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07-06-10 10:59 AM
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When you date, do you actually think about the possibility of marrying the person you are dating?

I might be considered old fashion, but I consider dating to be a preparation for marriage. So if I date, it is with the mindset that this person could be the one that will be my wife.
When you date, do you actually think about the possibility of marrying the person you are dating?

I might be considered old fashion, but I consider dating to be a preparation for marriage. So if I date, it is with the mindset that this person could be the one that will be my wife.
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No, I do not date with the intention of marriage. I don't go on the first date thinking we can get married thats, thinking way too far ahead.
No, I do not date with the intention of marriage. I don't go on the first date thinking we can get married thats, thinking way too far ahead.
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Ha good question. Big generation gap right here. I never think about marriage. Maybe when I start thinkin about kids.
Ha good question. Big generation gap right here. I never think about marriage. Maybe when I start thinkin about kids.
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I'm old fashion a little bit to. I would always think marriage a possibility when dating.
I'm old fashion a little bit to. I would always think marriage a possibility when dating.
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If you mean that I'm looking for a meaningful relationship and not just trying to have some fun then yes I do. I'm not big on the wedding thing though so I might not ever get "legally" married. I am with someone right now and I already feel like I married to her, in other words I'm committed to her and am not going anywhere
If you mean that I'm looking for a meaningful relationship and not just trying to have some fun then yes I do. I'm not big on the wedding thing though so I might not ever get "legally" married. I am with someone right now and I already feel like I married to her, in other words I'm committed to her and am not going anywhere
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Not really, even when your talking about Kids etc it never hit's you that the person your talking about it with could be the future mother of the child..
Not really, even when your talking about Kids etc it never hit's you that the person your talking about it with could be the future mother of the child..
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No, I don't. The whole thing about marriage is really creepy and scary for me right now. I really like to be commited with somebody, but not in a legal way.
Maybe I'll do a "legal" marriage, but right now I'm not thinking of it at all.
Besides, I have to finish my studies, firstly, and after that maybe I'll consider about marriage.
No, I don't. The whole thing about marriage is really creepy and scary for me right now. I really like to be commited with somebody, but not in a legal way.
Maybe I'll do a "legal" marriage, but right now I'm not thinking of it at all.
Besides, I have to finish my studies, firstly, and after that maybe I'll consider about marriage.
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not at first.... but it should be something in the back of your mind. And maybe not "marriage" but can you see yourself wanting to be with this person long term??? If you can't see that then you're likely wasting your time with that person.

But I'm old-fashioned too in the sense that when I was dating I was not looking to just "have fun" or mess around or anything like that. I wanted someone who was as committed to me as I was to them and wanted to build a life together.
not at first.... but it should be something in the back of your mind. And maybe not "marriage" but can you see yourself wanting to be with this person long term??? If you can't see that then you're likely wasting your time with that person.

But I'm old-fashioned too in the sense that when I was dating I was not looking to just "have fun" or mess around or anything like that. I wanted someone who was as committed to me as I was to them and wanted to build a life together.
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Marriage is an institution made up to define relationships. That being said, I might get married when I meet that special lady. Successful marriages do not have a good run in my family. My grandmother got divorced from her husband. My mother did the same and my uncle, her brother didn't last with his wife. I doubt it would last, but i will give it a try.
Marriage is an institution made up to define relationships. That being said, I might get married when I meet that special lady. Successful marriages do not have a good run in my family. My grandmother got divorced from her husband. My mother did the same and my uncle, her brother didn't last with his wife. I doubt it would last, but i will give it a try.
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I don't discount the possibility of it happening, however I'm not too keen on spending 1000s of dollar on a ceremony, especially if things go sour. Then again I don't come across too many girls that I even seriously consider girlfriend material. I come from a family that doesn't have much luck with relationships however, so I have that kind of trauma to get past as well.
I don't discount the possibility of it happening, however I'm not too keen on spending 1000s of dollar on a ceremony, especially if things go sour. Then again I don't come across too many girls that I even seriously consider girlfriend material. I come from a family that doesn't have much luck with relationships however, so I have that kind of trauma to get past as well.
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If your not dating for marriage then your dating for sex that's how I see it

Then you got those people who date 20 people at once and have no clue what they want.

If you go into a date and don't want anything long term, just go get a hooker and stop messing with peoples heads.
If your not dating for marriage then your dating for sex that's how I see it

Then you got those people who date 20 people at once and have no clue what they want.

If you go into a date and don't want anything long term, just go get a hooker and stop messing with peoples heads.
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Bad relationships are not genetically inherited. Certain personality/physical traits that can contribute to it are, as well as psychological conditioning, but that is up to you to break the cycle.

I kinda think about it, to be honest. First is the long term idea, then the marriage. You really start to think about it around the time that "if we had kids..." becomes "when we have kids..."
Bad relationships are not genetically inherited. Certain personality/physical traits that can contribute to it are, as well as psychological conditioning, but that is up to you to break the cycle.

I kinda think about it, to be honest. First is the long term idea, then the marriage. You really start to think about it around the time that "if we had kids..." becomes "when we have kids..."
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I certainly am... well, maybe not marriage, but definitely long-term. That's why I chose the girlfriend I have now... even though she's probably moving soon, there's just something different... and unless God chooses otherwise, I'm sure that once we're adults we'll end up together again.
I certainly am... well, maybe not marriage, but definitely long-term. That's why I chose the girlfriend I have now... even though she's probably moving soon, there's just something different... and unless God chooses otherwise, I'm sure that once we're adults we'll end up together again.
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Good question but no I don't date with the intention of getting married. I have to have known a girl for a while and dating her for a while too in order to get married.
Good question but no I don't date with the intention of getting married. I have to have known a girl for a while and dating her for a while too in order to get married.
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when im dating thats my longterm plan is to find someone that id like to get to know and marry and have a family and live happily ever after haha
when im dating thats my longterm plan is to find someone that id like to get to know and marry and have a family and live happily ever after haha
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