billythekidmonster : Haha. He was talking about the extreme Republicans. Like Anne Coulter Republican. You don't seem to be THAT conservative.

BNuge : I go by the definition of losing your virginity as having sex for the first time. I remember your thread a while ago that talked about this part of your life, and I still stand by my post in it. I hope that you will find that point in your life when you are comfortable enough to be open with everyone. It saddens me when I see someone unable to be true to themselves because of how often they get such negative judgement. When that happens, I hope your brother does a good job at being a matchmaker. Everyone deserves to be happy.

rcarter2 : Yes I try to back off of most politics when I get online. First I am a child (technically) so I do not want to try to argue with an adult about more or less their world. I just never really want to get into politics all that much just because they lead to arguments. I just don't like people using Republican OR Democrat as an offensive term. That is all.

billythekidmonster :

No. He has a girlfriend.


rcarter2 :

I'm not ashamed of it. What bothers me the most is the amount of attention it draws. When I told some of my cousins they started hugging me and all that. I feel that that attention is unnecessary and it bothers me. I'll probably post it on Facebook in the next week or two anyway.

If either of you want to discuss this matter some more, it should probably be switched to my old thread:
https://www.vizzed.com/vizzedboard/thread.php?id=22093
No reason to flood this thread with a different topic.

Nope. I never had a girlfriend either. I've never had anything really, not even a kiss. There's only been two females that I can say that I really loved and both didn't feel the same so here I am. I feel fine about it, though. I just feel like people judge me all the time because I tend to dress weird, speak funny, and am usually very introverted. But I'm a firecracker. JUST GIMME A LIGHT!

Have not lost it yet.

Im taking my time strolling through life's short path.

I lost it when it was 16

I lost my virginity to Lazlo Falconi when I was 18. We had been dating for 2 years prior, but long distance, so we obviously couldn't seal the deal. We had sex the first night we met, and I'm pretty sure it would have happened a lot sooner if we had had the opportunity, haha. Although some people probably think it was rushed (Whoa, the first night upon meeting in person?), but it was unavoidable. After loving and wanting to be near someone for 2 years, it was just amazing. There wasn't much awkward first time stuff, it was just the most wonderful relief. Finally we could be together and be a real couple.

He had to go back home after just a week of meeting, but a month later he moved up with me and we haven't been apart since. We'll have been married for 2 years on April 30th. =)

KG :

Sounds a lot like my situation with my girlfriend.

We started dating November of 2010, and have been dating ever since. It's a long distance relationship and we have yet to meet either. It's nice to hear of it working out for someone else, definitely gives me a lot more faith that this sort of thing can and does happen. Just need to be patient.

legacyme3 : Yeah, that's the spirit! It can work out. I would never, ever recommend it for anyone - because it's very hard work, and it is very lonely and depressing. And realistically, everyone knows that the chances of it working out long term are pretty small. But, as Lazlo used to tell me on the bad days, nothing worth having is easy. Not everyone is lucky enough to find someone that they're really compatible with in their some city, or even the same state. Sometimes the extremes are worth it for somebody special.

From someone who completely understands the boat you're in, I really hope things work out for you guys! And, sorry for the sandwich post. =)

KG :

Don't worry about sandwich posting, if it's a matter of relevance, sometimes it's the best way to go about things. Mainly avoid sandwiching in game forums

And I have to agree. Nothing worth having IS easy.

It's hard enough to find someone compatible with me so it's definitely worth it for me

legacyme3 : Sorry about your lots, but hopefully you'll do the classy thing like I did.


Go back home and change your chat status to "Kif! I've made it with a woman! Inform the men."

KG : It's okay because he's staff. The Magna Carta has no hold here!

If anyone thinks he's joking about making that his status after we knocked boots, you're a moron.

Lazlo Falconi :

I love Futurama references.

And that's probably going to be similar to what I do haha.

legacyme3 : Lazlo calls 'em like he sees 'em. He's a whale biologist.

Ahhhh this....


Well, I'd been living with a Korean friend at the time.
She had a Korean friend.
A rather lonely mother, whom had been described to me as a 'cougar' afterwards.

She'd been hanging around a bit, and despite a language barrier (which I was attempting to surmount at that time; I still remember bits of Korean), we'd managed to hold something resembling a conversation.

She asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend.

Me, being young and infinitely stupid, said yes.

We had precisely ONE date before she asked to go to a hotel with me.

Initially, I was hesitant, but she managed to convince me.

.....Three days later, I was sore in place I didn't know could be sore.

At the time, yes, it felt amazing, but in retrospect, augh, I don't like it. It was barely a fay after that we split ways and I heard in rumours and hearsay that she was really only looking for sex, and that she really liked tall white guys.



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Two times I almost lost it (note still virgin here....).

First time was with my high school boyfriend.  We had finished going through his training grounds and saved his little cousin from drowning.  I was in his room changing into spare cloths he got from his mom.  We were close at the time so I allowed him to watch.  Things got heated and we proceeded to attempt the action.  Then the door opens and there is his GRANDMA!!!!!  I was forbidden to see him again and he was moved to Washington state the other side of the USA!!!!  T.T  I hate that lady!!  The moment was soooo magical!  She had to come in and ruin it!


The second one was not by choice.  I had a female friend that I was friends with since sixth grade.  We were tight always over each others houses.  Everyone thought we were sisters!  It was a month before she was going to move to Hawaii for college and I came over for the weekend as usual.  She had an adult anime going on (yah not unusual sometimes we'd adventure into that area together).  Then she went into her closset and pulled out bondage stuff.  Thankfully her mother decided to come into her room at that moment and saved me!  Bad side to this I lost my best friend that same day.  She went into the millitary and changed her name.  I have not seen her in over 7 years....

I lost mine at 19. I remember it well because I was petrified :p. I was having a phone relationship with a girl for a few months and then I was going to see her and I knew she would expect me to perform but I wasn't sure about it, so I had a few too many drinks and it all went wrong :p. We split up a week later.

Moral of the story? Sex is sex. Don't make such a big deal out of it, whether it's your first time or your hundred and first time, its still the same thing, its not some ultra special secret thing which can only possibly be understood by true love.... its sex. The true secret is communication. As long as both parties are understanding the needs and expectations of each other then it can be an all round enjoyable experience, be it for expression of feeling or exploration of self or just for a something to do on a rainy day.

I lost mine last year in April, before turning 19 to my current boyfriend. When we were done, I was thinking to myself, "What just happened?" But, now that we are together, I don't regret it at all. Makes our love and trust grow much stronger.

Still have it. All these chicks are thirsty as hell down here. Could have herpes or syphilis so I ain't taking n e chances with n e of these women that act extremely dirty. Don't get me wrong, it's good for a girl to unleash her freaky side, but theirs such thing as too much and in public. Not just women, guys, a female doesn't want you to be a pervert asking her inappropriate questions, be a gentleman. Answering the question again, NO. Just haven't found the right girl to lose it to. Almost did to an old friend, but she's thirsty with 3 kids, and actually glad I didn't lose it to her. Almost ended up paying child support for that ungrateful witch. Advice, lose it to someone that wants to do something with their life, and not just a random person that's just gonna treat you like trash. Don't go after the douche bags and s***s, lose it to someone you can be proud to call your own. Public Service Announcement.

Why haven't I posted in this thread yet...

Let's see I lost it when I was 15, it was one of those days where there was nothing to do
long story short, we were bored and no one was home so we had sex, it wasn't good, but we got better at it LOL