Call me weird, but it's the softer side of the female mentality that I am attracted to. Only a woman can beat the crap out of you and then help you bandage your wounds!

There is a lot of talk in school about how to not judge women by their looks and that the only thing that matters is their personality. But that is just an excuse. It is undeniable that being in shape does help at least a bit. Personality DOES have a lot to do with what i find attractive but i also find their body important. I find a women's face and legs are the most attractive things to me. But personality has to be good. Not super unstable and wanting everyone to feel sorry for them. Confidence is very good. Being funny and making me laugh helps a lot as well. 

One word. Boobs!

I agree I like that a lot!

What I find attractive in the opposite sex(females) is there eye color, body shape,and a likable and funny personality.I really like blue eyed or a light hazel eye colored females, with a hourglass figure body or at least have a in shape semi fit body.

Well, I like either a blonde or a brown haired girl. She has to have a great personality, and shorter than me obviously. For physical features, she has to be in shape obviously. And boobs or a nice butt is always a plus. But, I don't really care too much about that stuff. Well, that's pretty much it.

What do I find attractive? Erhrm, well, I am attracted to both sexes, but am more likely to date a guy. I have kinda different preferences for either sex though.

Blue, green, or unusual colored eyes is a must if you are wanting to date me. (I don't really like dark eyes, mine are honey brown.) That one is for both.
For girls, I prefer long hair, skinny (but a little fat here and there is fine. I don't mind chunky people.), and she MUST be shorter than me. In a girl-girl relationship, I am the guy. She has to have a good sense of humor, can't be a drama queen, must like at least one of the shows/movies I like, and must be a gamer. Smarts aren't so bad either.

For guys? Tall, muscled (abs, man, show me your abs!), blue eyes preferred, knows when to be mature and when to be silly, gives great massages. He has to love wrestling with his girl and messing around. He's also got to be ready for randomness. Uhm I tolerate druggies and drinkers pretty well, but I do kind of look down on it. I prefer a gamer/nerdy type, but he's gotta be kinda smarter than me too, so I can always annoy him with saying I'm not very smart, haha. He's gotta know Monstercat and love them, otherwise its not gunna happen. He's gotta love swimming, too. That's like.. My only sport. Oh, and he has to be cute and give me gifts at random times, and he's gotta be prepared for me to like literally jump all over him when I get hyper.

I think that's it.

I am attracted to both sexes, though I prefer males so that is the sex I will base this on.
I don't like a man who is just skin and bones, i'm not just skin and bones so I'd prefer them not to be or else I feel like I'd snap them in half. I like dark hair, dark eyes or eyes that just make you melt, they have to be older then me, taller then me(which isn't hard cause i'm 5'5), i'd prefer them to be dominant and know what he wants. Not childish or a boy, I want a man at my side. I don't mind facial hair on a man as long as it's kept to a reasonable length and he doesn't look homeless. He needs to be funny, romantic, sweet, a gentleman, and handsome <3 I know it's strange but if a guy has big ears I can't date him, so they need to have ears that fit their face.. cause if not I just couldn't handle it. For hair length it depends on the guy, as long as it's not longer then mine then I'm pretty good. He has to be not afraid to get dirty, or go shopping. I can be a tom boyish girl, or a girly girl.. so he needs to adapt to that. Not stuck up, or a d*ck. He has to smell good and have a firm but lovingly grasp, he needs to be the one to pull me close to his body and kiss me. Even in front of his friends. I want him to be proud he has me, not ashamed. I'd prefer him to have a deep rusky kind of voice, and if not i'd loooove to hear an accent. ..Gosh, writing all of this out makes me seem some picky, but then again I already have a man who fits all of this so..   

What do I find attractive about/in  the opposite sex?Well, what I find attractive in the opposite sex(females) is there eye color, body shape,and a likable and funny personality.I really like blue eyed or a light hazel eye colored females, with a hourglass figure body or at least have a in shape semi fit body, and a nice,likable personality that shares some of my interests.Also what I like in females is there beauty, I want a girl that looks gorgeous in the facial region.

Okay I have seen this thread and passed by it many times so now I am going to finally reply to it and finally say what I look for . What I find attractive about the opposite sex is a nice body and face, I haven't found THE one yet but this is what I think would be the features and characteristics of a woman that I would look for.

