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10-11-12 10:39 PM
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I'm not to sure if this goes here but   https://www.facebook.com/RestInParadiseAmandaMichelleTodd?ref=stream   this girl who is actually not to far from were i grew up killed her self yesterday due to the fact of people being cruel and bullying her.. It is a said fate for one so young and reminds of my past with similar but much more deadly version of what she went through and how i some how survived it..though not with out gaining many scars while there is little to no physical scars emotional and mental scars have caused me to...almost self destruct onto myself... and I'm aware im barley holding on. Anyways Its a sad thing to see someone go through something similar and feeling like they have no choice but to *escape*. I hope some of will go onto this page at atleast pay there respects to her.


   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1zuUcaRZIs I find this song most fitting...due to this issue while its just a cover it doesnt make me wish to bash my head in do to my ears feel like there bleeding no offense to the real singer but the dudes voice tends to hurt my ears
I'm not to sure if this goes here but   https://www.facebook.com/RestInParadiseAmandaMichelleTodd?ref=stream   this girl who is actually not to far from were i grew up killed her self yesterday due to the fact of people being cruel and bullying her.. It is a said fate for one so young and reminds of my past with similar but much more deadly version of what she went through and how i some how survived it..though not with out gaining many scars while there is little to no physical scars emotional and mental scars have caused me to...almost self destruct onto myself... and I'm aware im barley holding on. Anyways Its a sad thing to see someone go through something similar and feeling like they have no choice but to *escape*. I hope some of will go onto this page at atleast pay there respects to her.


   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1zuUcaRZIs I find this song most fitting...due to this issue while its just a cover it doesnt make me wish to bash my head in do to my ears feel like there bleeding no offense to the real singer but the dudes voice tends to hurt my ears
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Ugh, yet bullying strikes yet another innocent victim.


Whenever I hear news like this, I literally lose more and more faith in humanity. I just don't think parents are parenting their children anymore. Or at least not putting enough effort into it; or are having kids far from when they are ready making it so that they really can't raise their children effectively...

I've seen parents literally attempt to defend their children's bullying actions. It's ridiculous. But I also think society itself isn't being very engaging in preventing it anyways. I am more than sure a lot of people knew that girl was being bullied; yet I bet little to nobody did anything to actually stop it and let the situation slowly drive out of control for her.
Ugh, yet bullying strikes yet another innocent victim.


Whenever I hear news like this, I literally lose more and more faith in humanity. I just don't think parents are parenting their children anymore. Or at least not putting enough effort into it; or are having kids far from when they are ready making it so that they really can't raise their children effectively...

I've seen parents literally attempt to defend their children's bullying actions. It's ridiculous. But I also think society itself isn't being very engaging in preventing it anyways. I am more than sure a lot of people knew that girl was being bullied; yet I bet little to nobody did anything to actually stop it and let the situation slowly drive out of control for her.
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Yeah I heard that a lot of kids do suicide, because they have been bully for a long time. I mean what wrong with looking different or other things. They are still humans being in the inside. It also make me think that the teacher are not doing there job at the school looking out for the kids or stop bullying. Even when they tell the bully to stop they still do it so it doesn't stop the problem. I feel really sorry for the girl's parents to see her kill herself at such an young age. It start to make me think that every new generation are just getting more worse. Imagine dealing with that problem everyday people saying that you being worse less for long time. People should really step up and stand against bullying, and try to be friends with the victim of the bullying.
 
Yeah I heard that a lot of kids do suicide, because they have been bully for a long time. I mean what wrong with looking different or other things. They are still humans being in the inside. It also make me think that the teacher are not doing there job at the school looking out for the kids or stop bullying. Even when they tell the bully to stop they still do it so it doesn't stop the problem. I feel really sorry for the girl's parents to see her kill herself at such an young age. It start to make me think that every new generation are just getting more worse. Imagine dealing with that problem everyday people saying that you being worse less for long time. People should really step up and stand against bullying, and try to be friends with the victim of the bullying.
 
