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02-10-11 07:52 AM
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Hey guys, I know I'm not exactly the oldest member, in both senses, and you may not think that I can help you, but this thread is for those of you who need help with your love life. There are many situations I am not familiar with and for that I open this thread for anyone who wants to give or get advice. From marriage help to asking a girl out I am sure that either me or any of your fellow Vizzers would be more than happy to help. And if you want a more private conversation feel free to pm me at any time as I check the forums every day except for weekends.
Hey guys, I know I'm not exactly the oldest member, in both senses, and you may not think that I can help you, but this thread is for those of you who need help with your love life. There are many situations I am not familiar with and for that I open this thread for anyone who wants to give or get advice. From marriage help to asking a girl out I am sure that either me or any of your fellow Vizzers would be more than happy to help. And if you want a more private conversation feel free to pm me at any time as I check the forums every day except for weekends.
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03-12-11 08:39 PM
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My advice is don't push anything that the other person doesn't want to do! And always treat the person in the relationship with respect! Don't take them for granted just be happy for what you guys have with each other.
I got alot more advice then that, but I think thats enough to start with.

aeonarial : If you liked my advice and need me to post some more when your threads running slow just send me a PM.
My advice is don't push anything that the other person doesn't want to do! And always treat the person in the relationship with respect! Don't take them for granted just be happy for what you guys have with each other.
I got alot more advice then that, but I think thats enough to start with.

aeonarial : If you liked my advice and need me to post some more when your threads running slow just send me a PM.
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03-12-11 09:01 PM
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My advice to the rest of you...

Trust
Respect
Care

But most importantly.

Be yourself.

A relationship doesnt work if you are a liar and can't be honest with yourself.
My advice to the rest of you...

Trust
Respect
Care

But most importantly.

Be yourself.

A relationship doesnt work if you are a liar and can't be honest with yourself.
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03-12-11 09:11 PM
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I've never been in a relationship per se, however, I know what to avoid.

1. Don't be boring.
2. Don't be a p****cat.
3. Don't force someone to love you.
4. Don't ask for a kiss.
5. Don't be a creeper.
6. Don't ever - and I mean ever - say something like "I'll kill myself unless you..." because that's just f***ed up, unfair to the person, and breaks most of the rules.

If you remember these 6 rules, you should be fine.
I've never been in a relationship per se, however, I know what to avoid.

1. Don't be boring.
2. Don't be a p****cat.
3. Don't force someone to love you.
4. Don't ask for a kiss.
5. Don't be a creeper.
6. Don't ever - and I mean ever - say something like "I'll kill myself unless you..." because that's just f***ed up, unfair to the person, and breaks most of the rules.

If you remember these 6 rules, you should be fine.
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03-12-11 11:29 PM
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An advice for friendship. Don't get jealous just because she/he got a new close friend.
As long as your relationship is still the same. If not, well... that's a different story.
An advice for friendship. Don't get jealous just because she/he got a new close friend.
As long as your relationship is still the same. If not, well... that's a different story.
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03-13-11 07:53 PM
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My advice is to stand your ground. Don't let your girlfriend tell you what to do all the time. Be a man, do your thing, and stand proud. Don't let girls run your life.
My advice is to stand your ground. Don't let your girlfriend tell you what to do all the time. Be a man, do your thing, and stand proud. Don't let girls run your life.
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03-14-11 07:36 AM
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DBDonald : Lol, thanks, but it's been slow since I started it, it actually just got it's first post thanks bro.


But yeah, relationships are hard. There is no easy way. I have recently learned that with my current, working-on-girlfriend. We have had trouble with her not wanting to hurt me, and her alcoholic ex-boyfriend, but it's getting better. On thing is that communication is key. If you hear something, talk it out. Don't ask other people. Let them know what you are thinking, because they want to hear.
DBDonald : Lol, thanks, but it's been slow since I started it, it actually just got it's first post thanks bro.


But yeah, relationships are hard. There is no easy way. I have recently learned that with my current, working-on-girlfriend. We have had trouble with her not wanting to hurt me, and her alcoholic ex-boyfriend, but it's getting better. On thing is that communication is key. If you hear something, talk it out. Don't ask other people. Let them know what you are thinking, because they want to hear.
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03-24-11 08:33 AM
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Eh, guys... I need advice and opinions on this possible relationship...

Me and this guy met around 5 years ago, and we were enemies back then (might be relevant, lol.) and now we're best buddies, and he developed deeper feelings for me and did admit that to me in person. Although, that was a year ago, and I decided to go out with him, and got in a relationship for almost 7 months, but I broke up with him because he was too shy to do anything, pretty much. But in those 7 months, I also felt something strong for him. To this day, those feelings stuck with me, and the guy said it was the same for him (We're still best friends even after the break up.) He asked me if I could go out with him one more time, as he felt there were some possibilities left for us. I feel the same way, and to be honest, he's a sweet and decent guy, but he's shy, and sometimes feels awkward on dates. We basically don't have the guts to go any further than hugging briefly. Is this a good idea?

