TheeDragoniteMaster : Keep your head up. 13 sucks. There is no question about it. You just have to keep fighting. Things get better I promise. 11-14 was the darkest times of my life. But I promise it gets better. You just have to keep going, keep fighting no matter what. The sooner you can realize the great quote "Control the things you can control, Accept the things you cannot, and know how to tell the difference your life will be better off. And I will close this post with another quote from the might Joe Dirt " Keep on keepin on. Lifes a garden. Dig it?" I hope things brighten up for you soon. Just be strong.

You are being a bit oversensitive. Most of the things you said sounded like some child who was mad because he wasn't given an ice cream cone. The only thing I have seen so far that you could be upset about is your parents divorce, except you said you don't care about that.

"whenever I ask one of my friends for money they don't think I will give it back and they never trust me." Are you kidding me? Of course they wont. You are 13, what obligation do your friends have to give you their money? 


"sometimes in school tears just randomly come out of my eyes. It happens on most days. Nothing sad happens but it just randomly does it for no reason at all. I think its because I really want to cry but I have no one to cry to" That doesn't happen, ever. Your body will not just cry. I am going to go off on a limb and say that the air was dry.

"she never lets me do anything and forces me to do other things." I am going to go ahead and doubt the legitimacy of that first statement, and your mom can force you to do anything that is inside of the law, as the child you have to deal with that.


"she never listens to me and she always says never to do something when she always does it." That first part might be a problem. But seriously, you are 13 and your mother is probably in her forties. As an adult she can do things you cant.

"my mum banned me from killing games because apparently "those games make you aggressive" Studies have not disproved that.

"my mum calls me sometimes because she thinks something is important or I have to do it but it never is important and I never do have to do it." Determining whether or not something is important is for her to decide, she is the mother, you are the child.

I might have more to say, but for now I am done. You are extremely overreacting, and you shouldn't "hate" anyone for those things.

TheeDragoniteMaster : I know that feeling. I've had it to when I was 11-13. Just like mgriffith said, it's the worst time of your life. However you shouldn't feel down, as long as you keep on smiling
everything will be fine. Think about my life slogan: a smile furr the win. A smile wins all the time.

In case if you ever need to talk, I'll be there

I can account for that, the teen years are pretty horrid

I........ think my life sucks but I don't know I'm too busy playing games

13 is a hard age to go through. Your emotions go crazy and just about everything annoys you. It's happened to me and I'm sure it has happened to just about everyone else here on Vizzed. Trust me, your life will get better. You just have to grow thick skin or maybe even try to get some alone time. That always worked for me. If you have any questions or you want advice, don't be afraid to ask me. I like to help people.

Same goes here for the advice'.. Thick skin is a great trait to have. Don't let the sad stuff weigh you down. Instead use it as fuel to keep the motor hummin.

Well I'm twelve and my life is ok

To be honest, yeah, your life really doesn't sound that bad. Though it could be the fact that you're being pretty vague, so maybe you're leaving out important details.
Honestly though, besides the divorce, a lot of that doesn't sound like things to get upset over. Considering you're probably going through the stages of puberty and such, your hormones and emotions are likely all over the place. You probably get sad, mad, etc over things that you shouldn't be getting upset over.
And the money thing with your friends? If that's really the case, then don't lend them money. If you're 13 though, I don't see how you would be able to pay them back, or how they would be able to pay you back, in the first place...unless parents are helping out with that. 
My parents divorced when I was about 7 or 8. It made no sense to me and it was pretty tough, but in the end, it's better off that way. Maybe once your parents finalize the divorce, or at least separate if they haven't already, things will improve. It's possible they are both under a lot of stress, and that could be the cause of your mom's behavior that may seem off. Or, like I said, you're leaving out details that could explain why your mom treats you the way she does. She might have a valid reason for it. 
Sorry, but I don't agree with the majority of the replies in this thread. Yes, it is too bad that you're feeling sad, but things like "hating your life" because you're "bored" is pretty ridiculous. I'm bored a lot too, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna start hating my life. Find a different hobby, play different games, find something to do with your friends, etc.
If you really think your random crying is a serious problem, maybe you should speak with a school counselor. 

I'll just put this out there, because I felt a lot like you did when I was your age. I hated my parents, was untrusted, and lived in a restrictive un-caring household.

You remind me a lot of me at your age.

The difference is that now, 7 years have passed by for me, and my life has gotten worse.

Life can get better, but it can also get worse. You should never ever say that you hate your life, even if it's the worst fate you can imagine. Your life is a gift. A gift with which you can choose to do whatever you like.

If you don't take control, and decide to see things more positively, things can end up getting worse. Don't believe me? Look at where I'm at now. I'm alone and miserable 24 hours of the day. I'm unhirable. I'm 20 years old, and I've stabbed all my "friends" in the back for the lulz. My jaded view on life and the value of it has led to me making a lot of terrible decisions. And the worst part? I refuse to change. I know it's not working. That doesn't mean I'm going to stop trying. I've invested too much time into living my way to live any other way.

You don't want that, do you?

I have faith you will learn that life really isn't that bad once you get a little older. Being a kid is awesome. I wish I could be 13 again and have the feelings you are having now.

I hate being an "adult" who is stumbling around blind in the dark.

Don't hate life. Embrace it.

EDIT - Just so there's no confusion... I don't hate life. I love it. Despite everything, life is fun, like a game. Only difference is you only get one life before you hit a game over.

First off, I'm really sorry you feel this way and so overwhelmed. I hope you can find an adult to reach out to, like a school counselor or your dad. In the meantime, I'd recommend creating a list of all the things that are bothering you. Then, separate that list in to things you can control and things you can't. After that, write down as many positive solutions to each of those problems. Then create a step by step plan, in small, easy to manage bites.
That's what I did as a teen in a rough environment. It stopped me from feeling helpless and empowered me to make positive choices. Getting rid of the victim and replacing him/her with a motivated and planned individual, now that's something to smile about. It's possible with enough willpower!

If you ever need an extra person to talk to, please don't hesitate to PM. Good luck on this road ahead of you.

I really feel quite bad for you. On my 1,000 post, I'm going to explain my life and stuff. My brother is too annoying too. And nobody believes me and everybody believes him because he is older than me. It is so unfair. I feel like I wanna cry everyday, and put my self under the blanket crying in the bathroom.

13 is a hard time for anyone, first you start getting hormones and puberty kicks in, family doesn't understand you, friends can fall out with you.
But it is a part of life everyone goes through, I mean, family issues are getting more common for example me and my father don't talk to each other even at Christmas.