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Mobouis1 : Part of the problem is that disciplining kids now a days is a joke oo no you took my cell away or well i got my psp,laptop and tab i can live without it for a few days. like seriously WTF! back when i was a kid you could still bloody spank your kids idk how many times i was hit with a wooden spoon or an open palm ell i once got several mouthfuls of soap and even a few times of really really hot hot sauce (tho i do like hot things now ironically enough lol) really in my eyes having basically only yelling rights to ur kids and even thats frowned upon is not going to do anything ell i yell all the time im not gonna suddenly stop being shot at in cod or anything yelling doesnt do anything but pi** people off
Mobouis1 : Part of the problem is that disciplining kids now a days is a joke oo no you took my cell away or well i got my psp,laptop and tab i can live without it for a few days. like seriously WTF! back when i was a kid you could still bloody spank your kids idk how many times i was hit with a wooden spoon or an open palm ell i once got several mouthfuls of soap and even a few times of really really hot hot sauce (tho i do like hot things now ironically enough lol) really in my eyes having basically only yelling rights to ur kids and even thats frowned upon is not going to do anything ell i yell all the time im not gonna suddenly stop being shot at in cod or anything yelling doesnt do anything but pi** people off
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That's definitely a sad end to such a promising beginning. I don't get why people feel the need to bully others. Is it so they feel satisfied with themselves? I just don't understand this kind of behavior. And some people even justify when others are bullies. They say things like: "They're just using that as an excuse, the bully didn't force them to kill themselves." Stuff like that really bothers me. How can you think something like that. They felt they had no other choice. They got tired of being bullied and thought that was the only way out.

My sympathies go out to her and her family. They must really be feeling the loss. It's sad when they feel they have no one to turn to.
That's definitely a sad end to such a promising beginning. I don't get why people feel the need to bully others. Is it so they feel satisfied with themselves? I just don't understand this kind of behavior. And some people even justify when others are bullies. They say things like: "They're just using that as an excuse, the bully didn't force them to kill themselves." Stuff like that really bothers me. How can you think something like that. They felt they had no other choice. They got tired of being bullied and thought that was the only way out.

My sympathies go out to her and her family. They must really be feeling the loss. It's sad when they feel they have no one to turn to.
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This is why I believe bullying should be considered a crime. Teenagers are killing themselfs because they feel like nobody likes them, they are getting harrased and abused yet they can't do anything about it, and the schools are not doing enough to stop this. Sad to hear this news and sorry that someone so close to where you live killed themselfs, I'm sure your community is shocked by this.
This is why I believe bullying should be considered a crime. Teenagers are killing themselfs because they feel like nobody likes them, they are getting harrased and abused yet they can't do anything about it, and the schools are not doing enough to stop this. Sad to hear this news and sorry that someone so close to where you live killed themselfs, I'm sure your community is shocked by this.
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I kind of have two stances on this.  I do believe that bullying is WRONG. In fact, I don't understand it one bit.  What drives these people to NEED to put their- selves above someone else? Why is it that belittling someone makes them feel like a good person?  I wish that there was something we could do as educators and parents to protect our children from these sick games.

On the other hand, I think it's just as important for us to teach our children to be emotionally secure.  For some children, that is very hard to accomplish.  We need to be AWARE of our child's emotions and how they are handling those emotions.  We need to establish confidence without instilling arrogance.  We need to establish comfort with one's self without taking away their ability to sympathize and grow.

It's a tough task.
I kind of have two stances on this.  I do believe that bullying is WRONG. In fact, I don't understand it one bit.  What drives these people to NEED to put their- selves above someone else? Why is it that belittling someone makes them feel like a good person?  I wish that there was something we could do as educators and parents to protect our children from these sick games.

On the other hand, I think it's just as important for us to teach our children to be emotionally secure.  For some children, that is very hard to accomplish.  We need to be AWARE of our child's emotions and how they are handling those emotions.  We need to establish confidence without instilling arrogance.  We need to establish comfort with one's self without taking away their ability to sympathize and grow.

It's a tough task.
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I just did some research on the situation (I accedently clicked on this similar situation thinking it was someone else.) Turns out I guess she was doing an Eye cam. chat thing online and the person she talked to managed to convince her to take her top off. I guess somehow someone got a hold of the pictures of her and sent them to all of her friends and family. Also I guess when she tried to move to another school, the same guy made a Facebook account with her pictures as his profile picture? Also I guess she had tried to kill herself before by drinking bleech, and she resorted to cutting herself, drugs, and alchol. Now learning this imformation I now have 3 opinions...

1. I hope they find the guy who sent those picutres of her, created the Facebook profile, and blackmailed her and gets life in prison. Its disheartening that there is a person out there like this and that me and him are part of the same species.
2. She should have known that when she poses topless on an Eyecam chat thing that somehow pictures of her will be taken and posted. I'm not saying that she deserved what she got, just that she should have known better.
3. Where were the parents? Seriously when she tries to kill herself with bleech there is a chance she will try to kill herself again. They should have kept a close eye on her and take more aggressive action to help her out.