Oh yeah, I'm 15 (few months to 16) and he's 16, almost 17. (might be relevant too.)

PLEASE, any advice/opinions?
Eh, guys... I need advice and opinions on this possible relationship...

Me and this guy met around 5 years ago, and we were enemies back then (might be relevant, lol.) and now we're best buddies, and he developed deeper feelings for me and did admit that to me in person. Although, that was a year ago, and I decided to go out with him, and got in a relationship for almost 7 months, but I broke up with him because he was too shy to do anything, pretty much. But in those 7 months, I also felt something strong for him. To this day, those feelings stuck with me, and the guy said it was the same for him (We're still best friends even after the break up.) He asked me if I could go out with him one more time, as he felt there were some possibilities left for us. I feel the same way, and to be honest, he's a sweet and decent guy, but he's shy, and sometimes feels awkward on dates. We basically don't have the guts to go any further than hugging briefly. Is this a good idea?

Oh yeah, I'm 15 (few months to 16) and he's 16, almost 17. (might be relevant too.)

PLEASE, any advice/opinions?
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03-24-11 09:19 AM
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Snowdeath :

Go for it. Life is short so do as many things as you can, leave no rock unturned. He sounds like a nice guy, and his only fault being that he's shy. I don't see that as a real fault either, in any case, so just be patient with him. Some people are just shy, as I am. Just take baby steps and see how things work. Like I said, you only have one life, and it is short, so live it =)
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Go for it. Life is short so do as many things as you can, leave no rock unturned. He sounds like a nice guy, and his only fault being that he's shy. I don't see that as a real fault either, in any case, so just be patient with him. Some people are just shy, as I am. Just take baby steps and see how things work. Like I said, you only have one life, and it is short, so live it =)
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03-24-11 09:20 AM
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My advice for guys is simple dont be a douche!.... That is all
My advice for guys is simple dont be a douche!.... That is all
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03-24-11 10:03 AM
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legacyme3 :

That sounds good, thanks Leggy! I'm gonna go ahead and give the green light about that.
legacyme3 :

That sounds good, thanks Leggy! I'm gonna go ahead and give the green light about that.
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03-25-11 07:32 AM
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Snowdeath : I agree with leggy. It's hard to find someone who makes you feel that way, but when you do, you should never let it go. Some people don't understand that and they lose something very dear. And if you feel so strongly about stuff, and feel like things are going to slowly, then talk about it. You are both equals in the relationship and I am sure that he won't be offended, but you know him better than I do. I really wish the best to you both and I am glad to see that you can withstand a break-up AND still be best friends.
Snowdeath : I agree with leggy. It's hard to find someone who makes you feel that way, but when you do, you should never let it go. Some people don't understand that and they lose something very dear. And if you feel so strongly about stuff, and feel like things are going to slowly, then talk about it. You are both equals in the relationship and I am sure that he won't be offended, but you know him better than I do. I really wish the best to you both and I am glad to see that you can withstand a break-up AND still be best friends.
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Snowdeath : Like the others said, having someone make you feel that kind of connection is something special and you should totally give it a try. You two are both young, so awkwardness is expected and should not be a deterrent. Just go with the flow and enjoy the sweet innocence of courtship. Most guys his age would be doing everything to get into your pants... feel lucky you got one that won't pressure you.

As for advice for others... honesty and communication are key. If you do not have those, your relationship is already dead. I am always available via PM if people want to ask me more specific advice... I have been through a lot and have always made the effort to help those that ask for advice on such matters.
Snowdeath : Like the others said, having someone make you feel that kind of connection is something special and you should totally give it a try. You two are both young, so awkwardness is expected and should not be a deterrent. Just go with the flow and enjoy the sweet innocence of courtship. Most guys his age would be doing everything to get into your pants... feel lucky you got one that won't pressure you.

As for advice for others... honesty and communication are key. If you do not have those, your relationship is already dead. I am always available via PM if people want to ask me more specific advice... I have been through a lot and have always made the effort to help those that ask for advice on such matters.
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As when I read the responses, I do also agree that something like this is good and special, and yes, Elara, you do have a good point, awkwardness does play a part in teens, haha. aeonairal, I'm surprised that I could do that too, but it's kinda easy to do if the break-up was calm and mature, so yeah.

Thanks!
As when I read the responses, I do also agree that something like this is good and special, and yes, Elara, you do have a good point, awkwardness does play a part in teens, haha. aeonairal, I'm surprised that I could do that too, but it's kinda easy to do if the break-up was calm and mature, so yeah.

Thanks!
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