12-14-10 06:54 PM

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ages ago I had a partner who was only with me for sex, he never wanted to speak about us as a couple or our future, all he wanted was sex. We did not go out that much and spent ages in his room, all a bit claustrophobic really. If I refused sex he got really irritable and angry, totally uncool. He would not seduce me, it was like everytime we were alone and stood near him he got instantly turned on and wanted to have sex, while I was in a totally different place. If he had taken tie to speak to me and seduce me and turn me on then perhaps I might have wanted sex too, but not to be used like an object. Anyway I hope this topic is not too 'deep' or seductive for Vizzed, I think its a good honest discussion to have and it's not like people are not in realtionships here anyway.

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12-14-10 06:57 PM

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Totts : When I was a little younger I used to do that a lot. I guess I didn't feel the need to have any sort of relationship. The thing I started realizing through the years is that purely physical relationships usually cause more drama than they are worth. It seems that no matter how ok the person says they are with the situation, in the end they usually start having a problem with it.

Actually there's an episode of Seinfeld that documents exactly what I am saying perfectly...haha

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12-17-10 10:04 AM

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Yep. I've had one of those, and they aren't the best relationships. I mean, yeah, I get why people would want to do them. But meh.

One of my last exes only wanted me for sex. I'm not losing my virginity to someone like that. So I broke it off immeaditetly. I don't like being used.

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