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So me and this girl just recently started dating. Its been a few days since ive seen her and i really miss her. She's been telling me for a long time that she was gonna come see me as soon as she can. But she makes time for her friend Rueben before me. She's with him today and wont respond to my text.

How should i feel about this and what should i do?
So me and this girl just recently started dating. Its been a few days since ive seen her and i really miss her. She's been telling me for a long time that she was gonna come see me as soon as she can. But she makes time for her friend Rueben before me. She's with him today and wont respond to my text.

How should i feel about this and what should i do?

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so, your girlfriend is spending more time with this other guy than with you? That would be a big red flag to me.

Who is this guy? Old friend, old boyfriend?

I would be concerned because even if she doesn't want it to be more... I doubt that the other guy wants to just be friends with her. But how do you tell her that without telling her who she can and can't hang out with? Well, you can't. All you can do is talk to her about it and tell her how you feel about the situation. If she isn't mature enough to handle that then you're probably better off without her.
so, your girlfriend is spending more time with this other guy than with you? That would be a big red flag to me.

Who is this guy? Old friend, old boyfriend?

I would be concerned because even if she doesn't want it to be more... I doubt that the other guy wants to just be friends with her. But how do you tell her that without telling her who she can and can't hang out with? Well, you can't. All you can do is talk to her about it and tell her how you feel about the situation. If she isn't mature enough to handle that then you're probably better off without her.

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I have talked to her about it a little bit. She says he's like one of her best friends. It wouldn't bug me as much if she was actually responding. But since she's not, it has me a little worry as to what she might be doing. I really like her and im convinced she likes me just as much so i dont think she would do anything to hurt me. This is just a little suspicious. You know?
I have talked to her about it a little bit. She says he's like one of her best friends. It wouldn't bug me as much if she was actually responding. But since she's not, it has me a little worry as to what she might be doing. I really like her and im convinced she likes me just as much so i dont think she would do anything to hurt me. This is just a little suspicious. You know?

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okay well, I'm not suggesting you assume the worst, but be prepared for it.

If you trust that she's not doing anything she shouldn't be then stick with that.... this might be a very innocent thing that is going on. At the very least make sure she understands how you feel about it.
okay well, I'm not suggesting you assume the worst, but be prepared for it.

If you trust that she's not doing anything she shouldn't be then stick with that.... this might be a very innocent thing that is going on. At the very least make sure she understands how you feel about it.

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But see the thing is...i have barely talked to her in the past 3 days. One of them cause her phone "wasnt working". The next day was warped tour. Then then next day she just didnt really talk to me. Now she's making time with her friend and ignoring me. I don't like it at all.
But see the thing is...i have barely talked to her in the past 3 days. One of them cause her phone "wasnt working". The next day was warped tour. Then then next day she just didnt really talk to me. Now she's making time with her friend and ignoring me. I don't like it at all.

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Something doesn't sound right, if she keeps avoiding you then you know for certain you got major problems ahead.

If it were me, I would probably not try contacting her anymore let her come to you. By doing this you will be able to see how much she really cares for you. If you don't hear anything after a week or so, end it.
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Something doesn't sound right, if she keeps avoiding you then you know for certain you got major problems ahead.

If it were me, I would probably not try contacting her anymore let her come to you. By doing this you will be able to see how much she really cares for you. If you don't hear anything after a week or so, end it.

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"If it were me, I would probably not try contacting her anymore let her come to you. By doing this you will be able to see how much she really cares for you. If you don't hear anything after a week or so, end it."

I like that idea. She might be the kind of girl that likes to know the guys she likes need her more than she needs them. I'm not trying to talk bad about your g/f, but something isn't right here if she's not talked to you for 3 days and is now hanging out with another guy.
"If it were me, I would probably not try contacting her anymore let her come to you. By doing this you will be able to see how much she really cares for you. If you don't hear anything after a week or so, end it."

I like that idea. She might be the kind of girl that likes to know the guys she likes need her more than she needs them. I'm not trying to talk bad about your g/f, but something isn't right here if she's not talked to you for 3 days and is now hanging out with another guy.

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