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Should I be worried if I haven't even come close to getting any female to notice me at 16?

 

07-13-13 07:10 AM
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I'm like 16 soon and I haven't had any female notice me, even in a room full of single ones. I even tried asking some out when I knew them as friends but that failed horribly. I have also seen some really ugly guys that are just not cool, like their IQ is about the temperature in Baffin Island now and they have chicks all over them. Should I be worried about this?
I'm like 16 soon and I haven't had any female notice me, even in a room full of single ones. I even tried asking some out when I knew them as friends but that failed horribly. I have also seen some really ugly guys that are just not cool, like their IQ is about the temperature in Baffin Island now and they have chicks all over them. Should I be worried about this?
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scottyr2 : Umm, yes. Name some reasons of why you think girls don't talk to you. It could be your attire or just what you look like. That's all some females care about...
scottyr2 : Umm, yes. Name some reasons of why you think girls don't talk to you. It could be your attire or just what you look like. That's all some females care about...
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scottyr2 : I wouldn't be worried about it. Would you rather have a bunch of failure women take notice of you or would you rather have 1 perfect woman come up and take notice of you? Personally 1 > many
scottyr2 : I wouldn't be worried about it. Would you rather have a bunch of failure women take notice of you or would you rather have 1 perfect woman come up and take notice of you? Personally 1 > many
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Fireproof : That's a good point but how long should I be waiting for that one perfect woman?
Fireproof : That's a good point but how long should I be waiting for that one perfect woman?
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scottyr2 : I'm 22 and I've only had 1 girlfriend. My real pic is my avatar and I've had women look at me with other intentions than just a potential boyfriend. I don't just go out with every woman I see or do the adult things (Much more than PG 13). I've waited yeah, I felt lonely yea but I know that even if I have to wait another 3 years to find the right one. Doesn't necessarily work for everyone because some people might think you're too picky or choosey or whatever so you gotta be willing to put yourself out there a little bit without looking desperate. Be cool and eventually women come to you. Plus, women don't work the same way men do and they speak a whole other language that you'll never learn.
scottyr2 : I'm 22 and I've only had 1 girlfriend. My real pic is my avatar and I've had women look at me with other intentions than just a potential boyfriend. I don't just go out with every woman I see or do the adult things (Much more than PG 13). I've waited yeah, I felt lonely yea but I know that even if I have to wait another 3 years to find the right one. Doesn't necessarily work for everyone because some people might think you're too picky or choosey or whatever so you gotta be willing to put yourself out there a little bit without looking desperate. Be cool and eventually women come to you. Plus, women don't work the same way men do and they speak a whole other language that you'll never learn.
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I wouldn't worry about it. I had my first girlfriend at 16 and then had 1 more at 20 before I got married. Some people date more than others.

And there isn't a "perfect woman". Stop looking for her
I wouldn't worry about it. I had my first girlfriend at 16 and then had 1 more at 20 before I got married. Some people date more than others.

And there isn't a "perfect woman". Stop looking for her
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Should you be worried?  No.  Should you take some steps to change this?  Yes.

There are a few reasons why you  might not be noticed.  If you live in a small town or go to a small school, you know everyone.  They think they know you and they've made their minds up.  Try going somewhere different and try saying hello to random female strangers.  Don't fall over yourself trying to talk to them.  Just give a 'hi' and a smile and keep things moving.  

If that doesn't work, look at your appearance.  Shave or do something different with your hair.  Try different clothes.  Stand up straighter.  Talk to different guys who have more success with girls and see what they have to say.  If you talk a lot in school be quieter.  If you don't say much talk more often.

Try to make changes and see what happens.  It's a big social experiment and you have the rest of your life to figure it out.

The other thing is to not change yourself too much.  If you try different things and it works but you're not comfortable with the 'new' you, you won't enjoy the attention you get.  Or you'll try to force being something you're not and that won't work either.  Find a way to fit in the frame of your personality and make some small changes to get more attention.

You're fundamentally fine right now.  You shouldn't worry.  You're doing okay.  You have your entire life to worry about what other people think.  

Good luck!
Should you be worried?  No.  Should you take some steps to change this?  Yes.

