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I think this may apply to many Vizzed readers or just me?

But do you feel your life is a mess?

I cant work out how to put one foot in front of the other some days.

No permanent job, what jobs are permanent anyway?

A partner who seems to spend all of his time on the XBOX when not working.

Girlfriends who all have babies.

and I guess its time I just............................

what?

that's the point?

Feminism gave me so much but o I want a child with a guy who will only teach it how to xbox?

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Sometimes I feel like my life is a downwards spiral, but even when I'm low, like I am today(just broke up with my bf a few hours ago), the main part of who I am knows I can do something about all the crap bothering me.

As for your situation, there's a lot more complications than mine, you seem to have children involved. As for teaching it more than Xbox, that's quite the hurdle to change because the guy himself has to want to do more. Maybe you can be his or the child's inspiration to do more? Live life to the fullest and hope they tag along? Or if those are relationships of the past, only connected by the child, and you're looking for something more, then continue your search for the guy you want in your life. I wish you luck, we all struggle to find the balance between that perfect someone we think we'd like to be with and the one we actually need to be with.

For the job thing, I struggled to find a "real" one for two years, and after resume sent after resume, I finally landed one. Persistence will get you places, just keep trying.

Sometimes I feel like my life is a downwards spiral, but even when I'm low, like I am today(just broke up with my bf a few hours ago), the main part of who I am knows I can do something about all the crap bothering me. 

As for your situation, there's a lot more complications than mine, you seem to have children involved. As for teaching it more than Xbox, that's quite the hurdle to change because the guy himself has to want to do more. Maybe you can be his or the child's inspiration to do more? Live life to the fullest and hope they tag along? Or if those are relationships of the past, only connected by the child, and you're looking for something more, then continue your search for the guy you want in your life. I wish you luck, we all struggle to find the balance between that perfect someone we think we'd like to be with and the one we actually need to be with. 

For the job thing, I struggled to find a "real" one for two years, and after resume sent after resume, I finally landed one. Persistence will get you places, just keep trying.

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Umm...
I am not certain I understand your post.
........................................
I got nothing on this.
(Sorry. I had to erase my post but it made little to no sense.)
(Plus there is little to no chance anyone would catch the humor.)
Good Luck To Us All.
Peace.

Umm...
I am not certain I understand your post.
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I got nothing on this.
(Sorry. I had to erase my post but it made little to no sense.)
(Plus there is little to no chance anyone would catch the humor.)
Good Luck To Us All.
Peace.

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05-05-13 04:12 PM

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I love my life and I have zero problems with it. If something isn't going right, I make a change. I had a job I hated. I left it and got a new one. I have good friends because I take the time to make friends. I have a good marriage because I was patient and met the right person instead of jumping into the first relationship I found.

If you don't like your life, make a change.

There are jobs out there. Go do something, even if you don't like it. Learn, improve, be employed again, and maybe you'll make a connection with someone who can help you more. The next job you get isn't the last job you ever have. It should be used to learn and improve yourself. You climb from there.

Guy plays Xbox all the time? Find a new guy. Meet someone else who shares your goals and ideals in life and find someone who'll support you socially and emotionally.

Never compete against others. Friends are having babies. Do you want to bring a human into this world where you aren't supporting yourself? Do you want to do that? It sounds like a horrible life. Get everything else straight first, stop comparing yourself to your friends, and find some happiness.

Feminism hasn't given you anything. You sound like you don't have a job, you're with a guy you don't like that much, and you want to have a baby. That sounds as 1950s as it gets.

Get a job, dump the guy, live on your own (feminism preaches self-dependence) and make things happen.

Maybe don't spend so much time on Vizzed and go out in the real life?

I love my life and I have zero problems with it. If something isn't going right, I make a change. I had a job I hated. I left it and got a new one. I have good friends because I take the time to make friends. I have a good marriage because I was patient and met the right person instead of jumping into the first relationship I found.

If you don't like your life, make a change.

There are jobs out there. Go do something, even if you don't like it. Learn, improve, be employed again, and maybe you'll make a connection with someone who can help you more. The next job you get isn't the last job you ever have. It should be used to learn and improve yourself. You climb from there.

Guy plays Xbox all the time? Find a new guy. Meet someone else who shares your goals and ideals in life and find someone who'll support you socially and emotionally.

Never compete against others. Friends are having babies. Do you want to bring a human into this world where you aren't supporting yourself? Do you want to do that? It sounds like a horrible life. Get everything else straight first, stop comparing yourself to your friends, and find some happiness.

Feminism hasn't given you anything. You sound like you don't have a job, you're with a guy you don't like that much, and you want to have a baby. That sounds as 1950s as it gets.

Get a job, dump the guy, live on your own (feminism preaches self-dependence) and make things happen.

Maybe don't spend so much time on Vizzed and go out in the real life?

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My life is pretty good. I like my friends on vizzed and in my real life. I do okay in school. I love the sports i play. My future looks good. There's just small problems like grades that pull me down. Just not committed to studying my butt off for some stupid letters that decide my future.

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Yeah.

