First off, you don't have to be a boy to answer, guy's it would be lovely for some feedback, but girl's are welcome to answer as well (:

How it started:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for only 3 days now, but we like each other very much. It took this kid an entire month to even ask me to be his girlfriend. Finally at the end of the last school day, he decided now was the best time to drag me aside and ask me to be his girlfriend, and any hints of sarcasm was completely intended. I instantly said yes, I had been waiting for him to say anything to me about it for so long. So, it was then my challenge to make us last through the summer time. Even if he is going to a new school next year. I'm actually so determined to keep this working.

Issues:
First issue, a girl decided, it would be funny to tell me that he likes other girls. But, you know, no big deal, it's hard to like only one person at a time, I get it, he's a boy, stuff like that happens. But she decided to totally verbally harass me, behind her computer. Next day, I was forced to be in the same room as her and she pushed me aside. Boyfriend didn't do much about it. Oh well, he doesn't know, I guess. But whatever, she's a waste of my precious time anyways. Next day, I wake up with messages from other girls saying to break up with him. I was a little confused.
Anyways, I get back home from hanging out with friends, and I call him up asking if our plans to hang out were still on. All I got was "You're interrupting Jared and I hanging out!" and he hung up on me. I was a little upset, obviously. I brushed myself off anyways, and I then find out, he wouldn't be at my guitar recitals the next day, or he couldn't hang out at all the next day, because he was packing for a week long trip in California. He won't be back till next Sunday. I get he has to pack and all, but you know, I wanted to be with him before he left.

Someone please tell me this is just normal. It'd be a big kick in the behind if I figure out that he doesn't even like me anymore. ANY feedback is totally appreciated!

well, I just checked your profile and found out you're 13 so I'll try and base my answer off of your age.

First off... you're young and so is he. While you may have set him as a very high priority he may not have done the same. Boys don't make as big of a deal as girls do about relationships at that age.

Give him a chance to make up for it when he comes back.... see how he treats you when he's not busy with other things. If he makes little to no effort to have you as part of his life then I say move on.

And while it may not feel like it now.... there will be other guys. You're a pretty girl (your pic is on your profile) and I doubt you'll have any trouble finding another guy to go out with.

i agree with everything geeogree says (especially his last paragraph) but i have something to add. tell him your upset with him other wise he might not realize he did anything wrong. if he doesnt change id say move on quick. also about that girl telling you he likes other giirls, i advise you ignore her unless she is a close freind of yours she is probably just jealouse.

Thanks guys, I really appreciate the advice (:

Well, if these girls are spreading lies, than you need to sit down with your man, and have complete truth between you and he. Boys always spend time with their guy friends so I wouldn't worry about that yet unless it gets worse. Boys also tend to value privacy, so no big deal there unless it get worse between you and he. Just be forgiving to him. Give him a another chance, but let him know of you're concerns.

Yeah you know what, those other girls are just jealous that you have a boyfriend lol. Don't mind them at all.
As for him, the others are right about how at his age, he'd probably be putting some other things as a higher priority. But just remember that he actually asked you to be his girlfriend. Guys his age usually have a hard time asking girls out and stuff like that(I still have some trouble sometimes and I'm almost 16 XD). So, the fact that he took the chance to ask you to be his girlfriend should be pretty significant already.
So about that last part though, did he ever tell you about leaving for the trip or not? Or did you just find out on your own? I doubt he wouldn't tell you about it, but I don't know...
But I think someone also mentioned this, some guys, it's normal for them to be unaware of their mistakes. If you feel upset or something, tell him. If he really cares about you, he'll apologize and it'll all be alright
Honesty is very important in a relationship so you should be open about problems most if not all of the time.
I hope this helps, and good luck

I agree with what everyone said, Geeo especially.

If someone is trying to mess up your relationships like that (romantic or otherwise) out of jealousy, don't cause drama over it. Just be the better person and walk away from it. Don't acknowledge it. They obviously want a response from you. Don't give it to them.

The biggest regret I made in my life... getting into fights/drama with someone who didn't approve with my relationship. It makes it things really tough.

That is another thing I never took into account. Who cares what others think about your relationship? Getting caught up in the girls games is a waste. Honestly the only people who needs to be satisfied with your relationship is you and your boyfriend.

Hoochman : I agree with that statement 100% man.

That is a problem among people of your age. Don't worry about what other people think of you and what you do. Do they wake up in your bed? Do they live with your family and have your problems and whatnot? You do not need anyone's approval of you and yours. Just live your life for you and things will be a lot easier a lot quicker.

Okay... I agree with what most of them are saying.

If he doesn't seem to get you, then its a good idea to tell him what you want or need. If you don't, he may never know what happened. If he continues to shrug you off after you tell him you don't like being treated that way, it would be smart to drop him and move on. But don't you dare let him think he can just get away with it! He cant get to used to that, it's bad for him.

As Geeo said, the issue here is the age. Most people your age are pretty experimenting with relationships and as such most of them will be awkward or never work out. To add to that, a relationship means status in a boy's eyes. He feels one step above everybody that doesn't have a girlfriend. They don't care so much about the relationship, but the fact that they're IN one. There was a study done on this a while back, mainly about high schoolers, but it's the same for middle school as well. I forgot exactly what it said, but it also reported that girls were getting the s*** end of the stick, pretty much being tossed aside and not really cared for. Thus, they go into some sort of depression and don't do well in school. Something to that effect. So it's no surprise that he may be acting like that.

Either stay with him to see if he'll treat you better or bail out on him. Of course chances are he'll probably beg for you to come back to him. When that happens you can have some fun and play around with his emotions a little. But, the best thing to do is to talk to him about it. Find out what's going on and if he truly wants to be with you. As for the other girls, unless you know them ignore the harassing. But you may want to ask one of them about your "boyfriend"- why they say what they do about him.