There are a few reasons why you  might not be noticed.  If you live in a small town or go to a small school, you know everyone.  They think they know you and they've made their minds up.  Try going somewhere different and try saying hello to random female strangers.  Don't fall over yourself trying to talk to them.  Just give a 'hi' and a smile and keep things moving.  

If that doesn't work, look at your appearance.  Shave or do something different with your hair.  Try different clothes.  Stand up straighter.  Talk to different guys who have more success with girls and see what they have to say.  If you talk a lot in school be quieter.  If you don't say much talk more often.

Try to make changes and see what happens.  It's a big social experiment and you have the rest of your life to figure it out.

The other thing is to not change yourself too much.  If you try different things and it works but you're not comfortable with the 'new' you, you won't enjoy the attention you get.  Or you'll try to force being something you're not and that won't work either.  Find a way to fit in the frame of your personality and make some small changes to get more attention.

You're fundamentally fine right now.  You shouldn't worry.  You're doing okay.  You have your entire life to worry about what other people think.  

Good luck!
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PixelBrick : Not sure if just joking?

Anyway, scottyr2. You are not in any big trouble. 16 is still very young, but like warmaker said, you should try to take charge of your life now. The only good advice I can give you is live an interesting life. Work hard, associate with people, DO things, see places, etc. Don't just waste all your time on your computer, or playing games. Have fun with other people and experience things. That will teach you important social skills and keep you seeing the "big picture"; as you get older, girls will love that.

Also woman, not girls as much, like a responsible man, so learn to work hard and take things that need to taken seriously, seriously.
PixelBrick : Not sure if just joking?

Anyway, scottyr2. You are not in any big trouble. 16 is still very young, but like warmaker said, you should try to take charge of your life now. The only good advice I can give you is live an interesting life. Work hard, associate with people, DO things, see places, etc. Don't just waste all your time on your computer, or playing games. Have fun with other people and experience things. That will teach you important social skills and keep you seeing the "big picture"; as you get older, girls will love that.

Also woman, not girls as much, like a responsible man, so learn to work hard and take things that need to taken seriously, seriously.
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Hey man, you do what you can. Take the peoples advice as well as mine into consideration. My advice for you my good man is to just live your life. If girls are falling for guys whose IQ is lower than the temperatures of Baffin Island, Id say its the ladies that may need to take a step back to see if they really were the right choice. You are you, and you outta be confident that you can be that guy for that girl. Who that might be can be hard to say. You might even be surprised to who you might fall for yourself.

They say one of the keys to life is be patient as you work toward your goals. When it comes to finding someone you want to spend time with, your patience will surely be tested. When I say this, it is during the search for someone that may strike you fancy, and if you find someone that does, you can make the attempt. Of course, you outta befriend them first before going all out with your feels. Yaknow...less awkward first impressions on your character.

I myself dont have a girlfriend, and I never have, and this doesnt bother me. Ive grown up and Im confident that I look decent enough to bear my face in public. Just live your life, and let lady luck spin the wheel of a lovers fate upon your soul. You will try, and this is whats important, but you still never know what may happen in the future.

Besides, your 16. It may be natural to feel the peer pressure to have someone, but let me tell you something kid. Ya dont have to have one. Many of the girls Ive seen growing up with had the attitude and personality of a Sabre cat, and the intentions of hitching and ditching just for pleasure. Its not pretty, be sure to learn about the person before attempting.
Hey man, you do what you can. Take the peoples advice as well as mine into consideration. My advice for you my good man is to just live your life. If girls are falling for guys whose IQ is lower than the temperatures of Baffin Island, Id say its the ladies that may need to take a step back to see if they really were the right choice. You are you, and you outta be confident that you can be that guy for that girl. Who that might be can be hard to say. You might even be surprised to who you might fall for yourself.

They say one of the keys to life is be patient as you work toward your goals. When it comes to finding someone you want to spend time with, your patience will surely be tested. When I say this, it is during the search for someone that may strike you fancy, and if you find someone that does, you can make the attempt. Of course, you outta befriend them first before going all out with your feels. Yaknow...less awkward first impressions on your character.

I myself dont have a girlfriend, and I never have, and this doesnt bother me. Ive grown up and Im confident that I look decent enough to bear my face in public. Just live your life, and let lady luck spin the wheel of a lovers fate upon your soul. You will try, and this is whats important, but you still never know what may happen in the future.

