Singelli : I can see you and I becoming really good friends. And that's a really good idea, did you want to start that thread or did you want me to do it? And where do you think it should go? Maybe debate? Not sure.

Hmmm.. that'd probably be the best place, yes.  As for who to place it, it should probably be you.  I'm so burnt out that I'm probably not making much sense in most of my posts right now.  LOL  I probably won't post a response -tonight-, but I guarantee you I will have a lot to contribute since I work with these kids all day.

In fact, this is probably my last post of the night.  (And I'll get to your pm before I go though.)

Hmm... I guess the only trait I come close to disliking about myself is that I sometimes tend to care too much about things... I get too personally attached to matters that aren't important and let small things get to me. I have trouble taking a backseat.

SunflowerGaming : Try and watch that sandwich posting please...
Singelli : Same to you as well

I suppose there is two answers that I can give to this answer... 


Answer 1) There isn't anything wrong with me or the traits I have as that is who I am and I should embrace that whilst I do have my negative traits that I despise about myself I also have positive ones as well. 

Answer 2) I personally don't like the fact that I'm different, I walk differently, I think differently, I also tend to see the world differently from other people.. Whilst on the rare occasion this is a good thing.. All it ever really seems to do is bring negativity towards me in pretty much every single shape and form whether that be Verbal abuse or Physical Abuse. 

I've got to the age where I don't really care what happens to me because of this (I'm only 21 but I consider this to be the end of my development physically and mentally).... Anyways I'm going off topic so I apologise.... 

In short.. I dislike the fact I walk like a dinosaur... I dislike the fact that I have so many physical flaws that people take for granted... And I also hate the fact that I can't see anything in a positive light unless it's something that benefits someone else.

sonicmcmuffin : Yeah sorry about that, I honestly didn't know what sandwich posting was until you told me so I'm making sure not to do that anymore. Haha. Still living and learning. I guess that never changes no matter what age you are. And as for the stuff you don't like about yourself, I would think that being different than other people would actually be a good thing. It gives people like me a way to see other point of views. Some people can just be down right cruel.

Crazy Li : I do that a lot too. If something bad happens I tend to worry about it until it makes me physically sick. I try not to worry but I was told by my psychiatrist that it's because of my mental illnesses and the mental illnesses can after the physical. Anyway back to the topic at hand. I think once more people tell us what traits they don't like, I'll be posting more about myself. Haha.

I can't stand selfishness.  That being said, I also am a bit extreme when it comes to my view on that.  I guess my view on selfishness comes from a long history with very selfish people, and I just learned to completely hate any bit of selfishness no matter how small it was.  I especially hate emotional selfishness though.  It makes me clam up and struggle to interact with someone, if they display that quality.

I can be shy, self absorbed, and mean sometimes...  I really wish I could get rid of some of those traits.  I hate being a jerk.  Sometimes I just don't mean to say what I actually say though.  It's like words come out of my mouth before even thinking about saying that to people!!

Singelli : I agree with that extremely. I don't like selfishness too. Even if I come across as selfish sometimes, it even annoys me. Which is probably why I'll get offensive with someone else, it's not because I feel that way toward them, but it's more that I feel that way about myself and I get frustrated with myself.

shawnfawn : I have the same problem. I'll come across as mean or self absorbed when I am actually not doing that. It's because I have a hard time expressing what I am thinking so it comes out completely wrong, and then I end up offending someone or making them angry.

SunflowerGaming : Yeah!  I have a tendency to do that!  Seriously.  I can't express my thoughts either!!

shawnfawn : Do you ever get moments where it sounds good in your mind but when you go to say it, it comes out wrong and then the other person is like; "OMG, you're so rude."?

I don't like it when teenagers get superiority complexes.

Or even worse, when they REFUSE to try!

When I encourage them to answer a question, and they go "But I'll get it wrong!", my eyes want to bug out of my head.  I'm like, "But you'll get it wrong if you leave it blank silly!!!!!"  I mean, at least they have a better chance if they put something stupid down, than if they leave it blank!