My bisexual ex girlfriend wants me to go to her place some weekend. we haven't spoke for a heck load of time and i think she's still having an affair with a lesbian girl (wich is hawt)
And i don't know what to think.
Any hints?

(She also lives kinda far away from here.)

laugh if you want im used to it.
(Dm you ass)

I have NO CLUE what to say about this situation.

"i think she's still having an affair with a lesbian girl"
So... she's in another relationship? (aside from the affair thing)

Note:
Sofie = my ex.
Frida = Her lesbian girlfriend
Note2: short answer to benny in bold.

Look about half a year after we broke up. She told me she got a girlfriend.
I was kinda bummed beacouse, listen to this: My ex girlfriend got a girlfriend before i did.
(My friends still tease me for that)
Yea so i got to know the girlfriend through msn and such. she's a nice girl and all that.

But Note this: The only reason I and Sofie broke up was because we lived so far apart from eachother.
So now when she wants me to come over i don't know where she is going with this whole thing.

And when we were still dating she mentioned a threeway a couple of times but i were kinda scared by the whole idea.
(I know i'm a disgrace to all the men of the world)

And that might be one of things she wants now.
Or she just wants to meet up (This is the one im rooting for)

And all that i know about Sofie's and Frida's relationship is that it's gone downhill for a little while.

Im confused and Sofie is a trickster so i don't really know what to think.

It's really obvious that you want to see her which means that you really should go up there. And about the whole threesome thing: If the opportunity arises and you would find it to be an good experience then by all means go for it, otherwise just try to get yourself out of the really really awkward situation that would arise.

Just don't f***ing do her if she is still with her girlfriend, because that would be really unmanly.

I'm not stupid.
But she won't tell me what she planned.
The only thing i can know for sure is that she has planned something...

She scares me sometimes

Um... You better watch out or you'll be in a threesome that you never agreed to I'm joking.








But I'm not....





...But I kind of am...








...No, I'm really not.

That damn trickster could trick me into anything.
I swear that she could trick all of you if she wanted!

Some would say your a disgrace to man.. others would take a more civil approach. (Why cant I be you... )

If you feel like friends, maybe she just wants to catch up.
Maybe things with her GF arnt working, so she wants to see if its still because she feels something for you.
Maybe shes going to have an affair on her GF..
Maybe shes going to kill you...


Is she a 'girly girl'?
If so, I'd say its more likley to be my first 2 points. If not, mabye the last 2.

One way or another, something is bound to happen if you go.

As for hints on what she is thinking... she doesn't even know I think she is just confused and wants both sides of the pie.

Originally posted by BigBob85

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Is she a 'girly girl'?

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Err. when she wants to..
She's a damn trickster i tell you
She's girly sometimes and rather tomboyish at other times.
(Like the time she kicked my ass at halo and did a 5 min long victory dance... Good times)

Jigsaw

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I think she is just confused and wants both sides of the pie.

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That seems just about right.

Originally posted by Bobbo again

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Maybe things with her GF arnt working, so she wants to see if its still because she feels something for you.

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Thats the thing we broke up because of the distance.
I still have feelings for her and i'm pretty sure she still have feelings for me.

Then get back with her, I know its hard for long distance, but if you stay CLOOOOSE CLOOOSE friends, but at the same time promise yourself to each other.. it could work..

well let's see what happens.
I'll give you the info after i've been up there.
ill probably go next friday

No offense or anything, but I wouldn't go for some girl who swings both ways. To think that she could leave you for a chick kinda sucks. There are a lot of fish in the sea, the best thing with her would be to stay friends. I think there are too many strings attached to that girl. That's just what I think, it's hard to act on or against feelings. It's tough...so...yeah.....no offense on anything I said if it bothers you.

I think having an girl leave me for another girl would be totally hot and I would ask for pictures.

That's kinda because....you're weird....

Originally posted by Cookieman003

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To think that she could leave you for a chick kinda sucks.

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And i think we have a misunderstandment.
We broke up (distance bla bla bla)
Then after a couple of month they got together.

And theres no problems with a bi chick.
I only see Pro's and no cons really.

1. She doesn't care if I look at other women.
She's also looking!
2. (i dont know if this has anything to do with the bi thing)
She's not that selcritical like most girls. Saying oh no im so fat when theyre not and so on.
3. i cant come up with this stuff right now

No Roy saying that she isn't fat doesn't have anything to do with bi.

she's like the only girl i met so far who isn't self critical

Except I have met bi girls that are. But yes more girls that don't think they are fat/ugly/dumb etc etc are needed.

Duly noted, and secconded.