A nice pretty face is nice, I prefer girls with longer hair but I have nothing against those with shorter hair (again I haven't dated anyone before so I can't be picky or criticize) I like someone with a pretty smile, a nice figure, with a kind of toned look. I like a girl who is intelligent, they don't have to be necessarily geeky or  nerdy anything, but maybe a little bit witty or who is smart and does well in school. I don't want someone who is all looks and no brain and they are an airhead or completely clueless, because in that case forget it, I don't think that relationship would go very far. I also like a girl who is a good height, not to tall or too short but just right, maybe 5'4"-5'7" or so. I want someone who is supportive of you and willing to take a part of your life and be a supporter. I have nothing against girls who speak their minds, I am all for that. I am good with advice so I would be willing to give it. I am more of a listener than a talker, I am willing to listen to their problems and come up with advice or a way to deal with it. You can;t avoid a girl who likes to talk, they are all that way so I am just going to have to get use to that sort of thing.




I don't care if they are tomboyish (to a certain extent) or a girly girl, I would prefer someone who likes to be girly, but at the same time I wan't someone who is willing to get dirty and do things,not one who is afraid of doing physical work or getting a little dirty. Either way is fine to me. I like a girl with values -social, smart, pretty and supportive. Athletic is good too. Like I have said, this may change completely when I go out on a date or anything but these are just things that I think should stand out and these would be things that I look for in a girl.





I am a gentlemen, I am not the cheating type, if I find someone I like, I would like to get to know them first and then progress the relationship slowly. I want to get to know them first before anything. I like to talk to them physically, I don't think texting or finding people online counts as dating. I don't care if that sounds old fashioned or anything, but I don't think it has the same essential feel as talking to them face to face. Texting can never replace a real discussion or argument, it just can't, I need to speak to them. I like a tough girl, not a pushover or someone who is afraid to speak their mind, they have just as much a right as men do to speak their minds and make their own decisions, I am not going to run their life and control them, that just isn't right or fair. I need someone who isn't afraid to get dirty or do work. That is always a plus when you can have someone to work with who won't freak out if they get their own clothes dirty. So that is something else that would be a big plus.



I think a girl with pretty, long hair and eyes and a nice laugh is really attractive, also a pretty smile, I always find that to be an attractive feature in women, a nice face and a warming, welcoming smile. I don't care for snobs or complainers, I can't stand girls that whine and cry over things, sure I don't mind if they cry every once in a while if they are stressed or have a problem in their life, that is understandable and that I can handle. I don't mind that, but a girl that complains, cries and whines 24/7 is a no-no, I am not going to put up with a whiner or a complainer, I'd be better of finding someone else. I think its annoying if all they do is complain. For example: If I were to pick between princess daisy or peach, I'd go with daisy in a heartbeat, sure peach is pretty and all but she is a total pushover while daisy is the type to stand up for herself, she is more firm than peach and can speak for herself. I could go on all day saying why daisy is better, but that proves my point, looks aren't everything.





I know this sounds like a lot, but I have said it before and I will say it again, I haven't been in a relationship yet, and I might think differently about this once I am, my opinions or what I look for may be totally changed. But the main things I pay attention to and look for is nice facial features and figure, a nice smile, and a great personality and a nice sense of humor, that is basically it for me, if they have that then I am good with it. I don't like negative people or complainers. I don't mind a girl that cries, that is what I will be there for, to support them and be there for them. By no means I don't mind someone who isn't afraid to talk about their feelings or share their life with me, that is what relationships are about, dedicating yourself to be willing to spend your life with someone and be there for them.





To wrap this up, besides a nice figure and facial features I think a girl with a great sense of humor and a great personality is all I care about. I like girls with natural beauty, maybe a little makeup, but not to the point where they look like the joker and they have makeup on every part of their face. That is just a little bit  too much for me. I am open to brunettes, blondes or red heads, I am not picky over that. A great personality and nice figure/face says it all for me and that is mainly all I am looking for in a woman.





I like a girl who is sweet and is supportive and involved in your life and someone who will be there to face any problem and overcome it with you. Nothing else matters more to me than girl who is supportive and friendly. I don't really care much for pushovers, meaning girls who are sensitive and weak (not physically) I am not saying I want a barbarian or anything, but someone who is tough and won't get bullied or beat up easy, so basically a girl who can speak their mind and stand up for themselves, that is very important to me




Firstly, I have to know them first, it doesn't matter how pretty they are or how attractive they look because I have to know them and see what their personality is like. Looks aren't everything, a nice personality should account for 50% of the stuff you look for in a girl and in the end I would rather go out with someone who is much nicer and more friendly than one who is just all about looks. I know it isn't good to rush into these things, slow and steady is best. Rushing into things leaves you with no time to actually get to know and bond with the other person and it can lead into a bad relationship which is why I think taking your time with this is best so things don't go wrong. I think a few dates are necessary before getting into anything more serious. But that is just my opinion on it.



That pretty much concludes it for me. I am not too picky when it comes to girls but there are certain values and traits I look for in a girl that stand out and get my attention. So that is it for me, congratulations if you actually read all of this, you are definitely worthy of a medal or something!