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Why did my crush block me? Was this photo really that gross?

 

10-30-13 06:19 PM
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There's this girl who I sit next to in my elective class who I've talked to for a bit and got to know enough to ask for her Instagram. We started ''following'' each other. I had a small crush on her.

But now, she blocked me and I don't know why!!!

The only reason I can think of about this action is because I posted a photo from my Tumblr page of two girls kissing, which I never really thought of these kinds of photos as gross because I'm bisexual, I love my culture, and I don't think anyone has blocked me for posting these kinds of photos before.

I took the fact that the photo was unoriginal into account, but then I decided not to care because from what I see on my Instagram feed/updates, a LOT of people post unoriginal photos, so why would that matter these days?

I know she blocked me because my Instagram counts went down by 1, I saw she slipped away, and my friend (not a mutual) can still find her!

So why might have this girl blocked me? I never did anything wrong to her.

Are these kinds of photos really that gross, honestly?

And sorry for the white! I don't know why this happens to my posts!

**If you've been reading my other posts, this is a DIFFERENT person.


I just cannot see why someone would block me for this because these are usually the photos that get the MOST likes of all my Instagram photos!!!

There's this girl who I sit next to in my elective class who I've talked to for a bit and got to know enough to ask for her Instagram. We started ''following'' each other. I had a small crush on her.

But now, she blocked me and I don't know why!!!

The only reason I can think of about this action is because I posted a photo from my Tumblr page of two girls kissing, which I never really thought of these kinds of photos as gross because I'm bisexual, I love my culture, and I don't think anyone has blocked me for posting these kinds of photos before.

I took the fact that the photo was unoriginal into account, but then I decided not to care because from what I see on my Instagram feed/updates, a LOT of people post unoriginal photos, so why would that matter these days?

I know she blocked me because my Instagram counts went down by 1, I saw she slipped away, and my friend (not a mutual) can still find her!

So why might have this girl blocked me? I never did anything wrong to her.

Are these kinds of photos really that gross, honestly?

And sorry for the white! I don't know why this happens to my posts!

**If you've been reading my other posts, this is a DIFFERENT person.


I just cannot see why someone would block me for this because these are usually the photos that get the MOST likes of all my Instagram photos!!!

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Yeah, the coloring makes it very hard to read. I would suggest getting a new layout.

I really can not tell you if it is gross or not without seeing the pic. Do not post it here, but if you want my opinion, send me a link via PM.
Yeah, the coloring makes it very hard to read. I would suggest getting a new layout.

I really can not tell you if it is gross or not without seeing the pic. Do not post it here, but if you want my opinion, send me a link via PM.
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some people really dislike same-sex stuff. I personally don't think the idea of 2 guys or 2 girls kissing to be all that attractive or desirable. She might feel very strongly about it.

To block you off completely might seem excessive but some people have strongly held beliefs regarding same-sex issues and choose to avoid them.
some people really dislike same-sex stuff. I personally don't think the idea of 2 guys or 2 girls kissing to be all that attractive or desirable. She might feel very strongly about it.

To block you off completely might seem excessive but some people have strongly held beliefs regarding same-sex issues and choose to avoid them.
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Well, I guess that explains it then
Well, I guess that explains it then
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That was pretty hard to read.

At any rat, it may not even be gender thats the issue. Maybe she just didnt want to see people making out. Idk.
You say usually get most likes, so maybe she was just sick of seeing romance pics.
That was pretty hard to read.

At any rat, it may not even be gender thats the issue. Maybe she just didnt want to see people making out. Idk.
You say usually get most likes, so maybe she was just sick of seeing romance pics.
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xxeliza321xx : I've removed your layout because it makes your posts too difficult to read.

As far as the person you are referring to, why don't you ask her why she blocked you?

But yeah, you have to understand that not everyone shares the same beliefs as you. What you think is normal/cool might offend her a lot. Maybe she's pretty religious or something. You are never going to know the real answer though until you ask her.
xxeliza321xx : I've removed your layout because it makes your posts too difficult to read.

As far as the person you are referring to, why don't you ask her why she blocked you?

But yeah, you have to understand that not everyone shares the same beliefs as you. What you think is normal/cool might offend her a lot. Maybe she's pretty religious or something. You are never going to know the real answer though until you ask her.
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This pretty hard to read. And to be honest I really cannot tell if it is gross or not unless I have seen the photo. But it could be like geeo said and she might just feel strongly about it. Or maybe she just didn't want to see two people making out or kissing, it is a possibility. 

Everyone is different and they may not agree on the same things that you do and they may have a different standpoint on it than you do like Jordan said. I think you should ask her about it and see what she has to say about it. 
This pretty hard to read. And to be honest I really cannot tell if it is gross or not unless I have seen the photo. But it could be like geeo said and she might just feel strongly about it. Or maybe she just didn't want to see two people making out or kissing, it is a possibility. 

