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Are you the Dominant or the Submissive one in a relationship?

 

06-25-13 04:04 PM
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Well... I try to be the dominant one, but somehow I'm always the submissive one :L 
Well... I try to be the dominant one, but somehow I'm always the submissive one :L 

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I would say that I am the more dominant kind of person. I usually make the plans, and hold my girl by my side at all times, well, I wouldn't go that far. I like to be kind as well, because that makes her comfortable and happy. I hold her hand whenever I get the chance, and I kiss her whenever I want really, she rarely kisses me. So, I would think that I am the dominant person in the relationship.
I would say that I am the more dominant kind of person. I usually make the plans, and hold my girl by my side at all times, well, I wouldn't go that far. I like to be kind as well, because that makes her comfortable and happy. I hold her hand whenever I get the chance, and I kiss her whenever I want really, she rarely kisses me. So, I would think that I am the dominant person in the relationship.

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idk I have yet to be in a sexual relationship I think its best to be romantic sub and just be sweet


idk I have yet to be in a sexual relationship I think its best to be romantic sub and just be sweet

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Nice choice of topic, Muffin.

I could go into detail here and explain my side of the whole Dominant/submissive thing, but I'd rather not be banned from Vizzed.. so on that note i'll keep this little kid friendly. I am a switch, I can be either dominant or submissive in past relationships I have been Dominant. However in my current relationship I am submissive and enjoy submitting to my lovers wishes and commands. I enjoy being submissive more than being dominant, my boyfriend enjoys being dominant.. and is very good at it.. might I add. Anyways I better stop writing before things get.. not so young people friendly.





Nice choice of topic, Muffin.

I could go into detail here and explain my side of the whole Dominant/submissive thing, but I'd rather not be banned from Vizzed.. so on that note i'll keep this little kid friendly. I am a switch, I can be either dominant or submissive in past relationships I have been Dominant. However in my current relationship I am submissive and enjoy submitting to my lovers wishes and commands. I enjoy being submissive more than being dominant, my boyfriend enjoys being dominant.. and is very good at it.. might I add. Anyways I better stop writing before things get.. not so young people friendly.

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If I was in a relationship, I would normally be the Submissive type more than a Dominant type, I'm not truly sure on why, but I pretty much like being the Submissive type.
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If I was in a relationship, I would normally be the Submissive type more than a Dominant type, I'm not truly sure on why, but I pretty much like being the Submissive type.

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I'm probably a bit of both. I'm dominant when I need to be but submissive when she needs to be dominant. If that makes sense. If I'm being mean or something like that towards someone, she would give me a look and I'd be like.. okay, okay and stop I don't really mind it though. We're both really equal in our relationship.
I'm probably a bit of both. I'm dominant when I need to be but submissive when she needs to be dominant. If that makes sense. If I'm being mean or something like that towards someone, she would give me a look and I'd be like.. okay, okay and stop I don't really mind it though. We're both really equal in our relationship.

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You know, I would probably have to say I am the dominate one between me and my fiancé. Granted, she is dominant, too, but I display the traits just a tad more that she does. I tend to make all the plans, but she controls my heart... so yeah. XD
You know, I would probably have to say I am the dominate one between me and my fiancé. Granted, she is dominant, too, but I display the traits just a tad more that she does. I tend to make all the plans, but she controls my heart... so yeah. XD

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I've actually never been in any kind of relationship. But I'm more of a submissive person in general; much of my personality is just shyness, and just not saying my mind. I'm always willing to bend over backwards for people I care about. So those factors led me to that realization. I actually never thought about it before seeing this thread. I guess I learn more about myself each day.
I've actually never been in any kind of relationship. But I'm more of a submissive person in general; much of my personality is just shyness, and just not saying my mind. I'm always willing to bend over backwards for people I care about. So those factors led me to that realization. I actually never thought about it before seeing this thread. I guess I learn more about myself each day.


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I'm a passive, if she/he doesn't have any plans on what to do while we're together I usually find something, it goes back and forth usually. Or at least it used to. Good topic, this got me thinking.
I'm a passive, if she/he doesn't have any plans on what to do while we're together I usually find something, it goes back and forth usually. Or at least it used to. Good topic, this got me thinking.


