Today at school, I was in Art class and I was doing my own thing, just relaxing and what not.  My friend was in my class too and she told me to look over at the door.  I looked over and you will not believe what just happened.  My ex was right there and she saw me too.  My heart pounded so hard that I almost had a heart attack.  I was so surprised to see her cause she would go to a different school.  When I first saw her in sight, the first thing I thought of was the last break up.  I will tell you about the last break up because it was very terrible. (If you don't want to read the break up, you don't have to)

It happened on this year's Valentine's Day... She stopped texting me and calling me for about 2 weeks and on Valentine's Day, I decided to go to her house to find out why she was doing it.  I got her a little stuffed animal holding a heart and flowers.  I went to her house that night to see her.  I went to the back door because she would tell me to go there all the time whenever I go to her house (she usually never answers the front door).  I was about to knock till her dad saw me and opened the door.  He told me to come in and got my ex to come see me.  She was surprised to see me there and I gave her my gifts.  We then sat down in the kitchen playing a couple of games and started talking a little.  We barely talked.  I asked her why she never text me often, she would tell me that she was busy with school.  When it started to get late, they brought me back home.  The next day, she texted me saying, "I thought you knew" I said, "Knew about what."  She then said, "that we were over."  I told her, "Why!?" she said, "I just don't love you anymore." I said, "Why didn't you tell me last night, I looked like a dumbass."  She was sorry, but I wasn't because I looked like a complete idiot.  You know whats even sadder, she gave me a Sonic gift card, which was not for me, it was for someone else.

I know I won't go out with her again till she understands that I am important to her and if she doesn't think that, then forget her.  The funny thing about this was when I was drawing, I was shaking so much, I couldn't make a perfect straight line.  I was freaking out like a seizure.  After class, we did not even say anything.  I told my friend, "Oh my God."  Doesn't that make you feel uncomfortable seeing an ex? It sure did for me. Another thing, she used to go to my bus, but now she does (it doesn't bother me that much in the bus).

oh wow I have no idea on what do with this I gess just ignore her the best you can >.< unless you wanna get back with her

Well I agree it can be a little down (I have also experienced this). Maybe you must talk to her, if u wanna end it really, tell her frankly, its really finished then next time you see her you will feel light because you know everything is in its place. And also if you want to understand what is happening (why she is constantly after you; go and ask her it will avoid confusion) . But what I can really tell you is that: DO NOT MIX EDUCATION WITH LOVE, G.F,JUST THINKING ABOUT ANYONE.(IT'S VERY VERY BAD )...I HAVE GOT THE EXPERIENCE THAT'S WHY I'M TELLING YOU THAT. I hope it helps.

Well if possible try to be freinds sorry if this is bad advise i never had a break up yet

Wow that really must be awkward. Try to stay away from her if you don't want to see her and try talking a little if you just want to hang out. But I have no idea what to do in a situation like this sorry I couldn't be much help to you

hackerman : That's not a bad advice.  I agree with that, but I am not going to start the conversation.

DARKANINE : That's what I want her to be, but she doesn't seem like a good friend right now.  We used to be best BEST friends about 5 years ago.  I just want her to be my best friend again.

seanne : I think I know why she keeps going after me.  It's probably because she loves me, not IN love with me.  She loves me at one point and then later she doesn't.  I can tell that she likes my personality, but I do not like it when she uses me.  I just want her to be my best friend.