(All of my information was taken from the Huffington Post, so the information could not be true.)
I just did some research on the situation (I accedently clicked on this similar situation thinking it was someone else.) Turns out I guess she was doing an Eye cam. chat thing online and the person she talked to managed to convince her to take her top off. I guess somehow someone got a hold of the pictures of her and sent them to all of her friends and family. Also I guess when she tried to move to another school, the same guy made a Facebook account with her pictures as his profile picture? Also I guess she had tried to kill herself before by drinking bleech, and she resorted to cutting herself, drugs, and alchol. Now learning this imformation I now have 3 opinions...

1. I hope they find the guy who sent those picutres of her, created the Facebook profile, and blackmailed her and gets life in prison. Its disheartening that there is a person out there like this and that me and him are part of the same species.
2. She should have known that when she poses topless on an Eyecam chat thing that somehow pictures of her will be taken and posted. I'm not saying that she deserved what she got, just that she should have known better.
3. Where were the parents? Seriously when she tries to kill herself with bleech there is a chance she will try to kill herself again. They should have kept a close eye on her and take more aggressive action to help her out.

(All of my information was taken from the Huffington Post, so the information could not be true.)
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Oldschool41 : well it was true about the eye cam not sure about the other things though
Oldschool41 : well it was true about the eye cam not sure about the other things though
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Supposedly Anonymous found the person responsible for the destruction of her social life. According to this article (http://o.canada.com/2012/10/16/amanda-todds-tormentor-outed-by-anonymous/) it was a 32 year old man in British Columbia, but the police in BC haven't confirmed Anonymous' info.
Supposedly Anonymous found the person responsible for the destruction of her social life. According to this article (http://o.canada.com/2012/10/16/amanda-todds-tormentor-outed-by-anonymous/) it was a 32 year old man in British Columbia, but the police in BC haven't confirmed Anonymous' info.
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Kenotsu : Yeah they better gather enough evidence to get a search warrent before making an arrest and quickly as he could flee the country. (I'm not sure of Canada's legal process.) Looks like he's going to be charged with distributing child pron, fraud, and sexual harrasment (to name a few).


Kenotsu : Yeah they better gather enough evidence to get a search warrent before making an arrest and quickly as he could flee the country. (I'm not sure of Canada's legal process.) Looks like he's going to be charged with distributing child pron, fraud, and sexual harrasment (to name a few).

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Oldschool41 : they should have been able to pin point on what computer those pics came from they do it all the time in other serious situations but i case 15 year old girls naked body being seen everywere online by possibly a pedo isnt serious.... and people wonder why i dont vote since i think no matter what and no matter who you vote for you will be screwed over cause there all corrupt in there own ways
Oldschool41 : they should have been able to pin point on what computer those pics came from they do it all the time in other serious situations but i case 15 year old girls naked body being seen everywere online by possibly a pedo isnt serious.... and people wonder why i dont vote since i think no matter what and no matter who you vote for you will be screwed over cause there all corrupt in there own ways
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Seimika : Good point, I would have assumed that as well. I guess that is an issue to bring up during the legal procedings as to why they were unable to track down the person who first sent out the naked pics/ why didn't they do anything to bring the pedophile to justice. However, once the pic has been sent out its tough to remove it completely onine and even then someone who has the image saved on a thumb drive/hard drive can always reupload the image online.

Seimika : Good point, I would have assumed that as well. I guess that is an issue to bring up during the legal procedings as to why they were unable to track down the person who first sent out the naked pics/ why didn't they do anything to bring the pedophile to justice. However, once the pic has been sent out its tough to remove it completely onine and even then someone who has the image saved on a thumb drive/hard drive can always reupload the image online.
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Oldschool41 : yeah ex's and just all around bas**rds do it all the time..its alil sad that we use such an amazing thing as the internet to post vids,convos,pics,ect of private things. I fully admit if i knew how to record a webcam chat on something like msn n all those other things i might record something but id never ever put it on the net I'm just not that stupid or cruel
Oldschool41 : yeah ex's and just all around bas**rds do it all the time..its alil sad that we use such an amazing thing as the internet to post vids,convos,pics,ect of private things. I fully admit if i knew how to record a webcam chat on something like msn n all those other things i might record something but id never ever put it on the net I'm just not that stupid or cruel
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This is something I try to share with people who have suicidal thoughts...

