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Whats it like to be a guy in a relationship?

 

12-16-10 06:49 AM
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I can only imagine what it must feel like to be a guy? as a woman all I can know is that you guys work very hard to make things work in a relationship and sometimes us gals can be very tough on you.
I can only imagine what it must feel like to be a guy? as a woman all I can know is that you guys work very hard to make things work in a relationship and sometimes us gals can be very tough on you.
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I know that sometimes as a guy you feel pretty helpless. Like a girl wants to try to change you, and stop doing this and that with your friends. It can get kind of overwhelming with some girls.
I know that sometimes as a guy you feel pretty helpless. Like a girl wants to try to change you, and stop doing this and that with your friends. It can get kind of overwhelming with some girls.
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hmm....

I'd imagine it's a bit like how you girls feel.

For one, I'm always worrying about what my partner thinks of me, and I watch myself about a thousand times more closely and try to do everything to appeal to her. Like right now, I shower like twice a day because I still think I smell. She assures me I smell great, but I still shower often. Then there's doubts. I sometimes have panic attacks because I am not sure exactly what she is thinking. It's kind of unnerving. I also feel the need to be the best, because she deserves the best. Experiences vary though, so maybe I am a freak.
hmm....

I'd imagine it's a bit like how you girls feel.

For one, I'm always worrying about what my partner thinks of me, and I watch myself about a thousand times more closely and try to do everything to appeal to her. Like right now, I shower like twice a day because I still think I smell. She assures me I smell great, but I still shower often. Then there's doubts. I sometimes have panic attacks because I am not sure exactly what she is thinking. It's kind of unnerving. I also feel the need to be the best, because she deserves the best. Experiences vary though, so maybe I am a freak.
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Totts : Sometimes annoying when your girlfriend gets jealous of your chick friends, especially if she thinks they're prettier then her. But for me its like a constant way of back and forth from talking to each other a little to missing each other later. I don't know if it's because I'm a guy or maybe I'm just a little cold heart-ed but I never seem to miss her as much as she misses me. She says she misses me and can't wait to see me and I as a guy am thinking "well if we see each other then that's good but if we don't then maybe next time" But I do have my moments where I REALLY do miss her! And its like I'm always cute without trying so it's like being someones VERY best friend and nothing you can say will change that. That's sort of what it's like for me.
Totts : Sometimes annoying when your girlfriend gets jealous of your chick friends, especially if she thinks they're prettier then her. But for me its like a constant way of back and forth from talking to each other a little to missing each other later. I don't know if it's because I'm a guy or maybe I'm just a little cold heart-ed but I never seem to miss her as much as she misses me. She says she misses me and can't wait to see me and I as a guy am thinking "well if we see each other then that's good but if we don't then maybe next time" But I do have my moments where I REALLY do miss her! And its like I'm always cute without trying so it's like being someones VERY best friend and nothing you can say will change that. That's sort of what it's like for me.
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I do not really know since my girlfriend and I are just not connecting well.
I do not really know since my girlfriend and I are just not connecting well.
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I wouldn't know, I have yet to be in a relationship. Lawdy Lawd knows I've been trying though (kinda). From what I've seen, the male tends to be the one who usually gets hurt the most during a breakup.
I wouldn't know, I have yet to be in a relationship. Lawdy Lawd knows I've been trying though (kinda). From what I've seen, the male tends to be the one who usually gets hurt the most during a breakup.
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It can be fun to be the guy but it can also suck pretty hard. Guys are "responsible" for 90% of all the troubles in a relationship. Or so it seems. We're the ones making mistakes, upsetting women, and angering them for offenses real or imagined. Things that don't seem to be a big deal or aren't of importance to us can cause massive damage.

Example: My then-fiancee saw me playing a video game and said, "Hey, I need you to do ." I told her I would when I was done. She got upset and pissed because I put the game ahead of her and it was only a video game in her eyes. We had an argument. It was silly.

At the same time, I ask her to do something for me while she's reading. She says when she's done. I try to make an issue out of it and she says, "Hey, I got like 15 more pages until the chapter. It can wait."

The double-standard kills men in relationships. TV shows and commercials portray the husbands and fathers as morons who mess up until women come sweeping in to save them. It's what it feels like in real life. No matter how hard we try, women can find faults.

Ladies, ease up on us! We're trying!
It can be fun to be the guy but it can also suck pretty hard. Guys are "responsible" for 90% of all the troubles in a relationship. Or so it seems. We're the ones making mistakes, upsetting women, and angering them for offenses real or imagined. Things that don't seem to be a big deal or aren't of importance to us can cause massive damage.

Example: My then-fiancee saw me playing a video game and said, "Hey, I need you to do ." I told her I would when I was done. She got upset and pissed because I put the game ahead of her and it was only a video game in her eyes. We had an argument. It was silly.

