Asking because I'm a bisexual who

has experienced this TWICE already....once with a guy I liked last year

and his jealous girlfriend and once this year with a girl I liked and

her jealous boyfriend...





The guy I liked last year even said he had a jealous girlfriend &

apologized to me for not replying to my texts when he saw me in person.

It's just pretty obvious that the girl I liked this year has a jealous

boyfriend (long story there).





All I ever do to the people I have crushes on is try to act like a

normal friend and talk about normal things like school & interests.

Or if I'm commenting on a photo of theirs online, I would keep my

comment calm and related to the photo. They always go ignored or

deleted.





I've never been in a relationship before, but I've heard people speak of

the ''jealous type'' before. Can someone try to explain why this

happens to me?

And no....I'm NOT a thief....I don't ask if
people already have boyfriends/girlfriends because I think that's an
invasion of privacy if I don't know them well, or if they don't mention
it.





Why do these people always pick me to be jealous of?

Jealous type is a person who views other people as enemies when he sees them as potential threats for his relationship. That includes his loved ones' closest friends, co-workers, classmates... etc. They're suspicious of everything in short.

A jealous person is someone who dominates the attention of their significant other.  THey have to to be front and center with attention and with the social lives of their boyfriend or girlfriend.  They get emotional, angry and upset when the other person talks to someone else and shows interest in someone else.

They're not picking you to be jealous.  They'd be jealous of anyone talking to their significant others.  Or the folks you're talking to are simply trying to put you off nicely by saying they have jealous bf or gf.

M'kay....thanks....
But thank god that's not the case

And I say this because when they DO talk,
They do NOT show signs that they don't like me
Like they ask me questions & stuff & try to carry the conversation on

Pretty much to my words, a Jealous type is someone that had done everything he can and sees someone that has a whole lot more stuff and thus doesn't like that person because of it, I had these moments from both sides in the past, it's mostly in relationships.

M'kay.

In my opinion, their isn't really a jealous "type". I mean how I view that figure of speech, I see it as, If they are jealous, it simply means they care. If you were in a relationship and wasn't curious, got a bit jealous, then it wouldn't be right. I guess. That's how I see it anyhow. I would just stay away from people who are already in a relationship, maybe be a close friend, but not get involved. It only leads to drama. Good luck!

iiGrinchii : I completely disagree with you with your line:  "If you were in a relationship and wasn't curious, got a bit jealous, then it wouldn't be right."

That's absolutely wrong.  If you are jealous or 'curious' you don't trust your wife or girlfriend, husband or boyfriend.  My wife (of seven years) says, "Hey, I'll be out tonight.  Don't wait up."  I tell her I'll walk the dog and see her tomorrow.  If I'm jealous or if I'm going to go look at facebook pictures to make sure she wasn't doing something wrong then I shouldn't even be married to her.

You have to trust the people you're with.  If you can't, you're in an (a) developing relationship or (b) with the wrong person.

warmaker : That's not what I meant though. To have a really good successful relationship, you need to have trust as one of the key points, along with many other keys such as communication, etc. But what I meant is, it's a bit difficult to explain but, here goes. Say you are on the beach or something, having a blast, and some dude comes up to your girl, and starts hitting on her. The first thing you are going to think is, what the heck is this guy doing? (Which is actually a different type of jealousy). Then well we would react and tell this guy to go hit on someone else, or we are going to hit him. But I didn't mean it the way you saw it. Trust always comes first no matter what the situation is.

iiGrinchii : Even then I'm okay with it. You gave one example, i'll give another.  If a guy buys my wife a beer at the bar, great!  One less beer I have to buy her and she'll be excited someone else compliments her. She can talk to whoever she wants and I'm fine with it.  She has her own limits and she'd never let someone touch her, try to kiss her, and so on.  I don't mind someone giving her attention though.  I wouldn't react if a guy hit on her.  I'd laugh.  He'sballsy.  Good on him.

A jealous person is somebody who views somebody else as an ememy.. usually in a relationship if a guy is talking to another girl or a girl is talking to another guy.. which ever gender you are will start thinking a lot about it.. and start thinking that you dis liked this he/she that your mate was talking with. I think jealousy comes in many ways but this is just one way that I can conclude.





Bintsy<33

xxeliza321xx : thye think you might be a threat towards their love life so sorry but thats what is going on and it stinks to have some one be jealous its like lay off you have to deal with things you dont like somtimes

Well what I know from the jealous type is that well... if they have a gf or a bf .. then they will not want too many people coming in certain contact with them ... like hugging them ... laughing with them too much ... making eye gestures ... like me ... once when I saw my gf hugging another guy I kinda flipped ... yup .. had some apologizing to do and then I kept flipping out whenever she hugged another guy :3 . But that's just me . 

The jealous type is like someone who thinks of other people that get too close to someone they like (especially a boy/girlfriend or spouse) as an enemy. They don't like the idea that someone is gaining their lover's attention. They are not comfortable with someone getting close to their lover (whether is hugging them or having a great conversation with them). That's my thought on that.

All really good explanations!
Thanks everyone!