Imagine this. You come home from school one day. You’ve had yet another horrible day. You’re just ready to give up. So you go to your room, close the door, and take out that suicide note you’ve written and rewritten over and over. You take out those razor blades, and cut for the very last time. You grab those bottle of pills and take them all. Laying down, holding the letter to your chest, you close your eyes for the very last time.

A few hours later, your little brother knocks on your door to come tell you dinners ready. You don’t answer, so he walks in. All he sees is you laying on your bed, so he thinks you’re asleep. He tells your Mom. Your Mom goes to your room to wake you up. She notices something is odd. She grabs the paper in your hand and reads it. Sobbing, she tries to wake you up. She’s screaming your name. Your brother, so confused, runs to go tell your Dad that “Mom's crying and big brother won’t wake up.” Your Dad runs to your room. He looks at your Mom, crying, holding the letter to her chest, sitting next to your lifeless body. It hits him, what’s going on, and he screams. He screams and throws something at the wall. And then, falling to his knees, he starts to cry. Your mum crawls over to him, and they sit there, holding each other, crying.

The next day at school, there’s an announcement. The principal tells everyone about your suicide. It takes a few seconds for it to sink in, and once it does, everyone goes silent. Everyone blames themselves. Your teachers think they were too hard on you. Those mean popular girls, they think of all the things they’ve said to you. That boy that used to tease you and call you names, he can’t help but hate himself for never telling you how awesome and nice you really are. Your ex-girlfriend, the one that you told everything to, that broke up with you, she can’t handle it. She breaks down and starts crying, and runs out of the school. Your friends? They’re sobbing too, wondering how they could never see that anything was wrong, wishing they could have helped you before it was too late. And your best friend? He’s in shock. He can’t believe it. He knew what you were going through, but he never thought it would get that bad. Bad enough for you to end it. He can’t cry, he can’t feel anything. He stands up, walks out of the classroom, and just sinks to the floor. Shaking, screaming, but no tears coming out.

It’s a few days later, at your funeral. The whole town came. Everyone knew you, that guy with the bright smile and bubbly personality. The one that was always there for them, the shoulder to cry on. Lots of people talk about all the good memories they had with you, there were a lot. Everyone’s crying, your little brother still doesn't know you killed yourself, he’s too young. Your parents just said you died. It hurts him, a lot. You were his big brother, you were supposed to always be there for him. Your best friend, he stays strong through the entire service, but as soon as they start lowering your casket into the ground, he just loses it. He cries and doesn't stop for days. It’s two years later. The whole school talks to a psychologist at least once a week. Your teachers all quit their job. Those mean girls have eating disorders now. That boy that used to tease you cuts himself. Your ex-girlfriend doesn't know how to love anymore and just sleeps around now. Your friends all go into a depression. Your best friend? He tried to kill himself. He didn’t succeed like you did, but he tried…. your brother? He finally found out the truth about your death. He self harms, he cries at night, he does exactly what you did for years leading up to your suicide. Your parents? Their marriage fell apart. Your dad became a workaholic to distract himself from your death. Your Mom got diagnosed with depression and just lays in bed all day.

People care. You may not think so, but they do. Your choices don’t just effect you. They effect everyone. Don’t end your life, you have so much to live for. Things can’t get better if you give up. I’m here for absolutely anyone that needs to talk, no matter who you are. Even if we’ve NEVER talked before, I’m here for you.
This is something I try to share with people who have suicidal thoughts...

Imagine this. You come home from school one day. You’ve had yet another horrible day. You’re just ready to give up. So you go to your room, close the door, and take out that suicide note you’ve written and rewritten over and over. You take out those razor blades, and cut for the very last time. You grab those bottle of pills and take them all. Laying down, holding the letter to your chest, you close your eyes for the very last time.

A few hours later, your little brother knocks on your door to come tell you dinners ready. You don’t answer, so he walks in. All he sees is you laying on your bed, so he thinks you’re asleep. He tells your Mom. Your Mom goes to your room to wake you up. She notices something is odd. She grabs the paper in your hand and reads it. Sobbing, she tries to wake you up. She’s screaming your name. Your brother, so confused, runs to go tell your Dad that “Mom's crying and big brother won’t wake up.” Your Dad runs to your room. He looks at your Mom, crying, holding the letter to her chest, sitting next to your lifeless body. It hits him, what’s going on, and he screams. He screams and throws something at the wall. And then, falling to his knees, he starts to cry. Your mum crawls over to him, and they sit there, holding each other, crying.