Besides, your 16. It may be natural to feel the peer pressure to have someone, but let me tell you something kid. Ya dont have to have one. Many of the girls Ive seen growing up with had the attitude and personality of a Sabre cat, and the intentions of hitching and ditching just for pleasure. Its not pretty, be sure to learn about the person before attempting.
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I had 1 at 14, then 1 at 16 until a month ago. Don't worry man you'll find her. Stay positive.
I had 1 at 14, then 1 at 16 until a month ago. Don't worry man you'll find her. Stay positive.
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Honestly, I think it is no big deal and you shouldn't freak out about this. I am not in a relationship (given everyone at my school is ugly and that is just the truth) and believe me, I am in no rush for one right now, I am going to be busy in high school and I don't want any complicated relationships interfering just yet.

I think the main thing to do is just be cool, don't be desperate that never looks good. And forget about those guys, they are the ones going to be working at mcdonalds in a few years serving your fast food because they're so dumb.

Just stay cool and let them come to you, but also don't change who you are to impress them, be yourself and if things don't work out, don't worry, a good relationship with someone you care about is worth waiting for. Just stay calm and never rush into things.

I don't think you need to worry about this, just be yourself and let them come to you, never be desperate, it looks bad. I hope this will help you find the right person. Patience is key to this, never rush into these things because it won't work out. Don't worry so much, there are lots of guys (at least the smart ones) that keep cool and handle the situation well when it comes to gett into a serious relationship. Girls communicate in a very different way than guys do, you'll know what to say when the time comes. We use just a few words to describe something whereas girls like all of the details, main thing to do is be patient and wait for the right girl to come along. Don't rush into a relationship because you'll regret it. Keep things slow and steady and get to know each other before getting serious. I hope this helps you!
Honestly, I think it is no big deal and you shouldn't freak out about this. I am not in a relationship (given everyone at my school is ugly and that is just the truth) and believe me, I am in no rush for one right now, I am going to be busy in high school and I don't want any complicated relationships interfering just yet.

I think the main thing to do is just be cool, don't be desperate that never looks good. And forget about those guys, they are the ones going to be working at mcdonalds in a few years serving your fast food because they're so dumb.

Just stay cool and let them come to you, but also don't change who you are to impress them, be yourself and if things don't work out, don't worry, a good relationship with someone you care about is worth waiting for. Just stay calm and never rush into things.

I don't think you need to worry about this, just be yourself and let them come to you, never be desperate, it looks bad. I hope this will help you find the right person. Patience is key to this, never rush into these things because it won't work out. Don't worry so much, there are lots of guys (at least the smart ones) that keep cool and handle the situation well when it comes to gett into a serious relationship. Girls communicate in a very different way than guys do, you'll know what to say when the time comes. We use just a few words to describe something whereas girls like all of the details, main thing to do is be patient and wait for the right girl to come along. Don't rush into a relationship because you'll regret it. Keep things slow and steady and get to know each other before getting serious. I hope this helps you!
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You should be more worried about your grades and your future...lol I wish I did....you should be worried if your like in Ur mid 20's
You should be more worried about your grades and your future...lol I wish I did....you should be worried if your like in Ur mid 20's
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Focus first on being a man, not a boy. Take responsibility, work hard, develop healthy habits and skills, and then when you are a good strong capable individual, find a woman. Best advice.
Focus first on being a man, not a boy. Take responsibility, work hard, develop healthy habits and skills, and then when you are a good strong capable individual, find a woman. Best advice.
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Well normally the females wont come to you bro, you have to step out and act upon your feelings. Now if you are just getting rejected continuously you are most likely looking into the wrong girls good luck
Well normally the females wont come to you bro, you have to step out and act upon your feelings. Now if you are just getting rejected continuously you are most likely looking into the wrong girls good luck
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At 16, no you should not be worried. Your time will come.
At 16, no you should not be worried. Your time will come.
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I'll close this as there are a multitude of threads about dating advice that regularly pop up. Also the OP of the thread has definitely received a lot of good advice thanks to all the board members.

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I'll close this as there are a multitude of threads about dating advice that regularly pop up. Also the OP of the thread has definitely received a lot of good advice thanks to all the board members.

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