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I would have to say the same thing with zeros, I tend to be more Passive in relationships. Although I will not retort my opinion that I should be the one cooking; I would tend to let my girl decide what to do for the day, what to have for breakfast/lunch/dinner, etc.

Not to mention its hard for me to pick either one as my Grandfather is a submissive type, while my Father is a dominant type and I see the positives and negatives in both. But if I had to pick one, I would pick submissive because I fear that if I was to become dominant, it might appear to people that I'm an abusive type.
I would have to say the same thing with zeros, I tend to be more Passive in relationships. Although I will not retort my opinion that I should be the one cooking; I would tend to let my girl decide what to do for the day, what to have for breakfast/lunch/dinner, etc.

Not to mention its hard for me to pick either one as my Grandfather is a submissive type, while my Father is a dominant type and I see the positives and negatives in both. But if I had to pick one, I would pick submissive because I fear that if I was to become dominant, it might appear to people that I'm an abusive type.


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I understand that the idea of this thread is to make a decision that reflects your behavior more often than not. Rather than answering "both" and defeating the whole purpose of the question being asked, mine is a two-part answer:

So far as the decision-making process in my relationships go, I've always been the dominant one in that aspect... my partner's opinions matter to me, but I'm going to have to be the one making the call at the end of the day since everything depends upon the mood I'm in.

In bed, I've always preferred to be the submissive partner. I'm more concerned with giving pleasure than receiving it and have taken the "bottom" role in physical intimacy. I'm not submissive by the BDSM meaning of the word, though, as I'd still want to be in full control of the situation... that's part of the decision making process, after all!
I understand that the idea of this thread is to make a decision that reflects your behavior more often than not. Rather than answering "both" and defeating the whole purpose of the question being asked, mine is a two-part answer:

So far as the decision-making process in my relationships go, I've always been the dominant one in that aspect... my partner's opinions matter to me, but I'm going to have to be the one making the call at the end of the day since everything depends upon the mood I'm in.

In bed, I've always preferred to be the submissive partner. I'm more concerned with giving pleasure than receiving it and have taken the "bottom" role in physical intimacy. I'm not submissive by the BDSM meaning of the word, though, as I'd still want to be in full control of the situation... that's part of the decision making process, after all!

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Despite all the speculation with my friends, I'm not always 'the guy' in the relationship. Personally I'm more of a switch, so I enjoy doing whatever my partner wants. Sounds submissive but they prefer being dominated. I don't know, I just go with the flow.

It's more fun to 'struggle' for it.
Despite all the speculation with my friends, I'm not always 'the guy' in the relationship. Personally I'm more of a switch, so I enjoy doing whatever my partner wants. Sounds submissive but they prefer being dominated. I don't know, I just go with the flow.

It's more fun to 'struggle' for it.

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sonicmcmuffin : Might as well fuel your fire.

I'm pretty submissive, I'll let him (or her) do whatever they want, and I will accept and go through with it.
    sonicmcmuffin : Might as well fuel your fire.

    I'm pretty submissive, I'll let him (or her) do whatever they want, and I will accept and go through with it.

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Even though I have never been in a relationship before, I am very positive that I would be the submissive one in a relationship. I am very quiet and shy, and I don't mind letting people do what they want with me (as long as it is not uncomfortable or bad).

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Brigand: Thanks for pointing that out. I didn't notice I typed the wrong word.
Even though I have never been in a relationship before, I am very positive that I would be the submissive one in a relationship. I am very quiet and shy, and I don't mind letting people do what they want with me (as long as it is not uncomfortable or bad).

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Brigand: Thanks for pointing that out. I didn't notice I typed the wrong word.

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AriaAngelDream :

You are quiet and shy, yet you would be the dominant part in the relationship? Might be an interesting one. Not saying it is impossible. The other person would just have to be even more meek.
AriaAngelDream :

You are quiet and shy, yet you would be the dominant part in the relationship? Might be an interesting one. Not saying it is impossible. The other person would just have to be even more meek.

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AriaAngelDream : You don't have an inner wilder side like many shy girls do?
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