The next day at school, there’s an announcement. The principal tells everyone about your suicide. It takes a few seconds for it to sink in, and once it does, everyone goes silent. Everyone blames themselves. Your teachers think they were too hard on you. Those mean popular girls, they think of all the things they’ve said to you. That boy that used to tease you and call you names, he can’t help but hate himself for never telling you how awesome and nice you really are. Your ex-girlfriend, the one that you told everything to, that broke up with you, she can’t handle it. She breaks down and starts crying, and runs out of the school. Your friends? They’re sobbing too, wondering how they could never see that anything was wrong, wishing they could have helped you before it was too late. And your best friend? He’s in shock. He can’t believe it. He knew what you were going through, but he never thought it would get that bad. Bad enough for you to end it. He can’t cry, he can’t feel anything. He stands up, walks out of the classroom, and just sinks to the floor. Shaking, screaming, but no tears coming out.

It’s a few days later, at your funeral. The whole town came. Everyone knew you, that guy with the bright smile and bubbly personality. The one that was always there for them, the shoulder to cry on. Lots of people talk about all the good memories they had with you, there were a lot. Everyone’s crying, your little brother still doesn't know you killed yourself, he’s too young. Your parents just said you died. It hurts him, a lot. You were his big brother, you were supposed to always be there for him. Your best friend, he stays strong through the entire service, but as soon as they start lowering your casket into the ground, he just loses it. He cries and doesn't stop for days. It’s two years later. The whole school talks to a psychologist at least once a week. Your teachers all quit their job. Those mean girls have eating disorders now. That boy that used to tease you cuts himself. Your ex-girlfriend doesn't know how to love anymore and just sleeps around now. Your friends all go into a depression. Your best friend? He tried to kill himself. He didn’t succeed like you did, but he tried…. your brother? He finally found out the truth about your death. He self harms, he cries at night, he does exactly what you did for years leading up to your suicide. Your parents? Their marriage fell apart. Your dad became a workaholic to distract himself from your death. Your Mom got diagnosed with depression and just lays in bed all day.

People care. You may not think so, but they do. Your choices don’t just effect you. They effect everyone. Don’t end your life, you have so much to live for. Things can’t get better if you give up. I’m here for absolutely anyone that needs to talk, no matter who you are. Even if we’ve NEVER talked before, I’m here for you.
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Are you guys ready to have your jimmies rustled? By A LOT?

Well, hope you are, Nya~.

This case is something I don't care about much at all, honestly.

Why? She made all the wrong choices. What she got was bad, yes, but she should not have taken everything as a surprise. Obviously, if you flash some old guys on the internet WILLINGLY, start doing DRUGS AND ALCOHOL, and SLEEP WITH SOME GUY WHO WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE, all at the age of THIRTEEN TO FIFTEEN, then yeah, you're gonna get a lot of garbage and a LOT of bullying in return.

Trust me, yes, I do feel A LITTLE amount of sympathy for her, but no, I really don't. If she made the RIGHT choices on what to do, yeah, I'd feel much worse for her (Which in reality is about a 2% difference), but [repeat].

Also, I have even heard that one or two of the people who spread her pictures around were even people SHE bullied, so it makes me feel even less pity. However, that is only pending, being the source for that statement was very loose and barely provided. If anyone can prove this wrong, I will let go of that part.

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Are you guys ready to have your jimmies rustled? By A LOT?

Well, hope you are, Nya~.

This case is something I don't care about much at all, honestly.

Why? She made all the wrong choices. What she got was bad, yes, but she should not have taken everything as a surprise. Obviously, if you flash some old guys on the internet WILLINGLY, start doing DRUGS AND ALCOHOL, and SLEEP WITH SOME GUY WHO WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE, all at the age of THIRTEEN TO FIFTEEN, then yeah, you're gonna get a lot of garbage and a LOT of bullying in return.

Trust me, yes, I do feel A LITTLE amount of sympathy for her, but no, I really don't. If she made the RIGHT choices on what to do, yeah, I'd feel much worse for her (Which in reality is about a 2% difference), but [repeat].

Also, I have even heard that one or two of the people who spread her pictures around were even people SHE bullied, so it makes me feel even less pity. However, that is only pending, being the source for that statement was very loose and barely provided. If anyone can prove this wrong, I will let go of that part.

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I don't have any sympathy for those who decide to commit suicide. Nothing in the life can be solved by this and you do much more than kill yourself, you take yourself out of the lives of your family and friends. That's the worst kind of self-absorption.

