So, it is no secret that I do not have the best record when it comes to the ladies and relationship. Sometimes it is my fault, and not to sound... whatever, but most of the time it's not my fault. I've been told that I have been broken up with because I am too nice. I have been broken up with for being too much of a gentleman. Hell, I have honestly been told that the reason I have been broken up with TWICE for not being mean / hitting them! Like, women want to be treated like princesses, and when they do, it is like they are upset about it.
Well, I went laser tagging at a place called Virtual Sports yesterday. There was this cute girl that is only a few years older than me, but my god, she was cute! I was there from open to close, mostly because of their reservation system, and me playing 4 games, instead of the planned 2. To be honest, she was not the cause of me staying for another 2 games... I just had a lot of adrenaline, so I used it because I don't usually get a good workout where I get soaked in sweat!
I was talking with her because she was taking care of the drinks. After a while, I decided I liked her, so I started subtly flirting with her, and then built it up to where it was practically obvious I was flirting with her. Only thing was, I never said anything. I know I come off as thus strong, opinionated guy who thinks he knows a lot. And that;'s true, for the most part. But, when it comes to talking to women in public, I am so shy. Like, I didn't ask for her number or email, r even offer her mine. I told her about vizzed board and gave her my referral link, since she had some gaming tattoos, so I mentioned the RGR, and she was interested. But, I don't think that that counts.
So, I need advice. I plan on going back in a few weeks, and making it a bi-weekly thing, because it is really fun, and I like it more the go karting, actually. I would actually spend less money doing this than I would go karting. I need to know how to talk to her. I need advice on how to actually ask her out, or for her number, or stuff like that. I mean, I actually like her, and I think we have plenty of stuff in common after talking to her for just a few hours. Just, I need advice. Most of the relationships I have been in, I have played a role in the end result, even if I have not been the one to end the relationship. I would like my next relationship to not be a failure, because I do not think I can take too many more of those. I need to know what to do that is within my control to ensure success.
Can anybody give me advice? So, it is no secret that I do not have the best record when it comes to the ladies and relationship. Sometimes it is my fault, and not to sound... whatever, but most of the time it's not my fault. I've been told that I have been broken up with because I am too nice. I have been broken up with for being too much of a gentleman. Hell, I have honestly been told that the reason I have been broken up with TWICE for not being mean / hitting them! Like, women want to be treated like princesses, and when they do, it is like they are upset about it.
Well, I went laser tagging at a place called Virtual Sports yesterday. There was this cute girl that is only a few years older than me, but my god, she was cute! I was there from open to close, mostly because of their reservation system, and me playing 4 games, instead of the planned 2. To be honest, she was not the cause of me staying for another 2 games... I just had a lot of adrenaline, so I used it because I don't usually get a good workout where I get soaked in sweat!
I was talking with her because she was taking care of the drinks. After a while, I decided I liked her, so I started subtly flirting with her, and then built it up to where it was practically obvious I was flirting with her. Only thing was, I never said anything. I know I come off as thus strong, opinionated guy who thinks he knows a lot. And that;'s true, for the most part. But, when it comes to talking to women in public, I am so shy. Like, I didn't ask for her number or email, r even offer her mine. I told her about vizzed board and gave her my referral link, since she had some gaming tattoos, so I mentioned the RGR, and she was interested. But, I don't think that that counts.
So, I need advice. I plan on going back in a few weeks, and making it a bi-weekly thing, because it is really fun, and I like it more the go karting, actually. I would actually spend less money doing this than I would go karting. I need to know how to talk to her. I need advice on how to actually ask her out, or for her number, or stuff like that. I mean, I actually like her, and I think we have plenty of stuff in common after talking to her for just a few hours. Just, I need advice. Most of the relationships I have been in, I have played a role in the end result, even if I have not been the one to end the relationship. I would like my next relationship to not be a failure, because I do not think I can take too many more of those. I need to know what to do that is within my control to ensure success.
Can anybody give me advice? |