cheats don't call him out, don't tell your friends that he cheated just keep it inside as if only you knew

build your image and eventually you'll become it. you'll gain loads of confident from following my guide and eventually you'll see the world in a different perspective because you have so much knowledge of life and people. you will be able to read anyone.

here  are 2 example how i won my girlfriend, back in high school. One day She spilled the teacher drink on his desk and she sat back down, i got napkin and  clean it up the teacher came in while i was cleaning  and ask me what happen i looked sad  and said i'm sorry i spill your drink as i was cleaning it. i said nothing and walk back sat down no one came and gave me a pat on my shoulder, the purpose wasn't to show off in class or gain attention it was to protect someone i cared . BUT if your lucky someone might tell the girl you like what you did HEHE

another example; while in our next period class her phone rang i sat across the room  and as stupid as it looked and sound i spoke out and said "sorry i'll turn off my phone won't happen again" everyone in the class knew it wasn't me but they turn around and because they turned around they lost focus of who's phone was ringing.

trust me do good things and magic will happen learn it from my man jesus lol. although im not religious but many of this method and lifestyle works 

i hope this story and long post helps so finally imma teach you how to approach this girl.

if your able to talk to her in private or you can just ask to talk to her in private

here how i would say it !!

hey i got a secret to tell you , it could change the future ( LOL ) because it's true LOL
come and get me when your free  

she may ask what is it? tell her it's a secret about you and i feel that you should hear it! enough talk come get me when you have time!

either she will drag you or you will be able to drag her if shes says she free now.

so when your alone and ready you tell her that "there is no secret but your secret and i know your secret"
she would say something like what are you talking about.

you "i know that many guys come after you, and you have super powers to see through them i'm really, to see what they really want and i admire that about you, and that why im drawn to you , your so adorable , cute and beautiful and i don't want to see you sad, i'll be there for you, friend or maybe more, my feeling for you are deep because i know how you really are inside. you can always come to me for help.

after that your either in the friendzone or temporary placement for her boyfriend lol

number 1 rule you must follow

is!!! be cool and keep your cool most guy who get rejected will say negative things, well almost everyone does the whole point and moral is to be true. even i get upset when the girlfriend doesn't do what i say or doesn't do certain activities with me i just  well just don't let it bug you and remain cool lol. remember being cool just don't push a lot of hope into it or don't ever get to upset or mad

thanks guys for your amazing replys i will try those and one thing i cant waste my all time about thinking her i have to focus on my studies so now i will left all on time but thank you all.   

This is a tough question. I have found in my past experiences telling a girl that you love her first thing might creep her out. What you could do is be super nice to her and try to start conversations with her. Also it is a good rule to be nice to her friends as well. Because, the peer group has a huge influence good or bad. 
I hope this helps 
Blessings 

Thanks i have always been kind to her in her tough situations so i guess one day i will get her as my girlfreind.