okay, so we all know of my 3 year anniversary arriving soon.


But really for me though, It doesn't really count unless I've been active the entire time.

And everyone knows I went inactive for nearly 2 years, that doesn't make this worth celebrating.

I've felt the need to get this off my chest, After all the stuff I've done to the site and back.

I've known I've caused my fair share of troubles to many a members through and caused a lot of drama, I simply don't wanna be the guy known for doing that stuff anymore if you get my meaning.





I would just really appreciate if someone could like I dunno, lock up the password to this account so I could make a new one and start out fresh again?



If not and if that's somehow breaking the rules then please close this thread, and sorry in advance.

No please anything but that crash do not DARE. You can fix the problem, and starting a new look for yourself will not help you out! I know someone who did something like this saying it was best and it wasn't. He told me that his profile was a trash. And I said well trashes needs to be cleaned up when that happens then you will feel so much better and won't regret it. hes doing a lot more better now from then. Please don't go doing a mistake that will haunt you. I don't want to forget the name of the person I met on the board as my friend name *SuperCrash64* its YOUR name and your name alone. Even some kind of that mistake happens. Work harder to make the wrong the right one. I guarantee your friends will not be happy with this. I know I am not happy with this decision crash. Please I beg of you keep this username because its your own special username on here no one has. Don't go throwing it out. Please? Also you know I have short term memory and I hate to forget your name here.....

Pretty much not.

Although, you say you've made mistakes but I honestly don't remember whatever they are.

Honestly, the best thing you can do for yourself is stick with who you are. If your age is correct then you were 13 when you joined which means you would have changed a LOT over those 3 years. Don't worry about how you were when you were 13 or 14 or 15. Just worry about being the best you know how to be right now and grow from there.

I think the best thing to do is to move foreward. Don't focus on the past and it's mistakes. Look forward to what good you can do. You mature a TON from when you are 16 compared to when you're 13. We all make mistakes. But try to be the best you can be now, and grow to be a better person.

You don't need a new account to start fresh, just do it and be active on this one, it's literally going to be the exact same thing, it's going to be the same you, just with a different name, so if all you want to do is start fresh then it's going to just be a waste of time because you can do the exact same thing on this account.

I mean hey look at my first 1000 posts or so. I didn't even know what quality posts meant back then.
Don't worry about how you acted when you were around like 2 years ago, you can move on from that. In fact, use it as motivation and just try not to be the member you were back then.

And besides, I doubt anyone really cares what drama happened 2 years ago. If they do then it's honestly quite silly.

We haven't allowed people to start from scratch before, unless there was some type of extenuating special circumstances. Even then it's been pretty rare.

I vaguely remember the issues you speak of, and honestly it's not that bad. I doubt that many people think about that stuff when they are interacting with you. I honestly feel like most of that is in your head. I think that if you focus on being a good member moving forward, all will be fine.

No point in creating a new account to start fresh. Don't let the past take you down, thinking positive helps. Take Barathemos for example: he made mistakes before and decided to improve. Now he is actually a Site Staff on Vizzed! Focusing on what happened two years ago isn't a good thing to do, focus on the future instead. There is so much you can do to grow and improve yourself as a person!

(Everyone is giving great advice in my opinion, be sure to read all of it).

Like everyone else has said, don't let your past mistakes make you start a new account. People are less likely to think of your past self if you keep sticking with your new self and the same account.

Many of us were pretty different when we first were on the site, but we kept the same accounts. I mean, a month ago I had to edit one of my screenshots from my first year on the site because it had inappropriate language on it. But now I'm a Christian and try to be a much more mature member here than I was then.

SuperCrash64 :

I was around about 3 years ago, but not on the board. I usually just "guest"ed around during those days. I think I remember seeing your name in back then, though. Anyone can change, and being that you haven't been on for a while, the chances of your transgressions effecting you now are even closer to being a thing lost in the past.
I can tell you so many stories of my earlier Internet days in which my immature ways translated as trollness. However, I managed to keep my name, make amends to my wrongs, and moved on to being a highly respected person on many forums.
The thing I wish to impart with you now is:
Learn from your mistakes, continue to better yourself, teach others not to make the same mistakes you have made, and bring glory and honor back to your name! If some people won't forgive you, move on and leave them be to themselves. Anyone whose willing to hold a grudge --especially after the offender apologizes and makes an honest attempt at righting the wrongs-- isn't any better than the person who offended in the first place.
Sincerely,
WE

SuperCrash64 : We all make mistakes, that makes us who we are. Just take me for an example, I made so many mistakes I actually lost count, especially on DeviantART, I made a ton of mistakes and regrets on there, even to this day, but I just don't look back at these regrets, I just look ahead.