Everyone is different and they may not agree on the same things that you do and they may have a different standpoint on it than you do like Jordan said. I think you should ask her about it and see what she has to say about it. 
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1) How do I change the layout for future posts? I honestly don't know why its so white.
2) How can I ask her? I'm not supposed to know that I'm blocked so it may seem strange to her that I'm asking...
3) But now what should I do about Friday?
I have that class with her Tuesdays and Fridays.
I always sat right next to her, but now I'm kinda worried since she blocked me....
1) How do I change the layout for future posts? I honestly don't know why its so white.
2) How can I ask her? I'm not supposed to know that I'm blocked so it may seem strange to her that I'm asking...
3) But now what should I do about Friday?
I have that class with her Tuesdays and Fridays.
I always sat right next to her, but now I'm kinda worried since she blocked me....
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just act like you didn't know she blocked you
go to class like usual and sit next to her and i guess talk about the things
you two usually discuss.
if she's being all weird and awkward, then maybe it was the pic and she
doesnt like that stuff
just act like you didn't know she blocked you
go to class like usual and sit next to her and i guess talk about the things
you two usually discuss.
if she's being all weird and awkward, then maybe it was the pic and she
doesnt like that stuff
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xxeliza321xx :   If you sit next to her I'd imagine you have some kind of friendship at school. So just ask her, "did you block me on instagram?". OR, just don't care about it instagram and be her friend in real life. Who cares if she blocks you on instagram, it's just a social media, you know her FOR REAL, shouldn't that be what matters?
xxeliza321xx :   If you sit next to her I'd imagine you have some kind of friendship at school. So just ask her, "did you block me on instagram?". OR, just don't care about it instagram and be her friend in real life. Who cares if she blocks you on instagram, it's just a social media, you know her FOR REAL, shouldn't that be what matters?
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Well, you can always ask her why I guess. Maybe she didn't feel comfortable with what you posted? I'm not sure. I don't know exactly what you were posting. But, since you know each other in real life, I don't see the big deal really...
Well, you can always ask her why I guess. Maybe she didn't feel comfortable with what you posted? I'm not sure. I don't know exactly what you were posting. But, since you know each other in real life, I don't see the big deal really...
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You may not be offended or bothered by pictures, movies, and images but you have to realize other people may be.  It could be anything and it could set off a negative emotion in a person.  Just because you have a bisexual culture (again, mentioning it) doesn't mean other people are comfortable with it.  When you have images that are sexually charged and risque, you run the chance of bothering someone who decides they aren't interested in what you're showing.

I'm sure it has everything to do with the picture of girls kissing.  Of course, I'm down and I would enjoy a picture like that but I'm a male and I'm open-minded.  She may not be.  You can't blame her or get angry.  You can remove the picture and censor yourself a little before you share everything.

Some people are intimidated when others open their ways of life so freely.  She was intimidated.  You can't judge her for her feelings.  If she's uncomfortable with two girls kissing, she's uncomfortable.  End of story.
You may not be offended or bothered by pictures, movies, and images but you have to realize other people may be.  It could be anything and it could set off a negative emotion in a person.  Just because you have a bisexual culture (again, mentioning it) doesn't mean other people are comfortable with it.  When you have images that are sexually charged and risque, you run the chance of bothering someone who decides they aren't interested in what you're showing.

I'm sure it has everything to do with the picture of girls kissing.  Of course, I'm down and I would enjoy a picture like that but I'm a male and I'm open-minded.  She may not be.  You can't blame her or get angry.  You can remove the picture and censor yourself a little before you share everything.

Some people are intimidated when others open their ways of life so freely.  She was intimidated.  You can't judge her for her feelings.  If she's uncomfortable with two girls kissing, she's uncomfortable.  End of story.
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You guys are right.
All of you.
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You guys are right.
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xxeliza321xx : yeah you'll be ok as long as you pretend nothing happened like flib said
xxeliza321xx : yeah you'll be ok as long as you pretend nothing happened like flib said
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Maybe, the picture was not exactly "gross". Perhaps the image just made her feel uncomfortable. As to why she blocked you, she might of thought that you could of continued posting pictures that made her feel uncomfortable.
Maybe, the picture was not exactly "gross". Perhaps the image just made her feel uncomfortable. As to why she blocked you, she might of thought that you could of continued posting pictures that made her feel uncomfortable.
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Well some people have strong believes when it comes to this kind of thing.. your crush might of not thought it was gross.. but maybe she didn't approve of it. It really does sound kind of fast especially if she didn't even talk with you about it but sometimes peoples believes just scare them off. I wouldn't worry to much about it though! Just stay strong!





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Well some people have strong believes when it comes to this kind of thing.. your crush might of not thought it was gross.. but maybe she didn't approve of it. It really does sound kind of fast especially if she didn't even talk with you about it but sometimes peoples believes just scare them off. I wouldn't worry to much about it though! Just stay strong!





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