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04-06-11 05:22 PM
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So today is me and my girlfriend's 5 month anniversary.

Problem, I'm REALLY not in a talking mood, and obviously that instantly makes me the bad guy.

I know I won't be able to talk without screaming because today has been a bad day (and no, I'm not gonna talk about it)

I told her today is just a bad day, and I don't know what else I can do without her friends instantly villainizing me for not being talky for one day in the past 5 months.

Any ideas?

So today is me and my girlfriend's 5 month anniversary.

Problem, I'm REALLY not in a talking mood, and obviously that instantly makes me the bad guy.

I know I won't be able to talk without screaming because today has been a bad day (and no, I'm not gonna talk about it)

I told her today is just a bad day, and I don't know what else I can do without her friends instantly villainizing me for not being talky for one day in the past 5 months.

Any ideas?

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Well..5 months isn't super special. Maybe 6 months, or 2, but not 5. Blow your friends off. It's not your fault you're in a bad mood.
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Well..5 months isn't super special. Maybe 6 months, or 2, but not 5. Blow your friends off. It's not your fault you're in a bad mood.

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pieman9 :

It is and it isn't. It's not uber important to me. Although it does mark my longest relationship now.

The issue is, it is important to her. Every month is important to her because she's never had a relationship last so long. So every month on the 6th, I tell her happy anniversary and all that fun stuff. Sadly, she gets upset when I don't feel like talking today.

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It is and it isn't. It's not uber important to me. Although it does mark my longest relationship now.

The issue is, it is important to her. Every month is important to her because she's never had a relationship last so long. So every month on the 6th, I tell her happy anniversary and all that fun stuff. Sadly, she gets upset when I don't feel like talking today.

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Okay, I get it now. You had a bad day, so you don't want to talk to her because you know somehow a fight between you and her will start. I can understand why she would be upset.

Tell her you have had a bad day. She'll understand. She'll like you more because she will realize that you trust her, and know she won't get angry.
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Okay, I get it now. You had a bad day, so you don't want to talk to her because you know somehow a fight between you and her will start. I can understand why she would be upset.

Tell her you have had a bad day. She'll understand. She'll like you more because she will realize that you trust her, and know she won't get angry.

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Tell them you had a bad day. If your girlfriend really likes you, she'll get over it. It's not a big deal if you have a bad day.

You can also get over your day and fake it for your girlfriend. It's a lose-lose situation.
Tell them you had a bad day. If your girlfriend really likes you, she'll get over it. It's not a big deal if you have a bad day.

You can also get over your day and fake it for your girlfriend. It's a lose-lose situation.

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She and I resolved it late last night.

I want to leave this open, because it might help someone who comes across the same problem. Feel free to talk about things you do in this situation.

She and I resolved it late last night.

I want to leave this open, because it might help someone who comes across the same problem. Feel free to talk about things you do in this situation.

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To be honest I never saw random "month" anniversarries as important so I haven't run into the problem. If I was having a bad day on an anniversary then I would discuss it with my partner (looks like you already did) and explain to them. Then we could celebrate on another day or maybe the next week.

To be honest I never saw random "month" anniversarries as important so I haven't run into the problem. If I was having a bad day on an anniversary then I would discuss it with my partner (looks like you already did) and explain to them. Then we could celebrate on another day or maybe the next week.

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That must have blown. Sorry to hear that happened to you. If your girlfriend really cares about you she would understand. If she breaks up with you then you know it wasn't meant to be.



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That must have blown. Sorry to hear that happened to you. If your girlfriend really cares about you she would understand. If she breaks up with you then you know it wasn't meant to be.

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I wouldnt worry about what her friends think, in their opinion i'm sure no one would be good enough, no one would get away from the villainization... what i do is if i am unhappy on a special day is, remember a day when i was extremely happy and try to project myself there. It brings me to my "Happy Place" so to speak.

I wouldnt worry about what her friends think, in their opinion i'm sure no one would be good enough, no one would get away from the villainization... what i do is if i am unhappy on a special day is, remember a day when i was extremely happy and try to project myself there. It brings me to my "Happy Place" so to speak.

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