I live in a house alone with the blinds down, I have gone days without going outside. Nothing provides a challenge for me anymore, including the job that was so exciting when I got it. I have depression and I'm too proud to talk to anyone about it, though everyone I know calls me out on it. I got married when I was 21..... she died when I was 24. I have some sort of germ phobia. I hate 90% of the people that talk to me, I hate 70% of the people that care about me. I drive most who do care about me away, just because I like to entertain myself by screwing with them. No matter how much I want to do well at something, I settle with the minimum attempt because I cant motivate myself to try at anything. I am incredibly egotistical and I cant stop seeing myself as the center of the universe. I have acted my entire life, because I am too scared to actually tell anyone how I truly feel. I lie about almost everything I do, sometimes because I'm too afraid to tell the truth, or just because I'm so bored that I do it for fun. I am bored with everything, I have made tons of achievements in my life, and they never entertained me for a second. I find the only thing that seems to really entertain me anymore is to make other people feel the same way I feel everyday. I thought about suicide somewhere in the thousands from ages 1-18. I was made fun of constantly for the color of my hair..... really? The lack of intelligence I see everyday makes me infuriated. I gain an immense amount of joy from telling people why they are wrong, though that is one of the ways I drive people away. I analyze people by habit, I spend weeks watching what they do so I can find what makes them tick and exploit it. I have a mental archive in my mind of all the bomb shells I can use against those closest to me, just in case they happen to make me mad. I spent most of my time around my brother who hated me, watching him so I could take revenge. Once I unleashed everything I could I was punished by my parents and assaulted by him, though I was wearing a smile the entire time, for I had broken his armor. I have about three friends, because I hate most of the people on this Earth, because I drive them away, or just because I get bored of them

I am truly messed up, and I don't know if I can be fixed.

Yeah.

I live in a house alone with the blinds down, I have gone days without going outside. Nothing provides a challenge for me anymore, including the job that was so exciting when I got it. I have depression and I'm too proud to talk to anyone about it, though everyone I know calls me out on it. I got married when I was 21..... she died when I was 24. I have some sort of germ phobia. I hate 90% of the people that talk to me, I hate 70% of the people that care about me. I drive most who do care about me away, just because I like to entertain myself by screwing with them. No matter how much I want to do well at something, I settle with the minimum attempt because I cant motivate myself to try at anything. I am incredibly egotistical and I cant stop seeing myself as the center of the universe. I have acted my entire life, because I am too scared to actually tell anyone how I truly feel. I lie about almost everything I do, sometimes because I'm too afraid to tell the truth, or just because I'm so bored that I do it for fun. I am bored with everything, I have made tons of achievements in my life, and they never entertained me for a second. I find the only thing that seems to really entertain me anymore is to make other people feel the same way I feel everyday. I thought about suicide somewhere in the thousands from ages 1-18. I was made fun of constantly for the color of my hair..... really? The lack of intelligence I see everyday makes me infuriated. I gain an immense amount of joy from telling people why they are wrong, though that is one of the ways I drive people away. I analyze people by habit, I spend weeks watching what they do so I can find what makes them tick and exploit it. I have a mental archive in my mind of all the bomb shells I can use against those closest to me, just in case they happen to make me mad. I spent most of my time around my brother who hated me, watching him so I could take revenge. Once I unleashed everything I could I was punished by my parents and assaulted by him, though I was wearing a smile the entire time, for I had broken his armor. I have about three friends, because I hate most of the people on this Earth, because I drive them away, or just because I get bored of them

I am truly messed up, and I don't know if I can be fixed.

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jaws123 : You study your butt off not for stupid letters but for your future. When you get good grades you can control your entire future. When you get bad grades you get stuck working at a gas station or McDonalds. Nothing is wrong with either if you're in charge but you personally may end up flipping burgers when you can do more.

Grades prove you care about your life and you can learn and do things. When you get good grades in classes that have nothing to do with what you're interested in, you show you are able to adapt and do things that may not excite you, and with great success. You'll be able to choose your life path instead of having only a few options.

Study, get better, learn how to work hard at things that aren't exciting, and nothing can stop you.

Trust me.

jaws123 : You study your butt off not for stupid letters but for your future. When you get good grades you can control your entire future. When you get bad grades you get stuck working at a gas station or McDonalds. Nothing is wrong with either if you're in charge but you personally may end up flipping burgers when you can do more.

Grades prove you care about your life and you can learn and do things. When you get good grades in classes that have nothing to do with what you're interested in, you show you are able to adapt and do things that may not excite you, and with great success. You'll be able to choose your life path instead of having only a few options.

Study, get better, learn how to work hard at things that aren't exciting, and nothing can stop you.

Trust me.

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My life has been always a mess no matter how well organized it is on the outside or how much of a structured chaos on the inside. It doesn't matter if I have a job or a girlfriend or neither. Doesn't matter if I have to get up in the morning or at night. Doesn't matter if I am happy or sad or indifferent. Only thing I can count on is chaos and mess but figuratively and literally.

And I have tried everything. I am not saying I have given up on trying to be something else, more like trying to deal with the mess I have on at hand.

My life has been always a mess no matter how well organized it is on the outside or how much of a structured chaos on the inside. It doesn't matter if I have a job or a girlfriend or neither. Doesn't matter if I have to get up in the morning or at night. Doesn't matter if I am happy or sad or indifferent. Only thing I can count on is chaos and mess but figuratively and literally.

And I have tried everything. I am not saying I have given up on trying to be something else, more like trying to deal with the mess I have on at hand.

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