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Help, i got contact with an old friend, but...

 

03-28-16 12:34 PM
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Okay, let me start off with a day in 2013. I was 13 back then, and went into a Minecraft server as usual. Then i took part of a roleplay, where an user called TheSlothGirl11 also took part of. We were talking a bit to each other, and i became friends with her, and took her to my own Minecraft server. We were talking a little bit, and we became best friends. By asking this, it turned out that she was an 11-year old girl from Australia with Dutch grand parents. We were planning to be together and have fun in Minecraft, where ever we are. My parents, on the other side, didn't trust TheSlothGirl11, who is actually called Amy in real life. They thought Amy was a pedophile who was stalking me. So i had to leave her. I had to lay down Minecraft anyway, because the mood at my house was insanely poor. (Too much personal information which i'm NOT gonna share)

Just one day ago (27-3-2016), i met a 14-year old girl named ElegantSpirit (Her Minecraft name) who was asking me while looking at my name:

She: "Do you know a girl named TheSlothGirl11?"
Me: "Yes, she was a good friend"
She: "Oh ok."
Me: "Why did you wanna know?"
She: "Well, i wanted to check if you knew her, and looking at your name if you knew me"
Me: "So... You're TheSlothGirl11?"

It turned out this ElegantSpirit was this Amy. She has changed a lot. She wasn't the 11-year old Australian girl who knew a lot of dirty things anymore: She is just a normal teen now. She said she was also changed psychically.

Now, today (28-3-2016) i was calling her via Skype because we wanted to. She was real! It indeed was a 14-year old girl! (My parents thought the opposite) However, i am not quite sure if my parents will believe me with this. And also (And THIS is the reason why i post this HERE) i have feelings for her...

So, any suggestions?
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Okay, let me start off with a day in 2013. I was 13 back then, and went into a Minecraft server as usual. Then i took part of a roleplay, where an user called TheSlothGirl11 also took part of. We were talking a bit to each other, and i became friends with her, and took her to my own Minecraft server. We were talking a little bit, and we became best friends. By asking this, it turned out that she was an 11-year old girl from Australia with Dutch grand parents. We were planning to be together and have fun in Minecraft, where ever we are. My parents, on the other side, didn't trust TheSlothGirl11, who is actually called Amy in real life. They thought Amy was a pedophile who was stalking me. So i had to leave her. I had to lay down Minecraft anyway, because the mood at my house was insanely poor. (Too much personal information which i'm NOT gonna share)

Just one day ago (27-3-2016), i met a 14-year old girl named ElegantSpirit (Her Minecraft name) who was asking me while looking at my name:

She: "Do you know a girl named TheSlothGirl11?"
Me: "Yes, she was a good friend"
She: "Oh ok."
Me: "Why did you wanna know?"
She: "Well, i wanted to check if you knew her, and looking at your name if you knew me"
Me: "So... You're TheSlothGirl11?"

It turned out this ElegantSpirit was this Amy. She has changed a lot. She wasn't the 11-year old Australian girl who knew a lot of dirty things anymore: She is just a normal teen now. She said she was also changed psychically.

Now, today (28-3-2016) i was calling her via Skype because we wanted to. She was real! It indeed was a 14-year old girl! (My parents thought the opposite) However, i am not quite sure if my parents will believe me with this. And also (And THIS is the reason why i post this HERE) i have feelings for her...

So, any suggestions?

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Well, I would suggest you cut contact with her or stick to some what anonymous IM services (Steam, Vizzed, Reddit, that sort of thing) if you're desperate about maintianing contact with her... But thats just me. I'm one of those people who don't share personally identifying information over the internet (I'd use a VPN if I had the money) and what you've done has kind of made me shudder... Heck, I don't even use voice chat let alone video chat with someone I IM with on a regular basis (looking at you, people in my LoL group). Do I have any suggestions on how to convince your parents she's not a paedophile? Nope. I'm still not fully convinced she's all she seems. Besides, I doubt what you're feeling towards her is anything but puppy love, something that will pass soon enough. And she lives on another continent, you say? It would be extremely difficult to start a relationship with that distance...
Well, I would suggest you cut contact with her or stick to some what anonymous IM services (Steam, Vizzed, Reddit, that sort of thing) if you're desperate about maintianing contact with her... But thats just me. I'm one of those people who don't share personally identifying information over the internet (I'd use a VPN if I had the money) and what you've done has kind of made me shudder... Heck, I don't even use voice chat let alone video chat with someone I IM with on a regular basis (looking at you, people in my LoL group). Do I have any suggestions on how to convince your parents she's not a paedophile? Nope. I'm still not fully convinced she's all she seems. Besides, I doubt what you're feeling towards her is anything but puppy love, something that will pass soon enough. And she lives on another continent, you say? It would be extremely difficult to start a relationship with that distance...

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You said that you called her on skype - was that a voice chat, or video call? The only way I believe that your parents will be convinced she's legit is if they can see her on video for themselves. 

However, there is another point I'd like to point out - the fact she's in another country is going to come with it's own complications. Time difference being one, of course. The other is that your relationship would be entirely online - it's very easy to manipulate who you are, and become the "person" you want someone else to see. Not saying they're lying, but they could easily hide very important facts of their life from you.

At any rate, my only suggestion would be to focus on a friendship right now. Worry about school first, and everything else will happen naturally.
You said that you called her on skype - was that a voice chat, or video call? The only way I believe that your parents will be convinced she's legit is if they can see her on video for themselves. 

However, there is another point I'd like to point out - the fact she's in another country is going to come with it's own complications. Time difference being one, of course. The other is that your relationship would be entirely online - it's very easy to manipulate who you are, and become the "person" you want someone else to see. Not saying they're lying, but they could easily hide very important facts of their life from you.

At any rate, my only suggestion would be to focus on a friendship right now. Worry about school first, and everything else will happen naturally.

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My main piece of advice would be this :
Be very careful what you invest your feelings into, especially with someone you met online. Giving out any kind of personal information can lead to a whole mess of different repercussions (and it may be an entirely different person who manages to find these things out). And more than anything, at your age a long distance relationship is probably the last thing you need. I mean you say you have feelings for this girl, but how well do you really know her. Do you have any insight as to who she is offline other than what she tells you?

I guess all I'm trying to say is... If  spending time with her makes you happy, then go for it.
Just be really careful how much of yourself you invest into something like this.
My main piece of advice would be this :
Be very careful what you invest your feelings into, especially with someone you met online. Giving out any kind of personal information can lead to a whole mess of different repercussions (and it may be an entirely different person who manages to find these things out). And more than anything, at your age a long distance relationship is probably the last thing you need. I mean you say you have feelings for this girl, but how well do you really know her. Do you have any insight as to who she is offline other than what she tells you?

I guess all I'm trying to say is... If  spending time with her makes you happy, then go for it.
Just be really careful how much of yourself you invest into something like this.

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