shahid : why yeah of course! love is real even its a word

I feel that it is the aesthetics (physical) that get your attention but once you learn of everything else - and you're still attached - then that is when you know you're in love. Oh please, love at first sight is so shallow. Yeah they look fine, but what else? Can they have an intelligent conversation with you? Can they understand and accept you for what you are? Will they comfort you when you are hurt? Will they stand by you through the good and the bad? Those are things to consider before you jump to conclusions. I always felt that these first sight are pure all right; pure lust.

I believe in lust at first sight. Love comes later.

How was this saying? - "it was love at first sight - then I looked again"

Hey, I do and do not believe in Love at First Sight. Now that sounds wrong, but let me explain... Less than a week ago, I met this girl, she's very shy and isnt very open with most people (other than her friends). We looked into eachothers eyes and BOOM! somthing was there. The next day we bumped into eachother at the end of the school day, and we hung out for the rest of the day. And for the rest of the week we were together. and since the day we met she's been very open with me. However, I will also say, that it may not neccisarily be love, but we do really like eachother, which is why I say I may not belive in Love at First Sight.

love is a thing that emerges after spending time with each other. attraction at first sight is logical, but not true love.

I do believe in love at first site.
I also believe if your looking
for love you will see false love
in everything.

Well, love is a strange feeling, so it may happen to anyone, and I believe that

No...but maybe like 3rd sight, possibly.

I think so yes, it doesnt go very that kind of love, at least for me, but i think its real.

Yes absolutely. I had that before and I would think that she may like me back.

I feel like the odd one out saying I do believe in love at first sight from personal experience. Everyone also seems to think that love at first sight just means that you thought the other person was very attractive and so you lusted after them because of hormones or what not. I don't believe this to be true. When I was in third grade(a couple years before puberty even started) I fell in love with the new boy in class the second I laid eyes on him. It was as if we were connected and something was drawing me to him. I had liked guys before, but I never felt something as powerful as this was. From that time on I couldn't get him out of my head and hung out with him as often as I could. We were the best of friends, but I kept my feelings hidden because I was scared that he didn't love or like me like that. Until one day, I found out he had fallen in love with me at first sight too. Now we never dated, mainly because it was third grade, but I had strong feelings that got stronger as time went on. My heart broke a year later and I never heard from him again. I didn't have feelings that rivaled that again until my senior year of high school. I am in love now with another man, but there are times when I wonder what could have happened to that boy and how thing could have turned out for us. I never did have that feeling of love at first sight again.