My advice is, best not to make another account just to start over, it will just make things much worse. The best thing to do is to keep your account and don't look at your past, focus more onto your future.

Oh boy.. where do I start?...

Nice lot of responses and advice.


IgorBird122 :

Yeah I suppose your right about the name, it's esstainally another mask.. in a sense.


Eniitan :

Wow just wow, at your response.

I've never really counted my username as being a special sort of thing at all,  more or less I think it was a laughable username, and a silly one at best.

It's not really my decision to make,  I never really was found of this username but like anything and everything in life. The more I used it, the more it got attached.

Not sure how this could be a mistake, at all tbh..

It wouldn't really change anything though I see that, Same person, regardless of mask.




Maybe you could send me a PM Clarifying this mistake?>.>
I putted in those mistakes just for an example, the main thing that triggered this thread

was the fact I was gone for so long...


170+ notifications were on my profile..

"Come back, I miss you, Why did you leave?..
I missed your anniversary of leaving.."

Old threads of mine were bumped, same with some friends.. read those post, More people wanting me back on the site.


And then some post like your Poem thread, that was just another firing on top of everything else.






That stuff still plagues in my head like yesterday, it was stuff like that bothered me about the 3 year anniversary thing.

To me celebrating a 3 year anniversary means being entirely active at best you can..

Guess it can't be helped if you go inactive...


Geeorgee: yeah I suppose your right
It's funny how one suddenly acts so mean and immature...

Then you just suddenly turned into this nice guy everyone knows about...

Life has its unexpected twist and turns in that regard.


3 years took a lot on me, and a lot of stuff happened in-between those times.

I'll probably clarify that more on my anniversary thread.. not in here.




Furret :

Yeah it's like I said.. you change so much from your intital first, it's just crazy to think.

You can't help but think"Am I the same person? is this the same person I met?"




PacmanandMariofan :

If there's anything I learned from this site, is while you shouldn't exactly follow others, you should take notes and respect them for their opinions.


I disagree from time to time, and have different opinions than others- but at the same time I find it okay as long as the person isn't being a total knee jerk about it.


WandererExiled : (Hope I spelled this right)
A lot of that stuff I know, and some stuff I've caused.

Win some lose some as they say.


TornadoMudkip :
Barathemos is a really good example. I'm surprised at his change tbh, he used to be one of the mature but kinda bad people in a way,
I remember me and him having some really bad times, and all the drama that went down with it.

Him being a staff and regaining his trusted after so long is a defentive statement.

I remember him saying he would quit on this site and stuff like that.

IgorBird122 :
is it just me or do a lot of members come here from DA, and have usually bad experiences with that site?


Jordanv78 :
I'm surprised to see you respond and say it wasn't that bad.

The only bad time I remember was the cheating incident from 2013, but I'm more than happy to let that go.

Your actually one of the best site's contributors and one of the longest globals, hearing that from someone like yourself means a lot.



Regards Thanks for the advice everyone.



can this thread be closed now?
Thanks again guys, I truly appreciate the advice.

SuperCrash64 : No problem at all. Things happen. As long as you are making it a point to change for the better, people will notice.

Also, I am the longest tenured Global, I believe in the sites history. ;-) since I've been doing it for like 3 years straight.

SuperCrash64 : Your welcome. Anything for a great friend of mine. I'm not allowing you to throw away something. No...a name that is worth and known to his friends for a specific reason. You are who you are crash please don't forget about that.

SuperCrash64 : Yeah, a name is just a name, it's how that user's attitude is played out, no matter if you have a million names or just one, the outcome is always the same. As for DA, there isn't a whole lot of members that are on both sites, if those people that are is either active on DA or Vizzed, I think I am the only one that is active on both (although the I haven't been on DA for about a couple weeks).

SuperCrash64 :

You spelled it right. Thanks for taking the time to respond to my post, I wasn't expecting it since I just saw myself just giving friendly advice. Anyway, whatever you choose to do, I look forward to seeing you on here more often, unless the wind takes me away!