At the same time, I ask her to do something for me while she's reading. She says when she's done. I try to make an issue out of it and she says, "Hey, I got like 15 more pages until the chapter. It can wait."

The double-standard kills men in relationships. TV shows and commercials portray the husbands and fathers as morons who mess up until women come sweeping in to save them. It's what it feels like in real life. No matter how hard we try, women can find faults.

Ladies, ease up on us! We're trying!
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My girlfriend and I are equals. I'm very happy that she hates double standards and she doesn't nag me for my flaws and the things that I like. She has never tried to change me and she helps me build my personal being. I always try to do as much for her as possible and I try to be the best boyfriend I can and she appreciates it. She knows that I do my best for her and she is fine with that. I love her to no end. I find it very enjoyable to be the guy in my relationship.
My girlfriend and I are equals. I'm very happy that she hates double standards and she doesn't nag me for my flaws and the things that I like. She has never tried to change me and she helps me build my personal being. I always try to do as much for her as possible and I try to be the best boyfriend I can and she appreciates it. She knows that I do my best for her and she is fine with that. I love her to no end. I find it very enjoyable to be the guy in my relationship.
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Well i don't currently have a woman in my life, but when i did. 75% of the women expected more then i could ever give them (physically & mentally). So i was always trying too hard to make the relationship better (which was a mistake). I learned if you can't except me the way i am, then don't bother with me at all. So everything was a constant emotional rollercoaster for me. I could deal with it, so i got out of those type of relationships. Now at this stage in my life, i don't deal with a relationships. I'd rather stay single. No one to hold me down from doing what i want to do.
Well i don't currently have a woman in my life, but when i did. 75% of the women expected more then i could ever give them (physically & mentally). So i was always trying too hard to make the relationship better (which was a mistake). I learned if you can't except me the way i am, then don't bother with me at all. So everything was a constant emotional rollercoaster for me. I could deal with it, so i got out of those type of relationships. Now at this stage in my life, i don't deal with a relationships. I'd rather stay single. No one to hold me down from doing what i want to do.
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Being a guy is tough. Pressure to achieve a certain standard of wealth, status, accomplishments. For myself, I like a girl who I find attractive, with a good heart and a good head. I can't provide the dream, but I can promise to be loyal and move forward. In today's society, that's a hard sell. I suppose there is always someone out there for everyone though.
Being a guy is tough. Pressure to achieve a certain standard of wealth, status, accomplishments. For myself, I like a girl who I find attractive, with a good heart and a good head. I can't provide the dream, but I can promise to be loyal and move forward. In today's society, that's a hard sell. I suppose there is always someone out there for everyone though.
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I think that women carry all the power in a relationship. If a woman says no you gotta instantly respect that as a guy or you might end up in jail, and I don't mean that in a sexual manner.
I think that women carry all the power in a relationship. If a woman says no you gotta instantly respect that as a guy or you might end up in jail, and I don't mean that in a sexual manner.
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Being a guy sucks when the girl you're with expects a lot out of you, or finds fault with something that you did when you can't see it yourself. But the worst is when you say something bad to her that you forget 2 days later, but she remembers exactly what you said for DECADES...

I just hate it when I try to help, and she gets mad at me for "getting in her way" or "causing her to get stressed out." Seriously?
Being a guy sucks when the girl you're with expects a lot out of you, or finds fault with something that you did when you can't see it yourself. But the worst is when you say something bad to her that you forget 2 days later, but she remembers exactly what you said for DECADES...

I just hate it when I try to help, and she gets mad at me for "getting in her way" or "causing her to get stressed out." Seriously?
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It is hard because most girls treat me like crap, so I treat them like crap since they are being a bad girlfriend. I am getting tired of these females where I live.
It is hard because most girls treat me like crap, so I treat them like crap since they are being a bad girlfriend. I am getting tired of these females where I live.
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For me it is very hard to get into friendships with people, so I work extra hard in the "friend zone" because for me it is a struggle. Then when we are "going steady" I watch myself so I don't ruin anything by saying something dumb. You have to be on your best behavior when you are around her. You almost become paranoid to become perfect because you want to give them only the best. Well at least that is how it is for me.
For me it is very hard to get into friendships with people, so I work extra hard in the "friend zone" because for me it is a struggle. Then when we are "going steady" I watch myself so I don't ruin anything by saying something dumb. You have to be on your best behavior when you are around her. You almost become paranoid to become perfect because you want to give them only the best. Well at least that is how it is for me.
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probz just like girls warm and fuzzy XD
probz just like girls warm and fuzzy XD
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It's like being bossed around by a 130 pound thing with pink toe nails.

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Well it can be pretty irritating, as usually the female has the more authority in relationships. But I don't really mind if my girlfriend moans or nags about things constantly, I've got a stupidly high amount of patience and It's basically impossible for me to get angry with her!