And I do agree with Mega that this girl did do it to herself. However the media might portray this girl as innocent, you do have to remember there's always another side to the story. Was she perfect and never did anything to anyone else? Doubtful. 
I don't have any sympathy for those who decide to commit suicide. Nothing in the life can be solved by this and you do much more than kill yourself, you take yourself out of the lives of your family and friends. That's the worst kind of self-absorption.

And I do agree with Mega that this girl did do it to herself. However the media might portray this girl as innocent, you do have to remember there's always another side to the story. Was she perfect and never did anything to anyone else? Doubtful. 
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MegaRevolution1 : I respect your opinions and frankly I agree with you partially. Yes she did flash herself, do drugs/alcohol, sleep with a guy who was in a relationship; which is something you should NEVER do in any situation (even while drunk...thou it can be difficult). I'm curious as to what you thought about her getting beaten by a bunch of girls from her school, drinking bleech, and cutting herself. Now I find that the whole "she was thirteen to fifthteen" to be not really important in terms of decision making (at least to me since the big rumor in my school was two 13 year olds getting caught having sex in the school elevator, so I wouldn't be surprised if kids who are 12-14 are having sex today.) But at the end of the day she did kill herself and as long as the guy who posted the naked pictures of her is caught and convicted, I'll be happy (since bullying isn't a crime, the people would beat her won't be charge...I think).

NameEntry : I think your arguement about suicide being "the worst kind of self-absorption" is debatable...all I have to say about that. Let me ask you this my good sir, is it more noble to kill yourself to save some humility or live through life as an empty shell and being labeled something revolting? I'm curious as to how you will answer since my question relates to the girls' situation.


MegaRevolution1 : I respect your opinions and frankly I agree with you partially. Yes she did flash herself, do drugs/alcohol, sleep with a guy who was in a relationship; which is something you should NEVER do in any situation (even while drunk...thou it can be difficult). I'm curious as to what you thought about her getting beaten by a bunch of girls from her school, drinking bleech, and cutting herself. Now I find that the whole "she was thirteen to fifthteen" to be not really important in terms of decision making (at least to me since the big rumor in my school was two 13 year olds getting caught having sex in the school elevator, so I wouldn't be surprised if kids who are 12-14 are having sex today.) But at the end of the day she did kill herself and as long as the guy who posted the naked pictures of her is caught and convicted, I'll be happy (since bullying isn't a crime, the people would beat her won't be charge...I think).

NameEntry : I think your arguement about suicide being "the worst kind of self-absorption" is debatable...all I have to say about that. Let me ask you this my good sir, is it more noble to kill yourself to save some humility or live through life as an empty shell and being labeled something revolting? I'm curious as to how you will answer since my question relates to the girls' situation.

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Oldschool41 : Funny, I didn't get the notification from that for some reason. Gotta thank my curiosity on this one, Nya~.
Anyways, "since bullying isn't a crime, the people would beat her won't be charge...I think". If it was severe enough, it could be charged for assault, which is indeed a crime.

And just cause I want to, I'll answer your question to NameEntry too. It all falls down on who the person is, really. If they are weak and foolish, it's the knife and Clorox. If they don't give a care about what others think, they're gonna live through it and wait for it to pass by. All the idiocy tends to go away and be replaced with common sense as you grow up, even though some of it stays. But really, it only depends on the person, Nya~.
Oldschool41 : Funny, I didn't get the notification from that for some reason. Gotta thank my curiosity on this one, Nya~.
Anyways, "since bullying isn't a crime, the people would beat her won't be charge...I think". If it was severe enough, it could be charged for assault, which is indeed a crime.

And just cause I want to, I'll answer your question to NameEntry too. It all falls down on who the person is, really. If they are weak and foolish, it's the knife and Clorox. If they don't give a care about what others think, they're gonna live through it and wait for it to pass by. All the idiocy tends to go away and be replaced with common sense as you grow up, even though some of it stays. But really, it only depends on the person, Nya~.
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MegaRevolution1 : Well said ma'am. I agree with you on the part made for NameEntry too. I think that it really comes down to the person since we can't really make the decision for them, it is up to him/her really. We can only just comfort and attempt to help them get through their difficult time in hopes that they make the right decision and know that people do care about them.

MegaRevolution1 : Well said ma'am. I agree with you on the part made for NameEntry too. I think that it really comes down to the person since we can't really make the decision for them, it is up to him/her really. We can only just comfort and attempt to help them get through their difficult time in hopes that they make the right decision and know that people do care about them.
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