Generally when I think of my "dream girl", the physical basics are that she has a pretty face (doesn't have to be perfect and is completely different from person to person), long and healthy hair (especially blonde but it doesn't matter), skin that looks soft and fair (especially skin with a tinge of pink, although I find all races attractive), eyes that look pretty (my favorite are blue or green, they remind me of people special to me) and unagressive (not haughty, that project kindness and humility). Like a lot of guys who are being honest, my "dream girl" isn't skinny, she's healthy, preferably with nice thighs and curves. I love girls that look soft and feminine, fit girls are fine but I don't like an excess of muscle. I think some fat is attractive and natural and that girls with curves are sexy.

For her personality, my "dream girl" is intelligent, kind, humble and compassionate. I like girls that have enough wisdom to teach me a few things, but not to the point of arrogance that my opinions don't count. She would have a soft-spoken voice (of my own definition that doesn't mean she speaks quietly, but speaks like a girl and doesn't have harshness or superiority in her tone). I don't like it when a girl tries to sound glamorous, she should just be herself. She'd have a good sense of humor but not too much at others expense and be interested in speaking intellectually and not just be concerned with what's cool. Also, if she was my "dream girl," she'd be a Christian. However as long as her heart is good and she makes an effort to enjoy my company I can find common ground with anyone.

As far as what's attractive in terms of her situation, I don't mind. As long as she's of stable mind and willing to move forward.

I find many types of women to be attractive. I have never been with a thin woman though, but if she's wasn't too skinny I might try it. I'm not into blondes and prefer black hair and redheads. Glasses are one of my turn-ons and she MUST BE INTELLIGENT. I need someone with whom I can communicate on an intelligent level or it will not work. If I find myself attracted to a woman I will appreciate her good qualities no matter what they are.

Also tattoos are sexy because they usually mean a natural, non-augmented, woman. Plastic is made for toys! I also like a deeper voice on a woman because high-pitched sounds get on my nerves.

naked girls randomly walking on the street naked :3 they must be sexi and 11 :3

On a psychological aspect, things that I find sexy are girls that like technology, video games, and are very intellectual. Aside from that, is... well, I LOVE RED-HEADS. RED-HEADS. RED-HEADS. RED-HEADS. The hottest girl ever is Alex Sim-Wise, because she is a red-head, she loves tech and video games, and she poses nude whenever she gets the chance. I'd post a link to some of her work but it could be considered NSFW, so I'm just gonna keep it to myself for now

What I find attractive about the opposite sex is if they fit some sort of role.
I mean, a shy clumsy girl who wears glasses and has big breasts? Great!
A fiery red head who's aggressive? Great!

In fact, Roleplay is my thing. Find a girl in any dating simulator and you found what I like! XD

In all honesty, I like most women. From skinny, to a little chub. What I like is personality. If she has a nice personality and like the same stuff as I do, it's all good.

EmosewaRepus : I've heard all to often that most red-heads, although hot as hell, are a bit crazy. I can say from experience I was good friends with one who was very cool, but I don't know about others.

Elara : Lol I'm like the guy version of you minus the D&D. lol

I like almost any girl since I find beauty in all figures. However chicks who can bench press me or who are fatter then me are kind of a turn off. I don't want to be thrown over their sholders or worry I'll get eaten by them. But really a sense of humor is sort of required, since I can like to be cute and funny when Im around people I like. However my jokes usually take some getting used to because I like to tease my girlfriend alot because I have friends who are girls and I make her alittle jealous only to feel like she cares. Plus its cute when she gets mad and says she'll beat up that chick, but I calm her down eventually and tell her it was all a joke. But I usually like a girl who would catch on to that fact that I'm just teasing. I really wouldn't tease them like that to be mean. Also glasses and intelligence are a VERY high plus, for example Elara's level of intelligence seems to be on level with mine when it comes to history and religions. However I don't like know-it-all's who basicly would be the female version of my buddy zTachikoma (Tyler). But over all I like a chick who's got flattering features, is intelligent (some what), has a clear goal in mind for life, is caring, sensative, cuddley like I am, and maybe even wears a little make up. Hair color doesn't really matter although I like dark hair colors. I sometimes tend to fall for "goths", "emo's" and "air heads" as some may call them but people are people and a women is a women. Just like Love is Love, so I love what is truely love.

DBDonald : You speak words of great wisdom. In real life, I usually follow with what you have described. I can have my fantasies all I want, but when it comes to experience, I have more luck in the emo/goth department.

One point I would like to diverge from you on though, is that I find glasses and intelligence are only attractive if the woman is also rather naughty or risque. Otherwise, I prefer the clumsy "airhead" looking types. Ideally, she would be smart with glasses but appear to be air headed.

In my opinion, there is a difference between what we think we are attracted to in our head, and what we actually end up being attracted to in reality.

In reality, I've gone with girls I've never thought I would even consider dating. The mind surely is a strange thing.

Cyro Xero : Well theres nothing wrong with that is there?

No, but you should be wary if you get involved with one.

Cyro Xero : I heard something similar, except it was about girls who have pet birds. Apparently they're crazy and you should avoid them at all costs. I have red hair AND a pet bird, so I think I might have to work extra hard to fend of the craziness??

Annette : OMG, crazy, run away! *hides*

Just kidding.

warmaker : ha ha ha. Hey, like I said, it is just a preference not a deal breaker. And I am there with you on the beer drinking thing... I think it is why I get along better with guys, since a lot of my girl friends are like "ew, beer" even to really tasty microbrew. Tis lame.

What do you find attractive about the opposite sex?

It might be her uh back, chest, voice, eyes, smile, some aspect of her personality, interests, whatever and/or some combination. For example, I am not normally, perhaps generally is a better word, attracted to ladies with quite some weight but sometimes wow she has it going on; it isn't that the weight attracts me... somehow she is just fine though. It just depends I guess.

Elara : So you're saying I got a chance!

Annette : Can't really say much about you since I only know you online. BTowns could maybe clarify that for us. I never heard about the birds thing. That's news to me but it may be true. There is a little saying about them- Red-heads: Fire in bed, crazy in the head.

warmaker : lol. Who am I to turn away a buff Hawaiian surfer dude?

Elara : Awrite! Baby, I like teach you how to ride a longboard. Good fun!

Lets just face it, I'm probably shallow, but I really look at outward appearance when I first meet a woman. I love a beautiful woman with a cute face and blue eyes and keeps herself in good shape. I like curves, but the booty is what I look at first. Now that I got that out of the way, I'm not all that bad.

I won't date a woman unless she likes me, I don't like clingy women but I want to know she wants me. My woman is interesting and funny, and knows how to have a good time. [aka. Handles Her Liquor, and can handle conversations with the guys] I'm not all too picky though cause I know everyone is different.

Their personality and beauty. Sure, everyone would say the sexiness, but what I like is the mind and the body.

Their personality and beauty as well. I wouldn't mind dating someone that didn't have beauty, but it would be nice to have.