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Need some advice ( dealing with the ladies )

 

06-20-15 12:40 AM
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So, it is no secret that I do not have the best record when it comes to the ladies and relationship. Sometimes it is my fault, and not to sound... whatever, but most of the time it's not my fault. I've been told that I have been broken up with because I am too nice. I have been broken up with for being too much of a gentleman. Hell, I have honestly been told that the reason I have been broken up with TWICE for not being mean / hitting them! Like, women want to be treated like princesses, and when they do, it is like they are upset about it. 

Well, I went laser tagging at a place called Virtual Sports yesterday. There was this cute girl that is only a few years older than me, but my god, she was cute! I was there from open to close, mostly because of their reservation system, and me playing 4 games, instead of the planned 2. To be honest, she was not the cause of me staying for another 2 games... I just had a lot of adrenaline, so I used it because I don't usually get a good workout where I get soaked in sweat!

I was talking with her because she was taking care of the drinks. After a while, I decided I liked her, so I started subtly flirting with her, and then built it up to where it was practically obvious I was flirting with her. Only thing was, I never said anything. I know I come off as thus strong, opinionated guy who thinks he knows a lot. And that;'s true, for the most part. But, when it comes to talking to women in public, I am so shy. Like, I didn't ask for her number or email, r even offer her mine. I told her about vizzed board and gave her my referral link, since she had some gaming tattoos, so I mentioned the RGR, and she was interested. But, I don't think that that counts. 

So, I need advice. I plan on going back in a few weeks, and making it a bi-weekly thing, because it is really fun, and I like it more the go karting, actually. I would actually spend less money doing this than I would go karting. I need to know how to talk to her. I need advice on how to actually ask her out, or for her number, or stuff like that. I mean, I actually like her, and I think we have plenty of stuff in common after talking to her for just a few hours. Just, I need advice. Most of the relationships I have been in, I have played a role in the end result, even if I have not been the one to end the relationship. I would like my next relationship to not be a failure, because I do not think I can take too many more of those. I need to know what to do that is within my control to ensure success. 

Can anybody give me advice?
So, it is no secret that I do not have the best record when it comes to the ladies and relationship. Sometimes it is my fault, and not to sound... whatever, but most of the time it's not my fault. I've been told that I have been broken up with because I am too nice. I have been broken up with for being too much of a gentleman. Hell, I have honestly been told that the reason I have been broken up with TWICE for not being mean / hitting them! Like, women want to be treated like princesses, and when they do, it is like they are upset about it. 

Well, I went laser tagging at a place called Virtual Sports yesterday. There was this cute girl that is only a few years older than me, but my god, she was cute! I was there from open to close, mostly because of their reservation system, and me playing 4 games, instead of the planned 2. To be honest, she was not the cause of me staying for another 2 games... I just had a lot of adrenaline, so I used it because I don't usually get a good workout where I get soaked in sweat!

I was talking with her because she was taking care of the drinks. After a while, I decided I liked her, so I started subtly flirting with her, and then built it up to where it was practically obvious I was flirting with her. Only thing was, I never said anything. I know I come off as thus strong, opinionated guy who thinks he knows a lot. And that;'s true, for the most part. But, when it comes to talking to women in public, I am so shy. Like, I didn't ask for her number or email, r even offer her mine. I told her about vizzed board and gave her my referral link, since she had some gaming tattoos, so I mentioned the RGR, and she was interested. But, I don't think that that counts. 

So, I need advice. I plan on going back in a few weeks, and making it a bi-weekly thing, because it is really fun, and I like it more the go karting, actually. I would actually spend less money doing this than I would go karting. I need to know how to talk to her. I need advice on how to actually ask her out, or for her number, or stuff like that. I mean, I actually like her, and I think we have plenty of stuff in common after talking to her for just a few hours. Just, I need advice. Most of the relationships I have been in, I have played a role in the end result, even if I have not been the one to end the relationship. I would like my next relationship to not be a failure, because I do not think I can take too many more of those. I need to know what to do that is within my control to ensure success. 

Can anybody give me advice?
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Well, I'd offer some but well... I would be "out of line". 'Nuff said here.
Well, I'd offer some but well... I would be "out of line". 'Nuff said here.
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06-20-15 09:29 AM
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Have you ever asked the girl about her hobbies, or just things she enjoys doing? If any of those hobbies match up with any of yours, you should discuss those hobbies for a while. Eventually, you should ask her if she'd be interested in doing any of those hobbies with you. For example, you could say "Since we both like bowling, do you think we should both go bowling sometime?" That would be asking her out.

I've done the same thing with one of my female friends a year ago, but I knew she already had a boyfriend. I only did it so we could be friends outside of school. It's a pretty common way to eventually get into a relationship though. She asked me if she could take another one of her friends with her (so her parents wouldn't get the wrong idea), and I already knew who that friend was. In the end, I became close friends with the girl I asked about bowling, and I'm friends with her friend too!

Just being friends with a girl can help you get to know girls a little more, which will help a bit with being in a relationship with one. Hopefully you've been friends with a girl before. I've never been in a relationship, but I have several friends and acquaintances who are girls so I've felt a little more confident about getting into a relationship when I'm ready.
Have you ever asked the girl about her hobbies, or just things she enjoys doing? If any of those hobbies match up with any of yours, you should discuss those hobbies for a while. Eventually, you should ask her if she'd be interested in doing any of those hobbies with you. For example, you could say "Since we both like bowling, do you think we should both go bowling sometime?" That would be asking her out.

I've done the same thing with one of my female friends a year ago, but I knew she already had a boyfriend. I only did it so we could be friends outside of school. It's a pretty common way to eventually get into a relationship though. She asked me if she could take another one of her friends with her (so her parents wouldn't get the wrong idea), and I already knew who that friend was. In the end, I became close friends with the girl I asked about bowling, and I'm friends with her friend too!

Just being friends with a girl can help you get to know girls a little more, which will help a bit with being in a relationship with one. Hopefully you've been friends with a girl before. I've never been in a relationship, but I have several friends and acquaintances who are girls so I've felt a little more confident about getting into a relationship when I'm ready.
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(edited by PacmanandMariofan on 06-20-15 09:33 AM)    

06-20-15 09:44 AM
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PacmanandMariofan : I know how many tattoos she has, and that she is into Legend of Zelda. I also know that she likes generally the same kind of rock that I do, but not much EDM type of music ( that's basically your dubstep and nightcore kind of stuff ) 
PacmanandMariofan : I know how many tattoos she has, and that she is into Legend of Zelda. I also know that she likes generally the same kind of rock that I do, but not much EDM type of music ( that's basically your dubstep and nightcore kind of stuff ) 
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You mentioned in your first post that you gave her your referral link for vizzed and that she's interested in the RGR. If she registers for vizzed, you could see if there's any Legend of Zelda games you can play with her on netplay. I don't know much about the series, so I have no idea if any of those games are multiplayer (co-op or taking turns).
You mentioned in your first post that you gave her your referral link for vizzed and that she's interested in the RGR. If she registers for vizzed, you could see if there's any Legend of Zelda games you can play with her on netplay. I don't know much about the series, so I have no idea if any of those games are multiplayer (co-op or taking turns).
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06-20-15 09:57 AM
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PacmanandMariofan : I did give her my referral link. However, she hasn't signed up yet, so I doubt she is going to. 
PacmanandMariofan : I did give her my referral link. However, she hasn't signed up yet, so I doubt she is going to. 
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