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11-19-12 09:25 AM
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Do you ever feel your friends are dating people they don't deserve or people who take away too much time from you?  What are your reactions to your friends and their bfs/gfs?
Do you ever feel your friends are dating people they don't deserve or people who take away too much time from you?  What are your reactions to your friends and their bfs/gfs?
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Not really, no. I don't have any friends that I hang out with in the flesh(my epic bro doesn't count), so it doesn't bother me.
Not really, no. I don't have any friends that I hang out with in the flesh(my epic bro doesn't count), so it doesn't bother me.
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I've felt that way a couple of times, but then again its not my opinion to judge or say they shouldn't be together. Its all up to them. And I wouldn't plan on dating my friends' gf if and when they break up since I view it as being disloyal and dishonorable.
I've felt that way a couple of times, but then again its not my opinion to judge or say they shouldn't be together. Its all up to them. And I wouldn't plan on dating my friends' gf if and when they break up since I view it as being disloyal and dishonorable.
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Not really. Only a couple of my friends have gfs anyway, but it's not like there's anything that kills me about it. Sure, I want a gf too, but what does my friend & his gf have to do w/ it?
Not really. Only a couple of my friends have gfs anyway, but it's not like there's anything that kills me about it. Sure, I want a gf too, but what does my friend & his gf have to do w/ it?
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In general but in one case yes  I don't know her bf personally but I really like her and it isn't lust either I general feel really happy and smiley when I am around her but I supose it is nateral to feel a bit jealous
In general but in one case yes  I don't know her bf personally but I really like her and it isn't lust either I general feel really happy and smiley when I am around her but I supose it is nateral to feel a bit jealous
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Not at all.  Most of my  best  friends are single.  Even if they were to magically get boyfriends, I would not be jealous. My friends and I actually make jokes about how we will end up being forever alone-cat ladies. ^^
Not at all.  Most of my  best  friends are single.  Even if they were to magically get boyfriends, I would not be jealous. My friends and I actually make jokes about how we will end up being forever alone-cat ladies. ^^
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warmaker : For the most part it doesn’t bother me who my friends date. I will freely admit that part of the reason for that is because I haven’t really faired too well when it comes to relationships and, I have more or less become a hermit as I have gotten older. There are times though when I see how well some friends that I went to school with are doing either professionally or, personally and I’ll say to myself I wish I was doing half as well in either area.

It’s not jealousy or anything… In fact I am very happy for my friends who have accomplished a lot since our school years. I don’t measure accomplishments or try to compare what I’ve done to friends of mine but part of the reason I say I wish I was doing half as well as they are is because I hold a lot of guilt against myself for the mistakes I made in my youth.

In some ways what I went through made me a stronger, more aware person but I do have scars that I still deal with from time to time from that period in my life. Because some of what I went through, mistakes and such were self-inflicted I just look at my wishing I was doing better as a consequence of my mistakes. The one thing that I do tell my friends that are doing well is don’t take it for granted because there is always someone who isn’t having an easy time of it who would truly appreciate to enjoy success.

As for me I’ve done well in terms of my writing and have gained some notoriety but I don’t get carried away with it. A writer doing well and getting noticed here and there doesn’t necessarily translate to a comfortable living. Far as people being jealous of others I just try to tell people it isn’t worth it to deal with it and it’s more productive to worry about what you need to do. I realize that the advice may not be the most popular way of thinking but I think of it as the view of someone with a little bit of wisdom.


warmaker : For the most part it doesn’t bother me who my friends date. I will freely admit that part of the reason for that is because I haven’t really faired too well when it comes to relationships and, I have more or less become a hermit as I have gotten older. There are times though when I see how well some friends that I went to school with are doing either professionally or, personally and I’ll say to myself I wish I was doing half as well in either area.

It’s not jealousy or anything… In fact I am very happy for my friends who have accomplished a lot since our school years. I don’t measure accomplishments or try to compare what I’ve done to friends of mine but part of the reason I say I wish I was doing half as well as they are is because I hold a lot of guilt against myself for the mistakes I made in my youth.

