Ok heres the situation: I had a girlfriend for a year now but we are going to different high schools. We live close by but she doesnt think it will work out however I like her alot. What do I do?

If you really like her, I suggest you call her and try to see her everyday, unless you are living in different citys that might be a problem.....I'm not trying to be a jerk here, but just to let you know, long distance relationships are the saddest and hardest kind of relationships, a few months ago I had a girlfriend I could never see more than once in a month... it made me really sad.. so i broke up with her, but that was more of because she was a jerk to me > ... but anyway you should have a long talk with her... and if she continues to say it might not work out , try to tell her how much you care (:

**EDIT: I forgot to add if it doesn't work out, she wont be the last girl for you, you might be sad, but don't beat yourself up for it through high school you meet a lot of girls TRUST ME XD

Be honest with her. Tell her you still really like her and want to try to work this problem out. Just remember/be prepared for if she still doesn't have feelings for you. This might be her way of bowing out gracefully without hurting you too badly. And if it is, remember there are plenty of other girls and one of them just has to be perfectly right for you.

You live near each other, so it really isn't even close to a long distance relationship... you just won't get to spend time together at school. It could be apprehension that you will drift apart, it could be ditching you now so she is free to date someone she might meet at school... who knows?

I also think you should talk to her and ask her why she thinks it won't work. Be respectful and actually listen, then give your take on it. If you think you two can work, tell her why. If it works and you stay together, great. If it doesn't, at least you tried to fight for it. I wish you luck.

You should tell her that you are capable of being with her for a long time. She would also think that you would cheat on her with someone at your school when she is in a different school.

This one hits pretty close to home for me. I started dating a girl the weekend after our last day of high school. So we had all summer together, but she was going to a college in a different state that the one I went to. I stayed at the community college to save money. We decided that we would stay in the relationship. At first, it wasn't so bad. But it really only took a couple of months for it to become heartbreaking (especially for her). It ended making us fight constantly by the time the first semester of school was over. There were times where I was certain that the relationship would not make it. The second semester, I went up there for as many weekends as I could, but it kept getting harder and harder. We ended up making it through that year, and she left the college she was attending (not because of the relationship, but because it wasn't a good fit for her). She stayed home and attended the community college for a year while we both looked for a college we could go to together.

Now, for me, this was the best decision because we have been together for 5 years and are engaged. My advice to you is to only continue the relationship if you think it can go somewhere, and don't let there be a shadow of a doubt about it. Sit down and have a serious thinking time. Try to imagine life without her. If you think you will be fine if you separated, then it probably isn't worth going through the pain of it. On the other hand, you didn't specify exactly how close you were and how often you can be together. If it is just a different high school in the same city, it is not long distance. I'm sure if there is more than one high school in your town, then you have good friends in the other high school. It's really no different. If that is not the case, make sure it is something you are willing to go through a lot of heartache for to get to that point where there is no more distance as a factor. Good luck.

My advice is to let go and move on. If you live close to each other, but she doesn't think it will work probably means she wants a boyfriend she can show off to others at school, or that she just doesn't like you and is trying to blow you off nicely.

Thx to people who help me in this situation. If you need more information just notify me by sending a private message. Thx again.