I'm sure you guys remember my thread about my good mood ruined about my so called friend that ranted on me something fierce. Well, last night she called me apologizing for the way she acted. She was crying her eyes out, which that tells me she went on and done the deed and yet she expects me to give her advise for what she's said and done? Normally I would tell them to "f*** off" for what she'd done. I didn't give her full support. Anyways, it turns out that she did do the naughty with her boyfriend and now she's pregnant. She's so lost and scared out of her mind, because when her boyfriend found out. He left her and I found out he was only a kid himself. 15 years old to be exact and now her Mom is threatening her that she going to kick her out of the house if she doesn't get an abortion. I'm against that. I told her. "Well you should have known that this was going to happen and now you don't want to raise the child because of your boyfriend left you?"  Now, I was against her Mom about the whole abortion thing and she wanted to come and stay with me. That is a very bad thing for me. I can get into some serious trouble if people had the wrong idea about that. So I had to tell her no. I told her she had two options. Go live with her aunt and grow up and raise the child or put it up for adoption for responsible people to take the child in. She's still lost, but it was getting late and I needed to sleep. I just told her to choose out of those options.

Annette : I figured you would like to know what happened to her.

hnnn : That's why it took me so long last night to get back to you due to that phone call.

Dude I understand now anyway its really up to her if she wants to keep the baby or not but make the guy who got her pregnant help out with the child

It's her choice if she wants to keep the child or not... Unless she is at a point in her life where she KNOWS she can carry a pregnancy to full term, give birth, and raise a baby... She should not. That is a huge emotional/physical/psychological/financial strain, an immense responsibility and commitment. Probably one of the biggest commitments and most life-changing thing someone can go through. Some people may not like my opinion, but I am pro-choice. I would not force someone to go through a pregnancy/childbirth/parenting unless they were fully prepared for it, otherwise it is just cruel to both the mother and baby.

Annette : I honestly don't think she's ready for the pregnancy by the way she was acting last night. However, I do agree where you getting at. If she thinks she was ready for that kind of intercourse. The she must grow up and prepare to bring a life into the world and care for that child. I don't know what's going on between her and her mother, but my guess is that she may be going to her aunt sometime soon, because I don't think she wants to get an abortion. From that action. I think she is going to try to be a mother when the time comes. I just hope she knows whats she's doing.