I just try to be the best boyfriend I can be, and if that isn't good enough, well then the inevitable will happen, but "all is fair in love and war"

I'm sorry if I used that quote out of context

Well it can be pretty irritating, as usually the female has the more authority in relationships. But I don't really mind if my girlfriend moans or nags about things constantly, I've got a stupidly high amount of patience and It's basically impossible for me to get angry with her!

I just try to be the best boyfriend I can be, and if that isn't good enough, well then the inevitable will happen, but "all is fair in love and war"

I'm sorry if I used that quote out of context

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After a while, you realize that women only THINK they have the power because they look better naked, so they think they can do anything as long as they flaunt their s***tiness. Because no matter how a guy is, no matter what he gives her or how he helps her life, it doesn't matter. The way girls I've seen have it figured, all they have to do is flash a guy and a relationship starts. I've always got mad at that, knowing that girls don't care about anybody but themselves. Even their friends are all uglier than them, or have some big issue like a disorder. Nobody thinks this, because the guy some girls find can support every little flaw the girl finds in her/their lives. But the second a guy messes up something, I've never seen a single girl willing to forgive. At all. Or even talk it out. That's my experiences.

Don't believe me, guys? If you think you trust her enough, try it. Tell her something that you know will make her angry. See how she reacts. I dare you.

Don't believe me, girls? Try this. Everything a guy says in a "heart-to-heart talk," wait a second and think about it before you say ANYTHING. Give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he ISN'T just a stupid pig that doesn't care about you. Forgive him BEFORE you judge him. I dare you.
After a while, you realize that women only THINK they have the power because they look better naked, so they think they can do anything as long as they flaunt their s***tiness. Because no matter how a guy is, no matter what he gives her or how he helps her life, it doesn't matter. The way girls I've seen have it figured, all they have to do is flash a guy and a relationship starts. I've always got mad at that, knowing that girls don't care about anybody but themselves. Even their friends are all uglier than them, or have some big issue like a disorder. Nobody thinks this, because the guy some girls find can support every little flaw the girl finds in her/their lives. But the second a guy messes up something, I've never seen a single girl willing to forgive. At all. Or even talk it out. That's my experiences.

Don't believe me, guys? If you think you trust her enough, try it. Tell her something that you know will make her angry. See how she reacts. I dare you.

Don't believe me, girls? Try this. Everything a guy says in a "heart-to-heart talk," wait a second and think about it before you say ANYTHING. Give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he ISN'T just a stupid pig that doesn't care about you. Forgive him BEFORE you judge him. I dare you.
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Well, I do not know.  I know that the females are a lot easier than men because we men have urges and some of the time it occurs when we find our ladies to be very good looking and it is hard to hide our junk from them so that we do not get embarrassed. Okay, now I have not had that in my life, but that is what I think of which gender in a relationship is okay.  Being a dude in a relationship is hard because you can never tell if your girl is cheating on you or not.  That is the only thing I hate about love.  I only go after the nice and sweet ones that I really know about her personality.
Now you think that being a girl can be hard because it is the other way around (guys cheat on their girls without telling them).  Some relationships are like that and some are not.  It happens to guys too, like me.  Oh yeah, being cheated and lied to can be a heart breaking moment, just wants you to kill someone at the end of the day.  I think that girls are s***s from where I am at, but a few of them are just mature and I like that.
Well, I do not know.  I know that the females are a lot easier than men because we men have urges and some of the time it occurs when we find our ladies to be very good looking and it is hard to hide our junk from them so that we do not get embarrassed. Okay, now I have not had that in my life, but that is what I think of which gender in a relationship is okay.  Being a dude in a relationship is hard because you can never tell if your girl is cheating on you or not.  That is the only thing I hate about love.  I only go after the nice and sweet ones that I really know about her personality.
Now you think that being a girl can be hard because it is the other way around (guys cheat on their girls without telling them).  Some relationships are like that and some are not.  It happens to guys too, like me.  Oh yeah, being cheated and lied to can be a heart breaking moment, just wants you to kill someone at the end of the day.  I think that girls are s***s from where I am at, but a few of them are just mature and I like that.
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Well I would say it is a huge responsibility, and great care must be taken. But it is also a moment of joy (enormous) with high self confidence in yourself....yeah then you should abstain from looking right or left, change a bit ya habit...become a bit more regular or punctual...be more mature....and think well before acting....buy this ..buy that..she wanna a long drive.........but when you really adore someone you really wanna do all those kind of things I guess......
Well I would say it is a huge responsibility, and great care must be taken. But it is also a moment of joy (enormous) with high self confidence in yourself....yeah then you should abstain from looking right or left, change a bit ya habit...become a bit more regular or punctual...be more mature....and think well before acting....buy this ..buy that..she wanna a long drive.........but when you really adore someone you really wanna do all those kind of things I guess......
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