In some ways what I went through made me a stronger, more aware person but I do have scars that I still deal with from time to time from that period in my life. Because some of what I went through, mistakes and such were self-inflicted I just look at my wishing I was doing better as a consequence of my mistakes. The one thing that I do tell my friends that are doing well is don’t take it for granted because there is always someone who isn’t having an easy time of it who would truly appreciate to enjoy success.

As for me I’ve done well in terms of my writing and have gained some notoriety but I don’t get carried away with it. A writer doing well and getting noticed here and there doesn’t necessarily translate to a comfortable living. Far as people being jealous of others I just try to tell people it isn’t worth it to deal with it and it’s more productive to worry about what you need to do. I realize that the advice may not be the most popular way of thinking but I think of it as the view of someone with a little bit of wisdom.


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warmaker : For the most part it doesn’t bother me who my friends date. I will freely admit that part of the reason for that is because I haven’t really faired too well when it comes to relationships and, I have more or less become a hermit as I have gotten older. There are times though when I see how well some friends that I went to school with are doing either professionally or, personally and I’ll say to myself I wish I was doing half as well in either area.

It’s not jealousy or anything… In fact I am very happy for my friends who have accomplished a lot since our school years. I don’t measure accomplishments or try to compare what I’ve done to friends of mine but part of the reason I say I wish I was doing half as well as they are is because I hold a lot of guilt against myself for the mistakes I made in my youth.

In some ways what I went through made me a stronger, more aware person but I do have scars that I still deal with from time to time from that period in my life. Because some of what I went through, mistakes and such were self-inflicted I just look at my wishing I was doing better as a consequence of my mistakes. The one thing that I do tell my friends that are doing well is don’t take it for granted because there is always someone who isn’t having an easy time of it who would truly appreciate to enjoy success.

As for me I’ve done well in terms of my writing and have gained some notoriety but I don’t get carried away with it. A writer doing well and getting noticed here and there doesn’t necessarily translate to a comfortable living. Far as people being jealous of others I just try to tell people it isn’t worth it to deal with it and it’s more productive to worry about what you need to do. I realize that the advice may not be the most popular way of thinking but I think of it as the view of someone with a little bit of wisdom.


warmaker : For the most part it doesn’t bother me who my friends date. I will freely admit that part of the reason for that is because I haven’t really faired too well when it comes to relationships and, I have more or less become a hermit as I have gotten older. There are times though when I see how well some friends that I went to school with are doing either professionally or, personally and I’ll say to myself I wish I was doing half as well in either area.

It’s not jealousy or anything… In fact I am very happy for my friends who have accomplished a lot since our school years. I don’t measure accomplishments or try to compare what I’ve done to friends of mine but part of the reason I say I wish I was doing half as well as they are is because I hold a lot of guilt against myself for the mistakes I made in my youth.

In some ways what I went through made me a stronger, more aware person but I do have scars that I still deal with from time to time from that period in my life. Because some of what I went through, mistakes and such were self-inflicted I just look at my wishing I was doing better as a consequence of my mistakes. The one thing that I do tell my friends that are doing well is don’t take it for granted because there is always someone who isn’t having an easy time of it who would truly appreciate to enjoy success.

As for me I’ve done well in terms of my writing and have gained some notoriety but I don’t get carried away with it. A writer doing well and getting noticed here and there doesn’t necessarily translate to a comfortable living. Far as people being jealous of others I just try to tell people it isn’t worth it to deal with it and it’s more productive to worry about what you need to do. I realize that the advice may not be the most popular way of thinking but I think of it as the view of someone with a little bit of wisdom.


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11-21-12 05:21 AM
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Yeah, my best friends girlfriend is really ruining my friends life even though he doesn't notice it. He's been doing stuff for the girl, but is getting suspended from school and doing bad stuff just to be with her, that is what I dislike about that, but I can't stop him, so its his life choice. Especially the way my friend greets her. Even my other friends hate it, and are ranting about his girlfriend, hating him for not being their friends, and one of his other friends got cussed out by him, just for his girlfriend. I ain't jealous, but geez that is so stupid of him for doing that. That is my friends story. I just wish he wouldn't have the girlfriend TBH, but its not my choice, just to luck, I wish the best of him. That's what I have to say about that.
Yeah, my best friends girlfriend is really ruining my friends life even though he doesn't notice it. He's been doing stuff for the girl, but is getting suspended from school and doing bad stuff just to be with her, that is what I dislike about that, but I can't stop him, so its his life choice. Especially the way my friend greets her. Even my other friends hate it, and are ranting about his girlfriend, hating him for not being their friends, and one of his other friends got cussed out by him, just for his girlfriend. I ain't jealous, but geez that is so stupid of him for doing that. That is my friends story. I just wish he wouldn't have the girlfriend TBH, but its not my choice, just to luck, I wish the best of him. That's what I have to say about that.
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I've never really felt that way about my friends relationships. What I hate to see is my friends dating jerks.

However I have been on the receiving end of that, so to speak- My friend in high school got 'jealous' and started acting completely differently towards me, when I met my first boyfriend. It ruined our friendship eventually.

I've never really felt that way about my friends relationships. What I hate to see is my friends dating jerks.

However I have been on the receiving end of that, so to speak- My friend in high school got 'jealous' and started acting completely differently towards me, when I met my first boyfriend. It ruined our friendship eventually.

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Only the once - for some reason I found my mate's friend (she wasn't even his g/f) a very addictive personality and got quite jealous when she was out with him, or chatting to him, and not me.  Shameful (on my behalf).  I got over it though (but made a bit of a doorknob of myself in the process).
Only the once - for some reason I found my mate's friend (she wasn't even his g/f) a very addictive personality and got quite jealous when she was out with him, or chatting to him, and not me.  Shameful (on my behalf).  I got over it though (but made a bit of a doorknob of myself in the process).
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No, they're your friends. Bros before hoes, you know?  
No, they're your friends. Bros before hoes, you know?  
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I would be happy that my friend is someone in his life, and I would not be jealous of my friend
I would be happy that my friend is someone in his life, and I would not be jealous of my friend
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Not really because I don't care. The only things I care about are family friends and football. I love football a lot. It is a great sport. 
Not really because I don't care. The only things I care about are family friends and football. I love football a lot. It is a great sport. 
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I want to say No, of course not, but honestly...

Yes, a little, sometimes. I have very few real friends, and I don't get to spend that much time with them...so when time we've set aside to spend with each other gets interrupted, or plans we've made get changed, for the girlfriend or boyfriend, it irritates me.

Intellectually I get it-I'm not as important as the gf/bf, and that's as it should be. It's just...am I not important at all? 

It doesn't get any easier as you get older either. Gf/bf is replaced by wife/husband and, most dreaded of all ...children. 
I want to say No, of course not, but honestly...

Yes, a little, sometimes. I have very few real friends, and I don't get to spend that much time with them...so when time we've set aside to spend with each other gets interrupted, or plans we've made get changed, for the girlfriend or boyfriend, it irritates me.

Intellectually I get it-I'm not as important as the gf/bf, and that's as it should be. It's just...am I not important at all? 

It doesn't get any easier as you get older either. Gf/bf is replaced by wife/husband and, most dreaded of all ...children. 
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Well, sometimes if a friend suddenly has no time to see you because he has a girlfriend or she has a boyfriend or however, its irritating but I always try to remember that I have also been that irritating friend who never wants or has time to see his frinds since he is so head over heels in love and only does scheduels according to the plans of his girlfriend. So I try to be understanding about it. Also if they are good friends, I try to make friends with their girlfriends/boyfriends also. Sometimes these friendships have lasted longer than their relationships.

As for a friend dating a jerk? Well, you deserve what you are willing to put up with. Its not my business to say anything or intervine if its not violent.And as for having the hots for a friends girl? That would just be very weird.
Well, sometimes if a friend suddenly has no time to see you because he has a girlfriend or she has a boyfriend or however, its irritating but I always try to remember that I have also been that irritating friend who never wants or has time to see his frinds since he is so head over heels in love and only does scheduels according to the plans of his girlfriend. So I try to be understanding about it. Also if they are good friends, I try to make friends with their girlfriends/boyfriends also. Sometimes these friendships have lasted longer than their relationships.

As for a friend dating a jerk? Well, you deserve what you are willing to put up with. Its not my business to say anything or intervine if its not violent.And as for having the hots for a friends girl? That would just be very weird.
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